There are Rabbis falling one by one to this. A dayan giving a class in a yeshiva in Jerusalem told me he'd give an opinion on an issue involving homosexuality for me, but he said I can't say his name or the Israeli authorities would harass him and make him lose his job as judge. The question was basically if the transfer of sexual energy is forbidden and not shaking hands with women expressly, then gay people wouldn't be able to touch other men and his answer was yes.