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adam613:
Well I'm 33 so it is starting to get really difficult for me (sigh, I wish I was 25 again.) as I do want a women who is of childbearing age and I guess a women fairly close to my age fertility is starting to go down as the 20's are more fertile years then the 30's are. The stats clearly bear it out and once you hit 30 fertility for a woman does start to seriously drop. So it isn't easy. Should I go for a girl in her ealry 30S (and most of them have some issue besides age) or a girl in her mid or late 20S. Feminism is very, very, bad in the Orthodox world and many women don't even know their own frailties and are now waiting longer and longer to get married. Some so called "Rabbi's" are telling women it is OK to lie about their age until they are 35 because age isn't critical until age 35. Which is nonsense of course. They also treat men like crap saying men don't have a biological clock but most women don't want a man too much older then them anyway. So it isn't easy. At this point I don't know if I could get a women with all the qualities that I would want. I try to be fair, though, as I am not perfect myself.
MarZutra:
--- Quote from: adam613 on December 03, 2006, 11:48:08 PM ---Well I'm 33 so it is starting to get really difficult for me (sigh, I wish I was 25 again.) as I do want a women who is of childbearing age and I guess a women fairly close to my age fertility is starting to go down as the 20's are more fertile years then the 30's are. The stats clearly bear it out and once you hit 30 fertility for a woman does start to seriously drop. So it isn't easy. Should I go for a girl in her ealry 30S (and most of them have some issue besides age) or a girl in her mid or late 20S. Feminism is very, very, bad in the Orthodox world and many women don't even know their own frailties and are now waiting longer and longer to get married. Some so called "Rabbi's" are telling women it is OK to lie about their age until they are 35 because age isn't critical until age 35. Which is nonsense of course. They also treat men like crap saying men don't have a biological clock but most women don't want a man too much older then them anyway. So it isn't easy. At this point I don't know if I could get a women with all the qualities that I would want. I try to be fair, though, as I am not perfect myself.
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I hear you brother...
davkakach:
--- Quote from: adam613 on December 03, 2006, 11:48:08 PM ---Well I'm 33 so it is starting to get really difficult for me (sigh, I wish I was 25 again.) as I do want a women who is of childbearing age and I guess a women fairly close to my age fertility is starting to go down as the 20's are more fertile years then the 30's are. The stats clearly bear it out and once you hit 30 fertility for a woman does start to seriously drop. So it isn't easy. Should I go for a girl in her ealry 30S (and most of them have some issue besides age) or a girl in her mid or late 20S. Feminism is very, very, bad in the Orthodox world and many women don't even know their own frailties and are now waiting longer and longer to get married. Some so called "Rabbi's" are telling women it is OK to lie about their age until they are 35 because age isn't critical until age 35. Which is nonsense of course. They also treat men like crap saying men don't have a biological clock but most women don't want a man too much older then them anyway. So it isn't easy. At this point I don't know if I could get a women with all the qualities that I would want. I try to be fair, though, as I am not perfect myself.
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I join Marzutra in expressing my solidarity with you.
adam613:
Hi, Yaacov. By the way, CAN WE HAVE A BOARD FOR DATING AND CONCERNS OF SINGLE MEN AND SINGLE WOMEN WITH MARRIAGE IN TODAY'S SOCIETY. I don't know if I should post everything on this one thread and for the moment any new topic I am going to post over here since we don't have a section for this.
adam613:
Thanks for the feedback Yaaacov. I really hope we have something soon and I think we do need it. I agree that there should be rules on it. So far this site has a lot of single Jewish men and single Gentile men and I think this would help. Of course we would have try to get women from other boards but I think this would help the situation and hopefully attract some women to this site who are also single.
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