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Yes, it's kosher. We need to do the mitzvah of "Pru U'Revu".
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Offline Dr. Dan

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A lot of single people here
« on: October 16, 2007, 02:39:53 PM »
I'm no Torah scholar or anything, but we need to help some of our members to be smooth with the gals...

and perhaps vice versa.
If someone says something bad about you, say something nice about them. That way, both of you would be lying.

In your heart you know WE are right and in your guts you know THEY are nuts!

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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #1 on: October 16, 2007, 02:45:09 PM »
Men don't need to be smooth to anybody, just be themselves.

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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #2 on: October 16, 2007, 02:57:14 PM »
To anybody:

 The Singles Sections on this forum: Are these going to be dating sites like jdate or orthodate? Or will this be a section where we can discuss various relationship issues? Thanks! :)

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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #3 on: October 16, 2007, 02:59:08 PM »
To anybody:

 The Singles Sections on this forum: Are these going to be dating sites like jdate or orthodate? Or will this be a section where we can discuss various relationship issues? Thanks! :)


That's all it will be...
no dating and meetin gpeople necessarily..but the issues at hand...

and Yes, Sarah, men shoudl be themselves...but if someone is simply miserable, it's not a good first impressino to be miserable.
If someone says something bad about you, say something nice about them. That way, both of you would be lying.

In your heart you know WE are right and in your guts you know THEY are nuts!

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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #4 on: October 16, 2007, 04:54:00 PM »
Whats wrong with being miserable? :)

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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #5 on: October 16, 2007, 08:10:26 PM »
That actually might be a good idea... why not share our experience with others in a respectful and beneficial manner, of course!

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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #6 on: October 16, 2007, 08:36:41 PM »
Men don't need to be smooth to anybody, just be themselves.

Thats right, trying to be another type of person is false, the worst thing you can do is lie to your partner.

But some here need to learn respect and that goes far further than being smooth.

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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #7 on: October 16, 2007, 10:17:58 PM »
Whats wrong with being miserable? :)

unfotunately, not many people are wise enough to see through misery and tough skin...so most normal people will be polite when they meet another person for the first time...
If someone says something bad about you, say something nice about them. That way, both of you would be lying.

In your heart you know WE are right and in your guts you know THEY are nuts!

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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #8 on: October 16, 2007, 10:20:25 PM »
Men don't need to be smooth to anybody, just be themselves.

Thats right, trying to be another type of person is false, the worst thing you can do is lie to your partner.

But some here need to learn respect and that goes far further than being smooth.

Smooth doesn't mean fake...

I'll give you an example..when someone gets a new car, in the beginning you're supposed to be gentle with it so you dont' break it.

Women aren't cars...but especially in the beginning when a guy meets a girl, he should be himself and not be cheesy and dumb...but at the same time, he has to keep his cool..be gentle, polite etc...
If someone says something bad about you, say something nice about them. That way, both of you would be lying.

In your heart you know WE are right and in your guts you know THEY are nuts!

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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #9 on: October 16, 2007, 11:48:03 PM »
Smooth smacks of sleaze  ;D :::D

its like going "hey babe  ^-^" with your shirt half open and the two hairs on your chest poking out  :::D

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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #10 on: October 17, 2007, 12:02:11 AM »
Smooth smacks of sleaze  ;D :::D

its like going "hey babe  ^-^" with your shirt half open and the two hairs on your chest poking out  :::D


that's not smooth...That's not what i meant by smooth...by smooth, i mean not so obvious that a guy is hitting on a girl..but subtle enough to show her that he's interested to get to know her..

I have to admit though..the best way is not thinking about it and just goign wtih teh flow...
If someone says something bad about you, say something nice about them. That way, both of you would be lying.

In your heart you know WE are right and in your guts you know THEY are nuts!

"Science without religion is lame; Religion without science is blind."  - Albert Einstein

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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #11 on: October 17, 2007, 12:16:03 AM »
Thats right be yourself, just not running around with your tongue dragging across the ground behind anything that looks female, not the best look.

 ::)

But attitude does play a huge rule, if you are closed, not open to people then you are just going to lose every time.




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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #12 on: October 17, 2007, 04:40:53 AM »
Men don't need to be smooth to anybody, just be themselves.

I'm horrible!

Nobody would wan't to know me if I acted like myself.

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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #13 on: October 17, 2007, 05:07:53 AM »
Men don't need to be smooth to anybody, just be themselves.

I'm horrible!

Nobody would wan't to know me if I acted like myself.

Arrrha I don't think so  ;)

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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #14 on: October 17, 2007, 05:11:45 AM »
In the end who cares... you die in your own arms..

Learn to burn..  i have.. and i am beginning to not mind being single.

AND THIS IS COMING FROM SOMEONE WHO HAS NEVER BEEN WITH ANYONE...

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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #15 on: October 17, 2007, 05:26:49 AM »
In the end who cares... you die in your own arms..

Learn to burn..  i have.. and i am beginning to not mind being single.

AND THIS IS COMING FROM SOMEONE WHO HAS NEVER BEEN WITH ANYONE...

You havn't lived if you havn't woken up next to someone and said "What's your name?". ;)

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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #16 on: October 17, 2007, 06:11:13 AM »
In the end who cares... you die in your own arms..

Learn to burn..  i have.. and i am beginning to not mind being single.

AND THIS IS COMING FROM SOMEONE WHO HAS NEVER BEEN WITH ANYONE...

You havn't lived if you havn't woken up next to someone and said "What's your name?". ;)

I remember doing that once, but I had been married to him for 10 years, I had a mental blank  :-[

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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #17 on: October 17, 2007, 03:06:36 PM »
Smooth smacks of sleaze  ;D :::D

its like going "hey babe  ^-^" with your shirt half open and the two hairs on your chest poking out  :::D


that's not smooth...That's not what i meant by smooth...by smooth, i mean not so obvious that a guy is hitting on a girl..but subtle enough to show her that he's interested to get to know her..

I have to admit though..the best way is not thinking about it and just goign wtih teh flow...

Yeah that isn't smooth but going with the flow certainly is.

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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #18 on: August 25, 2008, 10:36:13 PM »
I'm single too.  8;)

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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #19 on: August 27, 2008, 10:54:09 PM »
Yup, I'm also an unfortunate member of the singles club.  :(

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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #20 on: August 28, 2008, 11:52:24 AM »
Yup, I'm also an unfortunate member of the singles club.  :(
dont be so negative about it, it just means your available, and have more choices  :::D
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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #21 on: August 28, 2008, 12:08:15 PM »
Yup, I'm also an unfortunate member of the singles club.  :(
dont be so negative about it, it just means your available, and have more choices  :::D

 
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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #22 on: September 24, 2008, 04:17:49 PM »
Smooth smacks of sleaze  ;D :::D

its like going "hey babe  ^-^" with your shirt half open and the two hairs on your chest poking out  :::D

Could be alot worse, that could be the girl.

Many girls have to wax their legs, so I wouldn't put anything past them!

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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #23 on: September 24, 2008, 04:40:53 PM »
I have been single now for many years......... :'(

And I even know how to cook...... :laugh: and sew..... :::D
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Re: A lot of single people here
« Reply #24 on: October 08, 2008, 12:07:17 AM »
I have been single now for many years......... :'(

And I even know how to cook...... :laugh: and sew..... :::D

I am tired of cooking and I cannot even sow a button on a shirt, you are welcome at my house  :dance:

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