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Do you think gays choose to be gay or are they born with it?

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Offline The One and Only Mo

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Homsexuality: Automatic vs. Manual
« on: November 24, 2009, 01:09:37 AM »
Nu?

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Re: Homsexuality: Automatic vs. Manual
« Reply #1 on: November 24, 2009, 01:10:08 AM »
Also explain if it's different for men or women.

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Re: Homsexuality: Automatic vs. Manual
« Reply #2 on: November 24, 2009, 01:25:58 AM »
Everything we do in life comes down to free will. Nobody compels you to have sex... The only compulsion involving sex involves pro-creation.... Sex for only pleasure is a misuse of a gift, like gorging on delicious food is gluttony. The reason sex is pleasurable is so that we can be fruitful and multiply.... Homosexual perversions do not cause reproduction, and if it is encouraged, can destroy the ability of a society to continue to the next generation.

Society has no need to accept homosexual activity. It is truly animalistic and sub-human...

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Re: Homsexuality: Automatic vs. Manual
« Reply #3 on: November 24, 2009, 01:45:21 AM »
I may be one of the only people who thinks its a mix.

I have never repressed an urge and have no desire to 'experiment' with homosexuality.  I personally find males repulsive and disgusting... and the thought of a male being attractive is impossible for me to even comprehend.  I'm not even attracted to women who are masculine.  The more feminine the better.  There is no 'CHOICE' for me.

However, I know males who have confided that its not the same for them... and they do have an urge.  I cant get in their head, but if it is true.. (And I dont know why they lie about this).. there must be SOME choice or conflict going on in their head.

So basically... its not a choice for me... but it may be a choice for them.... if you catch what I am saying.

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Re: Homsexuality: Automatic vs. Manual
« Reply #4 on: November 24, 2009, 01:56:13 AM »
I heard it's a choice for women but not for men. You buy that?

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Re: Homsexuality: Automatic vs. Manual
« Reply #5 on: November 24, 2009, 01:58:25 AM »
I heard it's a choice for women but not for men. You buy that?

I heard that too.  I havent the foggiest.  Maybe the women on the forum can help us with that one.

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Re: Homsexuality: Automatic vs. Manual
« Reply #6 on: November 24, 2009, 02:01:12 AM »
I heard it's a choice for women but not for men. You buy that?

I heard that too.  I havent the foggiest.  Maybe the women on the forum can help us with that one.

Or not......... :o :yuck:

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Re: Homsexuality: Automatic vs. Manual
« Reply #7 on: November 24, 2009, 03:51:44 AM »
I'm sure there is some natural influence involved (i.e. some people are born with higher sex drives, more tendency to great anger/violence, greater ability to lie, etc, than others), but environment also plays a big role and ultimately it is a choice, no matter what. Are people incapable of not committing murder or robbery or rape, after all?