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MarZutra:

--- Quote from: thunderbolt on November 24, 2006, 10:10:44 PM ---Go meet someone through your synagogue or something. Get involved in your synagogue or church and help out when you can. I guarantee you'll meet someone nice that way.

IMO, this thread is over the top. For goodness sake, people...  >:(

Steps to finding a girl:

1) Stop generalizing them as brainwashed, only liking black men, liberal, etc, etc.

2) If you have a small group of friends and/or don't want to meet them in places like clubs, etc(wouldn't blame you if you didn't) then get involved in your community. This can be church, sports that are good for co-ed like volleyball, community service, volunteer at hospitals, clinics, old folks homes, etc. You will meet girls in these things. Chances are, girls with morals

3) Get rid of notions like not kissing before marriage. I'm sorry Yaacov but that is ridiculous. I've never heard of this and I know plenty of orthodox Jews. There's nothing wrong with maintaining your virginity but girls will want some intimacy.

4) Be confidant and be yourself. If a girl isn't gonna accept you and your shortcomings, why bother? Unless she's really really really hot of course. ;)

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Very good advice.  I agree with your analysis for the most part.  Simply, as time passes more and more women are catering to the continual bombardment of feminist, "progressive" propaganda starting from the womb to the grave.  Here in Canada the texts for elementary school students advocate everything on the leftist aganda: Same Sex this, feminism that, hate whitey here, love everyone elses culture there, everything and every one is equal, "team player"/groups think.  It is actually quite sad.  In my honest estimate the averge Canadian girl under 25, NOT ALL, but I'd say quickly becoming the majority had serviced almost as many men/boys as their age.  They (the "progressive" Left) is continually teaching them false "pride" and a false sense of self-confidence/respect via promoting "sexual liberation", "experiment with your homosexual feelings" etc. to the point where most youths here actually wish the legalization of drugs and prostitution.  The result in most cases is ignorance and a very self fulfilled prostitute in my opinion.  You are correct in your steps, because obviously these types of women/girls would not be attending or volunteering in any of the groups you suggest.  The sad facts are that those groups are becoming smaller and lesser as the West becomes more "progressive" and "tolerant".  I do agree with your analysis just wishing to touch on both the educational system and the media which have totally vanquished Conservative values within our youth.....   PS: I am not a woman hater not whatsoever, I feel women should be embracing their true feminin self and good values and not feminism, "diversity" and "progressiveness" because there is absolutley nothing attractive nor feminin in a feminist just ignorance and immense arrogance.

Alex:
My mother said that women like security and I could agree with her.

TheCoon:
The only thing I've heard that is anything like that is not kissing during a woman's period of menstruation.

If this is the case then 99% of Jews don't know Judaism. Can you please show me where in Jewish law this notion of "not kissing" is present? I'm curious as to where it exists.

fake plastic trees:

--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on November 25, 2006, 09:46:52 PM ---
--- Quote from: thunderbolt on November 25, 2006, 08:55:03 PM ---The only thing I've heard that is anything like that is not kissing during a woman's period of menstruation.
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A man can't even touch his wife or sleep in the same bed without having sex during her period. A man is not supposed to even shake hands with or in any way touch a woman who is not his wife, sister, mother, or daughter.

A man isn't even supposed to hear a woman sing unless she is his wife.

Not all Jews are strict about all these things. I used to believe in kissing before marriage and I thought not kissing before marriage was only being extra strict just like eating Glatt Kosher is a stricter version of eating kosher, although Jews are not required to keep Glatt Kosher. But it is Halacha, not just extra strictness. But the no kissing part is as far as I follow. That doesn't mean I think it is okay to break those other prohibitions. I'm just not as observant on those parts. I'm not even fully observant of Shabbat yet but I still accept that you must keep Shabbat and the fact that I don't fully observe it is a sin.



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You can't seriously think that kissing before marriage is WRONG... if you hold those beliefs, you won't ever get married!

TheCoon:
I wonder if JTF has any rabbis in the movement that could answer this?

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