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nessuno:

--- Quote from: Vito on November 20, 2008, 01:03:40 PM ---
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--- Quote from: Lisa on August 21, 2008, 09:09:55 PM ---Well Vito, you're young, smart, polite and attractive.  Don't ever feel like you have to settle.  After all, you can't anyone. 

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Thanks Lisa. It's just that I've always had problems.. so there comes a breaking point where I feel like if I think I found the one, I should stick with her. But I haven't met enough to know that for sure.

Btw, I spoke to her tonight and literally just asked her if she hates Jews.. she said "NO! I just don't agree with them religiously, some of the nicest people I've ever met were Jewish". So it doesn't sound like she's anti-semitic..

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Marriage can be sweet or difficult. Don't rush into it. If a woman loves G-d, Tanach  or New Testament, then she has to love the Jewish people. A G-d fearing woman must love Israel because G-d loves Israel. So, in my opinion, be very, very careful. So far, it doesn't sound good.

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It's over with her, I'm looking for my next female failure...

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That's the wrong attitude Vito.  You have everything going for you.  Except that attitude.  Throw that right out the window.

nessuno:

--- Quote from: carreg on November 25, 2008, 02:56:50 PM ---Vito, are you Italian? Did you watch the Godfather series? You must approach your car with her, open the passenger door to let her in, close it behind her, and wait to see if she leans over and opens your door. If she doesn't, ditch her. Best advice I've ever seen.

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Yeah,  That sounds like a great way to pick a mate.  ???

q_q_:

--- Quote from: bullcat3 on November 25, 2008, 04:25:48 PM ---
--- Quote from: carreg on November 25, 2008, 02:56:50 PM ---Vito, are you Italian? Did you watch the Godfather series? You must approach your car with her, open the passenger door to let her in, close it behind her, and wait to see if she leans over and opens your door. If she doesn't, ditch her. Best advice I've ever seen.

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Yeah,  That sounds like a great way to pick a mate.  ???

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I don't like that rule much either.

If she does lean over and open it, then great.

if she doesn't then it's a bad reason for getting rid of her! Maybe she just didn't think of it because she had something really important on her mind. Or was worried or something.. It's a petty thing to look for.

One really needs to be able to SEE and perceive if another person is good/decent/nice or not..  One shouldn't need silly rules to figure it out.

nessuno:
I agree q_q_.  There is more to the heart and soul of a person...then if they lean over and open a car door or not.

momofsixbabes:
I always prayed for a "Boaz". Boaz was such a romantic!!! What an amazing man whom any girl would fall for, regardless of age. The fact that he showed his character to be so compassionate and loving, is so romantic.  I also like the book of Solomon. That, too, is sooo romantic. A man holding back a passionate woman because he respected her. He treats her like a precious creation of God and not some object of fleshly desires. I think men can glean so much from both of those books to sweep any girl off her feet.

My husband told me that he watched me for a long time from the second story in the church balcony as he prayed that God would give me to him as a wife. I found this out on our honeymoon. When I asked him why he would want me, he replied that he saw my demonstration of love for God above. It was funny because I had told God that I didn't want to get my heart broken in dating so I planeed my route of escape, to get away from any young men who had the doors watched for the young girls. I was in a midrun past him when I heard the voice of God yell, "Stop!!". I had never heard God audibly before. However, I froze in a midrun. God then told me to let him ask me out and that he was the one. My husband told me on our honeymoon that he told God it was his last attempt to ask me out (I avoided all the young men). I guess I say all of this to encourage you to pursue God and he will lead you to a wonderful wife just like he found for Isaac, Rebecca.

As a wife of sixteen years, I encourage you to focus on being a Boaz. I encourage you to seek God for your wife as Abraham did for Isaac. God has a wonderful woman for you. Seek him first. Marriage is not about marrying someone to meet your needs. It is about marrying someone who wants to sacrifice their lives to give to another one in a selfless way. Marriage is not without work and sacrifice. Don't get any ideas from Hollywood. True love is found by dying to ones self (the sinful flesh). I am trying to do this every day. I hate my flesh. I desire to serve God in a way that is pleasing to him. That means I must serve God first and my husband second. However, the bible (NT) says that a man is to be willing to die for his wife (his flesh, self serving ways and attitudes) as Jesus Christ died for the church.

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