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Is it a good idea to have sex ed?
Zvulun Ben Moshe:
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--- Quote from: Zvulun ben Moshe on January 20, 2008, 08:05:21 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on December 31, 2007, 01:34:14 PM ---
--- Quote from: There Are No 'Israeli' Arabs on December 31, 2007, 01:30:27 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on December 31, 2007, 08:05:58 AM ---
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--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on December 30, 2007, 08:04:33 PM ---
--- Quote from: Skippy on December 30, 2007, 07:06:29 PM ---Whoa hold up this is not what that was about. :-\
Its is about the Jewish marriage laws.
And how to remain with in the laws when married.
Not about single people and sex and porno's.
This is about preparing people for that part of their married lives.
Geezzz. ::)
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Well it's good to follow the halakha when one is married..however, what the husband and wife do in the privacy of their home is not even Gd's business.
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Resisting the temptation to grill you over what you just said, I have another question for the Love Doctor:
How much does it mean for you to keep the Nidda laws? Would you not mind ignoring this IMPORTANT practice in your own marraige?
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It is the most important thing!!!!! The Nidda law will be one of those things that will allow for a successful marriage!
Actually the truth is, besides nidda, i don't know what is allowed or not allowed...I dont' want to get explicit on this forum, but it is a relgious question and it is about sex but not necessarily actual intercourse..so i'm being very oblique right now...are there other sexual acts between a consenting husband and wife which are not allowed and those which are permitted?
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It is also more important because you will go into spiritual excommunication for not keeping the Nidda laws. But yes, G-d's rules do add to a successful marriage.
As for your question on what can and cannot be done between a man and a women, first of all, yes, according to the ruling in the Shulhan Aruch, there are a few limitations, mostly having to do with foreplay (it is still practically mandatory for a man to engage in it with his wife). The minority opinion of the Rambam (in this particular matter) is a lot more lenient with what is permitted (and there are still some limitations that ALL agree on). Nevertheless, he stresses that a couple must conduct themselves with holiness and purity, and not engage in acts that will trivialize or frivol the important and extremely holy act of sex between a husband and wife.
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I agree with this 100%!!
now when i refer to the privacy of one's home...while it is important to keep the marraige holy and sex etc, still yet, whatever kinkiness, so to speak, that a husband and wife agree on, is between themselves only...
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Dear Doctor, I think you simply don't what your are talking about. With all due respect, if you read the laws, you will understand that it is not the "next level" that you can forego, but a bare minimum for a strong and pure relationship.
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Well to each their own..I don't want another person telling me what me and wife are allowed to do in the privacy of our home.
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I thought you were not married...
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: Zvulun ben Moshe on January 21, 2008, 10:24:29 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on January 20, 2008, 08:18:38 PM ---
--- Quote from: Zvulun ben Moshe on January 20, 2008, 08:05:21 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on December 31, 2007, 01:34:14 PM ---
--- Quote from: There Are No 'Israeli' Arabs on December 31, 2007, 01:30:27 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on December 31, 2007, 08:05:58 AM ---
--- Quote from: There Are No 'Israeli' Arabs on December 30, 2007, 11:11:56 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on December 30, 2007, 08:04:33 PM ---
--- Quote from: Skippy on December 30, 2007, 07:06:29 PM ---Whoa hold up this is not what that was about. :-\
Its is about the Jewish marriage laws.
And how to remain with in the laws when married.
Not about single people and sex and porno's.
This is about preparing people for that part of their married lives.
Geezzz. ::)
--- End quote ---
Well it's good to follow the halakha when one is married..however, what the husband and wife do in the privacy of their home is not even Gd's business.
--- End quote ---
Resisting the temptation to grill you over what you just said, I have another question for the Love Doctor:
How much does it mean for you to keep the Nidda laws? Would you not mind ignoring this IMPORTANT practice in your own marraige?
--- End quote ---
It is the most important thing!!!!! The Nidda law will be one of those things that will allow for a successful marriage!
Actually the truth is, besides nidda, i don't know what is allowed or not allowed...I dont' want to get explicit on this forum, but it is a relgious question and it is about sex but not necessarily actual intercourse..so i'm being very oblique right now...are there other sexual acts between a consenting husband and wife which are not allowed and those which are permitted?
--- End quote ---
It is also more important because you will go into spiritual excommunication for not keeping the Nidda laws. But yes, G-d's rules do add to a successful marriage.
As for your question on what can and cannot be done between a man and a women, first of all, yes, according to the ruling in the Shulhan Aruch, there are a few limitations, mostly having to do with foreplay (it is still practically mandatory for a man to engage in it with his wife). The minority opinion of the Rambam (in this particular matter) is a lot more lenient with what is permitted (and there are still some limitations that ALL agree on). Nevertheless, he stresses that a couple must conduct themselves with holiness and purity, and not engage in acts that will trivialize or frivol the important and extremely holy act of sex between a husband and wife.
--- End quote ---
I agree with this 100%!!
now when i refer to the privacy of one's home...while it is important to keep the marraige holy and sex etc, still yet, whatever kinkiness, so to speak, that a husband and wife agree on, is between themselves only...
--- End quote ---
Dear Doctor, I think you simply don't what your are talking about. With all due respect, if you read the laws, you will understand that it is not the "next level" that you can forego, but a bare minimum for a strong and pure relationship.
--- End quote ---
Well to each their own..I don't want another person telling me what me and wife are allowed to do in the privacy of our home.
--- End quote ---
I thought you were not married...
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I'm not...i'm just saying hypothetically speaking..
Zvulun Ben Moshe:
Try it, you will have a chance understanding how this stuff works.
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: Zvulun ben Moshe on January 23, 2008, 11:58:27 PM ---Try it, you will have a chance understanding how this stuff works.
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try what
Zvulun Ben Moshe:
Try getting married, Doc...
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