Im amazed that this story has brought out Haredim bashing in some of the members here. This story has no impact on anyone but them, and it does not demean women {as some here have already alleged}. I stand with Mo on the idea that they are entitled to do whatever it takes to keep their level of avoiding the immodest thoughts. I can appreciate the struggle and fully understand that the eyes can lead a man astray. Does anyone here suggest otherwise? Most men will agree that the thoughts which are brought to mind when a woman who dresses to 'kill' walks by are less than wholesome. It is these thoughts which will lead him to sin at night. It is not the fault of the woman {unless she realizes that she is putting a stumbling block before a man} that he thinks this, it is his responsibility to avoid thinking it.
It should not be a tool to bash Haredim.
Wrong. It affects all Orthodox Jews, not just "haredim." Also I do not know where you get these clear delineations from. How exactly do you define someone as haredi and someone else as definitely 'not haredi' ? I share many qualities with haredim. As a Kahanist Jew I am a little bit haredi and a little bit modern orthodox/dati leumi. Most of my friends that I hang out with are haredi or associate with haredi society, shuls, and schools. Many of them agree with my hashkafot (life philosophies)! Some of them do not. My chassidic friends definitely DO NOT agree with my hashkafot.
But this does affect all orthodox Jews. We all live together, learn together, and we are all connected, even those of us who do not think alike.
Now, what exactly is haredi bashing here? If you refer to something specific, then quote that statement and respond to it; explain why it's unacceptable or how what they wrote is wrong. Don't just make blanket condemnations. IF you are referring to things I have said (And I have no idea if you are because you just made a general insult to the entire thread without attaching any names to your accusations, so I do not know if you mean everyone in this thread, just a few people, me in particular, or whatever), IF you are accusing me of bashing haredim, that is nothing but disgraceful motzi shem ra because I did nothing of the sort, and if so I am insulted by such pathetic behavior to make a false accusation like that rather than engage the arguments. Read my arguments again and you will see there is not bashing going on. Maybe it is YOU who is simply overly defensive at any perceived disagreement with what you think is the haredi way. If you are NOT referring to me, then fine, take it up with whomever you are accusing. Making blanket condemnations is not helpful to anything here.
And as I mentioned earlier, it not only affects just the people who do it, but this is how "chumras" get started. So it can come to affect all of us. And culturally it represents a pernicious phenomenon, perhaps a growing one, within our circles amongst certain people. It's a manifestation of a certain way of thought which has totally lost sight of proper priority and perspective.