Muman in Northern California isn't not common to see orthodox Jews and is it hard to be orthodox there.I occasionally read the northern California Jewish news and it seems to be very far from anything orthodox
Chabad is everywhere around here. Chabad is Orthodox and there are Modern Orthodox Shuls even in Berkeley. Chabad is great for a community to ensure keeping Kosher and providing a shul to daven, don tefillin, and observe Shabbat.
I know three Chabad Rabbis pretty personally (and their families) and they bring Rabbis from around the world to study with us. Tonight and next week I will be studying with a Chabad yeshiva bachur.
Is it hard to keep commandments in Northern California? Aside from Kosher (very few Kosher food sources) it is not hard (except keeping Shabbat exactly due to my long commute to and from work). My Rabbi just had my tefillin checked to make sure they are still kosher, I have mezuzzahs and tzit-tzit and Shabbat candles, virtually everything I need. We also have a regular minyan (group of 10 men to pray) so I am happy. Is it hard? Maybe harder than living in New York where virtually everyone in a community may be Jewish (Orthodox). But I love my community and as I have said before, I believe I have influenced them to be more loyal to Israel and more nationalistic (I even discuss Rabbi Kahane with them pretty regularly)...
Sure NorCal is liberal... But there are pockets of very good people if you know where to look..
PS: I still keep contact with my 'progressive' shul (which I found when I first did Teshuva/Returned almost 10 years ago). They recently held a pro-Israel rally at the synagogue (I did not attend, but my Chabad Rabbi was there). The Rabbi knows me and gives me honor (last time I was there, Parsha Yitro, I was called to the Torah for the portion of the giving of the 10 commandments). I am a bit of a personality in my community.