When my brother would ask us to send things to him in iraq, it wasnt ever for himself, same with the other guys, it was always, kids shoes, crayons, coloring books, soccer balls, kids clothing, small toys, small packaged treats like candy and cookies.....because our guys DID feel for those kids, and it DID bring them happiness and smiles. Will that kindness translate to good feelings about Americans in the future, doubtful, but at least for the time being those kids got to be kids and had a few things that they had never had before.
But gaza is different, those kids are taught from birth to hate Jews, so no small acts of kindness will change them, their parents will see to it, even if a dr treats them .....that girl was given free treatment and wanted to kill the very doctors that saved her life...not worth it.