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General Category => General Discussion => Topic started by: ChabadKahanist on November 24, 2014, 07:37:40 AM
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Many years ago a non-religious relative sent me an invitation to a confirmation at either a reform or conservative temple.
I would not have attended anyway because I do not enter such places,however I sent a nasty letter saying that is disgusting that they are aping the Christians & no such a thing as confirmation exists in Judaism.
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Catholic barmitzvah.
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Catholic barmitzvah.
I have no Catholic family members this was in a reform or conservative temple & on shavuos.
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It's only in the Deformed movement so it doesn't count. It's another excuse to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars at the catering hall to impress everyone.
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It's only in the Deformed movement so it doesn't count. It's another excuse to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars at the catering hall to impress everyone.
Gotcha.
I never heard of such a thing before then.
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Contrary to what someone suggested, what I have experienced is that it is a group event for a whole class, not an individual thing like a bar mitzvah, and there was no catering involved. Reform Judaism would otherwise "end" (not even kidding) at age 13, and confirmation is just a continuation of Hebrew school claases a few more years into high school instead. At the end is a ceremony celebrating completion of the course. Obviously, naming it "confirmation" is obscene.
I think there's a real emotional connection and sense of commitment there - the participants just don't know what Judaism is. Sadly, for many it does mark a graduation of sorts - graduation from religious practice.
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I once attended a Reform Temple where the Rabbi was a Catholic priest.
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Contrary to what someone suggested, what I have experienced is that it is a group event for a whole class, not an individual thing like a bar mitzvah, and there was no catering involved. Reform Judaism would otherwise "end" (not even kidding) at age 13, and confirmation is just a continuation of Hebrew school claases a few more years into high school instead. At the end is a ceremony celebrating completion of the course. Obviously, naming it "confirmation" is obscene.
I think there's a real emotional connection and sense of commitment there - the participants just don't know what Judaism is. Sadly, for many it does mark a graduation of sorts - graduation from religious practice.
Invitations were indeed sent whether there was a catered event or not I have no idea because I would not have attended anyway.
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I once attended a Reform Temple where the Rabbi was a Catholic priest.
I find that hard to believe although it is possible for a Goy to be a reform "rabbi" so nothing shocks me nowadays.