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Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: Fidei defensor on April 08, 2008, 12:19:05 AM ---
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--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on April 08, 2008, 12:01:05 AM ---
How long have you known this man? How does your rabbi know that he is conning you? Has he been right in the past with other men you have been with or other things?
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A little over a year.
Rabbi spoke to this guys Rabbi, thats assisting him to convert. But you say things to Rabbis that you would not normally say, things you question.....
Rabbi has a good track record of being right, but he has been wrong!
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Listen..lots of fish in the sea...since you are Jewish, you should only date Jews..that can include those who have already converted. I think you are making a bad choice. Listen to your rabbi.
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OK dead issue now that really was not what I first asked, and Yeah I know ...I am a bad Jew.
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You're not a bad Jew either..you're one of the best out there.
Tina Greco - Melbourne:
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on April 08, 2008, 07:37:34 AM ---Well, what's the reason why you want to be with a man?
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Why I want to be with a man? Normal reasons, I want a husband, lover,friend, companion, protector and I want more children.
I don't need a provider I have more than enough money.
Tina Greco - Melbourne:
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on April 08, 2008, 07:38:06 AM ---You're not a bad Jew either..you're one of the best out there.
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Thats is very sweet Doc, I think the same about you.
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: Fidei defensor on April 08, 2008, 08:10:21 AM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on April 08, 2008, 07:37:34 AM ---Well, what's the reason why you want to be with a man?
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Why I want to be with a man? Normal reasons, I want a husband, lover,friend, companion, protector and I want more children.
I don't need a provider I have more than enough money.
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So shouldn't a husband, lover, friend, companion, protector, and helper in giving more children be perfect for you? You shouldn't settle for less. Now, I don't personally know the man you are with to judge him. He might be a very sweet guy and posess the qualities you are looking for, at least so far. But he isn't Jewish even though he is "converting". However, it seems the real reason to be converting is to get you and not for the true reasons of converting. I can udnerstand why your rabbi is concerned and why myself and TANIA are concerned. It's not easy..believe me, i know. It's very very difficult to accept the reality.
In my personal experience, I knew a Muslim girl (not religious) who was going to Kaballah classes and mentioned that she wanted to convert to Judaism. Very sweet, beautiful, wonderful human being. I sincerely feel that she is one of the good people out there and she doesn't practice Islam and nor does anyone in her family. In the back of my mind I thought, this girl could be the one for me. But i also knew there could be lots of problems..she's not Jewish...and any child i would have with her, would not be considered Jewish unless she converted truely and as an Orthodox Jew like Mills is becoming. So to say the least, we understood that it would never be possible and we have remained friends.
Since then, she has decided against conversion and is more or less a Noahide that takes on the traditions of other good religions including our own.
But after all that, I wondered how i could meet another wonderful girl and so beautiful? To say the least very frustrating. But you know what? If it isn't happening now, it will happen for me. I am currently dating a wonderful girl who is 10 times this other girl.
So I have faith in you. When you are ready, you should focus on Jewish men and you will eventually find the right one for you and it will be mutual. Pray hard everyday for extra help.
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: Fidei defensor on April 08, 2008, 08:11:50 AM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on April 08, 2008, 07:38:06 AM ---You're not a bad Jew either..you're one of the best out there.
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Thats is very sweet Doc, I think the same about you.
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Thank you...remember, the most essential thing is to be a righteous human being first and then work on the rest of the uniquely Jewish stuff (that's for those of us who are not observant and a little more secular)
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