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MasterWolf1:
What is the perfect quality women see in the man they hope to choose as their life time parterner?   I would of asked this in the dating section but this is going to both Jewish and Chrisitan women.

Shlomo:
Good answer and very true. I wish more people understood this. Many times, women understand this more often than men. That's why you'll often see a beautiful girl with an unattractive guy.

How many times have we known people who were very attractive until they open their mouths? And how many times did we find someone who wasn't very physically appealing to be attractive because of who they were?

The physical element of attraction is materialistic - not that we shouldn't enjoy material things or choose to marry someone we are not attracted to. But if we put too much emphasis on material things (or choose someone who has a certain appearance only to impress others because we do not feel good enough about ourselves) and neglect the spiritual, then you start to see the divorce rate we see in the world today.

A marriage without the common bond of life-long goals is doomed to fail because material things only provide so much until they are no longer exciting (like being extremely excited over a new car or new house and years later not even caring about it or wanting to change it for something different). Each second that passes by, any material object loses it's perceived worth because the only thing that provides long lasting love and dedication is Hashem and the spiritual. That's why people always eventually take material things for granted.

Very good answer, Mills.

Tina Greco - Melbourne:
Perfect quality honesty. If a man is honest then everything else falls into place. That quality extends to belief, lifestyle and beyond.

Honest people are not lairs or sinners, and walk apon a true path to G-d. To be honest requires you to be open and righteous.

Next would be loyalty, honor and pride.

Shlomo:
Ya... that's what they all say. They want honesty.

"Honey... do these pants make me look fat?"

"Do you think that she's prettier than me?"

"Did you like the dinner I made?"

"What are you thinking?"

LOL

MasterWolf1:
Do women tend to be more honest then men, or some cases not really?  Like I would love to find a woman that is honest, caring and loving. Sure looks are nice but eventually we all get old that shell gets old, but what is inside her will be there no matter.

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