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Title: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on November 30, 2007, 10:38:39 AM
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Dr. Dan is in the house! Ok, pardon the pun...it's very niggardly of me to say it that way....

Nevertheless, I have been asked to moderate or answer some questions about dating and love and maybe even dentistry on this part of the forum.  I would suggest that if you have a direct question for me, put as the title of the thread, "A question to Dr. Dan about...."and then put the question right after that, so I don't have to sift through everything.

I have to give a disclaimer however.  My views may not be the same views as JTF or Torah Judaism and is merely advice and not a definite answer.  I would request for you guys to keep it as clean as possible and if it is something very private and explesive, to be as oblique as you can to describe what you want to say.

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Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: nessuno on November 30, 2007, 11:11:18 AM
Not true!  It is not niggardly for you to say it that way.

I remember when I was a little girl - They always yelled that out in cartoons when one of the characters got hurt.

Is there a Doctor in the house?  8;)

It's nice to have a specialist within the ranks  O0
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 01, 2007, 07:04:17 PM
I have one question for the Love Doctor: Is your Rabbi a lesbian? What about your cantor?

My rabbi nor cantor are lesbians...
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: newman on December 01, 2007, 08:30:44 PM
Dr Dan,

Does you synagogue allow gay marriage?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Jasmina on December 01, 2007, 10:03:06 PM
What makes you an Expert on Love, Dr. ?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 02:19:24 AM
Dr Dan,

Does you synagogue allow gay marriage?

no officially...but the rabbi of the synogogue my family belongs to decreed that he woudl accept it.  He mentioned it on Yom Kippur...ME and my parents were really pissed off about it...wanted to kick him square in the nuts!
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 02:20:34 AM
What does your rabbi have to say about "da n*ggas goin' wit all da wimmenz"?



I'm not sure specifically what my rabbi says about da ni ggas...but I'm sure deep inside he thinks what they do is inappropriate while at teh same time he's on the outside politically correct about da ni ggas.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 02:21:20 AM
What makes you an Expert on Love, Dr. ?

I have no clue if I am an expert...But i have broken enough hearts and have had my heart broken enough times that I can give advice based on my experiences...
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 02:22:41 AM
Guys...keep on comin' with the questions...this is a good spot for me to answer anything you are curious about.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: newman on December 02, 2007, 02:23:27 AM
Dr Dan,

Does you synagogue allow gay marriage?

no officially...but the rabbi of the synogogue my family belongs to decreed that he woudl accept it.  He mentioned it on Yom Kippur...ME and my parents were really pissed off about it...wanted to kick him square in the nuts!
What about marriage to trans-sexuals?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 02:27:20 AM
Dr Dan,

Does you synagogue allow gay marriage?

no officially...but the rabbi of the synogogue my family belongs to decreed that he woudl accept it.  He mentioned it on Yom Kippur...ME and my parents were really pissed off about it...wanted to kick him square in the nuts!
What about marriage to trans-sexuals?


Eegad!! i haven't heard him mention anything about those freaks!

btw, have you ever seen one before?  They presence is so confusing!  At one moment you think one is a woman, but it really isn't....YIKES!!!!
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: newman on December 02, 2007, 02:30:00 AM
What's their stand on gay adoption?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 02:31:30 AM
What's their stand on gay adoption?

If my rabbis  cool with gay marraige then I'm sure he's cool with adoption by gay parents.

Oddly enough I only agree with gays adopting kids, but not getting married...I would rather a child have loving gay parents than no parents at all.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: newman on December 02, 2007, 02:34:17 AM
What's their stand on gay adoption?

If my rabbis  cool with gay marraige then I'm sure he's cool with adoption by gay parents.

Oddly enough I only agree with gays adopting kids, but not getting married...I would rather a child have loving gay parents than no parents at all.

You've a problem with them getting married but NONE with them havomy sodomy and feces-eating sessions in front of children?!!!?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 02:41:30 AM
What's their stand on gay adoption?

If my rabbis  cool with gay marraige then I'm sure he's cool with adoption by gay parents.

Oddly enough I only agree with gays adopting kids, but not getting married...I would rather a child have loving gay parents than no parents at all.

You've a problem with them getting married but NONE with them havomy sodomy and feces-eating sessions in front of children?!!!?

No i think sodomy is inappropriate and i can't speak for a homosexual because i dont' know what it's like to be in their shoes.  yes, there are some who promote it and are proud...and that's even more evil...Others, keep it quiet and live their lives. Many of those who are like that are majority sweet people...smart, educated, clean, affectionate...but not all are like that.  There are a few who are homosexual and who believe in monogomy and are comfortable enough to be with their partner for the rest of their lives. yes, I think it's inappropriate and immoral...but I can't stop them from that kind of life style...All I can say is that i disagree with it and that it is inappropriate. But the bottom line...if they have that loving home, an orphan preferbly one that nobody else wants to adopt, is better off being in their home than being in no one's home with no parents.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: newman on December 02, 2007, 02:46:55 AM
What's their stand on gay adoption?

If my rabbis  cool with gay marraige then I'm sure he's cool with adoption by gay parents.

Oddly enough I only agree with gays adopting kids, but not getting married...I would rather a child have loving gay parents than no parents at all.

You've a problem with them getting married but NONE with them havomy sodomy and feces-eating sessions in front of children?!!!?

No i think sodomy is inappropriate and i can't speak for a homosexual because i dont' know what it's like to be in their shoes.  yes, there are some who promote it and are proud...and that's even more evil...Others, keep it quiet and live their lives. Many of those who are like that are majority sweet people...smart, educated, clean, affectionate...but not all are like that.  There are a few who are homosexual and who believe in monogomy and are comfortable enough to be with their partner for the rest of their lives. yes, I think it's inappropriate and immoral...but I can't stop them from that kind of life style...All I can say is that i disagree with it and that it is inappropriate. But the bottom line...if they have that loving home, an orphan preferbly one that nobody else wants to adopt, is better off being in their home than being in no one's home with no parents.
Danny you're naive.

Fags don't really want kids. They don't have women's biological clock.

They only want to USE kids as a prop to gain respectability and acceptance from mainstream society.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 03:02:33 AM
What's their stand on gay adoption?

If my rabbis  cool with gay marraige then I'm sure he's cool with adoption by gay parents.

Oddly enough I only agree with gays adopting kids, but not getting married...I would rather a child have loving gay parents than no parents at all.

You've a problem with them getting married but NONE with them havomy sodomy and feces-eating sessions in front of children?!!!?

No i think sodomy is inappropriate and i can't speak for a homosexual because i dont' know what it's like to be in their shoes.  yes, there are some who promote it and are proud...and that's even more evil...Others, keep it quiet and live their lives. Many of those who are like that are majority sweet people...smart, educated, clean, affectionate...but not all are like that.  There are a few who are homosexual and who believe in monogomy and are comfortable enough to be with their partner for the rest of their lives. yes, I think it's inappropriate and immoral...but I can't stop them from that kind of life style...All I can say is that i disagree with it and that it is inappropriate. But the bottom line...if they have that loving home, an orphan preferbly one that nobody else wants to adopt, is better off being in their home than being in no one's home with no parents.
Danny you're naive.

Fags don't really want kids. They don't have women's biological clock.

They only want to USE kids as a prop to gain respectability and acceptance from mainstream society.

I woudlnt' be surprised if that was how the majority really felt...but my point here was that lesser of two evils is that a child have loving gay parents over no parents at all.  Of course much much much better with loving straight parents than anything else...but let's just say that was not the situation.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: newman on December 02, 2007, 03:10:29 AM
What's their stand on gay adoption?

If my rabbis  cool with gay marraige then I'm sure he's cool with adoption by gay parents.

Oddly enough I only agree with gays adopting kids, but not getting married...I would rather a child have loving gay parents than no parents at all.

You've a problem with them getting married but NONE with them havomy sodomy and feces-eating sessions in front of children?!!!?

No i think sodomy is inappropriate and i can't speak for a homosexual because i dont' know what it's like to be in their shoes.  yes, there are some who promote it and are proud...and that's even more evil...Others, keep it quiet and live their lives. Many of those who are like that are majority sweet people...smart, educated, clean, affectionate...but not all are like that.  There are a few who are homosexual and who believe in monogomy and are comfortable enough to be with their partner for the rest of their lives. yes, I think it's inappropriate and immoral...but I can't stop them from that kind of life style...All I can say is that i disagree with it and that it is inappropriate. But the bottom line...if they have that loving home, an orphan preferbly one that nobody else wants to adopt, is better off being in their home than being in no one's home with no parents.
Danny you're naive.

Fags don't really want kids. They don't have women's biological clock.

They only want to USE kids as a prop to gain respectability and acceptance from mainstream society.

I woudlnt' be surprised if that was how the majority really felt...but my point here was that lesser of two evils is that a child have loving gay parents over no parents at all.  Of course much much much better with loving straight parents than anything else...but let's just say that was not the situation.
There's a huge waiting list for new-born white babies already. The only surplus is troubled or delinquent kids. Living with fags will just turn them into seriel killers. Bad idea.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 03:32:01 AM
What's their stand on gay adoption?

If my rabbis  cool with gay marraige then I'm sure he's cool with adoption by gay parents.

Oddly enough I only agree with gays adopting kids, but not getting married...I would rather a child have loving gay parents than no parents at all.

You've a problem with them getting married but NONE with them havomy sodomy and feces-eating sessions in front of children?!!!?

No i think sodomy is inappropriate and i can't speak for a homosexual because i dont' know what it's like to be in their shoes.  yes, there are some who promote it and are proud...and that's even more evil...Others, keep it quiet and live their lives. Many of those who are like that are majority sweet people...smart, educated, clean, affectionate...but not all are like that.  There are a few who are homosexual and who believe in monogomy and are comfortable enough to be with their partner for the rest of their lives. yes, I think it's inappropriate and immoral...but I can't stop them from that kind of life style...All I can say is that i disagree with it and that it is inappropriate. But the bottom line...if they have that loving home, an orphan preferbly one that nobody else wants to adopt, is better off being in their home than being in no one's home with no parents.
Danny you're naive.

Fags don't really want kids. They don't have women's biological clock.

They only want to USE kids as a prop to gain respectability and acceptance from mainstream society.

I woudlnt' be surprised if that was how the majority really felt...but my point here was that lesser of two evils is that a child have loving gay parents over no parents at all.  Of course much much much better with loving straight parents than anything else...but let's just say that was not the situation.
There's a huge waiting list for new-born white babies already. The only surplus is troubled or delinquent kids. Living with fags will just turn them into seriel killers. Bad idea.

Oh now who's being naive?!
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: newman on December 02, 2007, 03:35:24 AM
What's their stand on gay adoption?

If my rabbis  cool with gay marraige then I'm sure he's cool with adoption by gay parents.

Oddly enough I only agree with gays adopting kids, but not getting married...I would rather a child have loving gay parents than no parents at all.

You've a problem with them getting married but NONE with them havomy sodomy and feces-eating sessions in front of children?!!!?

No i think sodomy is inappropriate and i can't speak for a homosexual because i dont' know what it's like to be in their shoes.  yes, there are some who promote it and are proud...and that's even more evil...Others, keep it quiet and live their lives. Many of those who are like that are majority sweet people...smart, educated, clean, affectionate...but not all are like that.  There are a few who are homosexual and who believe in monogomy and are comfortable enough to be with their partner for the rest of their lives. yes, I think it's inappropriate and immoral...but I can't stop them from that kind of life style...All I can say is that i disagree with it and that it is inappropriate. But the bottom line...if they have that loving home, an orphan preferbly one that nobody else wants to adopt, is better off being in their home than being in no one's home with no parents.
Danny you're naive.

Fags don't really want kids. They don't have women's biological clock.

They only want to USE kids as a prop to gain respectability and acceptance from mainstream society.

I woudlnt' be surprised if that was how the majority really felt...but my point here was that lesser of two evils is that a child have loving gay parents over no parents at all.  Of course much much much better with loving straight parents than anything else...but let's just say that was not the situation.
There's a huge waiting list for new-born white babies already. The only surplus is troubled or delinquent kids. Living with fags will just turn them into seriel killers. Bad idea.

Oh now who's being naive?!

Why do people BUY babies, then? Check it out. The waiting list for babies (under 2 years old) is huge. That's why people buy babies both from the USA AND mexico.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 03:43:56 AM
What's their stand on gay adoption?

If my rabbis  cool with gay marraige then I'm sure he's cool with adoption by gay parents.

Oddly enough I only agree with gays adopting kids, but not getting married...I would rather a child have loving gay parents than no parents at all.

You've a problem with them getting married but NONE with them havomy sodomy and feces-eating sessions in front of children?!!!?

No i think sodomy is inappropriate and i can't speak for a homosexual because i dont' know what it's like to be in their shoes.  yes, there are some who promote it and are proud...and that's even more evil...Others, keep it quiet and live their lives. Many of those who are like that are majority sweet people...smart, educated, clean, affectionate...but not all are like that.  There are a few who are homosexual and who believe in monogomy and are comfortable enough to be with their partner for the rest of their lives. yes, I think it's inappropriate and immoral...but I can't stop them from that kind of life style...All I can say is that i disagree with it and that it is inappropriate. But the bottom line...if they have that loving home, an orphan preferbly one that nobody else wants to adopt, is better off being in their home than being in no one's home with no parents.
Danny you're naive.

Fags don't really want kids. They don't have women's biological clock.

They only want to USE kids as a prop to gain respectability and acceptance from mainstream society.

I woudlnt' be surprised if that was how the majority really felt...but my point here was that lesser of two evils is that a child have loving gay parents over no parents at all.  Of course much much much better with loving straight parents than anything else...but let's just say that was not the situation.
There's a huge waiting list for new-born white babies already. The only surplus is troubled or delinquent kids. Living with fags will just turn them into seriel killers. Bad idea.

Oh now who's being naive?!

Why do people BUY babies, then? Check it out. The waiting list for babies (under 2 years old) is huge. That's why people buy babies both from the USA AND mexico.


Maybe then I should clarify. In my opinion, loving straight parents should be higher up on the list than gay couples to adopt babies especially under the age of 2 years.


Same goes with teenagers and any child over the age of 2, 5, 8, 10 etc...  Bottom line, there could be some orphaned teen agers that nobody adopts and are better off with loving gay couples than no parents.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: newman on December 02, 2007, 03:46:56 AM
What's their stand on gay adoption?

If my rabbis  cool with gay marraige then I'm sure he's cool with adoption by gay parents.

Oddly enough I only agree with gays adopting kids, but not getting married...I would rather a child have loving gay parents than no parents at all.

You've a problem with them getting married but NONE with them havomy sodomy and feces-eating sessions in front of children?!!!?

No i think sodomy is inappropriate and i can't speak for a homosexual because i dont' know what it's like to be in their shoes.  yes, there are some who promote it and are proud...and that's even more evil...Others, keep it quiet and live their lives. Many of those who are like that are majority sweet people...smart, educated, clean, affectionate...but not all are like that.  There are a few who are homosexual and who believe in monogomy and are comfortable enough to be with their partner for the rest of their lives. yes, I think it's inappropriate and immoral...but I can't stop them from that kind of life style...All I can say is that i disagree with it and that it is inappropriate. But the bottom line...if they have that loving home, an orphan preferbly one that nobody else wants to adopt, is better off being in their home than being in no one's home with no parents.
Danny you're naive.

Fags don't really want kids. They don't have women's biological clock.

They only want to USE kids as a prop to gain respectability and acceptance from mainstream society.

I woudlnt' be surprised if that was how the majority really felt...but my point here was that lesser of two evils is that a child have loving gay parents over no parents at all.  Of course much much much better with loving straight parents than anything else...but let's just say that was not the situation.
There's a huge waiting list for new-born white babies already. The only surplus is troubled or delinquent kids. Living with fags will just turn them into seriel killers. Bad idea.

Oh now who's being naive?!

Why do people BUY babies, then? Check it out. The waiting list for babies (under 2 years old) is huge. That's why people buy babies both from the USA AND mexico.


Maybe then I should clarify. In my opinion, loving straight parents should be higher up on the list than gay couples to adopt babies especially under the age of 2 years.


Same goes with teenagers and any child over the age of 2, 5, 8, 10 etc...  Bottom line, there could be some orphaned teen agers that nobody adopts and are better off with loving gay couples than no parents.

Danny,

If fags are allowed to adopt it''ll create a precident and open the door for EVERYBODY to adopt.

Next thing is single men adopting! I can hardly wait to adopt that 16 year old Korean girl I've had my eye on! ::)
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on December 02, 2007, 06:19:20 AM
wow lol this is interesting  8;) :::D

Excatly how many relationships have you had Doctor  ???
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: newman on December 02, 2007, 06:22:45 AM
wow lol this is interesting  8;) :::D

Excatly how many relationships have you had Doctor  ???

I hope he confines his pre-marital 'socialising' to shiksas and doesn't defile any nice Jewish girls.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on December 02, 2007, 06:28:49 AM
wow lol this is interesting  8;) :::D

Excatly how many relationships have you had Doctor  ???

I hope he confines his pre-marital 'socialising' to shiksas and doesn't defile any nice Jewish girls.

I am wondering that  :-\
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: JTFFan on December 02, 2007, 08:19:01 AM
wow lol this is interesting  8;) :::D

Excatly how many relationships have you had Doctor  ???

I hope he confines his pre-marital 'socialising' to shiksas and doesn't defile any nice Jewish girls.

That would be a disaster if that happened. But I'm sure he's a nice doctor ;D :)
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 09:24:32 AM
What's their stand on gay adoption?

If my rabbis  cool with gay marraige then I'm sure he's cool with adoption by gay parents.

Oddly enough I only agree with gays adopting kids, but not getting married...I would rather a child have loving gay parents than no parents at all.

You've a problem with them getting married but NONE with them havomy sodomy and feces-eating sessions in front of children?!!!?

No i think sodomy is inappropriate and i can't speak for a homosexual because i dont' know what it's like to be in their shoes.  yes, there are some who promote it and are proud...and that's even more evil...Others, keep it quiet and live their lives. Many of those who are like that are majority sweet people...smart, educated, clean, affectionate...but not all are like that.  There are a few who are homosexual and who believe in monogomy and are comfortable enough to be with their partner for the rest of their lives. yes, I think it's inappropriate and immoral...but I can't stop them from that kind of life style...All I can say is that i disagree with it and that it is inappropriate. But the bottom line...if they have that loving home, an orphan preferbly one that nobody else wants to adopt, is better off being in their home than being in no one's home with no parents.
Danny you're naive.

Fags don't really want kids. They don't have women's biological clock.

They only want to USE kids as a prop to gain respectability and acceptance from mainstream society.

I woudlnt' be surprised if that was how the majority really felt...but my point here was that lesser of two evils is that a child have loving gay parents over no parents at all.  Of course much much much better with loving straight parents than anything else...but let's just say that was not the situation.
There's a huge waiting list for new-born white babies already. The only surplus is troubled or delinquent kids. Living with fags will just turn them into seriel killers. Bad idea.

Oh now who's being naive?!

Why do people BUY babies, then? Check it out. The waiting list for babies (under 2 years old) is huge. That's why people buy babies both from the USA AND mexico.


Maybe then I should clarify. In my opinion, loving straight parents should be higher up on the list than gay couples to adopt babies especially under the age of 2 years.


Same goes with teenagers and any child over the age of 2, 5, 8, 10 etc...  Bottom line, there could be some orphaned teen agers that nobody adopts and are better off with loving gay couples than no parents.

Danny,

If fags are allowed to adopt it''ll create a precident and open the door for EVERYBODY to adopt.

Next thing is single men adopting! I can hardly wait to adopt that 16 year old Korean girl I've had my eye on! ::)

Politically incorrect provisions can be made...However, you have a good point...and what stops a couple for pretending to be married to adopt a child? Personally, I konw nothing about the process...and still yo have a good point...You read into my strategy...I was actually eyeing on a 14 year old Indonesian girl (Gd forbid!)

Ok let's move the thread about gay adoption on another spot...do we have a NEW QUESTION?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 09:26:12 AM
What's their stand on gay adoption?

If my rabbis  cool with gay marraige then I'm sure he's cool with adoption by gay parents.

Oddly enough I only agree with gays adopting kids, but not getting married...I would rather a child have loving gay parents than no parents at all.


What about a single gay parent who just wants a kid but doesn't want to get married? Maybe he doesn't want to have a gay relationship because he knows it's wrong.



Before we get to gay, what about a straight single woman?  Or a straight single man?  Is it against the rules for them to adopt a child?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 09:27:33 AM
Are you still dating the woman you said you had to go to when I briefly saw you at The Israel Day Parade?




No, but she is a good woman.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 09:36:03 AM
Do you condemn pre-marital sex? Does your rabbi?



I don't condemn it, but I don't advocate it either...

My brain is in evil times so let me rationalize my point of view of it in today's time:

If there were no pre-marital sex, then people shoudl get married younger or else there is a chance that more evil can erupt from within the frustration.

On the other hand, our society is dirty and that may be the reason why.

And you might say, if one studies Torah, he/she won't be as tempted.  I might say, not all people study Torah.

I will add, however, that pre-marital sex can lead to even more evil especially with most human beings.  Especially human beings who didn't have good strong parents. I'm lucky to have the best parents a guy like me could have...

However, I will say one thing. It is much much more important to teach your children and yourselves if you are virgins to not practice pre-marital sex. It's much harder to be celebate once you had sex once.  Stay a virgin for as long as you can.

I will add, I think women should definately stay virgins since they can marry younger...It is good for men to be virgins too...but shouldn't be as necessary. However  every good man should treat a girl he is dating like he woudl want his daughter to be treated.

Sex should only be between two people who really really really love each other..and it is better if they wait till they get married.

So you see, in evil times, my brain is confused :)


I think my rabbi disagrees with pre-marital sex. He knows it goes on.  He knows that it can lead to trouble.  But does he condemn it?  I think he only advices against it especially to young people who are most vulnerable to it.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 09:37:55 AM
wow lol this is interesting  8;) :::D

Excatly how many relationships have you had Doctor  ???


Lost track...I'm 30 years old now...and no, i'm not interested in putzing around...want to find my soulmate and vice versa (to find me).
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 09:40:12 AM
wow lol this is interesting  8;) :::D

Excatly how many relationships have you had Doctor  ???

I hope he confines his pre-marital 'socialising' to shiksas and doesn't defile any nice Jewish girls.


I don't date non Jewish girls...Just like I don't eat pork, shrimp, and other treyf unkosher foods...

Have I dabbled? yes, for two seconds...not once did it feel right, thank Gd.

Do I go after Jewish girls today for selfish physical reasons? No.  Because I have dabbled in that too and it never felt right or good to me, Thank Gd.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 09:44:23 AM
wow lol this is interesting  8;) :::D

Excatly how many relationships have you had Doctor  ???

I hope he confines his pre-marital 'socialising' to shiksas and doesn't defile any nice Jewish girls.

That would be a disaster if that happened. But I'm sure he's a nice doctor ;D :)


If there was ever a girl that I "defiled" it definately wasn't any nice ones.  Only the ones that chose to defile me as well.  It's a two-way street, guys!  And I still don't understand it.  Women have a drive sometimes stronger than us men...The only thing is that they know how to much better channel their energy and filter it out to think more rationally than us. That's why we have more rules to follow.  Men's brains are raw and we react to things with a temper and very little level headedness. For us to be level headed we have to really really try hard. 
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: newman on December 02, 2007, 10:03:43 AM
Stop mucking about, Danny.

No wonder your "brain is confused".

Grow a beard, whack a kippa on your head, get your butt on an El Al flight to Israel, go out to Yesha and find one of those cool, uzi-packing 'settler' babes in a long skirt. Don't even bother dating. Just marry the first one you see, they're all good.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 10:41:47 AM
Stop mucking about, Danny.

No wonder your "brain is confused".

Grow a beard, whack a kippa on your head, get your butt on an El Al flight to Israel, go out to Yesha and find one of those cool, uzi-packing 'settler' babes in a long skirt. Don't even bother dating. Just marry the first one you see, they're all good.

Oh if I grow a beard....there will be trouble by the women...Facial hair and me...ooofah....I may need to have a few wives....LOL
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: newman on December 02, 2007, 10:46:33 AM
Stop mucking about, Danny.

No wonder your "brain is confused".

Grow a beard, whack a kippa on your head, get your butt on an El Al flight to Israel, go out to Yesha and find one of those cool, uzi-packing 'settler' babes in a long skirt. Don't even bother dating. Just marry the first one you see, they're all good.

Oh if I grow a beard....there will be trouble by the women...Facial hair and me...ooofah....I may need to have a few wives....LOL

I bet you shave with a razor, you pork-eating heretic! >:(
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 10:59:06 AM
Stop mucking about, Danny.

No wonder your "brain is confused".

Grow a beard, whack a kippa on your head, get your butt on an El Al flight to Israel, go out to Yesha and find one of those cool, uzi-packing 'settler' babes in a long skirt. Don't even bother dating. Just marry the first one you see, they're all good.

Oh if I grow a beard....there will be trouble by the women...Facial hair and me...ooofah....I may need to have a few wives....LOL

I bet you shave with a razor, you pork-eating heretic! >:(


I do except for the sideburns..

Btw, electric shavers are technically a bunch of little tiny razors and if any religious Jew says it's ok to use it, then it should be ok to flick on a light switch on Shabbat, Gd forbid!


but I don't eat pork....therefore, I'm not a heretic.
Title: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 03:01:07 PM
So post your questions like you do for Chaim...and I'll answer each one...two questions per person...or maybe three..do three..or just do four..four per person is fine...

hehe, i'm going to do a broadcast show..and there will be maybe 3 or 4 people posting in this section anyway. O0
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 04:43:18 PM
Do you condemn pre-marital sex? Does your rabbi?



I don't condemn it, but I don't advocate it either...

My brain is in evil times so let me rationalize my point of view of it in today's time:

If there were no pre-marital sex, then people shoudl get married younger or else there is a chance that more evil can erupt from within the frustration.

On the other hand, our society is dirty and that may be the reason why.

And you might say, if one studies Torah, he/she won't be as tempted.  I might say, not all people study Torah.

I will add, however, that pre-marital sex can lead to even more evil especially with most human beings.  Especially human beings who didn't have good strong parents. I'm lucky to have the best parents a guy like me could have...

However, I will say one thing. It is much much more important to teach your children and yourselves if you are virgins to not practice pre-marital sex. It's much harder to be celebate once you had sex once.  Stay a virgin for as long as you can.

I will add, I think women should definately stay virgins since they can marry younger...It is good for men to be virgins too...but shouldn't be as necessary. However  every good man should treat a girl he is dating like he woudl want his daughter to be treated.

Sex should only be between two people who really really really love each other..and it is better if they wait till they get married.

So you see, in evil times, my brain is confused :)


I think my rabbi disagrees with pre-marital sex. He knows it goes on.  He knows that it can lead to trouble.  But does he condemn it?  I think he only advices against it especially to young people who are most vulnerable to it.


So are you a virgin?

I think it's a double standard where you say it's more important for a woman to remain a virgin than a man. A man can't have sex by himself so here will always be two people doing the sin, one man and one woman.




youre one smart cookie, yaacov!  i think your new name should yaacovcookie26!
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: newman on December 02, 2007, 04:49:05 PM
If Danny's a virgin, so is Paris Hilton. :D
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 05:04:09 PM
You are really doing a show? LOL, this will be funny.

no show..just like today...answering questions...You think I have time for that?!
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: newman on December 02, 2007, 05:05:46 PM
Stop mucking about, Danny.

No wonder your "brain is confused".

Grow a beard, whack a kippa on your head, get your butt on an El Al flight to Israel, go out to Yesha and find one of those cool, uzi-packing 'settler' babes in a long skirt. Don't even bother dating. Just marry the first one you see, they're all good.

Danny should get some tsitsit and jeans and grow his beard.
Some earlocks wouldn't hurt, either.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: newman on December 02, 2007, 05:30:17 PM
Stop mucking about, Danny.

No wonder your "brain is confused".

Grow a beard, whack a kippa on your head, get your butt on an El Al flight to Israel, go out to Yesha and find one of those cool, uzi-packing 'settler' babes in a long skirt. Don't even bother dating. Just marry the first one you see, they're all good.

Danny should get some tsitsit and jeans and grow his beard.
Some earlocks wouldn't hurt, either.

Yes, and a tartan flannel shirt.

This could be you, Danny.

(http://jtf.org/israel/uuu.israel.plo.pioneering.couple.small.jpg)
I think he should get the black Charedi suit with the pants tucked into the socks like that one particular sect does.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on December 02, 2007, 06:40:55 PM
If there was ever a girl that I "defiled" it definately wasn't any nice ones.  Only the ones that chose to defile me as well.  It's a two-way street, guys!  And I still don't understand it.  Women have a drive sometimes stronger than us men...The only thing is that they know how to much better channel their energy and filter it out to think more rationally than us. That's why we have more rules to follow.  Men's brains are raw and we react to things with a temper and very little level headedness. For us to be level headed we have to really really try hard. 

 :::D I was thinking some might want the naughty ones  ;D
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on December 02, 2007, 06:44:13 PM
If Danny's a virgin, so is Paris Hilton. :D

What come on she was just practicing  :::D
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: newman on December 02, 2007, 06:47:35 PM
If Danny's a virgin, so is Paris Hilton. :D

What come on she was just practicing  :::D
Practicing to do what?

Smuggle salamis??
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 07:41:27 PM
You didn't answer the question. How did you I'm turning 26 this week?



Which question...

and i don't understand the second question: "How did you I'm turing 26 this week?"  Well are you?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on December 02, 2007, 08:56:29 PM
If Danny's a virgin, so is Paris Hilton. :D

What come on she was just practicing  :::D
Practicing to do what?

Smuggle salamis??

And anything else that fits  :-X
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 09:49:03 PM
If Danny's a virgin, so is Paris Hilton. :D

What come on she was just practicing  :::D
Practicing to do what?

Smuggle salamis??

And anything else that fits  :-X

ok children read this forum too..let's keep it clean ;)
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on December 02, 2007, 09:51:07 PM
If Danny's a virgin, so is Paris Hilton. :D

What come on she was just practicing  :::D
Practicing to do what?

Smuggle salamis??

And anything else that fits  :-X

ok children read this forum too..let's keep it clean ;)

I always do  ;)
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 02, 2007, 10:13:59 PM
If Danny's a virgin, so is Paris Hilton. :D

What come on she was just practicing  :::D
Practicing to do what?

Smuggle salamis??

And anything else that fits  :-X

ok children read this forum too..let's keep it clean ;)

I always do  ;)

Yes with soap and scrub brush...do you need me to scrub your back for you? lol...ok you have a bf..just kidding.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on December 02, 2007, 10:19:21 PM
Yes with soap and scrub brush...do you need me to scrub your back for you? lol...ok you have a bf..just kidding.

Now Doc I don't think your Rabbi would approve  :::D
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: kellymaureen on December 02, 2007, 10:25:44 PM
Wait a second...I can get love advice from my dentist :o  I had no idea:P
and here Ive just been using him all these years to keep my teeth pretty ^-^
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 03, 2007, 08:49:59 PM
Wait a second...I can get love advice from my dentist :o  I had no idea:P
and here Ive just been using him all these years to keep my teeth pretty ^-^

well, as you know, we are good with our hands.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: OdKahaneChai on December 03, 2007, 08:57:27 PM
How many licks does it take to get to the Tootsie Roll center of a Tootsie Pop?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on December 03, 2007, 09:38:34 PM
Dr Dan,

I fear theres sounds like alot of cases in this forum of the old Polynesian virus.............."Lacka Nookie".

What is your suggestion?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: kellymaureen on December 03, 2007, 09:43:07 PM
Wait a second...I can get love advice from my dentist :o  I had no idea:P
and here Ive just been using him all these years to keep my teeth pretty ^-^

well, as you know, we are good with our hands.

Ha ha well his hands are married....so it will be advice only ^-^
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: newman on December 03, 2007, 09:45:58 PM
You can't talk to dentists.

Unless you stick your finger in your mouth and go.." wuh blah blah wah wa, ma blah mwah wah blah" they can't undrestand you.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 03, 2007, 10:10:21 PM
How many licks does it take to get to the Tootsie Roll center of a Tootsie Pop?

move that question for next sunday night.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 03, 2007, 10:11:32 PM
Dr Dan,

I fear theres sounds like alot of cases in this forum of the old Polynesian virus.............."Lacka Nookie".

What is your suggestion?

post this for next sunday night...i will answer each one ethusiastically..and one of these days, if i do get a microphone, i might pull off a chaim ben pesach program to entertain my fellow JTFers... and I'll try not to repeat myself so much..so maybe our shows won't go 2-3 hours.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on December 03, 2007, 10:53:32 PM
Dr Dan,

I fear theres sounds like alot of cases in this forum of the old Polynesian virus.............."Lacka Nookie".

What is your suggestion?

post this for next sunday night...i will answer each one ethusiastically..and one of these days, if i do get a microphone, i might pull off a chaim ben pesach program to entertain my fellow JTFers... and I'll try not to repeat myself so much..so maybe our shows won't go 2-3 hours.

Awwwww not fair I can't hear it.  :-\
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Kiwi on December 03, 2007, 10:55:37 PM
I moved my question here even tho I can't get the show

Dr Dan,

I fear theres sounds like alot of cases in this forum of the old Polynesian virus.............."Lacka Nookie".

What is your suggestion?
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 05, 2007, 01:39:26 PM
only one question?!
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Joe Schmo on December 05, 2007, 02:50:20 PM
I have a slipping tendon on the knuckle of my right index finger.

Should I have surgery to correct this, or is there a better solution?

Being a piano player, I do not want to make the problem in my hand worse.

Thanks.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dan on December 05, 2007, 03:44:37 PM
Dr. Dan,
  What do you do when you get to a Fork in the road?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 05, 2007, 05:23:50 PM
I have a slipping tendon on the knuckle of my right index finger.

Should I have surgery to correct this, or is there a better solution?

Being a piano player, I do not want to make the problem in my hand worse.

Thanks.

I don't know talk to an orthopedist.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 05, 2007, 05:24:23 PM
Dr. Dan,
  What do you do when you get to a Fork in the road?

I pick it up and put it at the side of the road so nobody runs over it and gets a flat tire.  ;D
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 05, 2007, 05:25:24 PM
How many licks does it take to get to the Tootsie Roll center of a Tootsie Pop?

Depends who's licking...
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 05, 2007, 05:30:26 PM
Dr Dan,

I fear theres sounds like alot of cases in this forum of the old Polynesian virus.............."Lacka Nookie".

What is your suggestion?


THe majority of guys on this forum are college students. In college you are supposed to be studying hard and not party and get drunk and have random sex...and for those guys who develop that virus like I did when I was their age, they are pursuing righteous causes and building character for the future for the best woman that's out there to raise the best children with them.

Otherwise, Lacka Nookie can cause lots of bad things too.  If it effects the amygdala and hippocampus, it can lead to homosexuality, rape, or violence (Gd forbid).  The people that normally don't get affected in these parts of the brain by this virus, come from good parents, follow a good religion, have good righteous mentors in their lives to council them, and read lots and lots of books and play lots and lots of sports.  WHen they turn 23-26 years of age, they will find the love of their life and hopefully marry her...and then that will cure the virus.
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Kiwi on December 05, 2007, 05:43:42 PM
it will be a quick show, then off to the pub  ;)
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on December 05, 2007, 05:46:01 PM
  WHen they turn 23-26 years of age, they will find the love of their life and hopefully marry her...and then that will cure the virus.

God willing  ;)
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks on December 05, 2007, 05:56:44 PM
Oddly enough I only agree with gays adopting kids, but not getting married...I would rather a child have loving gay parents than no parents at all.
I agree with you, for basically the reasons stated. Unless we can teach stupid people not to breed, we will always have more kids out there than have loving homes.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks on December 05, 2007, 05:59:02 PM
I also think single adoption, while not ideal, should be permitted. It's better that an unwanted kid get one loving parent than none.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 05, 2007, 06:06:07 PM
I also think single adoption, while not ideal, should be permitted. It's better that an unwanted kid get one loving parent than none.

see Newman's argument. He had some good points..what are your rebuttals to his?
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 05, 2007, 06:06:40 PM
it will be a quick show, then off to the pub  ;)

the show is finished...lol answered your question.
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Kiwi on December 05, 2007, 06:11:08 PM
it will be a quick show, then off to the pub  ;)

the show is finished...lol answered your question.

Awww you did  :)

Do you put it on Youtube or something?

 ;)
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: kellymaureen on December 05, 2007, 07:06:14 PM
I also think single adoption, while not ideal, should be permitted. It's better that an unwanted kid get one loving parent than none.

It is permitted, at least in overseas adoptions, its not the ideal but they will allow it.
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 05, 2007, 07:36:58 PM
it will be a quick show, then off to the pub  ;)

the show is finished...lol answered your question.

Awww you did  :)

Do you put it on Youtube or something?

 ;)


I'm not goign to do any broadcast yet...but may consider it if this becomes a popular thread...
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Kiwi on December 05, 2007, 07:43:34 PM
it will be a quick show, then off to the pub  ;)

the show is finished...lol answered your question.

Awww you did  :)

Do you put it on Youtube or something?

 ;)


I'm not goign to do any broadcast yet...but may consider it if this becomes a popular thread...

No worries, in truth I just wanted to look you over  :::D

Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: OdKahaneChai on December 05, 2007, 10:54:31 PM
How much wood would a woodchuck chuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks on December 06, 2007, 04:45:32 AM
I didn't read his rebuttals to single adoption, but like I said--one parent is better than none. There's a difference between "not preferable" and "none at all".

I care about unwanted kids more than keeping up appearances, or even than punishing faggots.
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks on December 06, 2007, 04:46:35 AM
Legitimate question for Dr. Dan:

Do you think only adopting is permissible in Judaism? (I know it is in Christianity.)

Chaimfan
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: newman on December 06, 2007, 04:51:43 AM
I didn't read his rebuttals to single adoption, but like I said--one parent is better than none. There's a difference between "not preferable" and "none at all".

I care about unwanted kids more than keeping up appearances, or even than punishing faggots.
Kids will do real well when middle aged single men start adopting teenaged girls. ::)
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 06, 2007, 08:32:53 AM
I didn't read his rebuttals to single adoption, but like I said--one parent is better than none. There's a difference between "not preferable" and "none at all".

I care about unwanted kids more than keeping up appearances, or even than punishing faggots.
Kids will do real well when middle aged single men start adopting teenaged girls. ::)


I tell you it's  good point..I left a question for Chaim on this issue..
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 06, 2007, 08:33:29 AM
How much wood would a woodchuck chuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood?

26 of them!
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 06, 2007, 08:34:03 AM
Legitimate question for Dr. Dan:

Do you think only adopting is permissible in Judaism? (I know it is in Christianity.)

Chaimfan


What do you  mean by "only" adopting?
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 06, 2007, 08:37:26 AM
Legitimate question for Dr. Dan:

Do you think only adopting is permissible in Judaism? (I know it is in Christianity.)

Chaimfan


OH!! do you mean that those who can have healthy viable kids choose to only adopt and to never have kids of their genetics?

I think adopting children is a huge mitzva because technically you are taking one who is homeless and giving him/her a home.

But the first mitzva told to "Man" in the Torah is "Pur Uruvu" ("THou shall be fruitful and multiply")  So to me, if one had a choice and ability to do both, having one's own children and procreating is a much higher mitzva...

That's my assumption. I'm not a Torah scholar...but maybe a Rabbi might say the same or similar thing as I did.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks on December 06, 2007, 11:36:08 AM

Kids will do real well when middle aged single men start adopting teenaged girls. ::)
Obviously I do not mean them. But I know a single woman who would adopt if she remains single after college and during her career.
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks on December 06, 2007, 11:37:00 AM
So, are you really gonna do a show like Chaim? I'd love to d/l it.  :)
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 06, 2007, 11:52:42 AM
So, are you really gonna do a show like Chaim? I'd love to d/l it.  :)

maybe, but not yet...need to see if we have a good turn out and see if it gets larger and larger...Secondly, will I have time to do this each week? And how long will I last to make a committment to this?

But I admit this can be fun.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 06, 2007, 11:54:35 AM
It is somethign that can be looked into also...

SOme people unfortuantely have their own kids and abuse them..so does that mean that everyone should be prohibited from having children?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks on December 06, 2007, 06:26:56 PM
I've really thought about that. You have to apply to own a gun, drive a car, buy a house, go to college... but the single biggest life choice a person makes you don't?

I think it would make good sense, but unfortunately I don't see how it could be worked without making a China-like totalitarian Reich.
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks on December 06, 2007, 06:27:29 PM
BTW, are you an actual "doctor"?

Not trying to test you--just truly curious.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: newman on December 06, 2007, 09:47:21 PM

Kids will do real well when middle aged single men start adopting teenaged girls. ::)
Obviously I do not mean them. But I know a single woman who would adopt if she remains single after college and during her career.
Your position will be classified as discrimination by the PC brigade. Once you open the door to adoption by fags, singles and others there'll be no limits.
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: OdKahaneChai on December 06, 2007, 10:38:12 PM
How much wood would a woodchuck chuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood?
26 of them!
Finally!  An answer to the age-old question.  I had always gotten, "a woodchuck would chuck what a woodchuck could chuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood."  Quite redundant if you ask me...
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Kiwi on December 06, 2007, 11:01:51 PM
Doc,

Why does the bottom half of the coffee always taste better than the top half ?

And why if someone else makes it, it always taste better. Even if the stuff it up  ^-^
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 06, 2007, 11:14:19 PM
BTW, are you an actual "doctor"?

Not trying to test you--just truly curious.

Yes, i'm a dentist.
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 06, 2007, 11:15:52 PM
Doc,

Why does the bottom half of the coffee always taste better than the top half ?

And why if someone else makes it, it always taste better. Even if the stuff it up  ^-^

I dont' really drink coffee, but i think the bottom part is all the gooey concentrate...So maybe to you, it tastes better than the top.
It tastes better because maybe you suck at making coffee.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 06, 2007, 11:17:35 PM

Kids will do real well when middle aged single men start adopting teenaged girls. ::)
Obviously I do not mean them. But I know a single woman who would adopt if she remains single after college and during her career.
Your position will be classified as discrimination by the PC brigade. Once you open the door to adoption by fags, singles and others there'll be no limits.

Ok fkuc the PC brigade...let's assume they all spontaneously combusted...
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: newman on December 06, 2007, 11:18:09 PM
Dr Dan,

Where do missing socks go and who's responsible?
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Kiwi on December 06, 2007, 11:23:53 PM
Doc,

Why does the bottom half of the coffee always taste better than the top half ?

And why if someone else makes it, it always taste better. Even if the stuff it up  ^-^

I dont' really drink coffee, but i think the bottom part is all the gooey concentrate...So maybe to you, it tastes better than the top.
It tastes better because maybe you suck at making coffee.

I don't know maybe you make it for me and we will test that theory out  :::D
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: OdKahaneChai on December 06, 2007, 11:28:56 PM
Doc,

Why does the bottom half of the coffee always taste better than the top half ?

And why if someone else makes it, it always taste better. Even if the stuff it up  ^-^

I dont' really drink coffee, but i think the bottom part is all the gooey concentrate...So maybe to you, it tastes better than the top.
It tastes better because maybe you suck at making coffee.

I don't know maybe you make it for me and we will test that theory out  :::D
Do you put cream and/or sugar in your coffee?
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Kiwi on December 06, 2007, 11:40:04 PM
Doc,

Why does the bottom half of the coffee always taste better than the top half ?

And why if someone else makes it, it always taste better. Even if the stuff it up  ^-^

I dont' really drink coffee, but i think the bottom part is all the gooey concentrate...So maybe to you, it tastes better than the top.
It tastes better because maybe you suck at making coffee.

I don't know maybe you make it for me and we will test that theory out  :::D
Do you put cream and/or sugar in your coffee?

I use milk instead of cream, and I don't have sugar, I am not allowed it.

Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: newman on December 06, 2007, 11:49:09 PM

I use milk instead of cream, and I don't have sugar, I am not allowed it.


Does it play havoc with your ADHD?
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Kiwi on December 07, 2007, 12:03:40 AM

I use milk instead of cream, and I don't have sugar, I am not allowed it.


Does it play havoc with your ADHD?

No, beer plays havoc with that  :::D

I am naturally hypoglycemic , and refined sugar causes my BGL to drop even more when it passes through my system.

I can die if I have too much sugar.

Soo death by chocolate Yummy what a way to go  :::D
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Vito on December 07, 2007, 09:07:04 AM
Legitimate question for Dr. Dan:

Do you think only adopting is permissible in Judaism? (I know it is in Christianity.)

Chaimfan

Are you sure it is permissible in Christianity? Christianity follows the same commandment from the Torah to be fruitfull.
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: RationalThought110 on December 07, 2007, 10:49:26 AM


No, beer plays havoc with that  :::D

I am naturally hypoglycemic , and refined sugar causes my BGL to drop even more when it passes through my system.

I can die if I have too much sugar.

Soo death by chocolate Yummy what a way to go  :::D


What does hypoglycemic mean?
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: newman on December 07, 2007, 10:51:19 AM
Dr Dan,

If I get worms and the Doctor doesn't open til next day should I drag my butt on the carpet like the cat?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Joe Schmo on December 08, 2007, 08:28:19 PM
What kind of doctor are you, Dan?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 09, 2007, 12:05:00 AM
What kind of doctor are you, Dan?

dentist specialty in the gums and implants
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 09, 2007, 12:06:19 AM
Dr Dan,

Where do missing socks go and who's responsible?


Usually the "Underwear gnomes" take them and use them to make a profit in something.

Either that, or that half man half goat animal takes it and runs away with it.
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Kiwi on December 09, 2007, 12:07:35 AM


No, beer plays havoc with that  :::D

I am naturally hypoglycemic , and refined sugar causes my BGL to drop even more when it passes through my system.

I can die if I have too much sugar.

Soo death by chocolate Yummy what a way to go  :::D


What does hypoglycemic mean?

Means the blood sugar level is below normal.
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 09, 2007, 12:08:11 AM


No, beer plays havoc with that  :::D

I am naturally hypoglycemic , and refined sugar causes my BGL to drop even more when it passes through my system.

I can die if I have too much sugar.

Soo death by chocolate Yummy what a way to go  :::D


What does hypoglycemic mean?

Hypo = low
glyc = sugar (Glucose)
emic = blood (anemic)
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 09, 2007, 12:08:48 AM
Dr Dan,

If I get worms and the Doctor doesn't open til next day should I drag my butt on the carpet like the cat?

Ok I will answer this question with another question.  What does this have to do with dating?
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: newman on December 09, 2007, 12:12:18 AM
Dr Dan,

If I get worms and the Doctor doesn't open til next day should I drag my butt on the carpet like the cat?

Ok I will answer this question with another question.  What does this have to do with dating?
Well I can't spend the whole date scrtching my corn hole, can I?

Now answer my question!
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Kiwi on December 09, 2007, 12:14:27 AM
Dr Dan,

If I get worms and the Doctor doesn't open til next day should I drag my butt on the carpet like the cat?

Ok I will answer this question with another question.  What does this have to do with dating?
Well I can't spend the whole date scrtching my corn hole, can I?

Now answer my question!

I don't think you would be popular  :-\
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Kiwi on December 09, 2007, 12:18:09 AM
Dear Doc, personal question here....................... :-[

Does the colour green suit white skinned women, or are we better with black, red or hot pink?

I was told not to buy lacey things in green/aqua is this true?
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 09, 2007, 12:23:36 AM
Dr Dan,

If I get worms and the Doctor doesn't open til next day should I drag my butt on the carpet like the cat?

Ok I will answer this question with another question.  What does this have to do with dating?
Well I can't spend the whole date scrtching my corn hole, can I?

Now answer my question!

This is a religiosu forum, we dont' talk about feces here, unless we are referring to the "Black" Hebros.
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 09, 2007, 12:25:26 AM
Dear Doc, personal question here....................... :-[

Does the colour green suit white skinned women, or are we better with black, red or hot pink?

I was told not to buy lacey things in green/aqua is this true?


Well, if you want me to talk like thith with my pinky in the air i can tell you....

The color green..well silly goose, may not go tho well on very white women but a lightish green ith much much better...


In other words, I don't have a clue!
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Kiwi on December 09, 2007, 12:38:28 AM
Dear Doc, personal question here....................... :-[

Does the colour green suit white skinned women, or are we better with black, red or hot pink?

I was told not to buy lacey things in green/aqua is this true?


Well, if you want me to talk like thith with my pinky in the air i can tell you....

The color green..well silly goose, may not go tho well on very white women but a lightish green ith much much better...


In other words, I don't have a clue!

Hmmm I don't think that was helpful  :-\

I think I need a second opinion.  ???
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: OdKahaneChai on December 09, 2007, 11:05:47 AM
Dr Dan,

Where do missing socks go and who's responsible?
Usually the "Underwear gnomes" take them and use them to make a profit in something.

Either that, or that half man half goat animal takes it and runs away with it.
Dear Dr. Dan,

What's step 2?
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 09, 2007, 06:53:37 PM
Dr Dan,

Where do missing socks go and who's responsible?
Usually the "Underwear gnomes" take them and use them to make a profit in something.

Either that, or that half man half goat animal takes it and runs away with it.
Dear Dr. Dan,

What's step 2?

I think it's dumdeedumdeedum... :)
Title: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 09, 2007, 06:54:15 PM
Ok guys, your questions are retarded...comeup with some better ones...Here we go!
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Kiwi on December 09, 2007, 07:50:30 PM
Retarded?  do you think thats half the problem why so many people are single in this world?
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: OdKahaneChai on December 09, 2007, 08:17:16 PM
Dr Dan,

Where do missing socks go and who's responsible?
Usually the "Underwear gnomes" take them and use them to make a profit in something.

Either that, or that half man half goat animal takes it and runs away with it.
Dear Dr. Dan,

What's step 2?
I think it's dumdeedumdeedum... :)
I still don't see how that translates into profit.  Gnome's magic I guess...
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 09, 2007, 08:23:08 PM
Retarded?  do you think thats half the problem why so many people are single in this world?


the first of half of that half are single becuase they're expectations are too high.
the second of half of that half are single because they sit around at the jtf/e forum all day and night and virtually have no other life and have probably been bitten by the Lakanookie virus.
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 09, 2007, 08:23:53 PM
Dr Dan,

Where do missing socks go and who's responsible?
Usually the "Underwear gnomes" take them and use them to make a profit in something.

Either that, or that half man half goat animal takes it and runs away with it.
Dear Dr. Dan,

What's step 2?
I think it's dumdeedumdeedum... :)
I still don't see how that translates into profit.  Gnome's magic I guess...

It's in a southpark episode..forgot what that answer was...have to watch tonight before i go to bed.
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: OdKahaneChai on December 09, 2007, 08:27:19 PM
Dr Dan,

Where do missing socks go and who's responsible?
Usually the "Underwear gnomes" take them and use them to make a profit in something.

Either that, or that half man half goat animal takes it and runs away with it.
Dear Dr. Dan,

What's step 2?
I think it's dumdeedumdeedum... :)
I still don't see how that translates into profit.  Gnome's magic I guess...

It's in a southpark episode..forgot what that answer was...have to watch tonight before i go to bed.
They never gave an answer!  Wouldn't be too funny if there was an answer, would it?
Title: Re: The new Ask Dr. Dan Show will be Sunday Night next week.
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 09, 2007, 08:40:29 PM
Dr Dan,

Where do missing socks go and who's responsible?
Usually the "Underwear gnomes" take them and use them to make a profit in something.

Either that, or that half man half goat animal takes it and runs away with it.
Dear Dr. Dan,

What's step 2?
I think it's dumdeedumdeedum... :)
I still don't see how that translates into profit.  Gnome's magic I guess...

It's in a southpark episode..forgot what that answer was...have to watch tonight before i go to bed.
They never gave an answer!  Wouldn't be too funny if there was an answer, would it?


you know exactly what i was talking about though.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: kellymaureen on December 09, 2007, 08:46:04 PM
And some of us are single not because we are picky in the usual sense (ie shallow), but because we have to be more careful about the choices we make because we arent just making them for ourselves  ;)
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 09, 2007, 08:59:33 PM
And some of us are single not because we are picky in the usual sense (ie shallow), but because we have to be more careful about the choices we make because we arent just making them for ourselves  ;)

Yeh, but this is the Jewish dating section ;)
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: kellymaureen on December 09, 2007, 09:06:58 PM
And some of us are single not because we are picky in the usual sense (ie shallow), but because we have to be more careful about the choices we make because we arent just making them for ourselves  ;)

Yeh, but this is the Jewish dating section ;)

And?  I wasnt asking anyone out ::)  only offering another opinion as to why people may remain single, this would apply to divorced people as well.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 09, 2007, 09:56:48 PM
And some of us are single not because we are picky in the usual sense (ie shallow), but because we have to be more careful about the choices we make because we arent just making them for ourselves  ;)

Yeh, but this is the Jewish dating section ;)

And?  I wasnt asking anyone out ::)  only offering another opinion as to why people may remain single, this would apply to divorced people as well.

divorced doesn't count as single...you had sex already... :P
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Kiwi on December 09, 2007, 10:29:40 PM
And some of us are single not because we are picky in the usual sense (ie shallow), but because we have to be more careful about the choices we make because we arent just making them for ourselves  ;)

Yeh, but this is the Jewish dating section ;)

And?  I wasnt asking anyone out ::)  only offering another opinion as to why people may remain single, this would apply to divorced people as well.

divorced doesn't count as single...you had sex already... :P

What???????

So single people have to be virgins ? :-\

What makes us non virgins then that are without partners?

Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: kellymaureen on December 10, 2007, 12:14:56 AM
And some of us are single not because we are picky in the usual sense (ie shallow), but because we have to be more careful about the choices we make because we arent just making them for ourselves  ;)

Yeh, but this is the Jewish dating section ;)

And?  I wasnt asking anyone out ::)  only offering another opinion as to why people may remain single, this would apply to divorced people as well.

divorced doesn't count as single...you had sex already... :P

Maybe thats why theyre divorced :D
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: newman on December 10, 2007, 05:55:01 AM
It might actually be harder for virgins to get a partner because few people want a 'rookie'.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Kiwi on December 10, 2007, 06:24:25 AM
Then again you can tell a virgin anything and they would believe it, because they know no better.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 10, 2007, 06:43:49 AM
And some of us are single not because we are picky in the usual sense (ie shallow), but because we have to be more careful about the choices we make because we arent just making them for ourselves  ;)

Yeh, but this is the Jewish dating section ;)

And?  I wasnt asking anyone out ::)  only offering another opinion as to why people may remain single, this would apply to divorced people as well.

divorced doesn't count as single...you had sex already... :P

What???????

So single people have to be virgins ? :-\

What makes us non virgins then that are without partners?



Once someone has been married, they had the blessing of being married sometime in their life. Same goes for a widowed person.  It's not about the sex...I was joking...
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 10, 2007, 06:44:47 AM
It might actually be harder for virgins to get a partner because few people want a 'rookie'.


We live in evil times...and in most places I think you might be right...but that's not the case everywhere...Not for me at least.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Kiwi on December 10, 2007, 07:20:40 AM
Once someone has been married, they had the blessing of being married sometime in their life. Same goes for a widowed person.  It's not about the sex...I was joking...

Marriage  is I think either a blessing or a curse. Just a state of being, a phase in ones life.

Being through twice, I can compare them ;)

Each had happiness, each had unhappiness, but you learn something different. And many this, if you make a mistake, you need to fix it.

Most importantly you must never lose sight of who you are. Many I think question beyond what they should.

Self doubt, why this, why that. Instead of seeing things in a new light, and understanding your own faults and maybe correcting them, or find  a person that doesn't mind, a non prefect being.

There are different people in this world some to seem to fight every step of the way, and others that have the easy road and things fall simply into place.

I think some are fated to be single, some are fated to keep trying, and some are fated to fall into a easy road and marry and live in bliss on their first time.

Now I do have a question Doc, after all that.

Do you believe there is a soul mate for everyone? 
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: mord on December 10, 2007, 10:04:44 AM
Dr. Dan a question for you,it seems no Jewish girls like me only Gentile girls will talk to me .Can it be that it's Because i'm not a Doctor ,Dentist or accountant >:(
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 10, 2007, 01:49:24 PM
Once someone has been married, they had the blessing of being married sometime in their life. Same goes for a widowed person.  It's not about the sex...I was joking...

Marriage  is I think either a blessing or a curse. Just a state of being, a phase in ones life.

Being through twice, I can compare them ;)

Each had happiness, each had unhappiness, but you learn something different. And many this, if you make a mistake, you need to fix it.

Most importantly you must never lose sight of who you are. Many I think question beyond what they should.

Self doubt, why this, why that. Instead of seeing things in a new light, and understanding your own faults and maybe correcting them, or find  a person that doesn't mind, a non prefect being.

There are different people in this world some to seem to fight every step of the way, and others that have the easy road and things fall simply into place.

I think some are fated to be single, some are fated to keep trying, and some are fated to fall into a easy road and marry and live in bliss on their first time.

Now I do have a question Doc, after all that.

Do you believe there is a soul mate for everyone? 


In my opinion, so far, there are soul mate(s) for everyone...

and you know when you find him/her once you are married have kids and one or both pass on...at that point, you pretty much that know that was your soul mate.

Why the plural? Because sometimes one unforutnately gets widowed too early in life.  But if they find a second to live happily with and under the same scenario, that is the time you have that second soul mate.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 10, 2007, 01:51:12 PM
Dr. Dan a question for you,it seems no Jewish girls like me only Gentile girls will talk to me .Can it be that it's Because i'm not a Doctor ,Dentist or accountant >:(


1. Are you in a community of majority non Jewish women?
2. What do you do for a living?
3. How old are you?
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: newman on December 10, 2007, 01:52:28 PM
How can there be soul mates for people who are ugly & fat (for example)?
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 10, 2007, 02:45:54 PM
How can there be soul mates for people who are ugly & fat (for example)?


Believe me there are...I have seen plenty of ugly people happily married to each other..

Secondly Not every ugly person wants a beautiful person and would rather go for someone with more character...
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: newman on December 10, 2007, 02:52:32 PM
How can there be soul mates for people who are ugly & fat (for example)?


Believe me there are...I have seen plenty of ugly people happily married to each other..

Secondly Not every ugly person wants a beautiful person and would rather go for someone with more character...

What if someone is short, fat, ugly, near-sighted and they're only attracted to people who look like Elle McPhearson?
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: mord on December 10, 2007, 02:56:27 PM
Dr. Dan a question for you,it seems no Jewish girls like me only Gentile girls will talk to me .Can it be that it's Because i'm not a Doctor ,Dentist or accountant >:(


1. Are you in a community of majority non Jewish women?
2. What do you do for a living?
3. How old are you?

1.Mixed both pretty equal
            2. SOMETHING HONORABLE BUT MOST JEWISH GIRLS DISDAIN IT
            3 38
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 10, 2007, 04:18:09 PM
How can there be soul mates for people who are ugly & fat (for example)?


Believe me there are...I have seen plenty of ugly people happily married to each other..

Secondly Not every ugly person wants a beautiful person and would rather go for someone with more character...

What if someone is short, fat, ugly, near-sighted and they're only attracted to people who look like Elle McPhearson?


then this person, like any other, is doomed because all he looks for is physical beauty is completely missing the boat...so by looking in all the wrong places, he will never meet his true soul mate.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 10, 2007, 04:19:19 PM
Dr. Dan a question for you,it seems no Jewish girls like me only Gentile girls will talk to me .Can it be that it's Because i'm not a Doctor ,Dentist or accountant >:(


1. Are you in a community of majority non Jewish women?
2. What do you do for a living?
3. How old are you?

1.Mixed both pretty equal
            2. SOMETHING HONORABLE BUT MOST JEWISH GIRLS DISDAIN IT
            3 38

The job which you have...can it put food on the table and make an adequate living for you and your wife and 6 little kids in the future? 
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks on December 11, 2007, 01:02:31 AM
Dr. Dan, why are there so very few Christian Zionist women who only want to adopt and detest smoking and alcohol use?
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 11, 2007, 06:32:11 AM
Dr. Dan, why are there so very few Christian Zionist women who only want to adopt and detest smoking and alcohol use?

There are plenty of Christian Zionists. Check out your local evangelist churches..most will detest smoking and some alcohol use but I dont' know many that will be completely against it...a little bit of alcohol is good.

Unless a this Christian zionist woman isn't  fertile, she will most likely prefer her own children. So the adoption thing is a little hard to find. But there are plenty that detest smoking..and drinking...eh...depends.  Christian Zionists...no problem...they exist.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: newman on December 11, 2007, 07:11:42 AM
How can there be soul mates for people who are ugly & fat (for example)?


Believe me there are...I have seen plenty of ugly people happily married to each other..

Secondly Not every ugly person wants a beautiful person and would rather go for someone with more character...

What if someone is short, fat, ugly, near-sighted and they're only attracted to people who look like Elle McPhearson?


then this person, like any other, is doomed because all he looks for is physical beauty is completely missing the boat...so by looking in all the wrong places, he will never meet his true soul mate.

Beauty is only skin deep.....................but ugliness goes right to the bone.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: mord on December 11, 2007, 12:28:03 PM
Dr. Dan a question for you,it seems no Jewish girls like me only Gentile girls will talk to me .Can it be that it's Because i'm not a Doctor ,Dentist or accountant >:(


1. Are you in a community of majority non Jewish women?
2. What do you do for a living?
3. How old are you?

1.Mixed both pretty equal
            2. SOMETHING HONORABLE BUT MOST JEWISH GIRLS DISDAIN IT
            3 38

The job which you have...can it put food on the table and make an adequate living for you and your wife and 6 little kids in the future? 
Yes is Elle McPherson Jewish?
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 11, 2007, 01:18:29 PM
Dr. Dan a question for you,it seems no Jewish girls like me only Gentile girls will talk to me .Can it be that it's Because i'm not a Doctor ,Dentist or accountant >:(


1. Are you in a community of majority non Jewish women?
2. What do you do for a living?
3. How old are you?

1.Mixed both pretty equal
            2. SOMETHING HONORABLE BUT MOST JEWISH GIRLS DISDAIN IT
            3 38

The job which you have...can it put food on the table and make an adequate living for you and your wife and 6 little kids in the future? 
Yes is Elle McPherson Jewish?

Well some Jewish girls are into money and not the job one does...so if you are a good man, which i'm sure you are, you can find  nice Jewish girls and ignore the non Jewish ones that hit on you...keep trying.


Elle Mcpherson..I think her father's uncle's ex girflriend's cousins best friend's roomate is Jewish
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks on December 11, 2007, 08:00:55 PM
There are plenty of Christian Zionists. Check out your local evangelist churches..most will detest smoking and some alcohol use but I dont' know many that will be completely against it...a little bit of alcohol is good.

Unless a this Christian zionist woman isn't  fertile, she will most likely prefer her own children. So the adoption thing is a little hard to find. But there are plenty that detest smoking..and drinking...eh...depends.  Christian Zionists...no problem...they exist.
I would prefer no alcohol, but moderate use does not bother me.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 11, 2007, 09:06:37 PM
There are plenty of Christian Zionists. Check out your local evangelist churches..most will detest smoking and some alcohol use but I dont' know many that will be completely against it...a little bit of alcohol is good.

Unless a this Christian zionist woman isn't  fertile, she will most likely prefer her own children. So the adoption thing is a little hard to find. But there are plenty that detest smoking..and drinking...eh...depends.  Christian Zionists...no problem...they exist.
I would prefer no alcohol, but moderate use does not bother me.

So get off your tush and start looking!!!! What are you waiting for?!

Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 12, 2007, 07:12:56 AM
Dear Dr. Dan,
I hope I'm writing my question on the right thread  :laugh:.
Anywho here's my situation....
I'm converting, and also I'm not the dating type. I mean, I don't believe in casual dating, only modest dating for marriage. If I put a "dating section thread", I really can't put it anywhere on the forum. I mean, I can't put a thread on the Jewish dating section because I'm not Jewish yet. And I don't want to put one on the "righteous Gentile Dating" section because I don't want to date a Gentile, the reason is that I am only interested in dating and marrying a religious Jewish man in the future when I can. And a gentile man would interfere with my destiny. That is out of the question for me and completely unacceptable, so no Gentile men for me.
Also because of my situation, I always figured that I would have to lower my standards since no one would want to marry me and it seems that someone will have to "settle" for a convertee like me, like an older man or a divorced man etc. So at the present moment and under my situation since I can't date Jewish men yet, would it be wise to just look for a gentile who is also in the process of converting?
Or just stop worrying and concentrate on finishing up my conversion and THEN start looking. In other words, "whatever will be, will be"?
Maybe I'm just over thinking!

So what do you think. Everyone I know is happily dating but me  :'( I can't date anyone  :'(


Mills

First, I want to say this...everytime i see your name or your post i think of your youtube video and what a righteous HOTTY you are... You have absolutely nothing to worry about in regards to finding the right religious man and you shouldn't have to settle for anything less. My first question to you is how old are you and how far along are you in your conversion and where are you from?

1. You should only be eyeing Jews to date right now, but not dating them right away. Focus on your conversion.
2. A convertee marrying another convertee does make the most sense because there is more in common.  However not necessary. If I were a religious Jew, I know I would want to meet you to see if you were right for me..and I would truely know you converted to Judaism for the right reasons.
3. Don't date just because everybody else around you is dating.  Just do your thing, get to know people in the meantime, make new friends. Ask other people questions and don't talk too much about yourself and see  based on their answers if they were the type that would be worth looking into marrying in the future.
4. As far as dating..my experience with that is you get to see different personalties and it helps to tell you, what type of person you want to be with in the future and who you don't want to be with in the future. But then again, everyone is differnet. Some already know waht they want by observing others.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: JTFFan on December 12, 2007, 12:01:41 PM
There are plenty of Christian Zionists. Check out your local evangelist churches..most will detest smoking and some alcohol use but I dont' know many that will be completely against it...a little bit of alcohol is good.

Unless a this Christian zionist woman isn't  fertile, she will most likely prefer her own children. So the adoption thing is a little hard to find. But there are plenty that detest smoking..and drinking...eh...depends.  Christian Zionists...no problem...they exist.
I would prefer no alcohol, but moderate use does not bother me.

a small moderate use of alcohol seems to be preferable or accepted, most detest smoking.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Tzvi Ben Roshel1 on December 12, 2007, 12:22:22 PM
Once someone has been married, they had the blessing of being married sometime in their life. Same goes for a widowed person.  It's not about the sex...I was joking...

Marriage  is I think either a blessing or a curse. Just a state of being, a phase in ones life.
 

 It is written (when Chava was created) For him, against him. (this has many meanings and brought down interpretations, but one of the simple one's is -
 For him if he is deserving, against him if he's not.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 12, 2007, 03:43:45 PM
First, I want to say this...everytime i see your name or your post i think of your youtube video and what a righteous HOTTY you are... You have absolutely nothing to worry about in regards to finding the right religious man and you shouldn't have to settle for anything less. My first question to you is how old are you and how far along are you in your conversion and where are you from?

1. You should only be eyeing Jews to date right now, but not dating them right away. Focus on your conversion.
2. A convertee marrying another convertee does make the most sense because there is more in common.  However not necessary. If I were a religious Jew, I know I would want to meet you to see if you were right for me..and I would truely know you converted to Judaism for the right reasons.

We always knew you had a giant crush on Mills.


Who's we? besides, mills doesn't even know what i look like yet.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: newman on December 12, 2007, 03:49:14 PM
First, I want to say this...everytime i see your name or your post i think of your youtube video and what a righteous HOTTY you are... You have absolutely nothing to worry about in regards to finding the right religious man and you shouldn't have to settle for anything less. My first question to you is how old are you and how far along are you in your conversion and where are you from?

1. You should only be eyeing Jews to date right now, but not dating them right away. Focus on your conversion.
2. A convertee marrying another convertee does make the most sense because there is more in common.  However not necessary. If I were a religious Jew, I know I would want to meet you to see if you were right for me..and I would truely know you converted to Judaism for the right reasons.

We always knew you had a giant crush on Mills.

Who can blame him?

Mills is a LOVELY Jewish girl.

If I wasn't so evil I'd leap into the mikvah myself just to get a shot at marrying a 'nice Jewish girl' like her.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 12, 2007, 04:52:05 PM
Mills

First, I want to say this...everytime i see your name or your post i think of your youtube video and what a righteous HOTTY you are... You have absolutely nothing to worry about in regards to finding the right religious man and you shouldn't have to settle for anything less. My first question to you is how old are you and how far along are you in your conversion and where are you from?

1. You should only be eyeing Jews to date right now, but not dating them right away. Focus on your conversion.
2. A convertee marrying another convertee does make the most sense because there is more in common.  However not necessary. If I were a religious Jew, I know I would want to meet you to see if you were right for me..and I would truely know you converted to Judaism for the right reasons.
3. Don't date just because everybody else around you is dating.  Just do your thing, get to know people in the meantime, make new friends. Ask other people questions and don't talk too much about yourself and see  based on their answers if they were the type that would be worth looking into marrying in the future.
4. As far as dating..my experience with that is you get to see different personalties and it helps to tell you, what type of person you want to be with in the future and who you don't want to be with in the future. But then again, everyone is differnet. Some already know waht they want by observing others.

Wow thank you so much! I'm umm...25  :o years YOUNG. I'm just studying and attending events, getting guidance from Chabad. I'm following the advice from other covertees in taking it one day at a time, and not make my rabbi feel forced by me. I'm not too new to the process, a couple of months but not too advanced that I'll be ready soon either. I guess I'm in the middle.
And thank you so much for telling me all this, it really helps. I do eye Jewish men now, to be honest  ^-^ (lol, my secret shhh! and even in JTF too :-[ ) but of course eyeing is all I do. I also look at lubavitcher dating sites just to look around and get a feeling of what it will be like in the future and if I want to just go for a Lubavitcher or not. And you're right, just because everyone is dating doesn't mean I have to. I also thought of dating a convertee man because I have always (in the past when I used to) dated older tall pale-white Celtic guys but honestly, I'm open minded and don't have to be with a celtic guy.
I was also asking this because since I am within a Chassidic community, I always assumed that the Lubav men prefer non-convert ladies so I might have to look outside of my community as well.  Well, no matter what happens, thanks for the advice!  O0

your welcome. 

As far as preferring converts and non-converts...I know for myself honestly, it woudl be hard for me to be with a convert due to many reasons: I wouldn't be as observant as she and that woudl be wrong if she converted and follow Judaism base donteh tradition of my family. Also, our families woudl be very different..sot hat's another thing i take into consideration.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Kiwi on December 12, 2007, 06:42:14 PM



Who's we? besides, mills doesn't even know what i look like yet.

I do, maybe mills should get a peek  ^-^

Very nice couple in the making here  O0
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 12, 2007, 10:01:40 PM
First, I want to say this...everytime i see your name or your post i think of your youtube video and what a righteous HOTTY you are... You have absolutely nothing to worry about in regards to finding the right religious man and you shouldn't have to settle for anything less. My first question to you is how old are you and how far along are you in your conversion and where are you from?

1. You should only be eyeing Jews to date right now, but not dating them right away. Focus on your conversion.
2. A convertee marrying another convertee does make the most sense because there is more in common.  However not necessary. If I were a religious Jew, I know I would want to meet you to see if you were right for me..and I would truely know you converted to Judaism for the right reasons.

We always knew you had a giant crush on Mills.
lol, I don't think so.
 Besides, aren't you married Dr. Dan?

If i were married, I would be focusing on my wife right now...No i'm single and 30 years young...but looking for the right girls and dating them for the right reasons. :)  But I have dated a lot and done my "thing" so I know what is natural, kind of...that's why I'm here to offer advice...

Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 12, 2007, 10:02:31 PM



Who's we? besides, mills doesn't even know what i look like yet.

I do, maybe mills should get a peek  ^-^

Very nice couple in the making here  O0

Ok, Mills you want a peak?  Are you on facebook?
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: newman on December 12, 2007, 10:33:31 PM
First, I want to say this...everytime i see your name or your post i think of your youtube video and what a righteous HOTTY you are... You have absolutely nothing to worry about in regards to finding the right religious man and you shouldn't have to settle for anything less. My first question to you is how old are you and how far along are you in your conversion and where are you from?

1. You should only be eyeing Jews to date right now, but not dating them right away. Focus on your conversion.
2. A convertee marrying another convertee does make the most sense because there is more in common.  However not necessary. If I were a religious Jew, I know I would want to meet you to see if you were right for me..and I would truely know you converted to Judaism for the right reasons.

We always knew you had a giant crush on Mills.
lol, I don't think so.
 Besides, aren't you married Dr. Dan?

If i were married, I would be focusing on my wife right now...No i'm single and 30 years young...but looking for the right girls and dating them for the right reasons. :)  But I have dated a lot and done my "thing" so I know what is natural, kind of...that's why I'm here to offer advice...



If you're single and you don't make a play for Mills, you're one dumb Jew!
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 12, 2007, 10:35:17 PM
First, I want to say this...everytime i see your name or your post i think of your youtube video and what a righteous HOTTY you are... You have absolutely nothing to worry about in regards to finding the right religious man and you shouldn't have to settle for anything less. My first question to you is how old are you and how far along are you in your conversion and where are you from?

1. You should only be eyeing Jews to date right now, but not dating them right away. Focus on your conversion.
2. A convertee marrying another convertee does make the most sense because there is more in common.  However not necessary. If I were a religious Jew, I know I would want to meet you to see if you were right for me..and I would truely know you converted to Judaism for the right reasons.

We always knew you had a giant crush on Mills.
lol, I don't think so.
 Besides, aren't you married Dr. Dan?

If i were married, I would be focusing on my wife right now...No i'm single and 30 years young...but looking for the right girls and dating them for the right reasons. :)  But I have dated a lot and done my "thing" so I know what is natural, kind of...that's why I'm here to offer advice...



If you're single and you don't make a play for Mills, you're one dumb Jew!

i'm not a dumb Jew if I feel someone else might be better for her than me!  Love is not meant to be a selfish thing.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: newman on December 12, 2007, 10:38:31 PM
First, I want to say this...everytime i see your name or your post i think of your youtube video and what a righteous HOTTY you are... You have absolutely nothing to worry about in regards to finding the right religious man and you shouldn't have to settle for anything less. My first question to you is how old are you and how far along are you in your conversion and where are you from?

1. You should only be eyeing Jews to date right now, but not dating them right away. Focus on your conversion.
2. A convertee marrying another convertee does make the most sense because there is more in common.  However not necessary. If I were a religious Jew, I know I would want to meet you to see if you were right for me..and I would truely know you converted to Judaism for the right reasons.

We always knew you had a giant crush on Mills.
lol, I don't think so.
 Besides, aren't you married Dr. Dan?

If i were married, I would be focusing on my wife right now...No i'm single and 30 years young...but looking for the right girls and dating them for the right reasons. :)  But I have dated a lot and done my "thing" so I know what is natural, kind of...that's why I'm here to offer advice...



If you're single and you don't make a play for Mills, you're one dumb Jew!

i'm not a dumb Jew if I feel someone else might be better for her than me!  Love is not meant to be a selfish thing.

Whadda you know?

Where you gonna find a lovely Jewish girl like her? Go for it! O0
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Kiwi on December 12, 2007, 10:42:45 PM



Who's we? besides, mills doesn't even know what i look like yet.

I do, maybe mills should get a peek  ^-^

Very nice couple in the making here  O0

Ok, Mills you want a peak?  Are you on facebook?

Now you are getting the idea boy  O0
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Kiwi on December 12, 2007, 10:44:55 PM
Oh Doc if she is not, up load a nice photo on to photobucket.com or such like and give her the link  ^-^

Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 12, 2007, 10:51:41 PM
First, I want to say this...everytime i see your name or your post i think of your youtube video and what a righteous HOTTY you are... You have absolutely nothing to worry about in regards to finding the right religious man and you shouldn't have to settle for anything less. My first question to you is how old are you and how far along are you in your conversion and where are you from?

1. You should only be eyeing Jews to date right now, but not dating them right away. Focus on your conversion.
2. A convertee marrying another convertee does make the most sense because there is more in common.  However not necessary. If I were a religious Jew, I know I would want to meet you to see if you were right for me..and I would truely know you converted to Judaism for the right reasons.

We always knew you had a giant crush on Mills.
lol, I don't think so.
 Besides, aren't you married Dr. Dan?

If i were married, I would be focusing on my wife right now...No i'm single and 30 years young...but looking for the right girls and dating them for the right reasons. :)  But I have dated a lot and done my "thing" so I know what is natural, kind of...that's why I'm here to offer advice...



If you're single and you don't make a play for Mills, you're one dumb Jew!

i'm not a dumb Jew if I feel someone else might be better for her than me!  Love is not meant to be a selfish thing.

Whadda you know?

Where you gonna find a lovely Jewish girl like her? Go for it! O0

Wait a second!  A convert needs to be very religious. I'm not very religious...so that's reason number one.
Long distance, reason number two
Family chemistry, that could be reason number three.

Mills is an enormous amazing woman...There is someone out there who is a better match for her than me..I can assure you of that. I would rather an extraordinary person go with another extraordinary person like her rather than someone is not like her.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 12, 2007, 10:52:38 PM
First, I want to say this...everytime i see your name or your post i think of your youtube video and what a righteous HOTTY you are... You have absolutely nothing to worry about in regards to finding the right religious man and you shouldn't have to settle for anything less. My first question to you is how old are you and how far along are you in your conversion and where are you from?

1. You should only be eyeing Jews to date right now, but not dating them right away. Focus on your conversion.
2. A convertee marrying another convertee does make the most sense because there is more in common.  However not necessary. If I were a religious Jew, I know I would want to meet you to see if you were right for me..and I would truely know you converted to Judaism for the right reasons.

We always knew you had a giant crush on Mills.
lol, I don't think so.
 Besides, aren't you married Dr. Dan?

If i were married, I would be focusing on my wife right now...No i'm single and 30 years young...but looking for the right girls and dating them for the right reasons. :)  But I have dated a lot and done my "thing" so I know what is natural, kind of...that's why I'm here to offer advice...



If you're single and you don't make a play for Mills, you're one dumb Jew!

i'm not a dumb Jew if I feel someone else might be better for her than me!  Love is not meant to be a selfish thing.

Whadda you know?

Where you gonna find a lovely Jewish girl like her? Go for it! O0

newman, PM me the link I sent you..so that i can send it to Mills.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: newman on December 12, 2007, 11:18:46 PM


LOL, I had no idea my question would cause so much commotion. I sometimes feel that I wont be good enough for whoever I marry in the future.

Baloney!

You're the best little Jewish girl in two shoes. :)
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 12, 2007, 11:27:33 PM



Who's we? besides, mills doesn't even know what i look like yet.

I do, maybe mills should get a peek  ^-^

Very nice couple in the making here  O0

Ok, Mills you want a peak?  Are you on facebook?

Now you are getting the idea boy  O0

No, not facebook but I'm on myspace. I'm not too hard to find, but my JTFfemale Myspace is not my Personal one and I'm, not under Mills either. I would put up the link but we all know that there are crazy mooslims and other nazis who spy on the forum.

LOL, I had no idea my question would cause so much commotion. I sometimes feel that I wont be good enough for whoever I marry in the future. But no matter what, I hope it works out not just for me but for everyone else on the forum looking for that someone special  ;)


See? Humble?

btw, i sent you a picture of me so you know who is answering your questions...

also, I did see a profile by the name Mills Addams age 97 from Hollywood...That has to be you.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: newman on December 12, 2007, 11:30:37 PM
Dan is a dead ringer for Andy Garcia.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 12, 2007, 11:39:53 PM
Dan is a dead ringer for Andy Garcia.

Al Pacino, and/or Adam "No, they're all going to laugh at you" Sandler
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 12, 2007, 11:41:25 PM



Who's we? besides, mills doesn't even know what i look like yet.

I do, maybe mills should get a peek  ^-^

Very nice couple in the making here  O0

Ok, Mills you want a peak?  Are you on facebook?

Now you are getting the idea boy  O0

No, not facebook but I'm on myspace. I'm not too hard to find, but my JTFfemale Myspace is not my Personal one and I'm, not under Mills either. I would put up the link but we all know that there are crazy mooslims and other nazis who spy on the forum.

LOL, I had no idea my question would cause so much commotion. I sometimes feel that I wont be good enough for whoever I marry in the future. But no matter what, I hope it works out not just for me but for everyone else on the forum looking for that someone special  ;)


See? Humble?

btw, i sent you a picture of me so you know who is answering your questions...

also, I did see a profile by the name Mills Addams age 97 from Hollywood...That has to be you.
LOL, How did you find me? Yes that's me!

I was going through the myspace videos that Chaim made and saw that you commented on them...so I saw Millie Adaams a cute girl with black hair..and went on your profile just to make sure since the youtube videos you made you wore those hot glasses..and, sure enough, it was you. :)
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Kiwi on December 12, 2007, 11:49:47 PM

LOL, How did you find me? Yes that's me!

Mills my girl, no one is hard to find, when you really want to find them  ;)
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Kiwi on December 12, 2007, 11:52:38 PM

No, not facebook but I'm on myspace. I'm not too hard to find, but my JTFfemale Myspace is not my Personal one and I'm, not under Mills either. I would put up the link but we all know that there are crazy mooslims and other nazis who spy on the forum.

LOL, I had no idea my question would cause so much commotion. I sometimes feel that I wont be good enough for whoever I marry in the future. But no matter what, I hope it works out not just for me but for everyone else on the forum looking for that someone special  ;)

You JTF female page took ages to load, and so I didn't add you.

Mills about being not good enough, thats normal everyone feels that, its called being human.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: JTFFan on December 13, 2007, 04:04:56 AM

No, not facebook but I'm on myspace. I'm not too hard to find, but my JTFfemale Myspace is not my Personal one and I'm, not under Mills either. I would put up the link but we all know that there are crazy mooslims and other nazis who spy on the forum.

LOL, I had no idea my question would cause so much commotion. I sometimes feel that I wont be good enough for whoever I marry in the future. But no matter what, I hope it works out not just for me but for everyone else on the forum looking for that someone special  ;)

You JTF female page took ages to load, and so I didn't add you.

Mills about being not good enough, thats normal everyone feels that, its called being human.

Correct.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 13, 2007, 07:46:58 AM

No, not facebook but I'm on myspace. I'm not too hard to find, but my JTFfemale Myspace is not my Personal one and I'm, not under Mills either. I would put up the link but we all know that there are crazy mooslims and other nazis who spy on the forum.

LOL, I had no idea my question would cause so much commotion. I sometimes feel that I wont be good enough for whoever I marry in the future. But no matter what, I hope it works out not just for me but for everyone else on the forum looking for that someone special  ;)

You JTF female page took ages to load, and so I didn't add you.

Mills about being not good enough, thats normal everyone feels that, its called being human.

Correct.

not normal where I come from and who i see...most people i know think they are too good for the next one until panic starts at the age of 36.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Kiwi on December 13, 2007, 06:22:01 PM
not normal where I come from and who i see...most people i know think they are too good for the next one until panick starts at the age of 36.

Whats the rush at 36 for?
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: newman on December 13, 2007, 06:23:39 PM
not normal where I come from and who i see...most people i know think they are too good for the next one until panick starts at the age of 36.

Whats the rush at 36 for?

The biological time-bomb goes 'tick tick tick'.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 13, 2007, 06:35:35 PM
not normal where I come from and who i see...most people i know think they are too good for the next one until panick starts at the age of 36.

Whats the rush at 36 for?

to get married.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: newman on December 13, 2007, 07:26:42 PM
not normal where I come from and who i see...most people i know think they are too good for the next one until panick starts at the age of 36.

Whats the rush at 36 for?

to get married.
lol. I never think I'm too good for who ever I'm with. The only time I did was when a muslim guy started hitting on me. Any non-muslim can do A LOT better than date a muslim! EWWW!  :o

Why on earth wouldn't any woman want to have her clitoris cut off, her head put into a bag and be treated like livestock? ::)
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Kiwi on December 13, 2007, 07:52:26 PM
not normal where I come from and who i see...most people i know think they are too good for the next one until panick starts at the age of 36.

Whats the rush at 36 for?

to get married.

I went to a wedding last year of this couple i know, they are in their 80's, known each other all there lives, watched each other marry, others raise their familes, their grand children.

And finally they married each other in the end. They both waited a life time to be happy. So this 36 mark I think is more than a little out of wack.

Marriage is more that having kids and sex. Its more about companionship. Rushing into anything because of a number is never wise.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Kiwi on December 13, 2007, 07:54:17 PM
not normal where I come from and who i see...most people i know think they are too good for the next one until panick starts at the age of 36.

Whats the rush at 36 for?

The biological time-bomb goes 'tick tick tick'.

Women can have children up to the 63 I think is the oldest. HRT allows women to extend the ability to carry a child.

Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 13, 2007, 08:47:45 PM
not normal where I come from and who i see...most people i know think they are too good for the next one until panick starts at the age of 36.

Whats the rush at 36 for?

to get married.

I went to a wedding last year of this couple i know, they are in their 80's, known each other all there lives, watched each other marry, others raise their familes, their grand children.

And finally they married each other in the end. They both waited a life time to be happy. So this 36 mark I think is more than a little out of wack.

Marriage is more that having kids and sex. Its more about companionship. Rushing into anything because of a number is never wise.


well 36 years is all relative...it just depends...

Marraige is about ethically putting a man and woman in captivity...You take the good with the bad and you learn to deal with it!
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 13, 2007, 08:49:50 PM
not normal where I come from and who i see...most people i know think they are too good for the next one until panick starts at the age of 36.

Whats the rush at 36 for?

The biological time-bomb goes 'tick tick tick'.

Women can have children up to the 63 I think is the oldest. HRT allows women to extend the ability to carry a child.



It's not the age of having the child...it's letting your child grow up and see you grow older without dying and getting sick on them when they are 17 years old...and it's you as a mother or father that gets to watch them get married and have children of their own...

It's just insane to wait until a very old age to have children and only be able to have about one or two...And it's not fair to the kids who lose their parents when they are barely in their 20's...Gd willing, I want to be able to have children young enough so that I can still play ball with them!
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: newman on December 13, 2007, 08:55:46 PM


It's not the age of having the child...it's letting your child grow up and see you grow older without dying and getting sick on them when they are 17 years old...and it's you as a mother or father that gets to watch them get married and have children of their own...

It's just insane to wait until a very old age to have children and only be able to have about one or two...And it's not fair to the kids who lose their parents when they are barely in their 20's...Gd willing, I want to be able to have children young enough so that I can still play ball with them!

I agree.

Men who father children in their 60s are silly, old fools trying to prove their virility. The human life span is still "three score and ten" (70 years). Have 'em by 45 or forget it.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: newman on December 13, 2007, 09:51:39 PM


It's not the age of having the child...it's letting your child grow up and see you grow older without dying and getting sick on them when they are 17 years old...and it's you as a mother or father that gets to watch them get married and have children of their own...

It's just insane to wait until a very old age to have children and only be able to have about one or two...And it's not fair to the kids who lose their parents when they are barely in their 20's...Gd willing, I want to be able to have children young enough so that I can still play ball with them!

I agree.

Men who father children in their 60s are silly, old fools trying to prove their virility. The human life span is still "three score and ten" (70 years). Have 'em by 45 or forget it.

Maybe they married late and are trying to fulfill the mitsva incumbent upon them to have children? It really depends on the situation.

That mitzvah is not absolute.

Noah's family did not procreate on the ark. They waited until they got to land.

Joseph only had 2 children because Egypt was in famine.

You cannot have children if you cannot support them so you should not if you are likely to die before they reach adulthood.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 13, 2007, 10:02:20 PM
Well a couple issues here....

Better to have a child than to never have a child.
However, while young, don't delay having children too late or getting married to have children too late. In marriage you have to be selfless and understand that your farts don't necessarily smell good to everyone, so to speak.
There is a rule, I heard, in Judaism that if one cannot afford to have challah each shabbat or somethign like that, can wait to have children.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: newman on December 13, 2007, 11:03:20 PM


It's not the age of having the child...it's letting your child grow up and see you grow older without dying and getting sick on them when they are 17 years old...and it's you as a mother or father that gets to watch them get married and have children of their own...

It's just insane to wait until a very old age to have children and only be able to have about one or two...And it's not fair to the kids who lose their parents when they are barely in their 20's...Gd willing, I want to be able to have children young enough so that I can still play ball with them!

I agree.

Men who father children in their 60s are silly, old fools trying to prove their virility. The human life span is still "three score and ten" (70 years). Have 'em by 45 or forget it.

Maybe they married late and are trying to fulfill the mitsva incumbent upon them to have children? It really depends on the situation.

That mitzvah is not absolute.

Noah's family did not procreate on the ark. They waited until they got to land.

Joseph only had 2 children because Egypt was in famine.

You cannot have children if you cannot support them so you should not if you are likely to die before they reach adulthood.

Noah was not Jewish. There is no mitsva for a gentile to have kids, as far as I know.

Yosef haTsaddiq had two children because he simply had two children. He was royalty, the most powerful man in Egypt, and didn't starve at all, and neither would his kids. Moreover, the Torah specifically says that the Jews multiplied greatly as soon as the 70 individuals set-up shop in the prime real estate of Goshen: "And Israel dwelt in the land of Egypt in the land of Goshen, and they acquired property in it, and they were prolific and multiplied greatly." (Genesis 47:27).

Even King Hezekia was weary of having children because he (correctly) foresaw that his son would be a wicked man and lead Israel into idolatry. G-d scolded him for that, and he eventually had that son.

Sara Immenu had her son Yishaq, despite her old age. It was the biggest blessing she could have ever asked for.

I was paraphrasing a Rabbi I saw on a show about population.

The point is (according to him) that one should not have children unless environmental and economic conditions allow for it. That is the lesson drawn from Noach and Joseph. It was also the case in Russia's shtetls for some.

Obviously this has not applied to Jews in the USA, Israel and other affluent countries. But I think it would apply to an elderly person who has little chance of remaining alive to support the child to adulthood.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Kiwi on December 13, 2007, 11:05:43 PM
not normal where I come from and who i see...most people i know think they are too good for the next one until panick starts at the age of 36.

Whats the rush at 36 for?

to get married.

I went to a wedding last year of this couple i know, they are in their 80's, known each other all there lives, watched each other marry, others raise their familes, their grand children.

And finally they married each other in the end. They both waited a life time to be happy. So this 36 mark I think is more than a little out of wack.

Marriage is more that having kids and sex. Its more about companionship. Rushing into anything because of a number is never wise.


well 36 years is all relative...it just depends...

Marraige is about ethically putting a man and woman in captivity...You take the good with the bad and you learn to deal with it!

Bull you have never been married so you talking on something you have no experience in.
Or real knowledge.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Kiwi on December 13, 2007, 11:08:41 PM
not normal where I come from and who i see...most people i know think they are too good for the next one until panick starts at the age of 36.

Whats the rush at 36 for?

The biological time-bomb goes 'tick tick tick'.

Women can have children up to the 63 I think is the oldest. HRT allows women to extend the ability to carry a child.



It's not the age of having the child...it's letting your child grow up and see you grow older without dying and getting sick on them when they are 17 years old...and it's you as a mother or father that gets to watch them get married and have children of their own...

It's just insane to wait until a very old age to have children and only be able to have about one or two...And it's not fair to the kids who lose their parents when they are barely in their 20's...Gd willing, I want to be able to have children young enough so that I can still play ball with them!

You can die at any age so that rules that out. Example my father died when  was 22. So bang goes that theory  :::D
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 14, 2007, 06:14:31 AM
not normal where I come from and who i see...most people i know think they are too good for the next one until panick starts at the age of 36.

Whats the rush at 36 for?

The biological time-bomb goes 'tick tick tick'.

Women can have children up to the 63 I think is the oldest. HRT allows women to extend the ability to carry a child.



It's not the age of having the child...it's letting your child grow up and see you grow older without dying and getting sick on them when they are 17 years old...and it's you as a mother or father that gets to watch them get married and have children of their own...

It's just insane to wait until a very old age to have children and only be able to have about one or two...And it's not fair to the kids who lose their parents when they are barely in their 20's...Gd willing, I want to be able to have children young enough so that I can still play ball with them!

You can die at any age so that rules that out. Example my father died when  was 22. So bang goes that theory  :::D

dying that young is much rarer than dying older, thank Gd...so bang goes that theory...but I'm sorry to see that your father passed away at a young age. People like your father dying so young is extremely rare, though.

Just like walking in the streets of manhattan and a brick lands square on your head out of no where.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Kiwi on December 14, 2007, 06:58:40 AM

dying that young is much rarer than dying older, thank Gd...so bang goes that theory...but I'm sorry to see that your father passed away at a young age. People like your father dying so young is extremely rare, though.

Just like walking in the streets of manhattan and a brick lands square on your head out of no where.

You would be surprised at ages of death of people, most I deal with are 30 to 50. Just its not posted in papers. The death rate of below 25 is shocking.

Old age is not a given.

Its ok, no need to be sorry, death is natural part of life, its g-ds will.

 
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: newman on December 14, 2007, 07:00:18 AM
I died once.





I got better though.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Kiwi on December 14, 2007, 07:06:27 AM
What was wrong with the other side? no JTF forum  ;)
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: newman on December 14, 2007, 07:11:02 AM
What was wrong with the other side? no JTF forum  ;)

Satan opened the scroll with all my sins and it rolled along the ground for about 800 meters!
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Muck DeFuslims on December 14, 2007, 07:13:37 AM
An AIDS patient goes to see his doctor.

The doctor says "I have good news and bad news".

The patient says "Tell me the good news first".

The doctor replies "Your going to live until 105".

The happy patient says "That's great !! What's the bad news ?".

The doctor says "I'm talking about pounds, not years". 
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: newman on December 14, 2007, 07:15:50 AM
An AIDS patient goes to see his doctor.

The doctor says "I have good news and bad news".

The patient says "Tell me the good news first".

The doctor replies "Your going to live until 105".

The happy patient says "That's great !! What's the bad news ?".

The doctor says "I'm talking about pounds, not years". 

There's a new diet for AIDS patients.

Lettuce, pita bread & herring.

They're the only things that fit under the door.
Title: Re: The Ask Dr. Dan Show for Week of 12/9/07
Post by: Sarah on December 15, 2007, 06:32:08 PM
What was wrong with the other side? no JTF forum  ;)
;D
Title: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 16, 2007, 12:15:56 AM
So a question for all you guys?  What do you do on Saturday nights?
Title: Re: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: Kiwi on December 16, 2007, 12:36:07 AM
Is that guys including girls or just fellas?
Title: Re: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 16, 2007, 09:50:27 AM
Is that guys including girls or just fellas?


everyone...including girls.
Title: Re: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: Kiwi on December 16, 2007, 04:54:58 PM
cool  O0
Title: Re: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: jdl4ever on December 16, 2007, 05:00:09 PM
My question:  Can someone be an anti-dentite without being an anti-semite?
Title: Re: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 16, 2007, 10:35:05 PM
My question:  Can someone be an anti-dentite without being an anti-semite?


It works the same way. If one is an anti-dentite, then they run the risk of losing their teeth and wearing denture which sucks big time.

When someone is an anti-semite, they run the risk of losing their soul and their life spiritually.
Title: Re: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: Kiwi on December 16, 2007, 10:58:03 PM
My question:  Can someone be an anti-dentite without being an anti-semite?


It works the same way. If one is an anti-dentite, then they run the risk of losing their teeth and wearing denture which sucks big time.

When someone is an anti-semite, they run the risk of losing their soul and their life spiritually.

Geez I thought if you were anti-semite was the same. After all once they get teeth are knock out for it, they need dentures anyway.
Title: Re: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 16, 2007, 11:01:31 PM
My question:  Can someone be an anti-dentite without being an anti-semite?


It works the same way. If one is an anti-dentite, then they run the risk of losing their teeth and wearing denture which sucks big time.

When someone is an anti-semite, they run the risk of losing their soul and their life spiritually.

Geez I thought if you were anti-semite was the same. After all once they get teeth are knock out for it, they need dentures anyway.


or dental implants.
Title: Re: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 17, 2007, 06:56:06 AM
So a question for all you guys?  What do you do on Saturday nights?
On Saturday nights I realize that my life is boring :( since I don't do anything. Otherwise, I'll come to the forum, read or start writing something.


Why don't you go and out and do something with your friends?
Title: Re: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: Kiwi on December 17, 2007, 07:15:35 AM
My Saturday night is same as every night I have clients until 10 pm, have my family until the fall asleep. And maybe lucky to have something else  ;)

And then sleep ::)

And while i wait for the something else I am on the computer  ^-^
Title: Re: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 17, 2007, 06:02:28 PM
So a question for all you guys?  What do you do on Saturday nights?
On Saturday nights I realize that my life is boring :( since I don't do anything. Otherwise, I'll come to the forum, read or start writing something.


Why don't you go and out and do something with your friends?
Well....
My friends from school go out to drink and to parties. I neither drink not go to parties...well at least the ones they do. Or they go to bars and drink there, then go to a party and drink until 5 am. My friends are college kids who like this kind of lifestyle. My other friends from school don't do this but they're mostly Catholic and do religious things on the weekends so I can't go to their Xmas parties or rosary-bonfires. Lastly, the other religious club aka Jewish club: I don't know maybe they found out I'm a Kahanist and no longer speak to me  :'(
So that leaves me with a smaller group of friends who are religious, study a lot and occasionally go out. The end result is me having extremely boring weekends!!!

So if you can pick somethign to do on a saturday night, what would it be?
Title: Re: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: Lisa on December 17, 2007, 06:18:08 PM
My weekends are also mostly boring.  I would love to expand my social circle and make new friends. 
Title: Re: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 17, 2007, 06:59:50 PM
My weekends are also mostly boring.  I would love to expand my social circle and make new friends. 

what's boring about your weekends?
Title: Re: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: Lisa on December 17, 2007, 07:08:25 PM
I don't have many single women friends. 
Title: Re: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 17, 2007, 07:31:01 PM
I don't have many single women friends. 

so that leaves you wtih many single guy freinds?
Title: Re: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: Ambiorix on December 17, 2007, 07:37:40 PM
Weekends can be used to see some friends, but I really don't care about going out and drinking.
For me a good weekend is being together with my family.
Title: Re: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: Lisa on December 17, 2007, 07:38:15 PM
That leaves me as kind of a hermit
Title: Re: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 17, 2007, 08:17:25 PM
That leaves me as kind of a hermit

Why do you choose to be a hermit kind of?
Title: Re: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 17, 2007, 08:18:25 PM
So a question for all you guys?  What do you do on Saturday nights?
On Saturday nights I realize that my life is boring :( since I don't do anything. Otherwise, I'll come to the forum, read or start writing something.


Why don't you go and out and do something with your friends?
Well....
My friends from school go out to drink and to parties. I neither drink not go to parties...well at least the ones they do. Or they go to bars and drink there, then go to a party and drink until 5 am. My friends are college kids who like this kind of lifestyle. My other friends from school don't do this but they're mostly Catholic and do religious things on the weekends so I can't go to their Xmas parties or rosary-bonfires. Lastly, the other religious club aka Jewish club: I don't know maybe they found out I'm a Kahanist and no longer speak to me  :'(
So that leaves me with a smaller group of friends who are religious, study a lot and occasionally go out. The end result is me having extremely boring weekends!!!

So if you can pick somethign to do on a saturday night, what would it be?
If I could, ideally I would spend it with someone special wehter indoors or outdoors. If its cold, I would stay indoors in front of the fireplace and drink something warm. Otherwise I love to write stories on the weekends. Or study something interesting like religions or history. That or I'll go shopping and exploring weird world markets. I take my sister along. So my favorite place is called the "Cost Plus World Market" where I can shop through Japanese lanterns, Thai ritual masks, African instruments I never heard about, Indian silk scarves etc. So I guess I like exploring the strange, writing or staying in, it depends.

Do you know anyone near you who is curious or interested in that too? besides yoru sister.
Title: Re: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: Lisa on December 17, 2007, 08:21:57 PM
I dunno.  I'm an introvert. 
Title: Re: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 17, 2007, 08:57:51 PM


Do you know anyone near you who is curious or interested in that too? besides yoru sister.
Actually, my sister is not interested, she only goes with me because I promise to buy her something. No one close to me likes what I like...in exploring world cultures and unknown places. I think some people are more interested in going to bars, dances and movies. I know that Robert Ripley and Vincent Price would be interested in what I like, but they are dead. Yea this must be weird sounding.  :D

Well I'm fascinated...too bad i don't live in hollywood
Title: Re: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 18, 2007, 07:01:45 AM
I dunno.  I'm an introvert. 

If you're an introvert then why are you so successful here?
Title: Re: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 18, 2007, 07:05:03 AM
I have a question for the Love Doctor:

Why do so many cheat on their spouse? What is the cause for infidelity?

Not sure...

If a woman cheats I will assume because her husband was absent from her
OR
Because she's a nymphomaniac slut...and if she were one of those it still might be because of her husband's absence (not being there enough)

If a man cheats it can be a million and one reasons..I'll just give a few.

The same two as above for the women
Beacause some men are wired differently and are more easily tempted to be with many women. So when his wife physically less attractive and another enticing one comes a long if the man is too weak to control himself, he'll do the wrong thing and go with that enticer..

I don't know..but these are the only reasons I can really think of.
Title: Re: The Dr. Dan Show for week of 12/16/07
Post by: Sarah on December 22, 2007, 07:24:49 PM
I dunno.  I'm an introvert. 

If you're an introvert then why are you so successful here?


----->
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As an introvert, you can use the power of self-reflection, contemplation, and the ability to listen carefully to your audience to great benefit. You actually have certain advantages, including strengths at building relationships, creating a vision and strategizing

Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Lisa on December 22, 2007, 08:14:12 PM
Why thank you Sarah!
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Sarah on December 22, 2007, 08:22:11 PM
Why thank you Sarah!

It's very much true.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on December 22, 2007, 08:25:35 PM
Dear Doc,

Say you were on a date and the person is horrible, how do you get out of it?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 23, 2007, 02:52:48 AM
Dear Doc,

Say you were on a date and the person is horrible, how do you get out of it?

Well, I'm polite either way and when the date is over, I say, "nice to meet you" and never call her again and if she calls me, ignore the calls and messages tills he gets the idea.

But I did have one of the most horrible blind dates...Back like in 2000, a so-called Jamaican Jew who claimed she looked like Beyonce.  She looked more like Mike Tyson or one of the Black "Hebros" with the Jewish star bling on...ugh..so nasty..and it turned out she was bipolar too...just all whack! I couldn't look at her face and I didn't know how to get out of it either because i picked her up at the train station.  So the whole date i would keep looking at my watch and not being so polite...and it didn't work because she kept on trying to grope me!  As the night wore on, I had had it and dropped her off at the train station during her annoying rant and drove off!

And it didn't end there, she called me incessantly for 2 months until finally my mom told her to get lost...and never heard from her again.


So lession to be learned...no more internet dating...

and nothing can be as horrible as what I had to go through.

and I know in the future, just be polite and end the date sooner than expected.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on December 23, 2007, 03:58:00 AM
dump and leave, drive like the wind away  :::D ok got that  ;D
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 23, 2007, 09:57:43 AM
dump and leave, drive like the wind away  :::D ok got that  ;D

Well...that was after hanging out with her for 1 hour...
because i felt bad that she came all the way by train...

however..it was false advertisement...so i should have simply said, "I'm sorry to tell you, but I'm my way here I got an emergency call, we have to do this another night. Sorry that you had to come all the way here...."

I swear when i got to the train station to pick her up, I saw a guy in a heavy coat and hat and I was thinking, "oh she's not here yet."  and this person gets up and sits in my car and smiles at me with her gappy teeth...and it was a big person too!  And yes, I freaked out! I didin't know what to do..i was frantic..i felt like barfing!  I shoudl have said, "No way, get out! You lied to me...You don't look like no Destiny's Child singer to me.  Nah huh...mmmhmmm"
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on December 23, 2007, 06:31:44 PM
dump and leave, drive like the wind away  :::D ok got that  ;D

Well...that was after hanging out with her for 1 hour...
because i felt bad that she came all the way by train...

however..it was false advertisement...so i should have simply said, "I'm sorry to tell you, but I'm my way here I got an emergency call, we have to do this another night. Sorry that you had to come all the way here...."

I swear when i got to the train station to pick her up, I saw a guy in a heavy coat and hat and I was thinking, "oh she's not here yet."  and this person gets up and sits in my car and smiles at me with her gappy teeth...and it was a big person too!  And yes, I freaked out! I didin't know what to do..i was frantic..i felt like barfing!  I shoudl have said, "No way, get out! You lied to me...You don't look like no Destiny's Child singer to me.  Nah huh...mmmhmmm"

Oh but I thought people here were not worried about how women look, as long as they are good women  ::)

Serves you right for being shallow  :::D

 ;D :D

Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: cjd on December 23, 2007, 06:45:12 PM
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I swear when i got to the train station to pick her up, I saw a guy in a heavy coat and hat and I was thinking, "oh she's not here yet."  and this person gets up and sits in my car and smiles at me with her gappy teeth...and it was a big person too!  And yes, I freaked out! I didin't know what to do..i was frantic..i felt like barfing!  I shoudl have said, "No way, get out! You lied to me...You don't look like no Destiny's Child singer to me.  Nah huh...mmmhmmm"
Dr. Dan this has to be the classic blind date horror story ;D When she told you she looked like Destiny's Child singer ( who ever that is ) you should have become suspicious. All I can tell you is that your lucky it was not really a guy in a  heavy coat :D Thank G-d for the gappy teeth you will never know :::D Alls well that ends well I always say O0
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 23, 2007, 07:21:26 PM
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I swear when i got to the train station to pick her up, I saw a guy in a heavy coat and hat and I was thinking, "oh she's not here yet."  and this person gets up and sits in my car and smiles at me with her gappy teeth...and it was a big person too!  And yes, I freaked out! I didin't know what to do..i was frantic..i felt like barfing!  I shoudl have said, "No way, get out! You lied to me...You don't look like no Destiny's Child singer to me.  Nah huh...mmmhmmm"
Dr. Dan this has to be the classic blind date horror story ;D When she told you she looked like Destiny's Child singer ( who ever that is ) you should have become suspicious. All I can tell you is that your lucky it was not really a guy in a  heavy coat :D Thank G-d for the gappy teeth you will never know :::D Alls well that ends well I always say O0

I think Gd was protecting me very much...thank Gd..Thank Gd!!!  He needs me for something important in this world...I just have no clue what it is...but it feels special to be spared.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 23, 2007, 11:31:16 PM
If I had a dollar for every black woman who claims to:
(A) Look like Beyonce,
(B) sings like her
(C) or both.............then we'd all be RICH!

 :) LOL! Sorry to hear about this. I never had a blind date and I don't think I ever will.  :::D

well, this was literally blind..never even saw a picture..but after that, I made it a rule that every girl i was giogn to have a blind date with had to send me a picture. Luckily, soon after another girl contacted me who at that time lived a right in my neighborhood and she sent me a very blurry picture. Anyway, i decided to meet up with her anyway and she ended up being the msot normal sweet decent human being I had ever met at that point in my life. We dated for a year and half...So it was a just reward.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 23, 2007, 11:42:06 PM
That's sweet!  :'( <---these are nostalgia tears of when I used to date. I never went out on a blind date even with pictures. If I ever dated, it was to someone I knew personally like in school. Well, that was like 100 years ago.


I actually just started dating someone suggested to me and it was a blind date even though i  saw a picture. we went on 3 dates so far and I like her..She can also speak Hebrew fluently :)....
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: OdKahaneChai on December 24, 2007, 01:41:07 PM
If I had a dollar for every black woman who claims to:
(A) Look like Beyonce,
(B) sings like her
(C) or both.............then we'd all be RICH!

 :) LOL! Sorry to hear about this. I never had a blind date and I don't think I ever will.  :::D

And we were going to hook you up with a nice Jewish boy with three beard hairs from Crown Heights! Too bad, so much for shidduchim for Mills!
Wait until she finishes Gerut - it'll also give him some time to grow a few more beard hairs... ;)
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: MassuhDGoodName on December 27, 2007, 01:13:28 AM
Dear Doctor Dan,
Last week I agreed to a blind date with young woman which was arranged for us by mutual friends.
We went to a pizza parlor, and then we went to see the new Will Smith movie.
I remember offering to buy her ticket, but she insisted on "going Dutch".
Here's what's troubling me...
The space of time from after we took a seat in the theatre, until the next day when I awoke in my own bathtub filled with icecubes at home, is a complete blank!
I can remember nothing!
Only late last night did I speak with my best friend who reminded me that I actually did have a date!....it's all so "fuzzy"...like a "dream" or something....
Now, I have a bad rash, and I'm really 'burning' "down there"...you know where...down....there...where...
well, you know what I'm talking about Dr. Dan.
So, my question for you, Dr. Dan, is this....
Do I have VD now?
signed,
Sookie Sue
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 27, 2007, 08:10:39 AM
That's sweet!  :'( <---these are nostalgia tears of when I used to date. I never went out on a blind date even with pictures. If I ever dated, it was to someone I knew personally like in school. Well, that was like 100 years ago.


I actually just started dating someone suggested to me and it was a blind date even though i  saw a picture. we went on 3 dates so far and I like her..She can also speak Hebrew fluently :)....

I have a question for the Love Doctor:

Where did you go with her on your last three dates? Where are you planning on going next?

1. Italian Restaurant
2. Restaurant in the City
3. The Met and then to a restuarant
4. Ice skating (if there is a next date)
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 27, 2007, 08:12:21 AM
Dear Doctor Dan,
Last week I agreed to a blind date with young woman which was arranged for us by mutual friends.
We went to a pizza parlor, and then we went to see the new Will Smith movie.
I remember offering to buy her ticket, but she insisted on "going Dutch".
Here's what's troubling me...
The space of time from after we took a seat in the theatre, until the next day when I awoke in my own bathtub filled with icecubes at home, is a complete blank!
I can remember nothing!
Only late last night did I speak with my best friend who reminded me that I actually did have a date!....it's all so "fuzzy"...like a "dream" or something....
Now, I have a bad rash, and I'm really 'burning' "down there"...you know where...down....there...where...
well, you know what I'm talking about Dr. Dan.
So, my question for you, Dr. Dan, is this....
Do I have VD now?
signed,
Sookie Sue

You have what's called Full of Shittitis! 
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: MassuhDGoodName on December 27, 2007, 11:04:17 AM
Dr. Dan:  "...You have what's called Full of Shittitis!..."

Sookie Sue:
Thank you ever so much, Dr. Dan!
I knew you would have all the answers!
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 28, 2007, 03:55:05 PM
WOW!  :o

 :D... shhhh it's our little secret.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 29, 2007, 06:35:52 PM
WOW!  :o

 :D... shhhh it's our little secret.

Your sick comment was removed.

That's sweet!  :'( <---these are nostalgia tears of when I used to date. I never went out on a blind date even with pictures. If I ever dated, it was to someone I knew personally like in school. Well, that was like 100 years ago.


I actually just started dating someone suggested to me and it was a blind date even though i  saw a picture. we went on 3 dates so far and I like her..She can also speak Hebrew fluently :)....

I have a question for the Love Doctor:

Where did you go with her on your last three dates? Where are you planning on going next?

1. Italian Restaurant
2. Restaurant in the City
3. The Met and then to a restuarant
4. Ice skating (if there is a next date)

Sounds like she's very expensive; is she actually worth it? I can understand why you are going ice skating next time... jeez.

What do you mean "if"? You sounded like you were fluttering with her in a garden of roses.


Sorry for the sick comment, but Massuah was asking for it...but i do apologize for anyone who got that joke and got really really offended by it.

As far as if she is actually "worth it"...yes, certain girls are "worth it"...I like her, she's pretty, she's young, she's nice, she's what persians call "Najib" which basically means innocent and conservative and traditional and not slutty etc etc. Very hard to find today. And the other thing is that i can afford to go out on dates like those. I'm not going well below my means nor way above my means.  I'm not getting all showy and what we are doing is in good taste and a nice time together.

By "if" i mean, Gd willing.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on December 29, 2007, 07:10:43 PM
Dear Doctor Dan,
Last week I agreed to a blind date with young woman which was arranged for us by mutual friends.
We went to a pizza parlor, and then we went to see the new Will Smith movie.
I remember offering to buy her ticket, but she insisted on "going Dutch".
Here's what's troubling me...
The space of time from after we took a seat in the theatre, until the next day when I awoke in my own bathtub filled with icecubes at home, is a complete blank!
I can remember nothing!
Only late last night did I speak with my best friend who reminded me that I actually did have a date!....it's all so "fuzzy"...like a "dream" or something....
Now, I have a bad rash, and I'm really 'burning' "down there"...you know where...down....there...where...
well, you know what I'm talking about Dr. Dan.
So, my question for you, Dr. Dan, is this....
Do I have VD now?
signed,
Sookie Sue

You have what's called Full of Shittitis! 

Do you think thats catching Doc?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 29, 2007, 08:08:10 PM
Dear Doctor Dan,
Last week I agreed to a blind date with young woman which was arranged for us by mutual friends.
We went to a pizza parlor, and then we went to see the new Will Smith movie.
I remember offering to buy her ticket, but she insisted on "going Dutch".
Here's what's troubling me...
The space of time from after we took a seat in the theatre, until the next day when I awoke in my own bathtub filled with icecubes at home, is a complete blank!
I can remember nothing!
Only late last night did I speak with my best friend who reminded me that I actually did have a date!....it's all so "fuzzy"...like a "dream" or something....
Now, I have a bad rash, and I'm really 'burning' "down there"...you know where...down....there...where...
well, you know what I'm talking about Dr. Dan.
So, my question for you, Dr. Dan, is this....
Do I have VD now?
signed,
Sookie Sue

You have what's called Full of Shittitis! 

Do you think thats catching Doc?

not yet
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on December 29, 2007, 08:23:55 PM
not yet

How can we prevent it?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 29, 2007, 09:16:54 PM
not yet

How can we prevent it?

Don't be such a Ron Paul fan..
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on December 29, 2007, 09:28:32 PM
not yet

How can we prevent it?

Don't be such a Ron Paul fan..


Ooohhhh  noooooooooo my life will be over  :(
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 30, 2007, 06:57:10 PM
not yet

How can we prevent it?

Don't be such a Ron Paul fan..


Ooohhhh  noooooooooo my life will be over  :(

I'm telling you...Chaim knows what he's saying about him...Ron Paul is a Nazi supporter and anti semetic!!!
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on December 30, 2007, 07:08:36 PM
not yet

How can we prevent it?

Don't be such a Ron Paul fan..


Ooohhhh  noooooooooo my life will be over  :(

I'm telling you...Chaim knows what he's saying about him...Ron Paul is a Nazi supporter and anti semetic!!!

Sarcasm was lost on you there wasn't it  :::D
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 30, 2007, 08:05:09 PM
not yet

How can we prevent it?

Don't be such a Ron Paul fan..


Ooohhhh  noooooooooo my life will be over  :(

I'm telling you...Chaim knows what he's saying about him...Ron Paul is a Nazi supporter and anti semetic!!!

Sarcasm was lost on you there wasn't it  :::D

actually wasn't sure if you were serious.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on December 30, 2007, 08:48:01 PM

actually wasn't sure if you were serious.

Spice of life Doc always keep them guessing  ;)
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 31, 2007, 08:06:31 AM

actually wasn't sure if you were serious.

Spice of life Doc always keep them guessing  ;)

for some yes...
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on December 31, 2007, 04:35:53 PM

actually wasn't sure if you were serious.

Spice of life Doc always keep them guessing  ;)

for some yes...

Whats up Doc? You don't seem you normal sparkie self?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on December 31, 2007, 07:08:50 PM

actually wasn't sure if you were serious.

Spice of life Doc always keep them guessing  ;)

for some yes...

Whats up Doc? You don't seem you normal sparkie self?

well no one is asking me questions...
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on December 31, 2007, 07:23:59 PM

actually wasn't sure if you were serious.

Spice of life Doc always keep them guessing  ;)

for some yes...

Whats up Doc? You don't seem you normal sparkie self?

well no one is asking me questions...

Oh ok ............ :-\

Here's one for you, you are dating a person, and your best friend confesses thier love for you, what do you do? Tell your partner? Break off the friendship? Play dumb? what?

Do you date both at the same time?

Oh this is not a trick question this is a real question   :-\
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Joe Schmo on January 01, 2008, 01:58:34 AM
What makes you a 'love doctor'?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on January 01, 2008, 06:25:57 AM

actually wasn't sure if you were serious.

Spice of life Doc always keep them guessing  ;)

for some yes...

Whats up Doc? You don't seem you normal sparkie self?

well no one is asking me questions...

Oh ok ............ :-\

Here's one for you, you are dating a person, and your best friend confesses thier love for you, what do you do? Tell your partner? Break off the friendship? Play dumb? what?

Do you date both at the same time?

Oh this is not a trick question this is a real question   :-\

Well, if my best friend confessed his love for me whiel I was dating a girl, I would slap HIM on the face silly and say, "hey I dont' go that way!"
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on January 01, 2008, 06:27:07 AM
What makes you a 'love doctor'?


I put my hand on a rock and said, "I proclaim myself the Love doctor of JTF!"
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on January 01, 2008, 07:06:15 AM


Well, if my best friend confessed his love for me whiel I was dating a girl, I would slap HIM on the face silly and say, "hey I dont' go that way!"

So even tho we have water restrictions, is it still OK to hose them with the garden hose?

Or do you think that rejection message maybe a little harsh? 
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Joe Schmo on January 01, 2008, 11:41:28 AM
I put my hand on a rock and said, "I proclaim myself the Love doctor of JTF!"

In that case, I hereby declare myself Guru of all things.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on January 01, 2008, 11:57:47 AM


Well, if my best friend confessed his love for me whiel I was dating a girl, I would slap HIM on the face silly and say, "hey I dont' go that way!"

So even tho we have water restrictions, is it still OK to hose them with the garden hose?

Or do you think that rejection message maybe a little harsh? 


If someone wanted to be gay with me?!  I'ld say, "Hey sthweety, I'm thorry, but I like my men without penithes"
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on January 01, 2008, 12:09:28 PM
I put my hand on a rock and said, "I proclaim myself the Love doctor of JTF!"

In that case, I hereby declare myself Guru of all things.

No, but seriously, i'm not an expert in this...I'm not even married so who am I to say anything?

however, it SEEMS that compared to most of the people on this forum, I have dated a lot more and I have been in several relationships.  A lot of young people here only know about the IDEAL way of dating, but don't really understand the REALITY of it. 

Yes, my threads are also meant for entertainment...This is a very serious movement and forum so a few harmless laughs helps everyone come back down to earth in my opinion.

What I say isn't the "gospel" of how one should date either. What I say is just another point of view and that whatever decision one makes in their own life is really their own call. In other words, people should take whatever advice I have as a grain of salt.

Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on January 01, 2008, 07:12:56 PM


Well, if my best friend confessed his love for me whiel I was dating a girl, I would slap HIM on the face silly and say, "hey I dont' go that way!"

So even tho we have water restrictions, is it still OK to hose them with the garden hose?

Or do you think that rejection message maybe a little harsh? 


If someone wanted to be gay with me?!  I'ld say, "Hey sthweety, I'm thorry, but I like my men without penithes"

Now what if your best friend was a woman?  ^-^
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on January 01, 2008, 07:32:08 PM


Well, if my best friend confessed his love for me whiel I was dating a girl, I would slap HIM on the face silly and say, "hey I dont' go that way!"

So even tho we have water restrictions, is it still OK to hose them with the garden hose?

Or do you think that rejection message maybe a little harsh? 


If someone wanted to be gay with me?!  I'ld say, "Hey sthweety, I'm thorry, but I like my men without penithes"

Now what if your best friend was a woman?  ^-^

so wait, what's your qusetion again?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on January 01, 2008, 08:11:18 PM


Well, if my best friend confessed his love for me whiel I was dating a girl, I would slap HIM on the face silly and say, "hey I dont' go that way!"

So even tho we have water restrictions, is it still OK to hose them with the garden hose?

Or do you think that rejection message maybe a little harsh? 


If someone wanted to be gay with me?!  I'ld say, "Hey sthweety, I'm thorry, but I like my men without penithes"

Now what if your best friend was a woman?  ^-^

so wait, what's your qusetion again?

Oh Boy  ::) See you are a guy having to repeat all the time  :::D

You are dating a person, and your best friend confesses thier love for you, what do you do? Tell your partner? Break off the friendship? Play dumb? what?

Do you date both at the same time?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on January 01, 2008, 08:22:42 PM


Well, if my best friend confessed his love for me whiel I was dating a girl, I would slap HIM on the face silly and say, "hey I dont' go that way!"

So even tho we have water restrictions, is it still OK to hose them with the garden hose?

Or do you think that rejection message maybe a little harsh? 


If someone wanted to be gay with me?!  I'ld say, "Hey sthweety, I'm thorry, but I like my men without penithes"

Now what if your best friend was a woman?  ^-^

so wait, what's your qusetion again?

Oh Boy  ::) See you are a guy having to repeat all the time  :::D

You are dating a person, and your best friend confesses thier love for you, what do you do? Tell your partner? Break off the friendship? Play dumb? what?

Do you date both at the same time?

1. How old is my best friend? Is she jewish? How long have i been dating the other person?  how good is that relationship going? What are the families like of the girls i'm friends with and dating?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on January 01, 2008, 08:27:14 PM


1. How old is my best friend? Is she jewish? How long have i been dating the other person?  how good is that relationship going? What are the families like of the girls i'm friends with and dating?

Ok say she is 2 years younger than you, is Jewish, you been dating for 4 months the other person, and the relationship is going not so good at the minute, And they came from good families.

You are shocked because you didn't even see it coming...........

Ok answer please.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on January 01, 2008, 08:47:36 PM


1. How old is my best friend? Is she jewish? How long have i been dating the other person?  how good is that relationship going? What are the families like of the girls i'm friends with and dating?

Ok say she is 2 years younger than you, is Jewish, you been dating for 4 months the other person, and the relationship is going not so good at the minute, And they came from good families.

You are shocked because you didn't even see it coming...........

Ok answer please.

well, it's a complicated question because it depends if i had feelings for my best friend...If my best friend who was a girl was like a sister to me it wouldn't seem right to be with her...I will add that most of the time when i become friends with a girl, i will have pondered if I wanted to have a relationship with her and perhaps marry her already...So the reason why I woudl be dating another girl is because i felt that my best friend was only good enough to be my best friend not necessarily my wife...

If i had feelings for my best friend and had considered dating her, I woudl have gone after her before i started dating this other girl for 4 months..

So my answer to you is that this situation doesn't apply to me. I would never allow something like this to take place.

Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on January 01, 2008, 08:51:13 PM


1. How old is my best friend? Is she jewish? How long have i been dating the other person?  how good is that relationship going? What are the families like of the girls i'm friends with and dating?

Ok say she is 2 years younger than you, is Jewish, you been dating for 4 months the other person, and the relationship is going not so good at the minute, And they came from good families.

You are shocked because you didn't even see it coming...........

Ok answer please.

well, it's a complicated question because it depends if i had feelings for my best friend...If my best friend who was a girl was like a sister to me it wouldn't seem right to be with her...I will add that most of the time when i become friends with a girl, i will have pondered if I wanted to have a relationship with her and perhaps marry her already...So the reason why I woudl be dating another girl is because i felt that my best friend was only good enough to be my best friend not necessarily my wife...

If i had feelings for my best friend and had considered dating her, I woudl have gone after her before i started dating this other girl for 4 months..

So my answer to you is that this situation doesn't apply to me. I would never allow something like this to take place.



So you think you can influence the other person, because of what you feel about them? You can change their feelings, because of what you want?

As I said it shocks you and say it does happen what would you do?

Saying never it will never happen is quite naive, and yet you have no answer?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on January 01, 2008, 08:57:58 PM


1. How old is my best friend? Is she jewish? How long have i been dating the other person?  how good is that relationship going? What are the families like of the girls i'm friends with and dating?

Ok say she is 2 years younger than you, is Jewish, you been dating for 4 months the other person, and the relationship is going not so good at the minute, And they came from good families.

You are shocked because you didn't even see it coming...........

Ok answer please.

well, it's a complicated question because it depends if i had feelings for my best friend...If my best friend who was a girl was like a sister to me it wouldn't seem right to be with her...I will add that most of the time when i become friends with a girl, i will have pondered if I wanted to have a relationship with her and perhaps marry her already...So the reason why I woudl be dating another girl is because i felt that my best friend was only good enough to be my best friend not necessarily my wife...

If i had feelings for my best friend and had considered dating her, I woudl have gone after her before i started dating this other girl for 4 months..

So my answer to you is that this situation doesn't apply to me. I would never allow something like this to take place.



So you think you can influence the other person, because of what you feel about them? You can change their feelings, because of what you want?

As I said it shocks you and say it does happen what would you do?

Saying never it will never happen is quite naive, and yet you have no answer?

Listen..like I said...If there was a girl I was friends with, I woudl have already given it a serious consideration of dating her...and if she wasn't interested or i wasn't interested to begin with then your question is moot.

and you mention a 4 month relationship not going well for the time being..well what is it about the relationship that isn't going well? I mean it's too broad of a situation...

and my best friend would see i'm dating someone already..what kind of friend is this to profess her love while i'm in the middle of a major relationship?!
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on January 01, 2008, 09:35:47 PM


and my best friend would see i'm dating someone already..what kind of friend is this to profess her love while i'm in the middle of a major relationship?!

Maybe she feels you can do better?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on January 02, 2008, 04:05:10 AM
There Are No 'Israeli' Arabs why did you edit me?  :-\
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on January 02, 2008, 07:08:50 AM


and my best friend would see i'm dating someone already..what kind of friend is this to profess her love while i'm in the middle of a major relationship?!

Maybe she feels you can do better?

If my best friend was consistent with my parents and other friends to the girl i was dating was very wrong for me, then yes, I would go for my best friend.

But if my best friend was acting on selfish needs, then she really wouldn't be loving me...Loving someone doesn't necessarily mean loving that person just for your needs.  Loving someone can also mean wanting their best interest for their happiness. For me to love a girl who is dating another man who also is gentle and nice is fine.  And to profess my true love for that girl who is in love with someone else would be to let her be with that other man.  Now, if that man was evil..he was a cheater..etc etc etc...then as a friend I would warn my best friend.  This is how I would be if I loved my own best friend if she were a woman.  therefore, this is how I would want a female best friend to be with me also.  But she, alone, is only allowed to warn me with proof about the girl I"m dating..and if she really wanted me to break up with her to date she, herself, there would have to be consistency from others close around me in regards to the girl I'm currently dating...does that make any sense?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Kiwi on January 02, 2008, 07:11:23 AM


and my best friend would see i'm dating someone already..what kind of friend is this to profess her love while i'm in the middle of a major relationship?!

Maybe she feels you can do better?

If my best friend was consistent with my parents and other friends to the girl i was dating was very wrong for me, then yes, I would go for my best friend.

But if my best friend was acting on selfish needs, then she really wouldn't be loving me...Loving someone doesn't necessarily mean loving that person just for your needs.  Loving someone can also mean wanting their best interest for their happiness. For me to love a girl who is dating another man who also is gentle and nice is fine.  And to profess my true love for that girl who is in love with someone else would be to let her be with that other man.  Now, if that man was evil..he was a cheater..etc etc etc...then as a friend I would warn my best friend.  This is how I would be if I loved my own best friend if she were a woman.  therefore, this is how I would want a female best friend to be with me also.  But she, alone, is only allowed to warn me with proof about the girl I"m dating..and if she really wanted me to break up with her to date she, herself, there would have to be consistency from others close around me in regards to the girl I'm currently dating...does that make any sense?

Funny enough yes.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on January 06, 2008, 10:16:29 AM
Good everyone has been successful this New years!
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Zvulun Ben Moshe on January 20, 2008, 07:56:34 PM
Doctor, why wont you start recording your answers and make audio podcasts?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on January 20, 2008, 08:19:08 PM
Doctor, why wont you start recording your answers and make audio podcasts?

because I have no time to do that.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on January 31, 2008, 10:45:34 PM
Love Doctor:

Have you ever asked a somewhat random girl to go on a date with you, like one you saw at a convention or something?

yes
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on February 01, 2008, 08:46:47 AM
Love Doctor:

Have you ever asked a somewhat random girl to go on a date with you, like one you saw at a convention or something?

yes

I feel it can be good or bad.
I had a guy ask me out once at a store. I was buying cereal...not the best place to ask.
BUT a convention might be good because maybe you can start talking about the convention topic, find an interest and then "continue the conversation over dinner". (or coffee, whatever) O0
Well, that's just me.


Any place where a particular person is expecting to meet someone or who is receptive to someone coming up to him/her is a great thing.
However, best to avoid talking about politics and religion. I dont' know why, but that's what other recommend. I think politics and religion is a great way to know someone's soul immediately.

As far as getting someone's number in a public place...i was once on a train ride and a cute girl was smiling at me..I sat down next to her talked with her and got her number. Went out once.. ended up she was an ultra liberal hippy girl vegan with bad teeth and a very pro-PETA person and by PETA, i'm not talking about the bread we love to eat with falafal.

I'll say that was one memorable experience.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Tina Greco - Melbourne on February 06, 2008, 09:14:25 PM
Doc,

Why do people think, because you have a partner that away from you, that they must be cheating?

Do you think, people haven't forgotten how to trust each other?

Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on February 06, 2008, 11:36:43 PM
Doc,

Why do people think, because you have a partner that away from you, that they must be cheating?

Do you think, people haven't forgotten how to trust each other?



It's insecurity and sometimes insecurity is a sign of low self-esteem.

It can also be a bad experience from someone from the past who cheated.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Tina Greco - Melbourne on February 07, 2008, 12:42:19 AM
Doc,

Why do people think, because you have a partner that away from you, that they must be cheating?

Do you think, people haven't forgotten how to trust each other?



It's insecurity and sometimes insecurity is a sign of low self-esteem.

It can also be a bad experience from someone from the past who cheated.

Yes but why do they project their ideas onto another couple that don't have those thoughts, do you think they are jealous?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on February 07, 2008, 10:48:55 AM
Doc,

Why do people think, because you have a partner that away from you, that they must be cheating?

Do you think, people haven't forgotten how to trust each other?



It's insecurity and sometimes insecurity is a sign of low self-esteem.

It can also be a bad experience from someone from the past who cheated.

Yes but why do they project their ideas onto another couple that don't have those thoughts, do you think they are jealous?


Ah, i had this conversation wtih someone just yesterday...

Quite simply, it depends on who is projecting those thoughts.

If it is a non-parent and a friend who is projecting their thoughts it can be because they are jealous of the relationship OR they actually saw something.

If it is the parent of the one who you are with, it might be the parent's intention to make you paranoid because they don't like you.  In that situation, you have to hold your ground and say the right thing to them. 

Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Tina Greco - Melbourne on February 20, 2008, 08:48:57 AM
Doc, My son is dating a halfwit nutter what shall I do?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on April 07, 2008, 09:12:04 AM
shall we put this show back on the air?  Questions anyone?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Tina Greco - Melbourne on April 07, 2008, 10:06:45 AM
Its about time doc  O0

Got one for you, My Rabbi gave me a list of names of single Jewish men, he wants me to be married by the end of the year, how can I tell him to shove it, in the nicest possible way?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on April 07, 2008, 11:49:40 AM
Its about time doc  O0

Got one for you, My Rabbi gave me a list of names of single Jewish men, he wants me to be married by the end of the year, how can I tell him to shove it, in the nicest possible way?

why tell him to leave you alone?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Tina Greco - Melbourne on April 07, 2008, 06:40:18 PM
 ??? So you think it is acceptable for Rabbis to demand a person to marry?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on April 07, 2008, 07:59:48 PM
??? So you think it is acceptable for Rabbis to demand a person to marry?


how is he demanding you?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Tina Greco - Melbourne on April 07, 2008, 08:22:18 PM
Oh hmmm...

Have you very had a role model, someone you just adore, that you are close too, that you respect greatly?

My Rabbi is a lovely man he is 75years old, I have known him a very long time, and he knows everything about me. I spend hours on the phone to him every week, he is one of the best things in my life. 

I have no living father, he almost has taken that role.

And over the last few weeks, with the situation that has arisen, he feels the answer to this is for me to remarry.

As you already know Doc I have made poor choices in the past  :-[

He now does nothing else but present men to me. And all talks now focus on this one issue.

I do have a man in my life, my Rabbi hates him. First time I ever have heard my Rabbi get abusive  :-\

His words to me .... "you are too stubborn for your own good, you will marry, its gone has on long enough....

*removed alot of other things*......

....I will not stand back and let you ruin your life.. "

My Rabbi doesn't pull no punches.

 :-\ :-\

I have such a deep connection with him, I don't want to go against him, yet I want a way out so he doesn't feel hurt.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on April 07, 2008, 09:19:19 PM
Oh hmmm...

Have you very had a role model, someone you just adore, that you are close too, that you respect greatly?

My Rabbi is a lovely man he is 75years old, I have known him a very long time, and he knows everything about me. I spend hours on the phone to him every week, he is one of the best things in my life. 

I have no living father, he almost has taken that role.

And over the last few weeks, with the situation that has arisen, he feels the answer to this is for me to remarry.

As you already know Doc I have made poor choices in the past  :-[

He now does nothing else but present men to me. And all talks now focus on this one issue.

I do have a man in my life, my Rabbi hates him. First time I ever have heard my Rabbi get abusive  :-\

His words to me .... "you are too stubborn for your own good, you will marry, its gone has on long enough....

*removed alot of other things*......

....I will not stand back and let you ruin your life.. "

My Rabbi doesn't pull no punches.

 :-\ :-\

I have such a deep connection with him, I don't want to go against him, yet I want a way out so he doesn't feel hurt.



Well, let's get specific.  What do you like about this guy you are with and what is it about him that your Rabbi hates and believes is wrong for you?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Tina Greco - Melbourne on April 07, 2008, 10:44:55 PM
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Well, let's get specific.  What do you like about this guy you are with and what is it about him that your Rabbi hates and believes is wrong for you?

Well he is sweet, kind, we can talk to each other, he loves animals, and wants to get married, have kids.

Rabbi thinks he is false, and is conning me, believes that he only tells me what I want to hear.

He hates the way this fella treats me.

And he says I justify his actions all the time.

Rabbi reckons my loyalty is the only thing holding me too this man.

I am loyal and I believe in trying to make things work, I am not a woman that gives up easy.

He said this is the reason why I have had abusive men in the past.

Might I add Rabbi  has never like any man I have dated.  :-\




Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Tina Greco - Melbourne on April 07, 2008, 11:13:01 PM
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Well, let's get specific.  What do you like about this guy you are with and what is it about him that your Rabbi hates and believes is wrong for you?

Well he is sweet, kind, we can talk to each other, he loves animals, and wants to get married, have kids.

Rabbi thinks he is false, and is conning me, believes that he only tells me what I want to hear.

He hates the way this fella treats me.

And he says I justify his actions all the time.

Rabbi reckons my loyalty is the only thing holding me too this man.

I am loyal and I believe in trying to make things work, I am not a woman that gives up easy.

He said this is the reason why I have had abusive men in the past.

Might I add Rabbi  has never like any man I have dated.  :-\






Jewish?

In the process
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Tina Greco - Melbourne on April 07, 2008, 11:30:39 PM
I can see why your rabbi doesn't like him. The man is likely a liar, converting to please you. I say this because this happens all too often. Also, by definition a ger cannot be intimately involved with a woman. I think this is a false conversion, and if you marry him your marriage will be invalid by the Torah, nevermind a sin.

Its not an easy process to convert, it is easier to be involved with a Gentile.

I don't see the need to go through such a process just to marry a woman is a something a person would do.

Honestly he can get his leg over any woman he likes he is very handsome, I don't see that being the reason because I look ok, but I am no oil painting.

People convert for all types of reasons. There is many that never see converts as true Jews regards of motives.

Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on April 08, 2008, 12:01:05 AM
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Well, let's get specific.  What do you like about this guy you are with and what is it about him that your Rabbi hates and believes is wrong for you?

Well he is sweet, kind, we can talk to each other, he loves animals, and wants to get married, have kids.

Rabbi thinks he is false, and is conning me, believes that he only tells me what I want to hear.

He hates the way this fella treats me.

And he says I justify his actions all the time.

Rabbi reckons my loyalty is the only thing holding me too this man.

I am loyal and I believe in trying to make things work, I am not a woman that gives up easy.

He said this is the reason why I have had abusive men in the past.

Might I add Rabbi  has never like any man I have dated.  :-\






How long have you known this man?  How does your rabbi know that he is conning you?  Has he been right in the past with other men you have been with or other things?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on April 08, 2008, 12:02:37 AM
Quote
Well, let's get specific.  What do you like about this guy you are with and what is it about him that your Rabbi hates and believes is wrong for you?

Well he is sweet, kind, we can talk to each other, he loves animals, and wants to get married, have kids.

Rabbi thinks he is false, and is conning me, believes that he only tells me what I want to hear.

He hates the way this fella treats me.

And he says I justify his actions all the time.

Rabbi reckons my loyalty is the only thing holding me too this man.

I am loyal and I believe in trying to make things work, I am not a woman that gives up easy.

He said this is the reason why I have had abusive men in the past.

Might I add Rabbi  has never like any man I have dated.  :-\






Jewish?

In the process

I can see why your rabbi doesn't like him. The man is likely a liar, converting to please you. I say this because this happens all too often. Also, by definition a ger cannot be intimately involved with a woman. I think this is a false conversion, and if you marry him your marriage will be invalid by the Torah, nevermind a sin.

hey, this is the dannycookie or Dr. Dan show, not the T.A.N.I.A. show!

lol...but i do agree..i just came across this reply...if this guy is in the process of converting....i'm on the side of your rabbi with this guy's real intentions...sorry to break this news.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on April 08, 2008, 12:03:31 AM
I can see why your rabbi doesn't like him. The man is likely a liar, converting to please you. I say this because this happens all too often. Also, by definition a ger cannot be intimately involved with a woman. I think this is a false conversion, and if you marry him your marriage will be invalid by the Torah, nevermind a sin.

Its not an easy process to convert, it is easier to be involved with a Gentile.

I don't see the need to go through such a process just to marry a woman is a something a person would do.

Honestly he can get his leg over any woman he likes he is very handsome, I don't see that being the reason because I look ok, but I am no oil painting.

People convert for all types of reasons. There is many that never see converts as true Jews regards of motives.



In my opinion, I disagree with you.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Tina Greco - Melbourne on April 08, 2008, 12:09:03 AM

How long have you known this man?  How does your rabbi know that he is conning you?  Has he been right in the past with other men you have been with or other things?

A little over a year.

Rabbi spoke to this guys Rabbi, thats assisting him to convert. But you say things to Rabbis that you would not normally say, things you question.....

Rabbi has a good track record of being right, but he has been wrong!

Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on April 08, 2008, 12:10:31 AM

How long have you known this man?  How does your rabbi know that he is conning you?  Has he been right in the past with other men you have been with or other things?

A little over a year.

Rabbi spoke to this guys Rabbi, thats assisting him to convert. But you say things to Rabbis that you would not normally say, things you question.....

Rabbi has a good track record of being right, but he has been wrong!



Listen..lots of fish in the sea...since you are Jewish, you should only date Jews..that can include those who have already converted.  I think you are making a bad choice. Listen to your rabbi.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Tina Greco - Melbourne on April 08, 2008, 12:15:44 AM

In my opinion, I disagree with you.

Doc you know what I look like, honestly you are saying thats the reason?

You know what I am like on this board, theres easier women.

Anyway thats has nothing to do with my first QUESTION!

With that now public knowledge  ::) Throwing men in my face is not helping.

When you have a man problem you don't go out and get another man, then you have two problems...

All I wanted was a nice way to tell Rabbi, that men are not the answer to men problems.

Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Tina Greco - Melbourne on April 08, 2008, 12:19:05 AM

How long have you known this man?  How does your rabbi know that he is conning you?  Has he been right in the past with other men you have been with or other things?

A little over a year.

Rabbi spoke to this guys Rabbi, thats assisting him to convert. But you say things to Rabbis that you would not normally say, things you question.....

Rabbi has a good track record of being right, but he has been wrong!



Listen..lots of fish in the sea...since you are Jewish, you should only date Jews..that can include those who have already converted.  I think you are making a bad choice. Listen to your rabbi.

OK dead issue now that really was not what I first asked, and Yeah I know ...I am a bad Jew.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on April 08, 2008, 07:37:34 AM

In my opinion, I disagree with you.

Doc you know what I look like, honestly you are saying thats the reason?

You know what I am like on this board, theres easier women.

Anyway thats has nothing to do with my first QUESTION!

With that now public knowledge  ::) Throwing men in my face is not helping.

When you have a man problem you don't go out and get another man, then you have two problems...

All I wanted was a nice way to tell Rabbi, that men are not the answer to men problems.




Well, what's the reason why you want to be with a  man?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on April 08, 2008, 07:38:06 AM

How long have you known this man?  How does your rabbi know that he is conning you?  Has he been right in the past with other men you have been with or other things?

A little over a year.

Rabbi spoke to this guys Rabbi, thats assisting him to convert. But you say things to Rabbis that you would not normally say, things you question.....

Rabbi has a good track record of being right, but he has been wrong!



Listen..lots of fish in the sea...since you are Jewish, you should only date Jews..that can include those who have already converted.  I think you are making a bad choice. Listen to your rabbi.

OK dead issue now that really was not what I first asked, and Yeah I know ...I am a bad Jew.

You're not a bad Jew either..you're one of the best out there.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Tina Greco - Melbourne on April 08, 2008, 08:10:21 AM
Well, what's the reason why you want to be with a  man?

Why I want to be with a man? Normal reasons, I want a husband, lover,friend, companion, protector and I want more children.

I don't need a provider I have more than enough money.

Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Tina Greco - Melbourne on April 08, 2008, 08:11:50 AM
You're not a bad Jew either..you're one of the best out there.

Thats is very sweet Doc, I think the same about you.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on April 08, 2008, 11:17:08 AM
Well, what's the reason why you want to be with a  man?

Why I want to be with a man? Normal reasons, I want a husband, lover,friend, companion, protector and I want more children.

I don't need a provider I have more than enough money.


So shouldn't a husband, lover, friend, companion, protector, and helper in giving more children be perfect for you?  You shouldn't settle for less.  Now, I don't personally know the man you are with to judge him.  He might be a very sweet guy and posess the qualities you are looking for, at least so far.  But he isn't Jewish even though he is "converting". However, it seems the real reason to be converting is to get you and not for the true reasons of converting.  I can udnerstand why your rabbi is concerned and why myself and TANIA are concerned.  It's not easy..believe me, i know. It's very very difficult to accept the reality.

In my personal experience, I knew a Muslim girl (not religious) who was going to Kaballah classes and mentioned that she wanted to convert to Judaism. Very sweet, beautiful, wonderful human being.  I sincerely feel that she is one of the good people out there and she doesn't practice Islam and nor does anyone in her family.  In the back of my mind I thought, this girl could be the one for me.  But i also knew there could be lots of problems..she's not Jewish...and any child i would have with her, would not be considered Jewish unless she converted truely and as an Orthodox Jew like Mills is becoming.  So to say the least, we understood that it would never be possible and we have remained friends. 

Since then, she has decided against conversion and is more  or less a Noahide that takes on the traditions of other good religions including our own.

But after all that, I wondered how i could meet another wonderful girl and so beautiful?  To say the least very frustrating.  But you know what?  If it isn't happening now, it will happen for me.  I am currently dating a wonderful girl who is 10 times this other girl.

So I have faith in you.  When you are ready, you should focus on Jewish men and you will eventually find the right one for you and it will be mutual.  Pray hard everyday for extra help.
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on April 08, 2008, 11:18:13 AM
You're not a bad Jew either..you're one of the best out there.

Thats is very sweet Doc, I think the same about you.

Thank you...remember, the most essential thing is to be a righteous human being first and then work on the rest of the uniquely Jewish stuff (that's for those of us who are not observant and a little more secular)
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Tina Greco - Melbourne on April 09, 2008, 03:05:34 AM
So I have faith in you.  When you are ready, you should focus on Jewish men and you will eventually find the right one for you and it will be mutual.  Pray hard everyday for extra help.


Thats the thing Doc I am not ready, and trying to explain to Rabbi, that emailing me lists of men, and even sending them too me. Very embarrassing situation last night, this guy turned up at me home, Rabbi had sent him.  :-[

Nice enough but I sent him away, when I rang up my Rabbi, he wanted to know what was wrong with him. Thats it Doc there was nothing, he seemed nice, good looking, but I don't want that. I mean I do want that, but not like that.

I had a fight with Rabbi, it was not good.

You know how some Jews you know you can't stand, regardless of who they are, they are just soooooo religious, almost with a Torah in bedded in one part of their bodies.

I was Ultra Orthodox, and my first husband was too, I played that role and hated it. How can I return to it? Its impossible.

This is what I keep telling him, but nope he is so focused on what he believes is right rather than, what is good for me.

But anyway I hope your new lady, is right for you.  O0
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on April 09, 2008, 08:17:12 AM
So I have faith in you.  When you are ready, you should focus on Jewish men and you will eventually find the right one for you and it will be mutual.  Pray hard everyday for extra help.


 

You know how some Jews you know you can't stand, regardless of who they are, they are just soooooo religious, almost with a Torah in bedded in one part of their bodies.



Tell me about it!  ::)

btw, i didn't know you were married to an ultra orthodox guy. Is this the same poster that I know from Australia who is on my facebook?
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Tina Greco - Melbourne on April 09, 2008, 08:22:19 AM
So I have faith in you.  When you are ready, you should focus on Jewish men and you will eventually find the right one for you and it will be mutual.  Pray hard everyday for extra help.


 

You know how some Jews you know you can't stand, regardless of who they are, they are just soooooo religious, almost with a Torah in bedded in one part of their bodies.



Tell me about it!  ::)

btw, i didn't know you were married to an ultra orthodox guy. Is this the same poster that I know from Australia who is on my facebook?

One in the same  :::D WAS married  wwaaaayyy in the past  ;D
Title: Re: Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Post by: Dr. Dan on April 16, 2008, 03:09:59 PM
 :D

my only ask Dr. Dan fan gone from JTF...who wants free kosher love advice?