Author Topic: My stepfather was diagnosed with a malignant brain tumor. (Read 1599 times)

The One and Only Mo · « **on:** January 21, 2009, 10:58:57 PM »

Please daven for Reuven ben Devorah, my stepfather. He's been in the hospital for a few months, and thanks to Canadian medicine they ruled out a brain tumor only to diagnose him with a malignant one today. He's been in Western Canada so I am flying out there to be with him early next week. I have some legal questions, if anybody on this forum is a lawyer, please send me a private message. Thank you.

zachor_ve_kavod · « **Reply #1 on:** January 21, 2009, 11:11:51 PM »

I will pray for your stepfather as I pray for my cousin. I'm not a lawyer, but I have a great deal of experience with the health care system in Canada. I think I know why you're asking. I'd be happy to help you.

ItalianZionist · « **Reply #2 on:** January 21, 2009, 11:16:12 PM »

I will pray for your stepfather

eb22 · « **Reply #3 on:** January 21, 2009, 11:20:46 PM »

Mo2388, my thoughts and prayers are certainly with your stepfather, you, and the entire family.

Lisa · « **Reply #4 on:** January 21, 2009, 11:57:58 PM »

Mo, I'm so sorry to hear about your stepfather. I'll pray he gets well soon.

briann · « **Reply #5 on:** January 22, 2009, 12:25:49 AM »

Our prayers are with you. My wife's uncle is going through something similar, and it's very tough time for the family.

muman613 · « **Reply #6 on:** January 22, 2009, 12:40:50 AM »

My prayers are for Hashem to heal the pain of all those who are in need of healing. I myself am dealing with my stepdads cancer, my dads kidney failure and requires dialisis, my uncles prostate cancer and aunts heart surgery. And I myself am struggling with an odd condition which is very painful and untreatable.

Hashem is the source of all blessing. Through the good and the bad, Hashem will provide us what we need. The healing will come, in this world and in the next.

Ulli · « **Reply #7 on:** January 22, 2009, 12:58:16 AM »

So much suffering. I will pray for you.

IsraelForever · « **Reply #8 on:** January 22, 2009, 02:15:48 AM »

Reuven ben Devorah will be in my prayers.

The One and Only Mo · « **Reply #9 on:** January 22, 2009, 03:17:17 AM »

Quote from: muman613 on January 22, 2009, 12:40:50 AM

My prayers are for Hashem to heal the pain of all those who are in need of healing. I myself am dealing with my stepdads cancer, my dads kidney failure and requires dialisis, my uncles prostate cancer and aunts heart surgery. And I myself am struggling with an odd condition which is very painful and untreatable.

Hashem is the source of all blessing. Through the good and the bad, Hashem will provide us what we need. The healing will come, in this world and in the next.

I'm so sorry to hear that, Muman. May Hashem return full health to all the sick of Klal Yisroel.

SavetheWest · « **Reply #10 on:** January 22, 2009, 05:12:58 AM »

My prayers are with your step father. If you are in Western Canada perhaps look into University of Washington medical center over the border. I know they have some very good treatment programs.

Masha · « **Reply #11 on:** January 22, 2009, 05:26:41 AM »

I will pray for Reuven ben Devorah!

4International · « **Reply #12 on:** January 22, 2009, 05:38:07 AM »

Mo2388, I earnestly pray that HaShem will heal your stepfather, Reuven ben Devorah.

Muman613, I also earnestly pray that HaShem will heal your entire family as well as you.

I lost my father a few years ago. My heart goes out to you both.

Josh.

Kahane-Was-Right BT · « **Reply #13 on:** January 22, 2009, 07:53:09 AM »

Mo and Muman I'm sorry to hear about the difficulties you and your families are dealing with. May Hashem bring complete physical and spiritual healing.

arksis · « **Reply #14 on:** January 22, 2009, 11:01:06 AM »

My heart goes out to all of you that are going through such pain and suffering. I will keep you in my prayers and hope for no more pain.

The One and Only Mo · « **Reply #15 on:** January 22, 2009, 01:27:09 PM »

Quote from: SavetheWest on January 22, 2009, 05:12:58 AM

My prayers are with your step father. If you are in Western Canada perhaps look into University of Washington medical center over the border. I know they have some very good treatment programs.

He cab't fly, and we can't afford medical bills in the states. Thanks for the idea.

angryChineseKahanist · « **Reply #16 on:** January 22, 2009, 02:08:42 PM »

Good luck.
Maybe you can find a doctor in the USA while we still have doctors left.

Hey, Mo, Cheer up! NukNuk

The One and Only Mo · « **Reply #17 on:** January 22, 2009, 02:23:53 PM »

Honestly I'm still in shock. Somebody my family has known since my mom was little just died yesterday - - - from the same thing I found out my stepdad has which was also yesterday. Not to mention one of my Rabbis from Yeshivah died after a brain tumor last May and a childhood friend's dad died a few weeks ago from the same thing. It's too hard to swallow, and I'm depressed, angry, and worried as hell.

The One and Only Mo · « **Reply #18 on:** January 25, 2009, 03:02:21 AM »

My stepbrother told me that it's a cancerous tumor where the brain connects to the spine and it's inoperable. They are doing a biopsy monday, and I should be there Monday afternoon. They said there's a slight chance he might not survive, but they need to do the biopsy because otherwise they won't know if it's treatable or not. I'm so scared.

דוד בן זאב אריה · « **Reply #19 on:** January 25, 2009, 03:19:20 AM »

He will be in my prayers. Fight on

IsraelForever · « **Reply #20 on:** January 25, 2009, 03:20:23 AM »

It's absolutely DISGUSTING that in this country they can find TRILLIONS of dollars for banks and car companies, but when people are literally dying, there's not a penny to be found, and a person has to go begging on the street for medical care (so to speak).

The One and Only Mo · « **Reply #21 on:** January 25, 2009, 03:24:22 AM »

Quote from: IsraelForever on January 25, 2009, 03:20:23 AM

It's absolutely DISGUSTING that in this country they can find TRILLIONS of dollars for banks and car companies, but when people are literally dying, there's not a penny to be found, and a person has to go begging on the street for medical care (so to speak).

We live in Canada, but socialized medicine ain't the greatest apparently.

IsraelForever · « **Reply #22 on:** January 25, 2009, 03:50:41 AM »

Yeah, I heard that about Canada. I guess socialized medicine isn't exactly the answer either. Well, my prayers go out to your stepfather and your whole family. There's no question that it's better to be rich when you're ill.

The One and Only Mo · « **Reply #23 on:** January 25, 2009, 03:53:41 AM »

Quote from: IsraelForever on January 25, 2009, 03:50:41 AM

There's no question that it's better to be rich when you're ill.

um...... thanks.....i think

IsraelForever · « **Reply #24 on:** January 25, 2009, 04:06:31 AM »

Quote from: Mo2388 on January 25, 2009, 03:53:41 AM

Quote from: IsraelForever on January 25, 2009, 03:50:41 AM
There's no question that it's better to be rich when you're ill.

um...... thanks.....i think

I meant that, if you're rich, you can get a lot better care than if you're poor or just average.