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newman:
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--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on December 12, 2007, 07:12:56 AM ---First, I want to say this...everytime i see your name or your post i think of your youtube video and what a righteous HOTTY you are... You have absolutely nothing to worry about in regards to finding the right religious man and you shouldn't have to settle for anything less. My first question to you is how old are you and how far along are you in your conversion and where are you from?
1. You should only be eyeing Jews to date right now, but not dating them right away. Focus on your conversion.
2. A convertee marrying another convertee does make the most sense because there is more in common. However not necessary. If I were a religious Jew, I know I would want to meet you to see if you were right for me..and I would truely know you converted to Judaism for the right reasons.
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We always knew you had a giant crush on Mills.
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Who can blame him?
Mills is a LOVELY Jewish girl.
If I wasn't so evil I'd leap into the mikvah myself just to get a shot at marrying a 'nice Jewish girl' like her.
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: ~*Mills*~ on December 12, 2007, 03:55:21 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on December 12, 2007, 07:12:56 AM ---Mills
First, I want to say this...everytime i see your name or your post i think of your youtube video and what a righteous HOTTY you are... You have absolutely nothing to worry about in regards to finding the right religious man and you shouldn't have to settle for anything less. My first question to you is how old are you and how far along are you in your conversion and where are you from?
1. You should only be eyeing Jews to date right now, but not dating them right away. Focus on your conversion.
2. A convertee marrying another convertee does make the most sense because there is more in common. However not necessary. If I were a religious Jew, I know I would want to meet you to see if you were right for me..and I would truely know you converted to Judaism for the right reasons.
3. Don't date just because everybody else around you is dating. Just do your thing, get to know people in the meantime, make new friends. Ask other people questions and don't talk too much about yourself and see based on their answers if they were the type that would be worth looking into marrying in the future.
4. As far as dating..my experience with that is you get to see different personalties and it helps to tell you, what type of person you want to be with in the future and who you don't want to be with in the future. But then again, everyone is differnet. Some already know waht they want by observing others.
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Wow thank you so much! I'm umm...25 :o years YOUNG. I'm just studying and attending events, getting guidance from Chabad. I'm following the advice from other covertees in taking it one day at a time, and not make my rabbi feel forced by me. I'm not too new to the process, a couple of months but not too advanced that I'll be ready soon either. I guess I'm in the middle.
And thank you so much for telling me all this, it really helps. I do eye Jewish men now, to be honest ^-^ (lol, my secret shhh! and even in JTF too :-[ ) but of course eyeing is all I do. I also look at lubavitcher dating sites just to look around and get a feeling of what it will be like in the future and if I want to just go for a Lubavitcher or not. And you're right, just because everyone is dating doesn't mean I have to. I also thought of dating a convertee man because I have always (in the past when I used to) dated older tall pale-white Celtic guys but honestly, I'm open minded and don't have to be with a celtic guy.
I was also asking this because since I am within a Chassidic community, I always assumed that the Lubav men prefer non-convert ladies so I might have to look outside of my community as well. Well, no matter what happens, thanks for the advice! O0
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your welcome.
As far as preferring converts and non-converts...I know for myself honestly, it woudl be hard for me to be with a convert due to many reasons: I wouldn't be as observant as she and that woudl be wrong if she converted and follow Judaism base donteh tradition of my family. Also, our families woudl be very different..sot hat's another thing i take into consideration.
Kiwi:
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on December 12, 2007, 03:43:45 PM ---
Who's we? besides, mills doesn't even know what i look like yet.
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I do, maybe mills should get a peek ^-^
Very nice couple in the making here O0
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: ~*Mills*~ on December 12, 2007, 03:56:15 PM ---
--- Quote from: There Are No 'Israeli' Arabs on December 12, 2007, 02:24:18 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on December 12, 2007, 07:12:56 AM ---First, I want to say this...everytime i see your name or your post i think of your youtube video and what a righteous HOTTY you are... You have absolutely nothing to worry about in regards to finding the right religious man and you shouldn't have to settle for anything less. My first question to you is how old are you and how far along are you in your conversion and where are you from?
1. You should only be eyeing Jews to date right now, but not dating them right away. Focus on your conversion.
2. A convertee marrying another convertee does make the most sense because there is more in common. However not necessary. If I were a religious Jew, I know I would want to meet you to see if you were right for me..and I would truely know you converted to Judaism for the right reasons.
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We always knew you had a giant crush on Mills.
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lol, I don't think so.
Besides, aren't you married Dr. Dan?
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If i were married, I would be focusing on my wife right now...No i'm single and 30 years young...but looking for the right girls and dating them for the right reasons. :) But I have dated a lot and done my "thing" so I know what is natural, kind of...that's why I'm here to offer advice...
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: The Infidel. on December 12, 2007, 06:42:14 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on December 12, 2007, 03:43:45 PM ---
Who's we? besides, mills doesn't even know what i look like yet.
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I do, maybe mills should get a peek ^-^
Very nice couple in the making here O0
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Ok, Mills you want a peak? Are you on facebook?
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