I understood what you meant, but it seemed to be instantly assumed (not saying by you) that it was because we are the only 2 who they know what we look like....nevermind the fact that we both have numerous posts, and are both smart, it MUST have been looks(and im not saying im good looking either)....and for whatever reason its usually women that assume that when a woman gets ahead in life it has to be because she looks good, or earned it in other ways....this is one of the reasons I have little to do with most females.