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Age gaps when dating, when is it creepy?
kellymaureen:
Anyone over 18 takes a HUGE risk dating anyone under 18, state laws vary but an 18 yr old male could find himself being labled a "child molestor" for dating a 16 yr old should the matter go to court and he be charged.
35 and 17...what would a 35yr old and a 17 yr old have in common?
If both are adults, then I say its up to them, when I got married I was 23 and he was 39, I had no problem with that neither did he. I do think its more acceptable for the man to be older rather than the woman being older, Ive never dated anyone younger than me, I might someday, but not significantly younger, I would say a year or two would be my limit.
mord:
When i was 13 i 'dated' a 20 yr old for 100$ :-\ ;D ;D my friends paid :-X
White Israelite:
--- Quote from: The Infidel. on December 20, 2007, 01:44:23 AM ---People date different kinds of people and different ages, why then people find age gaps acceptable or creepy.
Is a gap of up to 5 years good? 10 years? 20 years? 30 years?
Is it more acceptable for a woman to be younger than the man?
When is it acceptable to date?
10 years old? 13 years old? 16 years old? 18 years old?
Is it acceptable of an adult to date a child, say a 18 year old dates a 16 year old?
This is brought to light over two issues, one a friend of mine, 1 year younger than me is dating a 70 year old :-\
And I just had a round with a 37 year old man, threatening a 16 year old girl because she rejected him.
Sooo people dating, age does it matter?
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I don't see any problem with a 18 year old dating a 16 year old. My girlfriend was 17 when I was 18. Most girls i've met seem pretty immature in their 20's though.
Then again I'm 22, so maybe that's why I think that way.
JTFFan:
--- Quote from: Cohen on December 20, 2007, 01:30:16 PM ---
--- Quote from: The Infidel. on December 20, 2007, 01:44:23 AM ---People date different kinds of people and different ages, why then people find age gaps acceptable or creepy.
Is a gap of up to 5 years good? 10 years? 20 years? 30 years?
Is it more acceptable for a woman to be younger than the man?
When is it acceptable to date?
10 years old? 13 years old? 16 years old? 18 years old?
Is it acceptable of an adult to date a child, say a 18 year old dates a 16 year old?
This is brought to light over two issues, one a friend of mine, 1 year younger than me is dating a 70 year old :-\
And I just had a round with a 37 year old man, threatening a 16 year old girl because she rejected him.
Sooo people dating, age does it matter?
--- End quote ---
I don't see any problem with a 18 year old dating a 16 year old. My girlfriend was 17 when I was 18. Most girls i've met seem pretty immature in their 20's though.
Then again I'm 22, so maybe that's why I think that way.
--- End quote ---
I think it's best if they are in the same age group by not being underage that is, so 18 and 18, or 18 and 21 is fine. 5 or 10 years older difference in older folks is a good age limit, I've heard men which are 70, get 30 or even 40 year old women, which has a giant age gap which isn't compatible imo. :o
kellymaureen:
--- Quote from: JTFFan on December 20, 2007, 01:36:16 PM ---
--- Quote from: Cohen on December 20, 2007, 01:30:16 PM ---
--- Quote from: The Infidel. on December 20, 2007, 01:44:23 AM ---People date different kinds of people and different ages, why then people find age gaps acceptable or creepy.
Is a gap of up to 5 years good? 10 years? 20 years? 30 years?
Is it more acceptable for a woman to be younger than the man?
When is it acceptable to date?
10 years old? 13 years old? 16 years old? 18 years old?
Is it acceptable of an adult to date a child, say a 18 year old dates a 16 year old?
This is brought to light over two issues, one a friend of mine, 1 year younger than me is dating a 70 year old :-\
And I just had a round with a 37 year old man, threatening a 16 year old girl because she rejected him.
Sooo people dating, age does it matter?
--- End quote ---
I don't see any problem with a 18 year old dating a 16 year old. My girlfriend was 17 when I was 18. Most girls i've met seem pretty immature in their 20's though.
Then again I'm 22, so maybe that's why I think that way.
--- End quote ---
I think it's best if they are in the same age group by not being underage that is, so 18 and 18, or 18 and 21 is fine. 5 or 10 years older difference in older folks is a good age limit, I've heard men which are 70, get 30 or even 40 year old women, which has a giant age gap which isn't compatible imo. :o
--- End quote ---
Lol they are usually very rich old men:p
There was a story a while back about an 18 yr old who was charged by the girls parents with statutory rape and I think it was sexual contact with a minor, even though the girl went to court and said it was consensual, the court said legally she could not consent (she was 16 I believe) so the poor guy is now a "sex offender" and has to follow all the rules that child molestors do, staying away from schools, places where children gather, etc...I would imagine getting a job wont be easy, that pretty much ruined his life.
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