My mother's family are Jewish but she is by no means religious. As far as I know, according to Jewish law this means that I am also Jewish. I don't really understand this, I know very little about Judaism, have only set foot in a synagogue once in my life, and my diet isn't kosher.
It's not that I am a 'self-hater' or anything, but why should I be defined by a law that I don't believe in?