I knew a Rebbetzin many years ago, who I would go to when I had problems. Once, a boyfriend and I broke up, and like a typical teenager I was distraught over it (even though my mom would say, "There are many fish in the sea")...anyway, this Rebbetzin as so sweet, and so kind, and she took my face into her hands and said, "Child, do you believe in Hashem? Because if you do, you know that He sees the future, and He knows what is best for each of us.".
I forget what else she said at the time, but I remember her as being so angelic, so kind....truthfully I have never known non-religious Jews who were like that, only the frum Yidden. And the more frummy they were, the more they were like that!
