Ruby, there is nothing un-Christian in what I said, and Chaim would agree. Yes, Erica should repent, but as of right now, she is proud of murdering her own child. She is a completely unrepentant Jew-hating, baby-murdering black racist. As long as that is true of her, she should burn in hell forever.
Erica's not a Jew hater as far as I know. I don't think she's particularly racist either. I don't think she understand how her positions indirectly hurt Jews and others though. You have to remember that Obama's socialism is no good for blacks either. Socialism keeps them down much worse than segregration ever did.
If she really is proud of what she did then that is very evil and I think she need to really make a serious change in regards to that. We should pray for her that she changes and will repent of this evil. I was very upset when I found out from you that she had said that she was proud of having an abortion. I was really upset and disgusted by that. I thought of that poor innocent baby and it made me feel so sad. However I still think that we should pray for her, not condemn her to hell automatically.
Saying Y"SV is not an "as long as" curse. It's saying she should have no hope in this world or the next, and that her name and memory should be obliterated. It's a very harsh curse that I don't think is even compatible with Christian philosophy at all except in very rare circumstances such as cursing Hitler Y"SV or Mengele Y"SV or Arafat Y"SV or others like them. If you hold out any hope for her to change and to come closer to God then we should not use this strong and powerful curse against her.
The greatest commandment is supposed to be love.
You have to understand that as horrible and murderous as abortion is, there is major pressure for many women to abort both from family and the medical establishment. Black babies were targeted for murder by the early feminist movement and most abortion clinics are set up in minority neighborhoods. I believe I mentioned to Erica once that she should be offended by the way her people are targeted by abortionists for money and to kill their babies.
It's also a natural human reaction to be defensive when you feel guilty about something or someone else tries to make you feel guilty about something. Abortions are horrible, cruel acts of murder, but I don't want Erica to go to hell. I want her to realize what she did was wrong and come to God with a sincere heart of repentance and then for her to try to help other women realize they don't have to do that!
I saw a music video on BET one time when I was flipping channels about a black woman who was trying to decide whether to have an abortion, and it showed how she was struggling so hard with all the pressure put on her but then she decided on life, and it was such a great thing that she decided on life. This was an attempt to help the black community see that abortion is not the answer and I think it was a really righteous video.
These women are lied to, they're told the baby can't feel any pain, they're told that it's a blob of tissue that's not human yet. They're told that it's irresponsible not to get an abortion. If anything is wrong with the baby sometimes there's a terrible stigma attached to carrying that baby to term and the baby and mother will come under vicious attack just like Sarah Palin's wonderful son Trig is coming under vicious attack. The right thing to do is not care about all that and love your baby enough to let them live and care for them, but some people can be very cruel, including doctors who make disparaging remarks.
If she comes to me HONESTLY repenting and asking for forgiveness, then as a believer I would be obligated to accept it and accept her as a sister in Christ (if she really means it). Until then, the curse of damnation hangs over her in both Judaism and Christianity.
I sincerely hope that she will not go to hell. You're supposed to pray for people like her, C.F. Pray sincerely that she won't go to hell, don't curse her to go there.