The late and great Ronen Nachman educated me on this anti-semitic canard about Jews and raping three year olds that you see all over YT. of course it's ridiculous, but I wondered why was I seeing the same anti-semitic line. Anyway, for those of you who have seen that trash, the Talmud quote is about the legal PUNISHMENT for a man who rapes a child under the age of 3. The Talmud asks whether or not the PUNISHMENT should be different for the rape of a minor under vs. over 3 years of age. That passage of the Talmud is not about permission to rape but about the severity of the PUNISHMENT for rape!