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Title: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: raiseyourfist on September 18, 2007, 10:41:32 AM
There is something that has always facinated me about JTF.. there is a great deal of people who are single... i dont know whether this is out of choice being too busy or just haven't  found the right person or haven't had the chance to find anyone

Now i dont want to be rude because i myself have had no experience and remain lonely to this day....

It is weird because it seems nearly everyone here are just great people but unfortunately we still have a disproportional  high number of single JTFers out there

IT IS THE WORST THING IN THE WORLD TO LIVE A LIFE OF SOLITUDE which is why i ask the people of JTF what experiences (if any) members have had..  ONE THING IS FOR CERTAIN THOUGH... no one here could have ever done worse than myself...

DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY TIPS TO FIND THE RIGHT PERSON?

THANKS IN ADVANCE, SERGIO
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Tzvi Ben Roshel1 on September 18, 2007, 11:20:35 AM
if they (we) wouldnt be single they wouldnt have enough time to go on the forum. Married life, with children and a job, etc. is a lot of work I see, not many married people would have the time to come on here or just serve the internet.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Vito on September 18, 2007, 11:26:24 AM
Girls seem to run away from me  ;D
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 18, 2007, 02:36:40 PM
It's not marriage I object to. I don't want children. I have to wait until the women in my age group have run out of eggs.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Vito on September 18, 2007, 02:39:28 PM
It's not marriage I object to. I don't want children. I have to wait until the women in my age group have run out of eggs.

Oh come on Newman.. we have to multiply as many good people as we can. You having children would only help the cause that much more!
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Joe Schmo on September 18, 2007, 02:41:47 PM
It's not marriage I object to. I don't want children. I have to wait until the women in my age group have run out of eggs.

Oh come on Newman.. we have to multiply as many good people as we can. You having children would only help the cause that much more!

The world is no place for children.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 18, 2007, 02:47:46 PM
It's not marriage I object to. I don't want children. I have to wait until the women in my age group have run out of eggs.

Oh come on Newman.. we have to multiply as many good people as we can. You having children would only help the cause that much more!

The world is no place for children.
Scriabin's comment is one of my reasons. The others are expense and pure lifestyle choice. I turn 40 in November. If you think I'm having horrible phsycotic teenagers in my home when I'm in my late 50s or early 60s, think again.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 18, 2007, 02:58:47 PM


Wonderful life you'll have when you reach 70, 80, 90, 100, and you're retired and you have no one to come and visit you or take care of you.

Look around at life in the modern western world.

If you think people are looking after their elderly parents today, you're deluded. It's not the Waltons anymore with three generations all living in a big house carving up the Sunday turky.

Our childrens' spouces would never tollerate the idea of their in-laws moving in just when they've got their own kids off their hands and now it's 'their time' to enjoy themselves.

When I get old, I'm in the nursing home, same as all the people who have kids.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: kellymaureen on September 18, 2007, 03:35:50 PM
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Girls seem to run away from me 
Ha ha what are they, blind ;D

If none of us has any children we will cease to exist eventually.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: MasterWolf1 on September 18, 2007, 03:40:12 PM
I want to get married and have children the thing is to find the right woman that I think that is a woman that is right for me.  And as far as having children goes, righteous people should have as many children as possible we are being out numbered in birth rates by savage mutants.  So that is one way to turn the tide on how the world is.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: MasterWolf1 on September 18, 2007, 03:46:45 PM
Maybe also for me I may be a tad picky cause people today treat marriage like a game they get married in a few  years divorce.  People think divorce as they get married it is crazy.  I want to find that special someone who is going to be the love of my life and my best friend and we have children together but it would be a life long commitment.  I believe in marriage when they say death do you part thats exactly what it means.  To the end.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: nopeaceforland on September 18, 2007, 03:54:29 PM
Is this an offer for a set up?
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Vito on September 18, 2007, 03:59:46 PM
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Girls seem to run away from me 
Ha ha what are they, blind ;D

Hah, I doubt they're all blind ..if that's the case though I would have a good excuse :D
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: MasterWolf1 on September 18, 2007, 04:01:31 PM
Vito, you are a paison, the paisons have a legacy of being Casinovas.  LOL.  I know I am still finding my Bella where ever she is.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Vito on September 18, 2007, 04:09:42 PM
Vito, you are a paison, the paisons have a legacy of being Casinovas.  LOL.  I know I am still finding my Bella where ever she is.

Haha.. I know, but I'm half Czech.. the Bohemian blood is slowing me down lol.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Sarah on September 18, 2007, 04:12:25 PM
It's not marriage I object to. I don't want children. I have to wait until the women in my age group have run out of eggs.

Oh come on Newman.. we have to multiply as many good people as we can. You having children would only help the cause that much more!

I can imagine miniature Newmans fighting for the cause! :D
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 18, 2007, 04:14:37 PM
It's not marriage I object to. I don't want children. I have to wait until the women in my age group have run out of eggs.

Oh come on Newman.. we have to multiply as many good people as we can. You having children would only help the cause that much more!

I can imagine miniature Newmans fighting for the cause! :D
Miniature Newmans would fight- period.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Sarah on September 18, 2007, 04:15:06 PM
 :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: kellymaureen on September 18, 2007, 04:21:17 PM
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Hah, I doubt they're all blind ..if that's the case though I would have a good excuse

Hmmm lets see, youre smart, funny, seem to have your act together and stunning....what do women who live near you want geeeeeze ::)
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Dexter on September 18, 2007, 04:29:46 PM
Actually I think that that's non of our bussnis to ask such a question .
Everyone have a privet life, let it be privet .
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: mord on September 18, 2007, 04:34:49 PM
good question ,divorced :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: kellymaureen on September 18, 2007, 04:37:10 PM
 It was a rhetorical question ;)
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Vito on September 18, 2007, 04:37:43 PM
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Hah, I doubt they're all blind ..if that's the case though I would have a good excuse

Hmmm lets see, youre smart, funny, seem to have your act together and stunning....what do women who live near you want geeeeeze ::)

Bums  :-\
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Vito on September 18, 2007, 04:39:42 PM
But thanks Kelly, I can always count on a beauty like you for a confidence boost  ;)
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: decimos on September 18, 2007, 04:43:53 PM
im arriewd with 5 kids.....but i have sky sports channels=no more kids ;D
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Sarah on September 18, 2007, 04:46:53 PM
im arriewd with 5 kids.....but i have sky sports channels=no more kids ;D

We had to get rid of sky sports. Sky sports= No more dad, No more brother hence No more food.

 :)
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Tzvi Ben Roshel1 on September 18, 2007, 04:52:49 PM
[Look around at life in the modern western world.

When I get old, I'm in the nursing home, same as all the people who have kids.

Truly sad. But it has greatly to do with the way many in the west raise their children. many westerners cant wait to get rid of their kids, they tell them when your 18 they have to move out of the house, also the obsession with sports and lack of real attention to the kids- in return thats what the parents get- no attention from kids and thrown to nursing homes.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: New Yorker on September 18, 2007, 05:10:11 PM

Why are so many people here single?

We covered this on another thread, most of them are fat.  ;D
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: ItalianZionist on September 18, 2007, 06:09:46 PM
Guys,
  With the exception of the women on this forum, the vast majority of pretty American women are stuck up c___s. They either want money or a guy that looks like Brad "German faced" Pitt. Guys, do yourself a favor. Go to a latin American country and try to find a good woman there. But of course be careful. The women there are much more courteous and friendly than most of the pretty women here.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Shoshana on September 18, 2007, 06:59:30 PM
I'm divorced so I've been very leary of getting in another serious relationship but I've dated on and off. Interesting topic.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: kellymaureen on September 18, 2007, 07:04:04 PM
Wow Shoshana your new picture is beautiful  :)
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: New Yorker on September 18, 2007, 07:14:42 PM


Very easy on the eyes, what, theses bozos haven't been hitting you two?  ;)
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Lisa on September 18, 2007, 08:07:47 PM
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Guys,
  With the exception of the women on this forum, the vast majority of pretty American women are stuck up c___s. They either want money or a guy that looks like Brad "German faced" Pitt. Guys, do yourself a favor. Go to a latin American country and try to find a good woman there. But of course be careful. The women there are much more courteous and friendly than most of the pretty women here.

Italian Zionist, you sound very angry.  And didn't you say you recently found a woman you really like? 
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Shoshana on September 18, 2007, 08:09:40 PM
Wow Shoshana your new picture is beautiful  :)

Thanks! You look great in your pic too! ;)
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Shoshana on September 18, 2007, 08:10:42 PM
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Guys,
  With the exception of the women on this forum, the vast majority of pretty American women are stuck up c___s. They either want money or a guy that looks like Brad "German faced" Pitt. Guys, do yourself a favor. Go to a latin American country and try to find a good woman there. But of course be careful. The women there are much more courteous and friendly than most of the pretty women here.

Italian Zionist, you sound very angry.  And didn't you say you recently found a woman you really like? 

That's right, a divorced mom if I remember right. What happened Italian Zionist??? I am so sorry it apparently didn't work out.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 18, 2007, 08:12:45 PM
Wow Shoshana your new picture is beautiful  :)

Thanks! You look great in your pic too! ;)

There's a prophesy in Torah about the gentiles 'grabbing the corner of a Jew's skirt'.

If someone grabs Shoshana's skirt, they'll get such a whoopin'. ;)
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Bodhi on September 18, 2007, 08:38:40 PM
  Possibly because they are more intelligent than the average person......I'm in the process of divorcing a woman who I still love dearly and have two children with after ten years of marriage...........Men get the shaft in dicorce court........I'm out about a million dollars (gave her all the property) and I will still have to pay child support although she is living on the income of the rental properties...............It's OK I guess......I still have the shirt on my back....the funny (or not so funny)thing is I would take her back in a heartbeat....unfortunatley I took the to death do you part seriously, and obviously I was naive..........be careful with women, the legal system is 200% biased in their favor (I spent 6 months in jail for allegen domestic violence(just her word, no witnesses no bruises etc)....I have never raised my hand against a woman G-s forbid...I went to trisl and was found not guilty, but I still spent almost 6 months in jail.........

Be careful what you wish for.......you just might get it. ;)
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: MassuhDGoodName on September 18, 2007, 08:40:46 PM
I'm saving myself for the right Jewish female 25 yr old Neurosurgeon or Cardiac Surgeon, who is able to support me in the manner to which I should become accustomed.

Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 18, 2007, 08:42:07 PM
  Possibly because they are more intelligent than the average person......I'm in the process of divorcing a woman who I still love dearly and have two children with after ten years of marriage...........Men get the shaft in dicorce court........I'm out about a million dollars (gave her all the property) and I will still have to pay child support although she is living on the income of the rental properties...............It's OK I guess......I still have the shirt on my back....the funny (or not so funny)thing is I would take her back in a heartbeat....unfortunatley I took the to death do you part seriously, and obviously I was naive..........be careful with women, the legal system is 200% biased in their favor (I spent 6 months in jail for allegen domestic violence(just her word, no witnesses no bruises etc)....I have never raised my hand against a woman G-s forbid...I went to trisl and was found not guilty, but I still spent almost 6 months in jail.........

Be careful what you wish for.......you just might get it. ;)
If it's supposed to be 50:50 with communal property, how does that happen?
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Vito on September 18, 2007, 08:47:33 PM
  Possibly because they are more intelligent than the average person......I'm in the process of divorcing a woman who I still love dearly and have two children with after ten years of marriage...........Men get the shaft in dicorce court........I'm out about a million dollars (gave her all the property) and I will still have to pay child support although she is living on the income of the rental properties...............It's OK I guess......I still have the shirt on my back....the funny (or not so funny)thing is I would take her back in a heartbeat....unfortunatley I took the to death do you part seriously, and obviously I was naive..........be careful with women, the legal system is 200% biased in their favor (I spent 6 months in jail for allegen domestic violence(just her word, no witnesses no bruises etc)....I have never raised my hand against a woman G-s forbid...I went to trisl and was found not guilty, but I still spent almost 6 months in jail.........

Be careful what you wish for.......you just might get it. ;)
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Uff, Bodhi that sounds horrible. G-d willing you get through this as quickly as possible..


Wow Shoshana your new picture is beautiful  :)

Thanks! You look great in your pic too! ;)

Yeah Shoshana, you look great  ;)
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Shoshana on September 18, 2007, 08:48:41 PM
  Possibly because they are more intelligent than the average person......I'm in the process of divorcing a woman who I still love dearly and have two children with after ten years of marriage...........Men get the shaft in dicorce court........I'm out about a million dollars (gave her all the property) and I will still have to pay child support although she is living on the income of the rental properties...............It's OK I guess......I still have the shirt on my back....the funny (or not so funny)thing is I would take her back in a heartbeat....unfortunatley I took the to death do you part seriously, and obviously I was naive..........be careful with women, the legal system is 200% biased in their favor (I spent 6 months in jail for allegen domestic violence(just her word, no witnesses no bruises etc)....I have never raised my hand against a woman G-s forbid...I went to trisl and was found not guilty, but I still spent almost 6 months in jail.........

Be careful what you wish for.......you just might get it. ;)

First of all, if you are out a million dollars because you gave her all the property then whose fault is that? You gave it to her. You didn't have to you chose to so why whine about it?
I take issue with you saying you spent 6 months in jail on just her word. Sorry the law doesn't generally work that way, I would guess there was alot more to it than that.
Yes, you have to pay CS regardless of what she is getting her income from because guess what? You had children, she is raising them presumably the majority of the time. They are entitled to a portion of your income to put a roof over their heads and food in their bellies.
Do I sound like a bitter divorced woman who doesn't see a dime of child support? Yes I do. :)
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: kellymaureen on September 18, 2007, 08:59:59 PM
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Men get the shaft in dicorce court

I am a woman and I can agree with you.  I watched a very good friend go through hell and back, his ex wife took everything, which he willingly gave because she had their twin girls, pays support because he loves his girls and its his responsibility, has court ordered visitation which SHE always manages to stop him from having (the girls are always "sick" on visiting day, she is conveniently not home at the designated time, tells lie upon lie about him to the girls, that he didnt want to see them...he has gone back to court many times but as long as he is paying the court doesnt seem to care if he actually sees his children, they more or less tell her he has a "right" to see his children but doesnt actually DO anything to make her follow a court order.  I know there are an equal amount of men who really dont care to see their children and do everything they can to get out of their obligations, they are of course scum, but men who actually DO care about those things go through a court system which is never in their favor...or the favor of the children who need their fathers.

Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Ari on September 18, 2007, 09:08:12 PM
I think I'm single because I can't figure out what I really want in life (specifically marriage and kids).  I enjoy many aspects of being single and I'm not sure I want to give them up for good.  Life if short.  What if I make the wrong choice with a woman.  I'd rather be alone than make a horrible mistake.  I think the dying alone thing is overated.  We all die alone if you think about it.  I also don't  think I want to have children for many of the reasons listed here.  Sometimes I feel a little guilty over this, but kids can make my skin crawl.  I live in a co-op apartment above a couple with two young kids.  They are constantly arguing and the kids are always making loud noises making their, and my life, quite miserable.  That's why I'm looking to move.  
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Kiwi on September 18, 2007, 09:16:39 PM
Guys,
  With the exception of the women on this forum, the vast majority of pretty American women are stuck up c___s. They either want money or a guy that looks like Brad "German faced" Pitt.

LOL you sound just like my American Fella, said the same thing to me, thats why he prefers Aussie women. And what I have worked with and know of most US woman you are not far wrong.  :-\

And the others I have meet on forums, seem to show that side too. And Jealous, never meet so many jealous women, as if they can't even give a little trust to their men, stuck in this "mills and boon" love story, like they didn't have a brain in their heads and stuck on 12 years old. Not that I am saying all are just most I have meet.



As for Newman, never change honey you are prefect as you are.  ;)
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: takebackourtemple on September 18, 2007, 09:17:41 PM
Girls seem to run away from me  ;D

Same story here.
The ones that do not don't agree with my political views. I just don't see why they and the majority of people don't get the Kahanist message. Why are they all so liberal? Everything JTF says makes so much sense to me and people are not moved by the facts.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Vito on September 18, 2007, 09:19:37 PM
I think I'm single because I can't figure out what I really want in life (specifically marriage and kids).  I enjoy many aspects of being single and I'm not sure I want to give them up for good.  Life if short.  What if I make the wrong choice with a woman.  I'd rather be alone than make a horrible mistake.  I think the dying alone thing is overated.  We all die alone if you think about it.  I also don't  think I want to have children for many of the reasons listed here.  Sometimes I feel a little guilty over this, but kids can make my skin crawl.  I live in a co-op apartment above a couple with two young kids.  They are constantly arguing and the kids are always making loud noises making their, and my life, quite miserable.  That's why I'm looking to move. 


Ari, listen.. there's more to kids than screaming, running around and arguing. You have to look at the big picture - you're creating new life. It's about creating new lives that you raise to benefit future generations, in order to make this a world worth fighting for. I feel that that's more important than a conveniently quiet Saturday night.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Ari on September 18, 2007, 09:22:12 PM
Point well taken, Vito.  I told you I feel guilty over it, lol.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: kellymaureen on September 18, 2007, 09:23:34 PM
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LOL you sound just like my American Fella, said the same thing to me, thats why he prefers Aussie women

My sister is married to an Australian who says the same thing about American women lol...maybe its just wanting something different than what we have ;D

Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Kiwi on September 18, 2007, 09:33:54 PM
LOL the phrase he used was exotic, I was like....... huh?

Grass is greener on the other side of the fence  :P Or side of the world  :laugh:
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Vito on September 18, 2007, 09:34:34 PM
Guys,
  With the exception of the women on this forum, the vast majority of pretty American women are stuck up c___s. They either want money or a guy that looks like Brad "German faced" Pitt.

LOL you sound just like my American Fella, said the same thing to me, thats why he prefers Aussie women. And what I have worked with and know of most US woman you are not far wrong.  :-\

And the others I have meet on forums, seem to show that side too. And Jealous, never meet so many jealous women, as if they can't even give a little trust to their men, stuck in this "mills and boon" love story, like they didn't have a brain in their heads and stuck on 12 years old. Not that I am saying all are just most I have meet.



As for Newman, never change honey you are prefect as you are.  ;)

You're not far from the truth at all.. I much prefer women from Europe/South America than American women. Generally, if American women get the slightest idea that they look the least bit attractive.. they put themselves on a mountain top. Than the average Joe like me is stuck in a ditch.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Kiwi on September 18, 2007, 09:46:03 PM
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Than the average Joe like me

Vito heres a tip for you, many women when they get over an age are looking for things much different from a 20 year old.

I really don't know how old you are, but on average the older women get the looks are less important on the fella.

If they are normal real women, not stick bugs thinking they are straight from a glossy mag, are looking for companionship and stable relationship.

My first too husbands we very handsome guys,  the break ups was because so did every other female below 25 think that too.  :-\

But the my new fella is well not handsome by any means, but respectful, loving caring and a real man. And now being 33 myself I am looking for a better class of man, than just a Ken Doll.

I think you need to settle on the type of woman that suits you, not the type you think you should have.

Theres always a huge difference in the too.



Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: takebackourtemple on September 18, 2007, 09:47:26 PM
Wow Shoshana your new picture is beautiful  :)

   I concur. I also like the previous one.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Vito on September 18, 2007, 09:56:28 PM
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Than the average Joe like me

Vito heres a tip for you, many women when they get over an age are looking for things much different from a 20 year old.

I really don't know how old you are, but on average the older women get the looks are less important on the fella.

If they are normal real women, not stick bugs thinking they are straight from a glossy mag, are looking for companionship and stable relationship.

My first too husbands we very handsome guys,  the break ups was because so did every other female below 25 think that too.  :-\

But the my new fella is well not handsome by any means, but respectful, loving caring and a real man. And now being 33 myself I am looking for a better class of man, than just a Ken Doll.

I think you need to settle on the type of woman that suits you, not the type you think you should have.

Theres always a huge difference in the too.





I'm 23, but the problem is I act much older than 23. Plus I live in New York City, which is only 25% white - less than half of that 25% are young, and of the young people, most of them are wiggers/white trash, so I'm in a bad situation right now.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: jdl4ever on September 18, 2007, 09:56:36 PM
I am single since so far most of the American Jewish girls I dated were spoiled and think too highly of themselves.  Many think that they are G-d's gift to the world and deserve a prince charming.  Perhaps when they get older, their standards will drop.  See, my standards for a girl are very low.  As long as they are attractive, intelligent and a nice Jewish girl, then they are good enough for me.  I couldn't care less if they went to seminary or not or how much they can learn, this is all new nonsense that didn't exist in the days of old.  I wanted to go out on a second date with 80% of the girls I dated, since they were good enough for me but they didn't want to go out with me again because they think they are G-d's gift to the world and think no one is good enough for them.  Also, a lot that I went out with were very spoiled JAPS, you could tell by their attitude that they were spoiled.  I'm still looking though.

A lot of American Jewish girls I dated rejected me since I am not a learner (They are brainwashed in Seminary to only marry a "full time learner" or at the bare minimum one that learns many hours a day and works a full time job, which is impossible to learn more than an hour or two a day and work full time as well.  But they seem to not realize this inherent contradiction that they are brainwashed into believing.  Plus, they are insane and want a Rabbi to supervise you learn and don't believe you do it yourself. So their parents make them date someone who is working since the parents are sane but the girls reject you since you are not "frum" enough to their impossible standards that they are brainwashed into believing.  Usually this starts a fight between the girl and the parents, which I caused a couple.  These girls are idiots since they don't know that my Torah knowledge may be greater than most full time learners and what I learn in little time may more effective then what they learn in many hours.)
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Joe Gutfeld on September 18, 2007, 09:58:41 PM
The reason is that we spend so much time here that we don't have time to date.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Shoshana on September 18, 2007, 10:01:01 PM
The reason is that we spend so much time here that we don't have time to date.

 :D :) Could be.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: ItalianZionist on September 18, 2007, 10:01:51 PM
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Guys,
  With the exception of the women on this forum, the vast majority of pretty American women are stuck up c___s. They either want money or a guy that looks like Brad "German faced" Pitt. Guys, do yourself a favor. Go to a latin American country and try to find a good woman there. But of course be careful. The women there are much more courteous and friendly than most of the pretty women here.

Italian Zionist, you sound very angry.  And didn't you say you recently found a woman you really like? 

That's right, a divorced mom if I remember right. What happened Italian Zionist??? I am so sorry it apparently didn't work out.

Hi Shoshana,
  I still keep in touch with the woman. And naturally, I met her in Latin America. I just have to see where it goes.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Vito on September 18, 2007, 10:03:42 PM
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Guys,
  With the exception of the women on this forum, the vast majority of pretty American women are stuck up c___s. They either want money or a guy that looks like Brad "German faced" Pitt. Guys, do yourself a favor. Go to a latin American country and try to find a good woman there. But of course be careful. The women there are much more courteous and friendly than most of the pretty women here.

Italian Zionist, you sound very angry.  And didn't you say you recently found a woman you really like? 

That's right, a divorced mom if I remember right. What happened Italian Zionist??? I am so sorry it apparently didn't work out.


Hi Shoshana,
  I still keep in touch with the woman. And naturally, I met her in Latin America. I just have to see where it goes.

Is she from Argentina/Uruguay/Chile? They are basically Italians that speak Spanish hehe
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Shoshana on September 18, 2007, 10:05:21 PM
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Guys,
  With the exception of the women on this forum, the vast majority of pretty American women are stuck up c___s. They either want money or a guy that looks like Brad "German faced" Pitt. Guys, do yourself a favor. Go to a latin American country and try to find a good woman there. But of course be careful. The women there are much more courteous and friendly than most of the pretty women here.

Italian Zionist, you sound very angry.  And didn't you say you recently found a woman you really like? 

That's right, a divorced mom if I remember right. What happened Italian Zionist??? I am so sorry it apparently didn't work out.

Hi Shoshana,
  I still keep in touch with the woman. And naturally, I met her in Latin America. I just have to see where it goes.

Good luck. Hope it turns out the way you want it.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: ItalianZionist on September 18, 2007, 10:10:43 PM
Thanks Shoshana.....Actually she is from the Dominican Republic, but of partial French decent, Vito. If you go to the Dom Rep, you'll have to fight them off with a stick...But be careful though, some of them want money and green cards.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 18, 2007, 10:21:40 PM
I'm single because I'm still a student, don't have my own money to start a family, and because I don't have a woman. No woman that I liked ever wanted me. Now I believe it is wrong to date unless it is for marriage but even when I didn't believe that I never had a girlfriend other than my cousin's friend for 3 days while I was in Israel when we were 13 and a French half Moroccan/half Algerian Sfardic girlfriend whom I met on Yahoo Chat. I met her one time in Jerusalem after she had already returned to her old boyfriend and afterwards she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I only kissed them on the cheek and they wouldn't let me kiss them on the lips. Now I believe it is wrong to kiss outside of marriage and I'm glad they didn't let me so I can save it for marriage.



Isn't there something in Talmud that says.." Don't sin.....but if you 'must' sin, put on dark clothes, pull a hat down over your face, go to a city where you aren't known, sin there and then come home and speak of it no more" ?
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: ItalianZionist on September 18, 2007, 10:24:23 PM
Yacov, try plentyoffish.com  . There are some Jewish women there...and it's free
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Vito on September 18, 2007, 10:25:37 PM
I'm single because I'm still a student, don't have my own money to start a family, and because I don't have a woman. No woman that I liked ever wanted me. Now I believe it is wrong to date unless it is for marriage but even when I didn't believe that I never had a girlfriend other than my cousin's friend for 3 days while I was in Israel when we were 13 and a French half Moroccan/half Algerian Sfardic girlfriend whom I met on Yahoo Chat. I met her one time in Jerusalem after she had already returned to her old boyfriend and afterwards she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I only kissed them on the cheek and they wouldn't let me kiss them on the lips. Now I believe it is wrong to kiss outside of marriage and I'm glad they didn't let me so I can save it for marriage.



Isn't there something in Talmud that says.." Don't sin.....but if you 'must' sin, put on dark clothes, pull a hat down over your face, go to a city where you aren't known, sin there and then come home and speak of it no more" ?

"What happened in Babylon, stays in Babylon" ? :laugh:
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Bodhi on September 18, 2007, 10:30:38 PM
  Well I'm in a country with somewhat different laws than North America, and yeah I signed everything over you're right I shouldn't complain about it, it seemed like the right thing to do for my kids......The bottom line however is that I don't feel men get fair treatment at all abnwhere, not even close, when divorce happens ......in the country I live in your wife can be working as a prostitue, have you thrown out of your own house, and have you pay alimony to her while you are stiill married.....sad but true...... ???  maybe I'm just bitter....I don't know....but I think there's something to it....namely, systematic discrimination against males ( in "family" courts ) which goes against G-d and destroys many families.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Vito on September 18, 2007, 10:34:53 PM
What country are you from Bodhi?
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 18, 2007, 10:36:33 PM
The more I hear about divorce dramas, child custody dramas etc, the happier I am to stay a bachelor.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: ItalianZionist on September 18, 2007, 10:39:38 PM
The more I hear about divorce dramas, child custody dramas etc, the happier I am to stay a bachelor.
true, but the older you get, the more lonely you feel...for me anyway
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Shoshana on September 18, 2007, 10:41:43 PM
The more I hear about divorce dramas, child custody dramas etc, the happier I am to stay a bachelor.

 I know what you mean. I've been through it all(divorce,custody battle,etc) and would absolutely love to have more children when I remarry although I am certainly not as gung ho as I was the first time around. Having children with someone in this day and age is risky because the sense of morals and old fashioned values and responsibility just isn't there in alot of people.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 18, 2007, 10:43:04 PM
The more I hear about divorce dramas, child custody dramas etc, the happier I am to stay a bachelor.
true, but the older you get, the more lonely you feel...for me anyway

I can honestly say I've NEVER fely 'lonely'. I couldn't describe it if somebody asked.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: ItalianZionist on September 18, 2007, 10:46:40 PM
The more I hear about divorce dramas, child custody dramas etc, the happier I am to stay a bachelor.
true, but the older you get, the more lonely you feel...for me anyway

I can honestly say I've NEVER fely 'lonely'. I couldn't describe it if somebody asked.

Newman, you're a rock   :laugh:
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 18, 2007, 10:49:21 PM
The more I hear about divorce dramas, child custody dramas etc, the happier I am to stay a bachelor.
true, but the older you get, the more lonely you feel...for me anyway

I can honestly say I've NEVER fely 'lonely'. I couldn't describe it if somebody asked.

Newman, you're a rock   :laugh:

Never been bored either (apart from some old biddie bending my ear and showing me pictures of her grandkids on the bus).
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Bodhi on September 18, 2007, 10:57:54 PM
What country are you from Bodhi?

I was born in the US but I live in Costa Rica........there were some serious problems here 5 or 6 years ago with women being badly abused and the law did nothing about it, but they completely overreacted to the point that if your wife says that you insulted her and made her feel bad you go to jail (overnight...my problem was actually from disobeying several restraining orders that I could not go within 500 yards of my own home......my wife begged me to come back, and well I'm a fool,  and the rest is history....) this wasn't the most familly friendly country to begin with, it makes me sad to think of all the broken homes that the new laws are creating........the road to ...well it's paved with good intentions.....I don't know I guess I'm just upset because I had a great life and a great familly and plenty of money, and it all kind of went south on me....G-d works in mysterious ways I'm sure there is a reason for all this to be happening, I just wish I could understand it.  :)

Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks on September 18, 2007, 11:01:56 PM
A: It's not easy to find women who are interested in me, period.

B: It's not easy to find quality Christian women who are interested in me.

C: It's not easy to find quality Christian women who are interested in me and share my views.

D: It's not easy to find quality Christian women who are interested in me and share my views and only want to adopt.

*sighs*  :(
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: ItalianZionist on September 18, 2007, 11:05:48 PM
A: It's not easy to find women who are interested in me, period.

B: It's not easy to find quality Christian women who are interested in me.

C: It's not easy to find quality Christian women who are interested in me and share my views.

D: It's not easy to find quality Christian women who are interested in me and share my views and only want to adopt.

*sighs*  :(

CF....try everything...websites, clubs, museums, even women in the street. Keep fighting...Sometimes you may not find a woman with your views, but maybe you can change them.  If all else fails try a foreign country (preferably Latin America)...Europe is hard too like America  now
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Ari on September 18, 2007, 11:13:32 PM
I'm single because I'm still a student, don't have my own money to start a family, and because I don't have a woman. No woman that I liked ever wanted me. Now I believe it is wrong to date unless it is for marriage but even when I didn't believe that I never had a girlfriend other than my cousin's friend for 3 days while I was in Israel when we were 13 and a French half Moroccan/half Algerian Sfardic girlfriend whom I met on Yahoo Chat. I met her one time in Jerusalem after she had already returned to her old boyfriend and afterwards she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I only kissed them on the cheek and they wouldn't let me kiss them on the lips. Now I believe it is wrong to kiss outside of marriage and I'm glad they didn't let me so I can save it for marriage.



Isn't there something in Talmud that says.." Don't sin.....but if you 'must' sin, put on dark clothes, pull a hat down over your face, go to a city where you aren't known, sin there and then come home and speak of it no more" ?

You're saying they knew about Vegas back then?
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Ari on September 18, 2007, 11:14:39 PM
A: It's not easy to find women who are interested in me, period.

B: It's not easy to find quality Christian women who are interested in me.

C: It's not easy to find quality Christian women who are interested in me and share my views.

D: It's not easy to find quality Christian women who are interested in me and share my views and only want to adopt.

*sighs*  :(

CF....try everything...websites, clubs, museums, even women in the street. Keep fighting...Sometimes you may not find a woman with your views, but maybe you can change them.  If all else fails try a foreign country (preferably Latin America)...Europe is hard too like America  now

We don't want to be too desperate now, do we?
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 18, 2007, 11:15:42 PM
I'm single because I'm still a student, don't have my own money to start a family, and because I don't have a woman. No woman that I liked ever wanted me. Now I believe it is wrong to date unless it is for marriage but even when I didn't believe that I never had a girlfriend other than my cousin's friend for 3 days while I was in Israel when we were 13 and a French half Moroccan/half Algerian Sfardic girlfriend whom I met on Yahoo Chat. I met her one time in Jerusalem after she had already returned to her old boyfriend and afterwards she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I only kissed them on the cheek and they wouldn't let me kiss them on the lips. Now I believe it is wrong to kiss outside of marriage and I'm glad they didn't let me so I can save it for marriage.



Isn't there something in Talmud that says.." Don't sin.....but if you 'must' sin, put on dark clothes, pull a hat down over your face, go to a city where you aren't known, sin there and then come home and speak of it no more" ?

You're saying they knew about Vegas back then?
:laugh: :laugh:

I think it was for single guys who couldn't concentrate because of certain unfulfilled needs.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 18, 2007, 11:17:11 PM
A: It's not easy to find women who are interested in me, period.

B: It's not easy to find quality Christian women who are interested in me.

C: It's not easy to find quality Christian women who are interested in me and share my views.

D: It's not easy to find quality Christian women who are interested in me and share my views and only want to adopt.

*sighs*  :(

Bag a leftist chick if you have to. Then you don't have to feel guilty about not calling her next weekend.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: raiseyourfist on September 18, 2007, 11:30:40 PM
IT just seems to me all the women that i am interested in are the dance rave types that go out to night clubs...

i hate that stuff... i cant meet one descent girl who wont run a mile even though i am not a bad looking guy

i am extremely shy and that is my downfall

Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Shoshana on September 18, 2007, 11:32:56 PM
I'm single because I'm still a student, don't have my own money to start a family, and because I don't have a woman. No woman that I liked ever wanted me. Now I believe it is wrong to date unless it is for marriage but even when I didn't believe that I never had a girlfriend other than my cousin's friend for 3 days while I was in Israel when we were 13 and a French half Moroccan/half Algerian Sfardic girlfriend whom I met on Yahoo Chat. I met her one time in Jerusalem after she had already returned to her old boyfriend and afterwards she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I only kissed them on the cheek and they wouldn't let me kiss them on the lips. Now I believe it is wrong to kiss outside of marriage and I'm glad they didn't let me so I can save it for marriage.



Isn't there something in Talmud that says.." Don't sin.....but if you 'must' sin, put on dark clothes, pull a hat down over your face, go to a city where you aren't known, sin there and then come home and speak of it no more" ?

You're saying they knew about Vegas back then?
:laugh: :laugh:

I think it was for single guys who couldn't concentrate because of certain unfulfilled needs.

I just watched some Israeli movie the other day called "The Holy Land" that was about that. A Yeshiva guy(18ish maybe) his rabbi recommends to go to a town no one knows him in and visit a prostitute so that he can then come back with focus on his studies so he goes to Tel Aviv. I don't like the idea and don't know if there is any Talmud justification behind it like the movie implied and like I believe has been implied here. I'll have to look into that.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Tzvi Ben Roshel1 on September 18, 2007, 11:38:45 PM
I'm single because I'm still a student, don't have my own money to start a family, and because I don't have a woman. No woman that I liked ever wanted me. Now I believe it is wrong to date unless it is for marriage but even when I didn't believe that I never had a girlfriend other than my cousin's friend for 3 days while I was in Israel when we were 13 and a French half Moroccan/half Algerian Sfardic girlfriend whom I met on Yahoo Chat. I met her one time in Jerusalem after she had already returned to her old boyfriend and afterwards she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I only kissed them on the cheek and they wouldn't let me kiss them on the lips. Now I believe it is wrong to kiss outside of marriage and I'm glad they didn't let me so I can save it for marriage.



Isn't there something in Talmud that says.." Don't sin.....but if you 'must' sin, put on dark clothes, pull a hat down over your face, go to a city where you aren't known, sin there and then come home and speak of it no more" ?

You're saying they knew about Vegas back then?
:laugh: :laugh:

I think it was for single guys who couldn't concentrate because of certain unfulfilled needs.

I just watched some Israeli movie the other day called "The Holy Land" that was about that. A Yeshiva guy(18ish maybe) his rabbi recommends to go to a town no one knows him in and visit a prostitute so that he can then come back with focus on his studies so he goes to Tel Aviv. I don't like the idea and don't know if there is any Talmud justification behind it like the movie implied and like I believe has been implied here. I'll have to look into that.

thats just the israeli media trying to trash the religion and religious- thats why it was in a film.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 18, 2007, 11:41:38 PM
I'm single because I'm still a student, don't have my own money to start a family, and because I don't have a woman. No woman that I liked ever wanted me. Now I believe it is wrong to date unless it is for marriage but even when I didn't believe that I never had a girlfriend other than my cousin's friend for 3 days while I was in Israel when we were 13 and a French half Moroccan/half Algerian Sfardic girlfriend whom I met on Yahoo Chat. I met her one time in Jerusalem after she had already returned to her old boyfriend and afterwards she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I only kissed them on the cheek and they wouldn't let me kiss them on the lips. Now I believe it is wrong to kiss outside of marriage and I'm glad they didn't let me so I can save it for marriage.



Isn't there something in Talmud that says.." Don't sin.....but if you 'must' sin, put on dark clothes, pull a hat down over your face, go to a city where you aren't known, sin there and then come home and speak of it no more" ?

You're saying they knew about Vegas back then?
:laugh: :laugh:

I think it was for single guys who couldn't concentrate because of certain unfulfilled needs.

I just watched some Israeli movie the other day called "The Holy Land" that was about that. A Yeshiva guy(18ish maybe) his rabbi recommends to go to a town no one knows him in and visit a prostitute so that he can then come back with focus on his studies so he goes to Tel Aviv. I don't like the idea and don't know if there is any Talmud justification behind it like the movie implied and like I believe has been implied here. I'll have to look into that.

Don't take that as gospel, I read it on a website talking about the Talmud. The site wasn't anti-semitic or anything but I can't study Talmud to verify it.

BTW, have you seen the Israeli film 'Walk on Water' ?
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Shoshana on September 18, 2007, 11:46:57 PM
I'm single because I'm still a student, don't have my own money to start a family, and because I don't have a woman. No woman that I liked ever wanted me. Now I believe it is wrong to date unless it is for marriage but even when I didn't believe that I never had a girlfriend other than my cousin's friend for 3 days while I was in Israel when we were 13 and a French half Moroccan/half Algerian Sfardic girlfriend whom I met on Yahoo Chat. I met her one time in Jerusalem after she had already returned to her old boyfriend and afterwards she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I only kissed them on the cheek and they wouldn't let me kiss them on the lips. Now I believe it is wrong to kiss outside of marriage and I'm glad they didn't let me so I can save it for marriage.



Isn't there something in Talmud that says.." Don't sin.....but if you 'must' sin, put on dark clothes, pull a hat down over your face, go to a city where you aren't known, sin there and then come home and speak of it no more" ?

You're saying they knew about Vegas back then?
:laugh: :laugh:

I think it was for single guys who couldn't concentrate because of certain unfulfilled needs.

I just watched some Israeli movie the other day called "The Holy Land" that was about that. A Yeshiva guy(18ish maybe) his rabbi recommends to go to a town no one knows him in and visit a prostitute so that he can then come back with focus on his studies so he goes to Tel Aviv. I don't like the idea and don't know if there is any Talmud justification behind it like the movie implied and like I believe has been implied here. I'll have to look into that.

Don't take that as gospel, I read it on a website talking about the Talmud. The site wasn't anti-semitic or anything but I can't study Talmud to verify it.

BTW, have you seen the Israeli film 'Walk on Water' ?

Oh yes. I'm a big fan of that Lior Askenazi guy who stars in it. ;) Gorgeous man. It was a really good movie.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: EagleEye on September 18, 2007, 11:47:15 PM
Most forums seem to be populated with single people, because single people have more time on their hands. 
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Shoshana on September 18, 2007, 11:48:04 PM
I'm single because I'm still a student, don't have my own money to start a family, and because I don't have a woman. No woman that I liked ever wanted me. Now I believe it is wrong to date unless it is for marriage but even when I didn't believe that I never had a girlfriend other than my cousin's friend for 3 days while I was in Israel when we were 13 and a French half Moroccan/half Algerian Sfardic girlfriend whom I met on Yahoo Chat. I met her one time in Jerusalem after she had already returned to her old boyfriend and afterwards she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I only kissed them on the cheek and they wouldn't let me kiss them on the lips. Now I believe it is wrong to kiss outside of marriage and I'm glad they didn't let me so I can save it for marriage.



Isn't there something in Talmud that says.." Don't sin.....but if you 'must' sin, put on dark clothes, pull a hat down over your face, go to a city where you aren't known, sin there and then come home and speak of it no more" ?

You're saying they knew about Vegas back then?
:laugh: :laugh:

I think it was for single guys who couldn't concentrate because of certain unfulfilled needs.

I just watched some Israeli movie the other day called "The Holy Land" that was about that. A Yeshiva guy(18ish maybe) his rabbi recommends to go to a town no one knows him in and visit a prostitute so that he can then come back with focus on his studies so he goes to Tel Aviv. I don't like the idea and don't know if there is any Talmud justification behind it like the movie implied and like I believe has been implied here. I'll have to look into that.

thats just the israeli media trying to trash the religion and religious- thats why it was in a film.

Yeah, that's what I assumed.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Ehud on September 18, 2007, 11:48:30 PM
  Possibly because they are more intelligent than the average person......I'm in the process of divorcing a woman who I still love dearly and have two children with after ten years of marriage...........Men get the shaft in dicorce court........I'm out about a million dollars (gave her all the property) and I will still have to pay child support although she is living on the income of the rental properties...............It's OK I guess......I still have the shirt on my back....the funny (or not so funny)thing is I would take her back in a heartbeat....unfortunatley I took the to death do you part seriously, and obviously I was naive..........be careful with women, the legal system is 200% biased in their favor (I spent 6 months in jail for allegen domestic violence(just her word, no witnesses no bruises etc)....I have never raised my hand against a woman G-s forbid...I went to trisl and was found not guilty, but I still spent almost 6 months in jail.........

Be careful what you wish for.......you just might get it. ;)

I've seen this myself Bodhi, so I know exactly what you mean.  I interned with a family law attorney and I've seen situations where men have been deprived of their livelihoods because of a simple, uncorroborated claim that the husband was abusive without any showing of evidence whatsoever.

I've also seen good loving fathers take their entire days off of work in order to go to court and ask permission to spend one day of the holiday with their daughters.

Women are entitled to much more than they deserve in many cases especially if they've been horrible wives and have contributed nothing to the couple's finances.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 18, 2007, 11:52:04 PM


BTW, have you seen the Israeli film 'Walk on Water' ?

Oh yes. I'm a big fan of that Lior Askenazi guy who stars in it. ;) Gorgeous man. It was a really good movie.

It was a good film. But what I hate about Israeli films today is that they are soooo damn left.

That film had a queer who was portryed sympatheticly and the Jewish hero quit killing for the mossad and married a shiksa!! >:(

The Israeli film at Canne was about two faggot soldiers in the IDF!! >:(

Why don't the Israelis make action movies about killing arabs? They'd get more viewers.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Shoshana on September 18, 2007, 11:59:31 PM


BTW, have you seen the Israeli film 'Walk on Water' ?

Oh yes. I'm a big fan of that Lior Askenazi guy who stars in it. ;) Gorgeous man. It was a really good movie.

It was a good film. But what I hate about Israeli films today is that they are soooo damn left.

That film had a queer who was portryed sympatheticly and the Jewish hero quit killing for the mossad and married a shiksa!! >:(

The Israeli film at Canne was about two faggot soldiers in the IDF!! >:(

Why don't the Israelis make action movies about killing arabs? They'd get more viewers.

Yeah I didn't like the gay parts. Seeing gays always makes me cringe.
I never did watch that movie about the 2 soldiers. Yosi and Jagar I think was the name or something like that. I kept putting it on my netflix list but I couldn't bring myself to watch it.
I have no idea why Israelis don't make more right wing war movies. I can't think of any good ones and I watch Israeli movies constantly.
Lior Ashkenazi was also in "Late Marriage" which is another good one I think.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Shoshana on September 19, 2007, 12:00:42 AM
  Possibly because they are more intelligent than the average person......I'm in the process of divorcing a woman who I still love dearly and have two children with after ten years of marriage...........Men get the shaft in dicorce court........I'm out about a million dollars (gave her all the property) and I will still have to pay child support although she is living on the income of the rental properties...............It's OK I guess......I still have the shirt on my back....the funny (or not so funny)thing is I would take her back in a heartbeat....unfortunatley I took the to death do you part seriously, and obviously I was naive..........be careful with women, the legal system is 200% biased in their favor (I spent 6 months in jail for allegen domestic violence(just her word, no witnesses no bruises etc)....I have never raised my hand against a woman G-s forbid...I went to trisl and was found not guilty, but I still spent almost 6 months in jail.........

Be careful what you wish for.......you just might get it. ;)

I've seen this myself Bodhi, so I know exactly what you mean.  I interned with a family law attorney and I've seen situations where men have been deprived of their livelihoods because of a simple, uncorroborated claim that the husband was abusive without any showing of evidence whatsoever.

I've also seen good loving fathers take their entire days off of work in order to go to court and ask permission to spend one day of the holiday with their daughters.

Women are entitled to much more than they deserve in many cases especially if they've been horrible wives and have contributed nothing to the couple's finances.

Contributing to a couple's finances is not the only worthwhile contribution to a marriage. Children do not raise themselves.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 19, 2007, 12:03:34 AM


BTW, have you seen the Israeli film 'Walk on Water' ?

Oh yes. I'm a big fan of that Lior Askenazi guy who stars in it. ;) Gorgeous man. It was a really good movie.

It was a good film. But what I hate about Israeli films today is that they are soooo damn left.

That film had a queer who was portryed sympatheticly and the Jewish hero quit killing for the mossad and married a shiksa!! >:(

The Israeli film at Canne was about two faggot soldiers in the IDF!! >:(

Why don't the Israelis make action movies about killing arabs? They'd get more viewers.

Yeah I didn't like the gay parts. Seeing gays always makes me cringe.
I never did watch that movie about the 2 soldiers. Yosi and Jagar I think was the name or something like that. I kept putting it on my netflix list but I couldn't bring myself to watch it.
I have no idea why Israelis don't make more right wing war movies. I can't think of any good ones and I watch Israeli movies constantly.
Lior Ashkenazi was also in "Late Marriage" which is another good one I think.

It's almost as if the film industry leftists are embaressed about being Israeli, so to show the eurotrash how sorry they are, they make left, peacenik, pro-gay films.

They have talent so they could make really good mossad/ IDF action movies if they wanted.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Shoshana on September 19, 2007, 12:04:02 AM
To make it even worse, Israeli films are subsidized by the government. What kind of country pays for films? Why can't the producers pay for it themselves?

I went to an Israeli Film Festival at The Jewish Community Center many years ago and they complained that the government doesn't subsidize them enough. Israeli films are generally even trashier than your average Hollywood film. They just produce garbage. There used to be good ones though. There was one with nudity that was on government TV, not even cable. It was called Eskimo Limon (Lemon Popsicle).



I didn't know they were government subsidized. As if Israel needs to be taking foreign aid while wasteing it's own money on these films.
I would agree that Israeli films tend to be trashier. If I wanted to watch something X rated I would rent it- half the time I just sit down to what I think will be a nice Israeli movie and I have to sit through 20 minutes of casual sex. "Late Marriage" is the perfect example of that. You see it here as well though with trash in film.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: raiseyourfist on September 19, 2007, 01:14:03 AM
Fun lovin' Criminals, Columbia's leading rock band once wrote a good song about this:

http://www.cduniverse.com/productinfo.asp?pid=6197538&BAB=Z


"Stray Bullet"

"Ive got nothing to live for, aint got no wife or baby... we all bathe in the same blood.. and we all breathe in the crazy"

WERE GONNA CATCH THAT STRAY BULLET
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 19, 2007, 01:58:07 AM
Single and tips? My only tip is to only date someone of your religion. My religious situation is COMPLICATED so I have had a hard time dating in my young life.  :'( (My young life = early 20s)


How could you be single, you clever little cookie? ;)
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 19, 2007, 02:05:45 AM
Single and tips? My only tip is to only date someone of your religion. My religious situation is COMPLICATED so I have had a hard time dating in my young life.  :'( (My young life = early 20s)


How could you be single, you clever little cookie? ;)

It is my complicated religious life that causes such tragedy :( But thanks Newman, you are very kind.

It's hard if you're a noachide, I know that.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Vito on September 19, 2007, 02:08:55 AM
Newman, you're a Noachide.. it's a mitzvah for you to get married and multiply!  ;D
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 19, 2007, 02:12:32 AM
Newman, you're a Noachide.. it's a mitzvah for you to get married and multiply!  ;D

I'm a 'bad seed'. I'm sure it's a sin to breed little monsters.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 19, 2007, 02:22:22 AM
Newman, you have been so kind to me that I added you to my Map of the world.
http://i192.photobucket.com/albums/z64/dsternbaum/Mapoftheworld.jpg
I found the map online and edited it. BTW, you are not inthe New Zealand section, you are in the Australia section (But the map was kind of messed up to begin with)

Aren't you sweet. :-*
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: White Israelite on September 19, 2007, 09:53:59 AM
I can't keep a girlfriend because they all hate the fact I have guns. It just seems like so many Jewish girls are liberal.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Lisa on September 19, 2007, 10:04:14 AM
It also seems like so many Jewish men are left wing.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: White Israelite on September 19, 2007, 10:07:58 AM
It also seems like so many Jewish men are left wing.

Heck I won't disagree with that, politics has kept me separate from my Jewish friends because so many of them are left wing. It makes me feel sick to hear them support homosexual marriage and 'civil rights' for blacks.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: raiseyourfist on September 19, 2007, 11:29:53 AM
It also seems like so many Jewish men are left wing.

There are a lot of PC scum amongst men Lisa, but i think that the trend is changing for the better with more right wing people...

At least i hope this is the case for both men and women
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Tzvi Ben Roshel1 on September 19, 2007, 12:06:42 PM
The only answer for Jews is to become religious and marry a religious Jew. Most non-religious Jews are self-hating and have pre-marital sex. I only want to marry a virgin.



http://www.kolyakov.org/rav_daniel_cohen.html

-Click on the lectures - Dating and Marriage- it teaches a Jew what to do before getting married and what to do etc.
 remember every second of learning Torah is like doing all of the 613 Commandments.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 19, 2007, 03:50:06 PM

LOL. I cant. I am converting through Chabad. And in my soul I only want to marry a religious and observant Jewish man and have Jewish children. Even if I have to wait a bit to get that, I will. Marrying a noahide at the same time as I am converting or even dating someone who is not interested in coverting to Judaism is not acceptable to me because in the end, my destiny is Judaism.
 :laugh:

I'm glad you're converting, Mills. What an asset to the Children of Israel you'll be, too. :)
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: New Yorker on September 19, 2007, 03:53:08 PM


Ever notice that converts are waaaaay more zealous than those born to the religion?  :D
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Sarah on September 19, 2007, 03:57:22 PM
I can't keep a girlfriend because they all hate the fact I have guns. It just seems like so many Jewish girls are liberal.

Hide the Guns!!! :D
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Dexter on September 19, 2007, 04:00:20 PM
I can't keep a girlfriend because they all hate the fact I have guns. It just seems like so many Jewish girls are liberal.
Why do you have guns anyway ?
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: New Yorker on September 19, 2007, 04:01:33 PM

Don't talk about the guns. Then one day, innocently take her on an "adventurous" date to the gun range, an outing, you don't own guns, you're just going on an unusual exiting date, where she'll get all excited shooting the guns you rented at the range. Pretty soon, she'll be asking when are you going to buy some.  ;D
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: New Yorker on September 19, 2007, 04:03:50 PM
Why?

Guns make bad people go away. Thats why.  ;)
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Sarah on September 19, 2007, 04:11:56 PM
Why?

Guns make bad people go away. Thats why.  ;)

Guns are also used by bad people to murder innocent good people. It works either way, depending on the person who is in control.

Vito you're only 23 and getting into politics, so much so that you are being voted for! Thats so cool....how did you get that far?
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: takebackourtemple on September 19, 2007, 08:06:42 PM
Why?

Guns make bad people go away. Thats why.  ;)

Guns are also used by bad people to murder innocent good people. It works either way, depending on the person who is in control.

Vito you're only 23 and getting into politics, so much so that you are being voted for! Thats so cool....how did you get that far?

   In an ideal world there would be peace on earth and there would be no need for guns except maybe enjoyment for people who love target practice. Personally I don't feel that they were intended for excessive hunting, but that is a different debate.
   I'll be honest. I don't fulfill my civic duty as an American of bearing arms. I personally don't like them. I do on the other hand admire heroes such as Bernard Goetz for exercising their right to self defense. I disagree with this being vigilantism. He simply used the firearm to defend himself. If he used it to protect a stranger, that would be vigilantism. Of course exercising the right to self defense delivers a positive message to both the good and bad guys.
   Bad people get a hold of the guns illegally, therefore, good people need to acquire them to balance this out.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Kiwi on September 19, 2007, 08:18:27 PM
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Than the average Joe like me

Vito heres a tip for you, many women when they get over an age are looking for things much different from a 20 year old.

I really don't know how old you are, but on average the older women get the looks are less important on the fella.

If they are normal real women, not stick bugs thinking they are straight from a glossy mag, are looking for companionship and stable relationship.

My first too husbands we very handsome guys,  the break ups was because so did every other female below 25 think that too.  :-\

But the my new fella is well not handsome by any means, but respectful, loving caring and a real man. And now being 33 myself I am looking for a better class of man, than just a Ken Doll.

I think you need to settle on the type of woman that suits you, not the type you think you should have.

Theres always a huge difference in the too.





I'm 23, but the problem is I act much older than 23. Plus I live in New York City, which is only 25% white - less than half of that 25% are young, and of the young people, most of them are wiggers/white trash, so I'm in a bad situation right now.

You still a young fella, you have time.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks on September 19, 2007, 08:19:41 PM

Bag a leftist chick if you have to. Then you don't have to feel guilty about not calling her next weekend.
That really was uncalled for, Newman. This is a religious forum.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 19, 2007, 08:51:11 PM

Bag a leftist chick if you have to. Then you don't have to feel guilty about not calling her next weekend.
That really was uncalled for, Newman. This is a religious forum.

Newman is right. There is no prohibition for a gentile to have a gentile girlfriend and having sex before marriage.

They should make it clear that they are NOT married so as to avoid the adultery laws.

Still my Rabbi says that these days, when they are ready, gentiles should try to settle down with one woman and get married.


Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: New Yorker on September 19, 2007, 09:30:45 PM

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I'm 23, but the problem is I act much older than 23. Plus I live in New York City, which is only 25% white - less than half of that 25% are young, and of the young people, most of them are wiggers/white trash, so I'm in a bad situation right now.


I live in NYC too, do what I do, LEAVE THE CITY TO MEET WOMEN. My friend and I got sick of the nasty women in NYC so we travel to Pennsylvania for weekend mini vacations and we go out and meet women there, when you get out of this city into a more rural area, more than half the nastiness and associated BS with the women disappears, hell, even NJ is better than NY. No time for travel, use the internet.  :)
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Joe Schmo on September 19, 2007, 09:33:23 PM
Guns are also used by bad people to murder innocent good people.

Those innocent people would stand a good chance of survival if they were armed and ready.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 19, 2007, 09:37:12 PM
Guns are also used by bad people to murder innocent good people.

Those innocent people would stand a good chance of survival if they were armed and ready.

Max' security prison cell searches routinely find guns. Bad people ALWAYS get guns no matter what the laws.

If good people have no guns, they are completely defenseless against not only criminals but their own governments, too.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: New Yorker on September 19, 2007, 09:41:12 PM


It's every adult's responsiblity to maximize their ability to defend themselves and their families. You can't depend on the police.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 19, 2007, 09:43:48 PM


It's every adult's responsiblity to maximize their ability to defend themselves and their families. You can't depend on the police.

All the cops can do is put up yellow tape and draw chalk outlines after the crims are done with you.

Relying on government for ANYTHING (income, a house, healthcare OR protection) is foolish.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Kiwi on September 20, 2007, 06:45:48 AM


It's every adult's responsiblity to maximize their ability to defend themselves and their families. You can't depend on the police.

I totally agree I was married to a cop they are worse than the crims here.  :-\
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Shoshana on September 20, 2007, 08:53:55 AM


It's every adult's responsiblity to maximize their ability to defend themselves and their families. You can't depend on the police.

I totally agree I was married to a cop they are worse than the crims here.  :-\

I don't think that's the way he meant that or I certainly hope not. As someone with a law enforcement background myself, every man in my family has a law enforcement background  and who is currently dating a cop, was married to one etc- That is just a horrible generalization. Just wait until you need to call 911 and see how much you want to bad mouth the police then!
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Kiwi on September 20, 2007, 09:11:00 AM


It's every adult's responsiblity to maximize their ability to defend themselves and their families. You can't depend on the police.

I totally agree I was married to a cop they are worse than the crims here.  :-\

I don't think that's the way he meant that or I certainly hope not. As someone with a law enforcement background myself, every man in my family has a law enforcement background  and who is currently dating a cop, was married to one etc- That is just a horrible generalization. Just wait until you need to call 911 and see how much you want to bad mouth the police then!

I said HERE

Not the USA.

And here you are far better off not having them. this town 250,000 people and only three cops on at night. you call and wait nearly 4 hours maybe more for assistence. Yesterday a 14 year girl was raped at 4:45pm on a open public street near a school, and the cops took 3 and 1/2 hours to attend.

And we don't call 911 we call 000.  ::)
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: raiseyourfist on September 20, 2007, 10:02:12 AM
The only answer for Jews is to become religious and marry a religious Jew. Most non-religious Jews are self-hating and have pre-marital sex. I only want to marry a virgin.



Yacov i was discussing this with someone else on the forum...

i disagree strongly... in the holocaust most of the people fighting back against the nazi's were not religeous at all especially in the warsaw ghetto uprising....

moreover many of the people that rabbai kahane was able to gain support from were the non religeous jews...

I CAN SEE WHERE YOUR COMING FROM WHEN YOU MAKE SUCH STATEMENTS BUT IT ISN'T TRUE
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Vito on September 20, 2007, 11:15:26 AM
Why?

Guns make bad people go away. Thats why.  ;)

Guns are also used by bad people to murder innocent good people. It works either way, depending on the person who is in control.

Vito you're only 23 and getting into politics, so much so that you are being voted for! Thats so cool....how did you get that far?

Well it was a mix of anger, inspiration and self determination that got me into politics... people voting for me simply agree with my ideas. G-d willing I'll win and have an influence on New York City. Thanks for the support  ;)



Quote

I'm 23, but the problem is I act much older than 23. Plus I live in New York City, which is only 25% white - less than half of that 25% are young, and of the young people, most of them are wiggers/white trash, so I'm in a bad situation right now.


I live in NYC too, do what I do, LEAVE THE CITY TO MEET WOMEN. My friend and I got sick of the nasty women in NYC so we travel to Pennsylvania for weekend mini vacations and we go out and meet women there, when you get out of this city into a more rural area, more than half the nastiness and associated BS with the women disappears, hell, even NJ is better than NY. No time for travel, use the internet.  :)



I want to find a girl from Minnesota.. I adore those tall, blond Scandinavian snow bunnies... hopefully I'll find one that cooks and acts like an Italian.  ;)

Where in PA do you go to meet women?
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: White Israelite on September 20, 2007, 04:40:47 PM
I can't keep a girlfriend because they all hate the fact I have guns. It just seems like so many Jewish girls are liberal.
Why do you have guns anyway ?

Because Hitler slaughtered our people after disarming them. I think that's enough reason to own guns. Torah demands self defense, if someone is coming to kill you, kill them first.

The reality is we live in a violent world, the criminals will always have guns regardless of our laws. Do not be a victim, having a gun and knowing how to use it is important. If I were president of this country, i'd send every Jew a Galil .223 for free.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Sarah on September 20, 2007, 04:42:18 PM
I can't keep a girlfriend because they all hate the fact I have guns. It just seems like so many Jewish girls are liberal.
Why do you have guns anyway ?

Because Hitler slaughtered our people after disarming them. I think that's enough reason to own guns. Torah demands self defense, if someone is coming to kill you, kill them first.

The thing is, do you really walk around in Broad daylight or on the streets with these weapons?
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: White Israelite on September 20, 2007, 04:45:56 PM
I can't keep a girlfriend because they all hate the fact I have guns. It just seems like so many Jewish girls are liberal.
Why do you have guns anyway ?

Because Hitler slaughtered our people after disarming them. I think that's enough reason to own guns. Torah demands self defense, if someone is coming to kill you, kill them first.

The thing is, do you really walk around in Broad daylight or on the streets with these weapons?

I keep my scary black rifles in a gun safe. I have a variety of handguns for different purposes, some are for the shooting range, others are my carry guns. I keep a fullsize handgun near my nightstand and when I go to work, it gets locked up. When I go to work, I wear my H&K USP .45 compact on my waistband near my kidney and I normally wear a hawaiian type shirt that conceals the gun. Other days, I will carry a SIG P226 or a CZ75. I have a concealment permit. I carry my guns everywhere, if a store or federal property says "Gun Free Zone" I simply refuse to do business there and will not enter the property. No one in the streets would even know I carry a gun nor is it their business.

"When seconds count, the police are only minutes away"
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Bodhi on September 20, 2007, 04:56:03 PM
  I just saw a funny quote....something like, I don't think I'll get married again, I'll just find a woman who doesn't like me and buy her a house.......Actually I was just thinking, if I had to go to prison because of something like what happened in Chaims' case, would the woman be faithful, stand by me and be there for me when I got out?  Sadly this kind of thinking probably would disqualify 99.9% of the women I know......kind of depressing......I hope there is still one decent woman out there somewhere for me......but with society the way it is now days it makes me wonder sometimes.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: kellymaureen on September 20, 2007, 04:56:29 PM
Nothing wrong with guns, my dad was a military man, we always had them in the house and were taught to respect them.  As my brother says...suckers call 911, the police come in time to secure a crime scene and take pictures of the body...if you can defend yourself it wont be your body.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Sarah on September 20, 2007, 05:02:18 PM
I can't keep a girlfriend because they all hate the fact I have guns. It just seems like so many Jewish girls are liberal.
Why do you have guns anyway ?

Because Hitler slaughtered our people after disarming them. I think that's enough reason to own guns. Torah demands self defense, if someone is coming to kill you, kill them first.

The thing is, do you really walk around in Broad daylight or on the streets with these weapons?

I keep my scary black rifles in a gun safe. I have a variety of handguns for different purposes, some are for the shooting range, others are my carry guns. I keep a fullsize handgun near my nightstand and when I go to work, it gets locked up. When I go to work, I wear my H&K USP .45 compact on my waistband near my kidney and I normally wear a hawaiian type shirt that conceals the gun. Other days, I will carry a SIG P226 or a CZ75. I have a concealment permit. I carry my guns everywhere, if a store or federal property says "Gun Free Zone" I simply refuse to do business there and will not enter the property. No one in the streets would even know I carry a gun nor is it their business.

"When seconds count, the police are only minutes away"

Wow, you're very prepared.
I actually agree now that its a good idea to own firearms. Is it possible to get hold of stun-guns or tazers?
Here in Britain possessing firearms gets you a prison sentence. Though the emergency services are extremely quick here, I remember when we called the fire service after the electricity meter blew up...they came round in less then 2minutes. Though I guess in those 2 minutes you could be dead.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: White Israelite on September 20, 2007, 07:27:11 PM
I can't keep a girlfriend because they all hate the fact I have guns. It just seems like so many Jewish girls are liberal.
Why do you have guns anyway ?

Because Hitler slaughtered our people after disarming them. I think that's enough reason to own guns. Torah demands self defense, if someone is coming to kill you, kill them first.

The thing is, do you really walk around in Broad daylight or on the streets with these weapons?

I keep my scary black rifles in a gun safe. I have a variety of handguns for different purposes, some are for the shooting range, others are my carry guns. I keep a fullsize handgun near my nightstand and when I go to work, it gets locked up. When I go to work, I wear my H&K USP .45 compact on my waistband near my kidney and I normally wear a hawaiian type shirt that conceals the gun. Other days, I will carry a SIG P226 or a CZ75. I have a concealment permit. I carry my guns everywhere, if a store or federal property says "Gun Free Zone" I simply refuse to do business there and will not enter the property. No one in the streets would even know I carry a gun nor is it their business.

"When seconds count, the police are only minutes away"

Wow, you're very prepared.
I actually agree now that its a good idea to own firearms. Is it possible to get hold of stun-guns or tazers?
Here in Britain possessing firearms gets you a prison sentence. Though the emergency services are extremely quick here, I remember when we called the fire service after the electricity meter blew up...they came round in less then 2minutes. Though I guess in those 2 minutes you could be dead.

I see, you are in the UK, I did not realize this. In the US, the Jews have an unfair stereotype by the public of being Anti-Gun due to a large amount of our politicians of Jewish background being liberal, even many of our republican ones take a very strict approach when it comes towards firearms, unfortunately this just gives neo nazis more ammo to promote their hate against us and other uneducated folks assume the same thing. I hate the image of being anti-gun as I am extremely pro gun. There is even a Jewish organization that supports gun rights known as the JPFO. Their website is http://www.jpfo.org . I am a member and I've ordered a few of their dvd's, pretty good stuff.

It is possible to obtain stun guns and tazers in the US however they are not considered as effective as a firearm as they have limited range, you must be extremely close (this is normally the civilian version).

I've researched a few militant neo nazi groups in the UK and you would be surprised at how well armed these guys are, they are known as Combat 18 (Blood & Honour), if you do a search for Combat 18 on youtube, these guys have rifles and handguns yet the majority of the civilian populance in the UK cannot legally obtain these weapons due to them being banned. It's a scary thought that the Nazis are the only ones able to get these weapons in the UK yet it isn't possible for the civilians to protect themselves against this scum.

In the US, firearms have always been available to some degree or another, our original gun control laws were meant to disarm blacks and those that weren't considered white as a form of "crime control". Politicians targeted cheap weapons known as "Saturday Night Specials" labeling them unsafe and even banned import of them into the country. They were domestically manufactured instead, however many states like California and New York, Illinois and others banned them regardless although the majority of cheap firearms now have adequate safety. My experience alone from living in Chicago where there is strict gun control is that there was more crime there than my redneck area in Florida where the majority own a gun yet the murder rate is non existant here. I have never had to use my gun however I do enjoy carrying it around as I feel that I do not have to rely or depend on someone else for security and safety, I like to feel self reliable. I feel the need to be responsible when carrying around a weapon and become a better law abiding citizen as a result. I've also learned to avoid unnecessary confrontations and arguments by just walking away knowing what i'm carrying. I would say gun ownership overall has been a positive experience at least from my view.

The police response time is very true, while calling 911 may help, in many cases if someones already in your home, the responsibility of your life is in the criminals hands, and I do not like that. This is where seconds can change the outcome of life and death. It is better to kill in self defense than to be killed. My ideal thought on gun ownership is that it is better to have a gun and not need it than to need a gun and not have it.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: RationalThought110 on September 20, 2007, 07:58:21 PM


moreover many of the people that rabbai kahane was able to gain support from were the non religeous jews...



I'm not trying to change the subject, but how did he do this?  Wasn't it the most liberal ones who would accuse him of being a racist?
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: White Israelite on September 20, 2007, 08:11:15 PM
I supported Kahane when I was secular as well, mainly because it seemed like Kahane had some guts to stick up for the Jewish state of Israel. It completely defeated the image of Jews being seen as weak quiet people and with Kahane it felt like he brought back pride to being Jewish.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Sarah on September 21, 2007, 04:46:17 PM
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The police response time is very true, while calling 911 may help, in many cases if someones already in your home, the responsibility of your life is in the criminals hands, and I do not like that. This is where seconds can change the outcome of life and death. It is better to kill in self defense than to be killed. My ideal thought on gun ownership is that it is better to have a gun and not need it than to need a gun and not have it.

Quite a while back there was a big case here in the U.K in which a man shot-he owned a rifle since he lived on a farm- a burglar inside his house -who was armed with an axe- the man said that he acted in self-defense though received a life sentence in prison and was charged with murder. Apparently there are lots of rules about attacking people who forcefully enter your home and try to harm you, you have to shoot them in the knee caps or do nothing whatsoever. Burglars can even sue!
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: White Israelite on September 22, 2007, 09:32:12 PM
Quote
The police response time is very true, while calling 911 may help, in many cases if someones already in your home, the responsibility of your life is in the criminals hands, and I do not like that. This is where seconds can change the outcome of life and death. It is better to kill in self defense than to be killed. My ideal thought on gun ownership is that it is better to have a gun and not need it than to need a gun and not have it.

Quite a while back there was a big case here in the U.K in which a man shot-he owned a rifle since he lived on a farm- a burglar inside his house -who was armed with an axe- the man said that he acted in self-defense though received a life sentence in prison and was charged with murder. Apparently there are lots of rules about attacking people who forcefully enter your home and try to harm you, you have to shoot them in the knee caps or do nothing whatsoever. Burglars can even sue!

In Florida, we have the castle doctrine law which allows us to use deadly force if our lives are in danger. I heard about that in the UK, rediculous. Rather be tried by 12 than carried by 6.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: MarZutra on September 22, 2007, 11:38:35 PM
I'd like to find one.....just one....  woman that acts like a lady wants to be treated like a lady and doesn't wish to abandon her biological clock for a "Presidential" chair for some corporate entity.  One that hasn't been infected by mind numbing Liberalism/Leftism is also a rarity these days.  Now women that haven't "embraced" diversity or welcomed shvartzism's "urban culture" is another aspect here in "Politically correct" dumbed down International socialist welfare state of Canadakstan....or Canadoon....
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Boeregeneraal on September 23, 2007, 12:32:51 AM
It's not marriage I object to. I don't want children. I have to wait until the women in my age group have run out of eggs.

Oh come on Newman.. we have to multiply as many good people as we can. You having children would only help the cause that much more!

The world is no place for children.
Scriabin's comment is one of my reasons. The others are expense and pure lifestyle choice. I turn 40 in November. If you think I'm having horrible phsycotic teenagers in my home when I'm in my late 50s or early 60s, think again.

Newman, should you have teenagers, it does not necesarrily mean they will be useless waste as is all of today's western teenagers!
DISCIPLINE DISCIPLINE DISCIPLINE (spank the basterds when they deserve it!)
Look at the Boers, most of the older generation NEVER was what is today! NEVER!
Why, because they strongly believed in the Tanach/Torah, and they were disciplined-they worked, did not sit behind stupid TV all day doing evil.

Strict and religious DISCIPLINE
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on September 23, 2007, 12:39:35 AM

Scriabin's comment is one of my reasons. The others are expense and pure lifestyle choice. I turn 40 in November. If you think I'm having horrible phsycotic teenagers in my home when I'm in my late 50s or early 60s, think again.

Newman, should you have teenagers, it does not necesarrily mean they will be useless waste as is all of today's western teenagers!
DISCIPLINE DISCIPLINE DISCIPLINE (spank the basterds when they deserve it!)
Look at the Boers, most of the older generation NEVER was what is today! NEVER!
Why, because they strongly believed in the Tanach/Torah, and they were disciplined-they worked, did not sit behind stupid TV all day doing evil.

Strict and religious DISCIPLINE

Unfortunately they send social workers around to the primary schools here telling 7 year olds that their parents 'CAN'T hit them' and they can all 'do as they please'. What hope do parents have today?
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: New Yorker on September 23, 2007, 02:05:51 AM

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Unfortunately they send social workers around to the primary schools here telling 7 year olds that their parents 'CAN'T hit them' and they can all 'do as they please'. What hope do parents have today?

Band together and take back control! Take back your society from the piece of s**t braindead left wing dogooder pc nazis. Vote, petition, protest, raise hell. It's time, enough is enough!
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Merkava on October 19, 2007, 04:13:00 PM
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DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY TIPS TO FIND THE RIGHT PERSON?

YES !!!!

1) Confidence - Act it, Fake it, Grow it !!!!
2) Be a challenge - don't make yourself too available. Learn how to say no.
3) Everytime you meet a girl, after building some rapport ask for the home phone number
4) Don't pour out your guts in your dates. Keep it light, upbeat and funny  :D
5) If a girl says no - it means no. No amount of persuasion will make her like you.
6) 1st date : Coffee @ Starbucks. Why ? Its neutral territory and it weeds out the Gold Diggers.
7) Be a gentleman !!!!!!!!!!! Always ...good manners are a priority !!!!
8) Watch loads of Cary Grant movies. You have to be smooth with class.
9) Make sure she likes you more than what you like her. If you like her way too much then you do silly things  :-\
10) Jealousy/Macho Boys are a turn off.
11) Don't talk about future dates when you are in a date.
12) Watch out for red flags - inconsistencies (she says one thing and does the other), broken dates etc.
13) Don't beg - only if she has an AK 47 pointed to your head
14) She has got to be single .....no boyfirend lurking in the background.
15) If she cheats .......she is out ! Taking her back is saying to her that its okay and she'll do it again.
16) Once you break up its for good. Getting back together only works in Hollywood.
17) Watch how she treats other people (waiters, cleaners etc)
18) Never let her know that she got to you if she is trying to make you jealous.
19) Don't argue -its not loving
20) Start dating as many women as you can - its a numbers game and its a jungle out there !

Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: kellymaureen on October 20, 2007, 12:06:45 AM
Finding the right person seems to be mostly luck, being in the right place at the right time ;)
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Merkava on October 20, 2007, 01:26:53 AM
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Finding the right person seems to be mostly luck, being in the right place at the right time

Finding the right person is a game of numbers - the hard part is keeping them
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Vito on October 20, 2007, 02:04:09 PM

20) Start dating as many women as you can - its a numbers game and its a jungle out there !



 :::D :::D :::D That'll be the day for me
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: MarZutra on October 21, 2007, 10:34:06 AM
Because I HATE shvartzism and Leftists.  Most women today are brainwashed Leftists and profess to the idolization of shvartzism...at least here in Canada... :'(
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Merkava on October 21, 2007, 01:11:57 PM
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I knew some of this already, but it still good advice that I'll keep in mind. Cary Grant?

Well spotted ! Yes I think he is a role model when it comes to dating. Funny how you get all these retards running around trying to be 50 pence.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: newman on October 22, 2007, 05:05:33 AM
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I knew some of this already, but it still good advice that I'll keep in mind. Cary Grant?

Well spotted ! Yes I think he is a role model when it comes to dating. Funny how you get all these retards running around trying to be 50 pence.

The Hugh Grant "Oh, I'm so terribly shy & embarressed" look seems to work a treat. I tried immitating it but I'm too evil for it to work.
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Boeregeneraal on October 22, 2007, 08:43:25 AM
I would kill the basterd that brakes in, and just dig a hole in the backyard, throw the scum in there...and hopefully no problems from the cops. Which is unlikely i guess  :( :-\

Im a decreaser, not increaser.  hahahhahahahahahahahah (get it?)  :D :D :D
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: Sarah on October 22, 2007, 02:23:11 PM
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I knew some of this already, but it still good advice that I'll keep in mind. Cary Grant?

Well spotted ! Yes I think he is a role model when it comes to dating. Funny how you get all these retards running around trying to be 50 pence.

The Hugh Grant "Oh, I'm so terribly shy & embarressed" look seems to work a treat. I tried immitating it but I'm too evil for it to work.

Hugh Grant is wonderful! ;D
Title: Re: Why are so many people here single?
Post by: MarZutra on October 22, 2007, 02:46:36 PM
Finding the right person seems to be mostly luck, being in the right place at the right time ;)
Comparable to searching for a diamond in a toilet....