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Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Tina Greco - Melbourne:
--- Quote from: There Are No 'Israeli' Arabs on April 07, 2008, 11:00:36 PM ---
--- Quote from: Fidei defensor on April 07, 2008, 10:44:55 PM ---
--- Quote ---Well, let's get specific. What do you like about this guy you are with and what is it about him that your Rabbi hates and believes is wrong for you?
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Well he is sweet, kind, we can talk to each other, he loves animals, and wants to get married, have kids.
Rabbi thinks he is false, and is conning me, believes that he only tells me what I want to hear.
He hates the way this fella treats me.
And he says I justify his actions all the time.
Rabbi reckons my loyalty is the only thing holding me too this man.
I am loyal and I believe in trying to make things work, I am not a woman that gives up easy.
He said this is the reason why I have had abusive men in the past.
Might I add Rabbi has never like any man I have dated. :-\
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Jewish?
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In the process
Tina Greco - Melbourne:
--- Quote from: There Are No 'Israeli' Arabs on April 07, 2008, 11:16:10 PM ---I can see why your rabbi doesn't like him. The man is likely a liar, converting to please you. I say this because this happens all too often. Also, by definition a ger cannot be intimately involved with a woman. I think this is a false conversion, and if you marry him your marriage will be invalid by the Torah, nevermind a sin.
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Its not an easy process to convert, it is easier to be involved with a Gentile.
I don't see the need to go through such a process just to marry a woman is a something a person would do.
Honestly he can get his leg over any woman he likes he is very handsome, I don't see that being the reason because I look ok, but I am no oil painting.
People convert for all types of reasons. There is many that never see converts as true Jews regards of motives.
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: Fidei defensor on April 07, 2008, 10:44:55 PM ---
--- Quote ---Well, let's get specific. What do you like about this guy you are with and what is it about him that your Rabbi hates and believes is wrong for you?
--- End quote ---
Well he is sweet, kind, we can talk to each other, he loves animals, and wants to get married, have kids.
Rabbi thinks he is false, and is conning me, believes that he only tells me what I want to hear.
He hates the way this fella treats me.
And he says I justify his actions all the time.
Rabbi reckons my loyalty is the only thing holding me too this man.
I am loyal and I believe in trying to make things work, I am not a woman that gives up easy.
He said this is the reason why I have had abusive men in the past.
Might I add Rabbi has never like any man I have dated. :-\
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How long have you known this man? How does your rabbi know that he is conning you? Has he been right in the past with other men you have been with or other things?
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: There Are No 'Israeli' Arabs on April 07, 2008, 11:16:10 PM ---
--- Quote from: Fidei defensor on April 07, 2008, 11:13:01 PM ---
--- Quote from: There Are No 'Israeli' Arabs on April 07, 2008, 11:00:36 PM ---
--- Quote from: Fidei defensor on April 07, 2008, 10:44:55 PM ---
--- Quote ---Well, let's get specific. What do you like about this guy you are with and what is it about him that your Rabbi hates and believes is wrong for you?
--- End quote ---
Well he is sweet, kind, we can talk to each other, he loves animals, and wants to get married, have kids.
Rabbi thinks he is false, and is conning me, believes that he only tells me what I want to hear.
He hates the way this fella treats me.
And he says I justify his actions all the time.
Rabbi reckons my loyalty is the only thing holding me too this man.
I am loyal and I believe in trying to make things work, I am not a woman that gives up easy.
He said this is the reason why I have had abusive men in the past.
Might I add Rabbi has never like any man I have dated. :-\
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Jewish?
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In the process
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I can see why your rabbi doesn't like him. The man is likely a liar, converting to please you. I say this because this happens all too often. Also, by definition a ger cannot be intimately involved with a woman. I think this is a false conversion, and if you marry him your marriage will be invalid by the Torah, nevermind a sin.
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hey, this is the dannycookie or Dr. Dan show, not the T.A.N.I.A. show!
lol...but i do agree..i just came across this reply...if this guy is in the process of converting....i'm on the side of your rabbi with this guy's real intentions...sorry to break this news.
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: Fidei defensor on April 07, 2008, 11:30:39 PM ---
--- Quote from: There Are No 'Israeli' Arabs on April 07, 2008, 11:16:10 PM ---I can see why your rabbi doesn't like him. The man is likely a liar, converting to please you. I say this because this happens all too often. Also, by definition a ger cannot be intimately involved with a woman. I think this is a false conversion, and if you marry him your marriage will be invalid by the Torah, nevermind a sin.
--- End quote ---
Its not an easy process to convert, it is easier to be involved with a Gentile.
I don't see the need to go through such a process just to marry a woman is a something a person would do.
Honestly he can get his leg over any woman he likes he is very handsome, I don't see that being the reason because I look ok, but I am no oil painting.
People convert for all types of reasons. There is many that never see converts as true Jews regards of motives.
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In my opinion, I disagree with you.
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