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Is height important?
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--- Quote from: Karen on July 15, 2008, 08:11:08 PM ---It depends on if we're talking about midget or something extreme. I don't think anyone's fooling themselves into believing they'd fall in love no problem with a midget or a 9 foot tall monstrosity.
As long as you're assertive and powerful enough in other ways, it will attract women who know a catch. And if they don't, well that says more about that person than the "vertically challenged person". ;)
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actually very righteous religious jewish girls don't look for assertiveness
they look for somebody that is shomer shabbat, and keeps kosher, and the more religious the better(e.g. praying 3 times a day), and scholarly.
Only Confidence that matters is in judaism, knowing what to do. And a livelyhood.
Less religious girls just look for a man that keeps his back straight and is assertive/appears confident. I had a friend that spent a long time with some rather immature non-jewish girls, he came to the conclusion that those girls wanted a trophie, they want to be proud of him, a man that they feel can protect them. He thinks all girls want that.
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A man has to protect his girlfriend or wife
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I agree. It is his responsibility.
But in day to day living, thank G-d, people tend not to run into situations where some thug attacks their girlfriend or wife.
Karen:
I have never met a woman, religious or not, who didn't look for an assertive, confident man. It's a trait all women find attractive. The man can be shomer shabat and humble too, but that's besides the point.
q_q_:
--- Quote from: Karen on July 16, 2008, 10:23:21 AM ---I have never met a woman, religious or not, who didn't look for an assertive, confident man. It's a trait all women find attractive. The man can be shomer shabat and humble too, but that's besides the point.
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there are some very very righteous women that really don't prioritise that, if they even look for it at all.
they hear , he's a torah scholar, he's nice, he's shomer mitzvot. They say baruch hashem. They are not going to say "oh, but he's not confident/assertive". But they'll reject somebody if they don't meet the other criteria e.g. not scholarly, not shomer mitzvot, and of course, not nice. If he meets the stated criteria though, they are so happy. They won't reject that because he lacks confidence.
I know, most girls do look or assertiveness and confidence, and as a priority. But there are these religious girls, they are of a different mold.
one of my religious female cousins has lovely little things all over her room to keep reminding her of G-d. It's so unlike regular girls, it's like the difference between an innocent angel and a pile of dung.
These girls are so sensitive to G-d, so sensitive to others, so religious, so full of thought of G-d, so innocent, but intelligent too. They are incomparable to girls you find in non-jewish or modern orthodox schools. Personally, I don't know how guys think they are worthy of girls like that, it's crazy.
Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks:
Getting back to the bulldyke Tina Greco's original post, height is not important for me (I usually prefer a woman to be my height or a little taller, but it is such a trivial attribute), but it is very important for women.
I am not very tall and believe me, it is a real attraction-killer on the part of females.
Scriabin:
--- Quote from: C.F. on July 21, 2008, 01:38:53 PM ---Getting back to the bulldyke Tina Greco's original post, height is not important for me (I usually prefer a woman to be my height or a little taller, but it is such a trivial attribute), but it is very important for women.
I am not very tall and believe me, it is a real attraction-killer on the part of females.
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Scriabin was very short but he never thought of himself that way.
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