Nah It is not a thing of losing temper, it is something to show no way will we be stepped on, and for sure not by a self hating worm. With worms like this they will never learn they are so sick and off the deep end not even a life jacket will save them. There are some no matter what there is no rescue. And the nicer you are with them the more they step on you. JTF has never been known to be soft. Think this ,, if Chaim was soft when he saved Jews trapped in Russia you think they be free today? One thing about the Italian nature we love the good we hate the bad.