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Why are so many people here single?
« on: September 18, 2007, 10:41:32 AM »
There is something that has always facinated me about JTF.. there is a great deal of people who are single... i dont know whether this is out of choice being too busy or just haven't  found the right person or haven't had the chance to find anyone

Now i dont want to be rude because i myself have had no experience and remain lonely to this day....

It is weird because it seems nearly everyone here are just great people but unfortunately we still have a disproportional  high number of single JTFers out there

IT IS THE WORST THING IN THE WORLD TO LIVE A LIFE OF SOLITUDE which is why i ask the people of JTF what experiences (if any) members have had..  ONE THING IS FOR CERTAIN THOUGH... no one here could have ever done worse than myself...

DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY TIPS TO FIND THE RIGHT PERSON?

THANKS IN ADVANCE, SERGIO

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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #1 on: September 18, 2007, 11:20:35 AM »
if they (we) wouldnt be single they wouldnt have enough time to go on the forum. Married life, with children and a job, etc. is a lot of work I see, not many married people would have the time to come on here or just serve the internet.
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‏119:139 צִמְּתַתְנִי קִנְאָתִי כִּישָׁכְחוּ דְבָרֶיךָ צָרָי
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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #2 on: September 18, 2007, 11:26:24 AM »
Girls seem to run away from me  ;D

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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #3 on: September 18, 2007, 02:36:40 PM »
It's not marriage I object to. I don't want children. I have to wait until the women in my age group have run out of eggs.

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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #4 on: September 18, 2007, 02:39:28 PM »
It's not marriage I object to. I don't want children. I have to wait until the women in my age group have run out of eggs.

Oh come on Newman.. we have to multiply as many good people as we can. You having children would only help the cause that much more!

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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #5 on: September 18, 2007, 02:41:47 PM »
It's not marriage I object to. I don't want children. I have to wait until the women in my age group have run out of eggs.

Oh come on Newman.. we have to multiply as many good people as we can. You having children would only help the cause that much more!

The world is no place for children.

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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #6 on: September 18, 2007, 02:47:46 PM »
It's not marriage I object to. I don't want children. I have to wait until the women in my age group have run out of eggs.

Oh come on Newman.. we have to multiply as many good people as we can. You having children would only help the cause that much more!

The world is no place for children.
Scriabin's comment is one of my reasons. The others are expense and pure lifestyle choice. I turn 40 in November. If you think I'm having horrible phsycotic teenagers in my home when I'm in my late 50s or early 60s, think again.

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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #7 on: September 18, 2007, 02:58:47 PM »


Wonderful life you'll have when you reach 70, 80, 90, 100, and you're retired and you have no one to come and visit you or take care of you.

Look around at life in the modern western world.

If you think people are looking after their elderly parents today, you're deluded. It's not the Waltons anymore with three generations all living in a big house carving up the Sunday turky.

Our childrens' spouces would never tollerate the idea of their in-laws moving in just when they've got their own kids off their hands and now it's 'their time' to enjoy themselves.

When I get old, I'm in the nursing home, same as all the people who have kids.

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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #8 on: September 18, 2007, 03:35:50 PM »
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Girls seem to run away from me 
Ha ha what are they, blind ;D

If none of us has any children we will cease to exist eventually.

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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #9 on: September 18, 2007, 03:40:12 PM »
I want to get married and have children the thing is to find the right woman that I think that is a woman that is right for me.  And as far as having children goes, righteous people should have as many children as possible we are being out numbered in birth rates by savage mutants.  So that is one way to turn the tide on how the world is.
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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #10 on: September 18, 2007, 03:46:45 PM »
Maybe also for me I may be a tad picky cause people today treat marriage like a game they get married in a few  years divorce.  People think divorce as they get married it is crazy.  I want to find that special someone who is going to be the love of my life and my best friend and we have children together but it would be a life long commitment.  I believe in marriage when they say death do you part thats exactly what it means.  To the end.
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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #11 on: September 18, 2007, 03:54:29 PM »
Is this an offer for a set up?

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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #12 on: September 18, 2007, 03:59:46 PM »
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Girls seem to run away from me 
Ha ha what are they, blind ;D

Hah, I doubt they're all blind ..if that's the case though I would have a good excuse :D

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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #13 on: September 18, 2007, 04:01:31 PM »
Vito, you are a paison, the paisons have a legacy of being Casinovas.  LOL.  I know I am still finding my Bella where ever she is.
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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #14 on: September 18, 2007, 04:09:42 PM »
Vito, you are a paison, the paisons have a legacy of being Casinovas.  LOL.  I know I am still finding my Bella where ever she is.

Haha.. I know, but I'm half Czech.. the Bohemian blood is slowing me down lol.

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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #15 on: September 18, 2007, 04:12:25 PM »
It's not marriage I object to. I don't want children. I have to wait until the women in my age group have run out of eggs.

Oh come on Newman.. we have to multiply as many good people as we can. You having children would only help the cause that much more!

I can imagine miniature Newmans fighting for the cause! :D

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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #16 on: September 18, 2007, 04:14:37 PM »
It's not marriage I object to. I don't want children. I have to wait until the women in my age group have run out of eggs.

Oh come on Newman.. we have to multiply as many good people as we can. You having children would only help the cause that much more!

I can imagine miniature Newmans fighting for the cause! :D
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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #17 on: September 18, 2007, 04:15:06 PM »
 :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #18 on: September 18, 2007, 04:21:17 PM »
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Hah, I doubt they're all blind ..if that's the case though I would have a good excuse

Hmmm lets see, youre smart, funny, seem to have your act together and stunning....what do women who live near you want geeeeeze ::)

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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #19 on: September 18, 2007, 04:29:46 PM »
Actually I think that that's non of our bussnis to ask such a question .
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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #20 on: September 18, 2007, 04:34:49 PM »
good question ,divorced :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #21 on: September 18, 2007, 04:37:10 PM »
 It was a rhetorical question ;)
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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #22 on: September 18, 2007, 04:37:43 PM »
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Hah, I doubt they're all blind ..if that's the case though I would have a good excuse

Hmmm lets see, youre smart, funny, seem to have your act together and stunning....what do women who live near you want geeeeeze ::)

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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #23 on: September 18, 2007, 04:39:42 PM »
But thanks Kelly, I can always count on a beauty like you for a confidence boost  ;)

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Re: Why are so many people here single?
« Reply #24 on: September 18, 2007, 04:43:53 PM »
im arriewd with 5 kids.....but i have sky sports channels=no more kids ;D
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