I am too young to remember that. I only read about it years later. About having sex that way, I remember reading something a psychiatrist once wrote about the quickness with which men can achieve orgasm with novel stimulus (e.g.: a new partner)--it was very fast. A trip home probably would have been considered a time waster for these folks. I have known many gay men who would never have sex like this: impersonal, debauched, etc. Then again, I am talking after the AIDS epidemic began