Are you from Roslyn? Is that in Long Island?
actually i'm from northern NJ..
but when i was growing up, there were no sephardic temples near us and we definately hated anything reform or reconstructed (if it existed)..so we basically ended up goign to temples that were traditional in nature, but non-orthodox...
As our family has evolved religiously and traditionally, we know what we appreciate and what we hate. I know that we are dismayed by our current temple and our rabbi. OUr previous one was a great speaker, but a nutty liberal..and the new one they replaced him is just as nutty...and we all know it.
As far as Roslyn is concerned. I know of a conserved synogogue that the vast majority of the congregants there are also Persian yet traditional.
In LA, there is a conserved synogogue called Temple Sinai...The vast majority there are Persian Jews.
Whether you might agree or disagree, there are certain traditional aspects of the conserved movement which mimicks what many Persian Jews are used to from their sephardic teaching from their parents. Likewise, a lot of us like sitting together in the temple and to not be separated. A lot of us are not into being strictly observant either.
However, we have to start somewhere and I know us Persian Jews prefer religiosity over secularism...However, we dont' believe in blind religiosity...What matters to many of us the most is family and education and treating our neighbors well...all the rest is commentary.