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General Category => General Discussion => Topic started by: Ari on April 28, 2008, 11:53:18 AM
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Well, I guess the simple answer is that it's easily enticing, but can you believe it's a 400 billion dollar a year industry bigger than all sports leagues combined. I agree that the people involved are generally souless scumbags just out to make a quick buck, yet I also find it strangely fascinating why a young girl would sell out and become involved with the industry. It's quite sad. Thoughts?
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Simple. People like immoral stuff and pornography is one of them. With all the horrible things we have today, pornography, rap, Islam etc. This world is simply falling apart.
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Several reasons, look at the people involved in the pornography industry. The majority of the girls are sluts, on welfare, have kids and no husband, use drugs, or suffer from a mental illness.
Porn industry is just like Hollywood or wrestling, many of the higher end pornography models have agents and people will contact them and pay hourly rates to film them and make money off of it. They market as "modeling agencies"
I don't know why people are addicted to porn, when I was like 13, I was hooked on it but not anymore. I think that is just hormones kicking in and people see it and get hooked on it thinking that's normal and that causes a demented mindset of what's acceptable and what's not.
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As a kid I used to watch porn every single day, even when I had a gf.
lol I know it's immoral to religious people but it's a victimless 'crime' or 'sin' :}
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Oh, its not victimless.
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I read that the porn industry is actually losing money because of the internet. People can look at porn for free online.
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While I don't condone looking at porn, I'm not going to lie and say I never have. I don't think it's the biggest crime in the world to look at. I don't really believe that watching it makes you want to run out and be a rapist and do some immoral act, any more than I believe watching a horror movie or the news on television makes you want to go nuts. It's more disturbing though to me that it has become so casual for many people to actually partake in. I think you would have to be crazy to do this, but remarkably it seems like it has become almost mainstream.
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I read that the porn industry is actually losing money because of the internet. People can look at porn for free online.
Far from the truth, most porn companies market through advertisements, spam, and free TGP sites (with sample videos, pictures, etc.), the majority of the income is actually from Video On Demand websites where you pay for minutes and then are able to view those videos streaming. VOD is relatively difficult to get access to for free since the streams are encoded and it's all server side. The companies that are losing money aren't necessarily the porn companies but the publishers.
Porn is a pretty big business online, it's not like it used to be where you had to go to blockbuster and go to the adult section looking for something, internet has made it widespread.
I don't support pornography, then again, what people do in their own spare time is not my concern. I don't think we need the government regulating what people can and can't look at, when I become a parent, I will find my own ways to prevent my kids from looking at it.
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I think its a waste of time really. Its for people for some reason that think that this can happen to them. And they are slutty. Both the men and women.
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I think it's because there are a lot of people out there who are sex deprived and all of the movies and tv shows out there are a big tease.
It might also be due to the poor sex lives of many married people.
Might I suggest a solution to my fellow Jews who are married or plan on getting married: Niddah. Meaning, don't have sex during her menstruation and the additional 7 days after not a drop of blood is found...it will be like one's wedding night...(as has been described to me...i personally don't know myself)
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Several reasons, look at the people involved in the pornography industry. The majority of the girls are sluts, on welfare, have kids and no husband, use drugs, or suffer from a mental illness.
Porn industry is just like Hollywood or wrestling, many of the higher end pornography models have agents and people will contact them and pay hourly rates to film them and make money off of it. They market as "modeling agencies"
I don't know why people are addicted to porn, when I was like 13, I was hooked on it but not anymore. I think that is just hormones kicking in and people see it and get hooked on it thinking that's normal and that causes a demented mindset of what's acceptable and what's not.
It gets to the point that you don't know nor like what you are looking at anymore and have to step away for a loooooooooooooong time. I agree, too much of this is very bad and unhealthy.
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As a kid I used to watch porn every single day, even when I had a gf.
lol I know it's immoral to religious people but it's a victimless 'crime' or 'sin' :}
Not quite...and it's not a religious issue either.
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I think it's because there are a lot of people out there who are sex deprived and all of the movies and tv shows out there are a big tease.
It might also add poor sex lives of many married americans.
Might I suggest a solution to my fellow Jews who are married or plan on getting married: Niddah. Meaning, don't have sex during her menstruation and the additional 7 days after not a drop of blood is found...it will be like one's wedding night...(as has been described to me...i personally don't know myself)
I don't know why anyone would want to have sex during a womens period, that's just gross.
Anyways, just ask the majority of teenagers around the world from 14 and up. Heck even when I started using the internet when I was 9 or 10 (1994 when I first got online), I used to get free porn emailed to me all the time. I remember loading up a picture and I was on a slow 33.6 K connection at the time, pictures slowly loading and my mother sees a horse and she's like "awww that's cute" then it loads up more and theres a naked lady on top of it and she's freaking out like "close that now!".
It wasn't hard to find porn at 13, and it wasn't difficult to get past the filters. Many of the Arabic countries and China have strict laws on pornography but yet if you go on paltalk, the majority of the perverts in the adult rooms are Arabic. It's really quite an impossible task to stop it. Just look at Israel, while pornography is illegal to sell/trade (in most of the country except Tel Aviv if I recall), it's still easy to find it, you'd pretty much have to ban webcams and heavily monitor every aspect of the web which is just...well nearly impossible.
I do realize the harmful effects of pornography though as it does cause one to think immoral thoughts about women and think certain things are acceptable that aren't, as the hardcore pornography gets worse, the more acceptable society thinks it is.
Oh not to mention, I believe masturbation is forbidden in Judaism to begin with, something about not wasting the seed and that it is worse than murdering a person if I recall? I mean what else would people be looking at porn for? I think it's fairly obvious ::)
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I read that the porn industry is actually losing money because of the internet. People can look at porn for free online.
Far from the truth, most porn companies market through advertisements, spam, and free TGP sites (with sample videos, pictures, etc.), the majority of the income is actually from Video On Demand websites where you pay for minutes and then are able to view those videos streaming. VOD is relatively difficult to get access to for free since the streams are encoded and it's all server side. The companies that are losing money aren't necessarily the porn companies but the publishers.
Porn is a pretty big business online, it's not like it used to be where you had to go to blockbuster and go to the adult section looking for something, internet has made it widespread.
I don't support pornography, then again, what people do in their own spare time is not my concern. I don't think we need the government regulating what people can and can't look at, when I become a parent, I will find my own ways to prevent my kids from looking at it.
Maybe it is making money, I don't know.
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I read that the porn industry is actually losing money because of the internet. People can look at porn for free online.
Far from the truth, most porn companies market through advertisements, spam, and free TGP sites (with sample videos, pictures, etc.), the majority of the income is actually from Video On Demand websites where you pay for minutes and then are able to view those videos streaming. VOD is relatively difficult to get access to for free since the streams are encoded and it's all server side. The companies that are losing money aren't necessarily the porn companies but the publishers.
Porn is a pretty big business online, it's not like it used to be where you had to go to blockbuster and go to the adult section looking for something, internet has made it widespread.
I don't support pornography, then again, what people do in their own spare time is not my concern. I don't think we need the government regulating what people can and can't look at, when I become a parent, I will find my own ways to prevent my kids from looking at it.
Maybe it is making money, I don't know.
Maybe? I can get you links if you like showing their profits, I think it's worth more than the gaming industry which is pretty big.
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I read that the porn industry is actually losing money because of the internet. People can look at porn for free online.
Far from the truth, most porn companies market through advertisements, spam, and free TGP sites (with sample videos, pictures, etc.), the majority of the income is actually from Video On Demand websites where you pay for minutes and then are able to view those videos streaming. VOD is relatively difficult to get access to for free since the streams are encoded and it's all server side. The companies that are losing money aren't necessarily the porn companies but the publishers.
Porn is a pretty big business online, it's not like it used to be where you had to go to blockbuster and go to the adult section looking for something, internet has made it widespread.
I don't support pornography, then again, what people do in their own spare time is not my concern. I don't think we need the government regulating what people can and can't look at, when I become a parent, I will find my own ways to prevent my kids from looking at it.
Maybe it is making money, I don't know.
Maybe? I can get you links if you like showing their profits, I think it's worth more than the gaming industry which is pretty big.
Who am I to argue with you? Your the expert on porn around here.
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Porn is lucrative because it gives severely addicted people something to be addicted to. It should be made illegal immediately.
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I think it's because there are a lot of people out there who are sex deprived and all of the movies and tv shows out there are a big tease.
It might also add poor sex lives of many married americans.
Might I suggest a solution to my fellow Jews who are married or plan on getting married: Niddah. Meaning, don't have sex during her menstruation and the additional 7 days after not a drop of blood is found...it will be like one's wedding night...(as has been described to me...i personally don't know myself)
I don't know why anyone would want to have sex during a womens period, that's just gross.
Anyways, just ask the majority of teenagers around the world from 14 and up. Heck even when I started using the internet when I was 9 or 10 (1994 when I first got online), I used to get free porn emailed to me all the time. I remember loading up a picture and I was on a slow 33.6 K connection at the time, pictures slowly loading and my mother sees a horse and she's like "awww that's cute" then it loads up more and theres a naked lady on top of it and she's freaking out like "close that now!".
It wasn't hard to find porn at 13, and it wasn't difficult to get past the filters. Many of the Arabic countries and China have strict laws on pornography but yet if you go on paltalk, the majority of the perverts in the adult rooms are Arabic. It's really quite an impossible task to stop it. Just look at Israel, while pornography is illegal to sell/trade (in most of the country except Tel Aviv if I recall), it's still easy to find it, you'd pretty much have to ban webcams and heavily monitor every aspect of the web which is just...well nearly impossible.
I do realize the harmful effects of pornography though as it does cause one to think immoral thoughts about women and think certain things are acceptable that aren't, as the hardcore pornography gets worse, the more acceptable society thinks it is.
Oh not to mention, I believe masturbation is forbidden in Judaism to begin with, something about not wasting the seed and that it is worse than murdering a person if I recall? I mean what else would people be looking at porn for? I think it's fairly obvious ::)
At one point, when i was a teenager, there was really no internet..it was all finding the magazines in my brothers' closets. Now, free porn is to easy access...especially if you figure out the best sites to go on.
As far as masturbation for men...i'm not going to go with a Jewish perspective...but with the idea in mind that for a non-married man, it can be a way to release any tension that can be used against others if everything is kept inside. So on the basis of beign worse than murder in a non-married man, I would disagree...it means to suggest that he shoudl just go out and have sex to make kids even if he isn't married.
ON the other hand, if a man were married and he masturbates instead of give his wife a child in particular when she wants one, then I would agree that it can be seen as worse than murder.
As far as Nidda...of course it's gross not to have sex for those 5-7 days of a woman's period...I'm talking about waiting an extra 7 days after the last drop of blood is seen...that's the kicker!
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"but with the idea in mind that for a non-married man, it can be a way to release any tension that can be used against others if everything is kept inside. "
That not actually true. It actually will create more tension afterwards- cause depression and anxiety. The best way is to allways be happy in life.
To "release tension"- the best way is not to have it from the start-being allways Happy, then one can also learn Torah, which weakens the body (in a positive way),and watch ones eyes.
About having computers it is a very big problem, for our society, but the best solution for a male (single or even married, adult or child) is to have someone they know, a parent or friend install a computer filter for them (+ one can get a very good one for FREE). Also dont be ashamed to ask a friend to install the filter threw their email and password for your computer, and only them knowing the password, same with parents who should themselves install filters for their children.
http://www.jewishsexuality.com/ - One can find the FREE filter, and also a lot of articles on this and other related subjects.
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"but with the idea in mind that for a non-married man, it can be a way to release any tension that can be used against others if everything is kept inside. "
That not actually true. It actually will create more tension afterwards- cause depression and anxiety. The best way is to allways be happy in life.
To "release tension"- the best way is not to have it from the start-being allways Happy, then one can also learn Torah, which weakens the body (in a positive way),and watch ones eyes.
About having computers it is a very big problem, for our society, but the best solution for a male (single or even married, adult or child) is to have someone they know, a parent or friend install a computer filter for them (+ one can get a very good one for FREE). Also dont be ashamed to ask a friend to install the filter threw their email and password for your computer, and only them knowing the password, same with parents who should themselves install filters for their children.
http://www.jewishsexuality.com/ - One can find the FREE filter, and also a lot of articles on this and other related subjects.
thank you tzvi..i agree.
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I read that the porn industry is actually losing money because of the internet. People can look at porn for free online.
Far from the truth, most porn companies market through advertisements, spam, and free TGP sites (with sample videos, pictures, etc.), the majority of the income is actually from Video On Demand websites where you pay for minutes and then are able to view those videos streaming. VOD is relatively difficult to get access to for free since the streams are encoded and it's all server side. The companies that are losing money aren't necessarily the porn companies but the publishers.
Porn is a pretty big business online, it's not like it used to be where you had to go to blockbuster and go to the adult section looking for something, internet has made it widespread.
I don't support pornography, then again, what people do in their own spare time is not my concern. I don't think we need the government regulating what people can and can't look at, when I become a parent, I will find my own ways to prevent my kids from looking at it.
Maybe it is making money, I don't know.
Maybe? I can get you links if you like showing their profits, I think it's worth more than the gaming industry which is pretty big.
Who am I to argue with you? Your the expert on porn around here.
Being involved in the webhosting business, marketing, and video on demand, I've had to deal with adult industries in the past yes so are you really surprised I would have knowledge on the industry?
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"but with the idea in mind that for a non-married man, it can be a way to release any tension that can be used against others if everything is kept inside. "
That not actually true. It actually will create more tension afterwards- cause depression and anxiety. The best way is to allways be happy in life.
To "release tension"- the best way is not to have it from the start-being allways Happy, then one can also learn Torah, which weakens the body (in a positive way),and watch ones eyes.
About having computers it is a very big problem, for our society, but the best solution for a male (single or even married, adult or child) is to have someone they know, a parent or friend install a computer filter for them (+ one can get a very good one for FREE). Also dont be ashamed to ask a friend to install the filter threw their email and password for your computer, and only them knowing the password, same with parents who should themselves install filters for their children.
http://www.jewishsexuality.com/ - One can find the FREE filter, and also a lot of articles on this and other related subjects.
No thanks, don't need a nanny state to tell me what's good for my health, I don't need porn because I have a girlfriend, don't need someone to tell me what's good for me and what's not. If people can't control their habits looking at porn, then maybe they shouldn't be trusted with other things either.
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I don't support pornography, then again, what people do in their own spare time is not my concern. I don't think we need the government regulating what people can and can't look at, when I become a parent, I will find my own ways to prevent my kids from looking at it.
I don't support the pornography industry either. I don't give them a penny. I download all my porn for Free ;)
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I think it's because there are a lot of people out there who are sex deprived and all of the movies and tv shows out there are a big tease.
It might also be due to the poor sex lives of many married people.
Might I suggest a solution to my fellow Jews who are married or plan on getting married: Niddah. Meaning, don't have sex during her menstruation and the additional 7 days after not a drop of blood is found...it will be like one's wedding night...(as has been described to me...i personally don't know myself)
Yepp keeping the laws of Family Purity is very very important. First off keeping it properly (being seperated and then the women going to the Mikva) besides the great spiritual benifits (which shouldn't be minimized) will also keep the relationship going very well, and keep one from hating one's wife, and being bored from her. During the time their would be longing for eachother. Also the kids prodoced will be much better towrds their parents then if a women doesn't go to Mikva after the period and has children. It would be very hard for the children not to be rebillious towards their parents.
Also having relations with a nidda is a very graze sin that should be avoided at all costs, the couple can get Karet (excommunicated by G-d), G-d forbid for someone to do this upon themselves.
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Also another very good, important site http://tikunhabrit.com/ - about rectifying/stopping a lot of these past sins that one may have commited. - One way- the first step at least is learning about the severity of the sin, which itself comes to protect a person from the negative entities that one has created.
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The Porno Industry, like the Armaments Manufacturing Industry, is popular for one reason:
The profit return on each dollar invested is incredible.
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I think it's because there are a lot of people out there who are sex deprived and all of the movies and tv shows out there are a big tease.
It might also be due to the poor sex lives of many married people.
Might I suggest a solution to my fellow Jews who are married or plan on getting married: Niddah. Meaning, don't have sex during her menstruation and the additional 7 days after not a drop of blood is found...it will be like one's wedding night...(as has been described to me...i personally don't know myself)
Yepp keeping the laws of Family Purity is very very important. First off keeping it properly (being seperated and then the women going to the Mikva) besides the great spiritual benifits (which shouldn't be minimized) will also keep the relationship going very well, and keep one from hating one's wife, and being bored from her. During the time their would be longing for eachother. Also the kids prodoced will be much better towrds their parents then if a women doesn't go to Mikva after the period and has children. It would be very hard for the children not to be rebillious towards their parents.
Also having relations with a nidda is a very graze sin that should be avoided at all costs, the couple can get Karet (excommunicated by G-d), G-d forbid for someone to do this upon themselves.
The concern for some women for the Mikva (after Nidda) is that the water isn't clean. I have heard that women have gotten infections from the water not being kept clean.
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The Porno Industry, like the Armaments Manufacturing Industry, is popular for one reason:
The profit return on each dollar invested is incredible.
And also, it's popular because the majority of human beings like to see naked people.
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Re: "...because the majority of human beings like to see naked people."
I know some people that I'm willing to pay to put their clothes back on! :::D
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Re: "...because the majority of human beings like to see naked people."
I know some people that I'm willing to pay to put their clothes back on! :::D
hahaha, you got me there ;D
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I read that the porn industry is actually losing money because of the internet. People can look at porn for free online.
Far from the truth, most porn companies market through advertisements, spam, and free TGP sites (with sample videos, pictures, etc.), the majority of the income is actually from Video On Demand websites where you pay for minutes and then are able to view those videos streaming. VOD is relatively difficult to get access to for free since the streams are encoded and it's all server side. The companies that are losing money aren't necessarily the porn companies but the publishers.
Porn is a pretty big business online, it's not like it used to be where you had to go to blockbuster and go to the adult section looking for something, internet has made it widespread.
I don't support pornography, then again, what people do in their own spare time is not my concern. I don't think we need the government regulating what people can and can't look at, when I become a parent, I will find my own ways to prevent my kids from looking at it.
Maybe it is making money, I don't know.
Maybe? I can get you links if you like showing their profits, I think it's worth more than the gaming industry which is pretty big.
Who am I to argue with you? Your the expert on porn around here.
Being involved in the webhosting business, marketing, and video on demand, I've had to deal with adult industries in the past yes so are you really surprised I would have knowledge on the industry?
Yes it is very surprising. I had know idea you were in web hosting, marketing and video on demand. You certainly didn't make that clear in your original reply to me. But now that I know, I will make sure to come directly to you with all my questions about porn in the future. Thank you for straightening that out for me. O0
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I think it's because there are a lot of people out there who are sex deprived and all of the movies and tv shows out there are a big tease.
It might also be due to the poor sex lives of many married people.
Might I suggest a solution to my fellow Jews who are married or plan on getting married: Niddah. Meaning, don't have sex during her menstruation and the additional 7 days after not a drop of blood is found...it will be like one's wedding night...(as has been described to me...i personally don't know myself)
Yepp keeping the laws of Family Purity is very very important. First off keeping it properly (being seperated and then the women going to the Mikva) besides the great spiritual benifits (which shouldn't be minimized) will also keep the relationship going very well, and keep one from hating one's wife, and being bored from her. During the time their would be longing for eachother. Also the kids prodoced will be much better towrds their parents then if a women doesn't go to Mikva after the period and has children. It would be very hard for the children not to be rebillious towards their parents.
Also having relations with a nidda is a very graze sin that should be avoided at all costs, the couple can get Karet (excommunicated by G-d), G-d forbid for someone to do this upon themselves.
The concern for some women for the Mikva (after Nidda) is that the water isn't clean. I have heard that women have gotten infections from the water not being kept clean.
All non-sense. The mikva's today are cleaner then ever, anyway im not exactly sure about the procedure today, but they can take a show before the Mikva, then go to Mikva and then afterwards take another shower, so its no problem. Those who say such things are sinners and cause others to sin by discouraging women from going to Mikvot, thus then make very big averot.
Today our society has it soo good, and their is no excuse not to go to a kosher Mikva, which is clean and safe. Back in the day, even maybe 2 generations ago, women would go to freezing waters in Russia, or into deep caves where their was a body of natural water, in order not to commit the sin of being with their husbands not clean. Anyway the obligation is both on the Wife and Husband, it is very important not to mess us in this sin expecially. (Maybe I will bring some writing on this subject, B"H)
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Thanks for the websites, Tzvi. Interesting reading. O0
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Thanks Ari.
Dr. Dan about some reading on Nidda
http://www.tikunhabrit.com/Books/GUARDING_BRIT_GUARDING_EYES-E.pdf
go to page chapter 6- page 86 it speaks about Nidda.
In general it is a very good book on all the different subjects dealing with these sins and also their rectifications, but 1 warning is that one shouldn't get depressed reading it (about the past- which would furthur themselves into sins), but should strenthen oneself for the future, and G-d willing may we all do the Tikunim/ Rectifications towards the perfection of our souls.
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I think it's because there are a lot of people out there who are sex deprived and all of the movies and tv shows out there are a big tease.
It might also be due to the poor sex lives of many married people.
Might I suggest a solution to my fellow Jews who are married or plan on getting married: Niddah. Meaning, don't have sex during her menstruation and the additional 7 days after not a drop of blood is found...it will be like one's wedding night...(as has been described to me...i personally don't know myself)
Yepp keeping the laws of Family Purity is very very important. First off keeping it properly (being seperated and then the women going to the Mikva) besides the great spiritual benifits (which shouldn't be minimized) will also keep the relationship going very well, and keep one from hating one's wife, and being bored from her. During the time their would be longing for eachother. Also the kids prodoced will be much better towrds their parents then if a women doesn't go to Mikva after the period and has children. It would be very hard for the children not to be rebillious towards their parents.
Also having relations with a nidda is a very graze sin that should be avoided at all costs, the couple can get Karet (excommunicated by G-d), G-d forbid for someone to do this upon themselves.
The concern for some women for the Mikva (after Nidda) is that the water isn't clean. I have heard that women have gotten infections from the water not being kept clean.
All non-sense. The mikva's today are cleaner then ever, anyway im not exactly sure about the procedure today, but they can take a show before the Mikva, then go to Mikva and then afterwards take another shower, so its no problem. Those who say such things are sinners and cause others to sin by discouraging women from going to Mikvot, thus then make very big averot.
Today our society has it soo good, and their is no excuse not to go to a kosher Mikva, which is clean and safe. Back in the day, even maybe 2 generations ago, women would go to freezing waters in Russia, or into deep caves where their was a body of natural water, in order not to commit the sin of being with their husbands not clean. Anyway the obligation is both on the Wife and Husband, it is very important not to mess us in this sin expecially. (Maybe I will bring some writing on this subject, B"H)
well, a proper rabbinical authority or a female version of a rabbinical authority shoudl address this. If it were my wife, I wouldn't want her to get infections..
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It is simply because, just like drugs, people choose to cover up their pain. Porn gives a type of immediate gratification but has harmful consequences spiritually, emotionally, and mentally. It makes real relations with a wife much more difficult because a man cannot separate the images, comparisons, or expectations from his thoughts.
A lot of people suffer because they cannot respect themselves because they do not live moral lives and do not feel in control of themselves. They use this type of fantasy as an escape to cope with the pain they feel but they only make their pain worse.
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It is simply because, just like drugs, people choose to cover up their pain. Porn gives a type of immediate gratification but has harmful consequences spiritually, emotionally, and mentally. It makes real relations with a wife much more difficult because a man cannot separate the images, comparisons, or expectations from his thoughts.
A lot of people suffer because they cannot respect themselves because they do not live moral lives and do not feel in control of themselves. They use this type of fantasy as an escape to cope with the pain they feel but they only make their pain worse.
The sad thing is that I was reading some article in a fitness magazine and it said that 98% of men look at porn at least sometimes. That shows how screwed up our society is.
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The porn industry wants us to believe that they are so huge, and that everyone or almost everyone is looking at their filth. In reality, the largest and most viewed sites on the internet are NOT porn sites. Porn sites trail far behind news sites, for example.
Porn is an addiction like drugs or alcohol or gambling or overeating. Addictions can never bring happiness or satisfaction. Addictions are always destructive. The reason people turn to porn or other addictions is because they hate the real world and their real lives, and they desperately want to escape. But porn and other addictions only make their misery worse.
If someone is dissatisfied with the world around them, they should try to change it. They should try to make it a better world.
Porn and sex addiction are completely selfish pursuits. Porn-sex addicts think that the whole world revolves around them and that the only important thing is satisfying their immediate selfish desire. Every time they try to satisfy their desire, they fail. Because like with any addiction, they must keep seeking more and more and there is never any end or any peace of mind.
But someone who lives to help others does experience true happiness when they accomplish something.
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Porn is mostly negative. Today you're not talking about just naked people but some really sick stuff. Instead of men taking their energy to go meet women, they waste millions of hours online. It is always a downward spiral too. The human mind always wants to see what else is around the corner.
The top paid women in porn make $120,000 but many only make $100 for a movie. How can these women get married to a normal person even if they appeared in one porn? What would their kids think if they find out? Many of the women are addicted to drugs like meth that can't be tested. The majority were abused. Even though I'm not pro-feminist, some of this stuff is so horrible to women and makes men look at women in a degrading way. I think it's evil and the website owners should be stopped or regulated more.
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Excellent analysis, Chaim. That makes a lot of sense. O0
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Porn is mostly negative. Today you're not talking about just naked people but some really sick stuff. Instead of men taking their energy to go meet women, they waste millions of hours online. It is always a downward spiral too. The human mind always wants to see what else is around the corner.
The top paid women in porn make $120,000 but many only make $100 for a movie. How can these women get married to a normal person even if they appeared in one porn? What would their kids think if they find out? Many of the women are addicted to drugs like meth that can't be tested. The majority were abused. Even though I'm not pro-feminist, some of this stuff is so horrible to women and makes men look at women in a degrading way. I think it's evil and the website owners should be stopped or regulated more.
Unfortunately, the top "women" in porn make much, much more than 120,000. That is a known fact. Some of the higher up ones make salaries in the high six fugures with all sorts of other income opportunities from it. Its a sick occupation for certain. No money in the world is worth degrading yourself in front of tons of people and being forced into commiting adultery with all the other sick porn stars. It is the most unhealthy lifestyle imaginable. Unfotunately too many people make a lot of money off it so it is not going anywhere.
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Aside from the obviously sick nature of their work, do you think that people involved in making this filth can be relatively healty in other aspects of their lives? Can they actually manage the money they make, or all they all messed up on drugs and alcohol, etc? It's a shame they are making so much money when many righteous people are struggling. >:(
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Porn is mostly negative. Today you're not talking about just naked people but some really sick stuff. Instead of men taking their energy to go meet women, they waste millions of hours online. It is always a downward spiral too. The human mind always wants to see what else is around the corner.
The top paid women in porn make $120,000 but many only make $100 for a movie. How can these women get married to a normal person even if they appeared in one porn? What would their kids think if they find out? Many of the women are addicted to drugs like meth that can't be tested. The majority were abused. Even though I'm not pro-feminist, some of this stuff is so horrible to women and makes men look at women in a degrading way. I think it's evil and the website owners should be stopped or regulated more.
Unfortunately, the top "women" in porn make much, much more than 120,000. That is a known fact. Some of the higher up ones make salaries in the high six fugures with all sorts of other income opportunities from it. Its a sick occupation for certain. No money in the world is worth degrading yourself in front of tons of people and being forced into commiting adultery with all the other sick porn stars. It is the most unhealthy lifestyle imaginable. Unfotunately too many people make a lot of money off it so it is not going anywhere.
I wish I didn't know this information but I think very few women make high six figures. A friend of mine who is one of those guys who knows every porn actress' job while she was in high school, said very few of the actresses make that money. Even if they do, why couldn't a beautiful woman make that money at a Mercedes dealership selling cars? They could make close to the same money. Unfortunatly, you're right about the money point.
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The porn industry wants us to believe that they are so huge, and that everyone or almost everyone is looking at their filth. In reality, the largest and most viewed sites on the internet are NOT porn sites. Porn sites trail far behind news sites, for example.
Porn is an addiction like drugs or alcohol or gambling or overeating. Addictions can never bring happiness or satisfaction. Addictions are always destructive. The reason people turn to porn or other addictions is because they hate the real world and their real lives, and they desperately want to escape. But porn and other addictions only make their misery worse.
If someone is dissatisfied with the world around them, they should try to change it. They should try to make it a better world.
Porn and sex addiction are completely selfish pursuits. Porn-sex addicts think that the whole world revolves around them and that the only important thing is satisfying their immediate selfish desire. Every time they try to satisfy their desire, they fail. Because like with any addiction, they must keep seeking more and more and there is never any end or any peace of mind.
But someone who lives to help others does experience true happiness when they accomplish something.
I completely agree!
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It's a shame they are making so much money when many righteous people are struggling. >:(
" A fool does not realize, and an unwise person does not understand this (i.e. the following:) When the wicked bloom like grass, and the evildoers blossom (i.e. when they seem extremly successful), it is to destroy them forever (i.e. they are rewarded for their few good deeds in this World, and they will have no portion in the World to Come!)
From Shabb-t Prayers.
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I think it's because there are a lot of people out there who are sex deprived and all of the movies and tv shows out there are a big tease.
It might also be due to the poor sex lives of many married people.
Might I suggest a solution to my fellow Jews who are married or plan on getting married: Niddah. Meaning, don't have sex during her menstruation and the additional 7 days after not a drop of blood is found...it will be like one's wedding night...(as has been described to me...i personally don't know myself)
Yepp keeping the laws of Family Purity is very very important. First off keeping it properly (being seperated and then the women going to the Mikva) besides the great spiritual benifits (which shouldn't be minimized) will also keep the relationship going very well, and keep one from hating one's wife, and being bored from her. During the time their would be longing for eachother. Also the kids prodoced will be much better towrds their parents then if a women doesn't go to Mikva after the period and has children. It would be very hard for the children not to be rebillious towards their parents.
Also having relations with a nidda is a very graze sin that should be avoided at all costs, the couple can get Karet (excommunicated by G-d), G-d forbid for someone to do this upon themselves.
The concern for some women for the Mikva (after Nidda) is that the water isn't clean. I have heard that women have gotten infections from the water not being kept clean.
All non-sense. The mikva's today are cleaner then ever, anyway im not exactly sure about the procedure today, but they can take a show before the Mikva, then go to Mikva and then afterwards take another shower, so its no problem. Those who say such things are sinners and cause others to sin by discouraging women from going to Mikvot, thus then make very big averot.
Today our society has it soo good, and their is no excuse not to go to a kosher Mikva, which is clean and safe. Back in the day, even maybe 2 generations ago, women would go to freezing waters in Russia, or into deep caves where their was a body of natural water, in order not to commit the sin of being with their husbands not clean. Anyway the obligation is both on the Wife and Husband, it is very important not to mess us in this sin expecially. (Maybe I will bring some writing on this subject, B"H)
well, a proper rabbinical authority or a female version of a rabbinical authority shoudl address this. If it were my wife, I wouldn't want her to get infections..
You right, but to just let you know, no Rabbi (real Rabbi) in the world would allow a couple to have relations if she in nidda (including if she didn't go to the mikva), and dont worry about soo called infections, its all myths. All of these women go all the time and nothing happens, and their are many Mikvot available, some normal ones and others very elegant high class ones, you future wife can can to either ones, and a Rav should direct you to the Mikvot available. (their is also a good website about the different Mikvot around the world, http://mikvah.org/ , but make sure that you date a girl who plans to keep Family Purity.
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not that i view porn i can totally understand the addiction for lonely single people that i can relate with...
Pornography is a sick twisted immoral thing to be affiliated with and promotes unethical behavior that kills life in more ways than one.. people who view content like this should take a long hard look at themselves and figure out what needs to change because something about acts of immorality should not manifest itself into further depression that inevitably sends people into a downward spiral..