I agree. Women and men are different. And I'm not saying that women are better or that men are better. Their brains are wired differently. But yes. You need the masculine and the feminine in a marriage, and for raising kids.
In terms of these weird relationships you saw, I have the feeling they probably didn't last long.
You haven't visited Seattle recently have you? Beta-Males are in abundance.. The feminist-minded women are always the more controlling and dominating of any relationship. Alpha-Males have the worst time in cities like Seattle. The only men who get a free pass are Middle Eastern and other minority men. Like a dominating white man would never be accepted by most white women here, but if he is a dominating black man, gangster type, he is considered a novelty. And, I also stand by what I said about how white women think they will have power over these exotic minority men. They feel somehow that they are superior and special and get special treatment from this foreign type of man. A lot of women like feeling like they have power over an alpha-male and many of these foreigners like Muslims, even macho black guys, will treat the white girls like princesses and make them feel special, whereas they treat their own women like garbage. However, this type of treatment is truly an act and the real persona will evolve after marriage. Many of these women become utterly shocked after their kind, gentle Muslim boyfriend ends up beating them or cheating on them after they married. It's very common to hear them say "He treated me so special and like a queen when we first met, What Happened?" Like duh.. These airheaded liberal feminists thought somehow they had some special power over these men and didn't realize it was them who were being played all along.
Do you really think a Muslim guy saying come marry me , so I can beat you, make you my slave and treat you like an inferior whore is how these guys are winning over Jewish girls in Israel? Heck no.. I know their techniques and they play these women well.
Whereas a dominating white guy will be upfront about his persona and will not play silly games with a white girl, these foreigners or Muslim guys will find it a sport and think by having sex and even being able to marry one of these women, they have scored celebrity points. Just another "evil white whore" they have defiled in their eyes. They come off as sweet, gentle, kind men who have the worst ulterior motives and play these idiot women for fools. These women blinded by political correctness, feminism and a desire for rebellion, which marrying an enemy is considered the greatest of all. Why do you think Muslim men will slit their daughters throats over this?
You rarely see religious or women from conservative communities who will end up with a Muslim. It is always the more liberal, feminist, political correct type of woman who ends up marrying the crazy Islamic fanatic.