Shimon, if Jews lose their faith or just water it down, this is not the fault of American assimilation. American assimilation does not call call for anyone to give up their faith, no matter what faith that might be, in fact keeping your faith is encouraged(sometimes very mistakenly such as with islam). If Jews, Christians, or anyone loses or tones down their religious beliefs, American assimiliation did not make them do that, their own free will did.
As for comparing America to hamas,hezbollah, this is just beyond disgusting. Where did a non oil nation in the middle east, Israel, get the funding to build such a strong military?
See, the great thing about American assimilation is that you can be an American, and have your religion too, or no religion, your choice, not America's. You sound like you are trying to say that Americanism and religion cannot co-exist, sounds kind of Shariaistic.
Shimon, just out of curiosity, do you reside in America or in Israel? If in America, my question would be, why?