Can a Promiscuous Woman be Reformed?

[New Yorker]

I don't care if she has repented.. I would much rather wait for a good girl with a good past. Unless of course I hit 50 and still haven't found a woman.. then I won't be so picky. At the rate I'm going now, I think I'll have to stop being picky.

Define "Promiscuous", what you might consider promiscuous, I might consider a very nice girl that simply wasn't dead before we met. 

What? She had a boyfriend or two? (If so, that's nothing) Or was she with every man between here and the horizon? In that case run for the hills. 

[MassuhDGoodName]

A promiscuous woman can be Reformed, but she can also be Conservative.

It's easy to get a Jewish woman to stop having sex...marry her. 

[Zvulun Ben Moshe]

I don't care if she has repented.. I would much rather wait for a good girl with a good past. Unless of course I hit 50 and still haven't found a woman.. then I won't be so picky. At the rate I'm going now, I think I'll have to stop being picky.

Define "Promiscuous", what you might consider promiscuous, I might consider a very nice girl that simply wasn't dead before we met. 

What? She had a boyfriend or two? (If so, that's nothing) Or was she with every man between here and the horizon? In that case run for the hills. 

You are talking like Bill CLinton now in his "I did smoke, but I didn't inhale".

The number of boyfriends is very relative and "nothing" can soon become not "one or two", but 5 or 10, which is often the case.

And thus it is not about how far you crossed the line, it is about whether you deared to cross it or chose not to because it is simply forbidden.

[Zvulun Ben Moshe]

A promiscuous woman can be Reformed, but she can also be Conservative.

It's easy to get a Jewish woman to stop having sex...marry her. 

Sex is not forbidden, my friend, it is the premarital and extramarital sex that is forbidden.

[MassuhDGoodName]

One of our major Jewish Prophets was commanded by G-d to marry a prostitute.

True!

[New Yorker]

I don't care if she has repented.. I would much rather wait for a good girl with a good past. Unless of course I hit 50 and still haven't found a woman.. then I won't be so picky. At the rate I'm going now, I think I'll have to stop being picky.

Define "Promiscuous", what you might consider promiscuous, I might consider a very nice girl that simply wasn't dead before we met. 

What? She had a boyfriend or two? (If so, that's nothing) Or was she with every man between here and the horizon? In that case run for the hills. 

You are talking like Bill CLinton now in his "I did smoke, but I didn't inhale".

The number of boyfriends is very relative and "nothing" can soon become not "one or two", but 5 or 10, which is often the case.

And thus it is not about how far you crossed the line, it is about whether you deared to cross it or chose not to because it is simply forbidden.

At this point in my life, 5 or 10 is still a very nice girl.   

[Zvulun Ben Moshe]

Well, when you and I become prophets and G-d instructs us to do so, then we will talk.

But, jokes aside, Hosea and his story is not the best guide to action for us.

[Zvulun Ben Moshe]

I don't care if she has repented.. I would much rather wait for a good girl with a good past. Unless of course I hit 50 and still haven't found a woman.. then I won't be so picky. At the rate I'm going now, I think I'll have to stop being picky.

Define "Promiscuous", what you might consider promiscuous, I might consider a very nice girl that simply wasn't dead before we met. 

What? She had a boyfriend or two? (If so, that's nothing) Or was she with every man between here and the horizon? In that case run for the hills. 

You are talking like Bill CLinton now in his "I did smoke, but I didn't inhale".

The number of boyfriends is very relative and "nothing" can soon become not "one or two", but 5 or 10, which is often the case.

And thus it is not about how far you crossed the line, it is about whether you deared to cross it or chose not to because it is simply forbidden.

At this point in my life, 5 or 10 is still a very nice girl.   

You being the 8th one?

[New Yorker]

I don't care if she has repented.. I would much rather wait for a good girl with a good past. Unless of course I hit 50 and still haven't found a woman.. then I won't be so picky. At the rate I'm going now, I think I'll have to stop being picky.

Define "Promiscuous", what you might consider promiscuous, I might consider a very nice girl that simply wasn't dead before we met. 

What? She had a boyfriend or two? (If so, that's nothing) Or was she with every man between here and the horizon? In that case run for the hills. 

You are talking like Bill CLinton now in his "I did smoke, but I didn't inhale".

The number of boyfriends is very relative and "nothing" can soon become not "one or two", but 5 or 10, which is often the case.

And thus it is not about how far you crossed the line, it is about whether you deared to cross it or chose not to because it is simply forbidden.

At this point in my life, 5 or 10 is still a very nice girl.   

You being the 8th one?

Probably 11th 

[Kiwi]

Yes a promiscuous woman can change she looking for the right man, when she finds him she will settle.
.....

She will settle? Who said he will?

 I never known a man to choose, its always the woman. We choose who we want, then we go to and get them 

Men do not know what they want until they are told 

[Zvulun Ben Moshe]

I don't care if she has repented.. I would much rather wait for a good girl with a good past. Unless of course I hit 50 and still haven't found a woman.. then I won't be so picky. At the rate I'm going now, I think I'll have to stop being picky.

Define "Promiscuous", what you might consider promiscuous, I might consider a very nice girl that simply wasn't dead before we met. 

What? She had a boyfriend or two? (If so, that's nothing) Or was she with every man between here and the horizon? In that case run for the hills. 

You are talking like Bill CLinton now in his "I did smoke, but I didn't inhale".

The number of boyfriends is very relative and "nothing" can soon become not "one or two", but 5 or 10, which is often the case.

And thus it is not about how far you crossed the line, it is about whether you deared to cross it or chose not to because it is simply forbidden.

At this point in my life, 5 or 10 is still a very nice girl.   

You being the 8th one?

Probably 11th 

What an honorable position? Not everywhere can you be the first, right?

[New Yorker]

I don't care if she has repented.. I would much rather wait for a good girl with a good past. Unless of course I hit 50 and still haven't found a woman.. then I won't be so picky. At the rate I'm going now, I think I'll have to stop being picky.

Define "Promiscuous", what you might consider promiscuous, I might consider a very nice girl that simply wasn't dead before we met. 

What? She had a boyfriend or two? (If so, that's nothing) Or was she with every man between here and the horizon? In that case run for the hills. 

You are talking like Bill CLinton now in his "I did smoke, but I didn't inhale".

The number of boyfriends is very relative and "nothing" can soon become not "one or two", but 5 or 10, which is often the case.

And thus it is not about how far you crossed the line, it is about whether you deared to cross it or chose not to because it is simply forbidden.

At this point in my life, 5 or 10 is still a very nice girl.   

You being the 8th one?

Probably 11th 

What an honorable position? Not everywhere can you be the first, right?

Exactly, sometimes you just have to accept the realities of life, and as you get older, there's more and more of those realities to accept.   

[Zvulun Ben Moshe]

Yes a promiscuous woman can change she looking for the right man, when she finds him she will settle.
.....

She will settle? Who said he will?

I never known a man to choose, its always the woman. We choose who we want, then we go to and get them 

Men do not know what they want until they are told 

Well, thanks a lot for this self-motivational legend!

Let me correct you a little:

1) Women have greater authority in chosing with whom to sleep;
2) Men have greater authority with whom to stay.

[Kiwi]

Yes a promiscuous woman can change she looking for the right man, when she finds him she will settle.
.....

She will settle? Who said he will?

I never known a man to choose, its always the woman. We choose who we want, then we go to and get them 

Men do not know what they want until they are told 

Well, thanks a lot for this self-motivational legend!

Let me correct you a little:

1) Women have greater authority in chosing with whom to sleep;
2) Men have greater authority with whom to stay.

Well I have never had a guy leave me or want to leave. Its always been me thats done it. And every married woman I know, had to tell the guy what to do, of course in a way they think its their choice. 

Thats all apart of being a woman.

[newman]

I've dedicated my whole adult life to helping naughty, young women reform. I've found that light spanking works a treat.

[Merkava]

Men have greater authority with whom to stay.

I disagree. Men do the picking but women do the chosing 

In regards to the poll question:

Take the punge. What do you have to lose? It only takes a few dates to see whether she is interested or not. The minute you see a red flag (broken date, cheating, etc) then you can stop seeing her. Why are you making such a big deal about it ? 

[kellymaureen]

I've dedicated my whole adult life to helping naughty, young women reform. I've found that light spanking works a treat.

 

[Ari]

Thanks for the input everyone.  After some consideration, I have chosen not to pursue a romantic relationship with this girl.  Without going into too much detail, it came to my attention that she may have appeared in some dirty videos and this would be too much for me to overlook. 

P.S. to kellymaureen - I'm listening to Ask JTF and just heard your question to Chaim.  I think you're doing a great job raising your son.  He's definitely on the right track.  Best of luck.

[New Yorker]

Thanks for the input everyone.  After some consideration, I have chosen not to pursue a romantic relationship with this girl.  Without going into too much detail, it came to my attention that she may have appeared in some dirty videos and this would be too much for me to overlook. 

P.S. to kellymaureen - I'm listening to Ask JTF and just heard your question to Chaim.  I think you're doing a great job raising your son.  He's definitely on the right track.  Best of luck.

Dirty videos? Woah, that is beyond even my level of tolerance for skeletons in the closet. Ex-boyfriends? What woman doesn't have any? Ex-husband? Kids? Again, she wasn't dead before we met. Dirty films!? RED FLAG! That's complete whore territory, I've been around the block, I'm jaded and have a thick skin, and even I won't get mixed up with that sort of girl, nothing but trouble, massive trouble, she has nothing to offer but a lot of fun followed by a load of misery that outweighs the fun tenfold, and that is saying a lot, because I'm sure she's a load of fun, but I digress; Put as much distance between her and your innocent naive self as you can. What you don't have any nice Synagoge attending single girls to get introduced to? 

[Jasmina]

Thanks for the input everyone.  After some consideration, I have chosen not to pursue a romantic relationship with this girl.  Without going into too much detail, it came to my attention that she may have appeared in some dirty videos and this would be too much for me to overlook. 

P.S. to kellymaureen - I'm listening to Ask JTF and just heard your question to Chaim.  I think you're doing a great job raising your son.  He's definitely on the right track.  Best of luck.

  Very good choice! I think you did the right thing! You don't want her to be the mother of your kids., who knows what else you gonna hear or see about her, or even worse YOUR KIDS can hear about their MOM.... you deserve better and your level of expectancy is higher then that!

[Kiwi]

Whoa porn star?

she may have appeared in some dirty video

You don't really know or you do?

Anyway I know alot of Strippers and Women of the Night and they are good people, but is a job no way I could do.

The First Nurses were, and some men still think they are 

Anyway you must be comfortable in your choice of course. Good luck with the nice girl.

[nessuno]

The First Nurses were, and some men still think they are 

Are you trying to say that the first nurses were women of the night? 

[Wayne Jude]

In the military women ,do try to service troops.Im not saying that is right but truthful.Not all but most.No disrespect Infidel.

[nessuno]

In the military women ,do try to service troops.Im not saying that is right but truthful.Not all but most.No disrespect Infidel.

What women?

[Wayne Jude]

Military women.Sorry ,but thats the fact Jack.[Remember stripes]