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Re: I'm a Catholic but I have a Jewish girlfriend and we want to marry
« Reply #75 on: April 06, 2008, 04:39:40 PM »
I wish you good luck, religion doesn't matter to me either except for one religion and you know what that is.
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Re: I'm a Catholic but I have a Jewish girlfriend and we want to marry
« Reply #76 on: April 06, 2008, 05:14:23 PM »
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Re: I'm a Catholic but I have a Jewish girlfriend and we want to marry
« Reply #77 on: April 08, 2008, 01:45:22 PM »
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Re: I'm a Catholic but I have a Jewish girlfriend and we want to marry
« Reply #78 on: June 11, 2008, 11:23:44 PM »
I just have a question though..... ::)

What about Moses, what about Esther????

Didn't they marry non Jews????

Wasn't it for God's higher purpose????

And before I get any rocks thrown at me..... :'(

I've had several gentile friends over the years who have married Jews......

They seem to get along just fine.

I don't want to get into all of their theological thinking here, but also, I know two Jews, one is Messianic, one is not...they get along just fine also.....

*goes back into the cave....

 :laugh:

I know that we all have our traditions, opinions, thoughts, rules, regulations and laws...

But doesn't anyone wonder about Esther and Moses?????

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Re: I'm a Catholic but I have a Jewish girlfriend and we want to marry
« Reply #79 on: June 12, 2008, 12:02:15 AM »
oh ok, kewl........

 :D

That makes sense.....

 :)

I just have a question though..... ::)

What about Moses, what about Esther????

Didn't they marry non Jews????

Wasn't it for G-d's higher purpose????

And before I get any rocks thrown at me..... :'(

I've had several gentile friends over the years who have married Jews......

They seem to get along just fine.

I don't want to get into all of their theological thinking here, but also, I know two Jews, one is Messianic, one is not...they get along just fine also.....

*goes back into the cave....

 :laugh:

I know that we all have our traditions, opinions, thoughts, rules, regulations and laws...

But doesn't anyone wonder about Esther and Moses?????




Moses's wife converted.


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Re: I'm a Catholic but I have a Jewish girlfriend and we want to marry
« Reply #80 on: June 23, 2008, 10:41:44 AM »
Tell your jewish girlfriend shell better marry a donkey then "marry" a goy.
Arent you ashamed to think of "marrying" a woman that was on mount sinai
and said " NAASE VENISHMA" ???

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Re: I'm a Catholic but I have a Jewish girlfriend and we want to marry
« Reply #81 on: July 10, 2008, 07:31:19 AM »
I just have a question though..... ::)

What about Moses, what about Esther????

Didn't they marry non Jews????

Wasn't it for G-d's higher purpose????

And before I get any rocks thrown at me..... :'(

I've had several gentile friends over the years who have married Jews......

They seem to get along just fine.

I don't want to get into all of their theological thinking here, but also, I know two Jews, one is Messianic, one is not...they get along just fine also.....

*goes back into the cave....

 :laugh:

I know that we all have our traditions, opinions, thoughts, rules, regulations and laws...

But doesn't anyone wonder about Esther and Moses?????



Mose's wife converted to Judaism. A Gentile can never marry a Jew. If a Gentile really wishes to be an Israelite, then he must first convert, and then if he meets a Jewess after conversion, he is allowed to marry her, or he may marry a convert. But a Gentile is not allowed to "convert" just to marry. Does this sound hard? Then what if you fall in love with your sister? Would you marry her? If you really believe in the truth you'd avoid intermarriage in the same way you avoid incest!!!

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Re: I'm a Catholic but I have a Jewish girlfriend and we want to marry
« Reply #82 on: July 10, 2008, 02:59:25 PM »
A convert must be honest about his wish to convert. It doesn't matter what reason got him to start the process, as long as he is honest about his wish for becoming a Jew.

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Re: I'm a Catholic but I have a Jewish girlfriend and we want to marry
« Reply #83 on: July 11, 2008, 04:39:10 PM »
I just have a question though..... ::)

What about Moses, what about Esther????

Didn't they marry non Jews????

Wasn't it for G-d's higher purpose????

And before I get any rocks thrown at me..... :'(

I've had several gentile friends over the years who have married Jews......

They seem to get along just fine.

I don't want to get into all of their theological thinking here, but also, I know two Jews, one is Messianic, one is not...they get along just fine also.....

*goes back into the cave....

 :laugh:

I know that we all have our traditions, opinions, thoughts, rules, regulations and laws...

But doesn't anyone wonder about Esther and Moses?????



If you really believe in the truth you'd avoid intermarriage in the same way you avoid incest!!!

 I dont think that it is that good to say that to people in todays society. You never know how low someone reading or hearing someting could be. Maybe they dont avoid incest, you never know.
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Re: I'm a Catholic but I have a Jewish girlfriend and we want to marry
« Reply #84 on: July 18, 2008, 04:10:28 PM »
This is true Jews are forbidden to marry outside of their religion. However in the Reformed Movement and I am not sure of the Conversative. They have no issue of Non Jews and Reformed Marrying.
hey wait my dad married a gentile, wait am i a mischling ?
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Re: I'm a Catholic but I have a Jewish girlfriend and we want to marry
« Reply #85 on: July 18, 2008, 07:06:27 PM »
This is true Jews are forbidden to marry outside of their religion. However in the Reformed Movement and I am not sure of the Conversative. They have no issue of Non Jews and Reformed Marrying.
hey wait my dad married a gentile, wait am i a mischling ?

If that Gentile your father married is your biological mother, then you are a Gentile. But there is no problem, as a Gentile you can keep Torah by fullfilling the Noahide Laws. And if you truly want to be Jewish , then you must convert by an Orthodox Court.

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Re: I'm a Catholic but I have a Jewish girlfriend and we want to marry
« Reply #86 on: August 08, 2008, 08:01:57 AM »
I dont know. What if 2 people just connect, and fall  in love at first site? People CAN CONVERT entirely, if there is NO loving compromise btwn. the 2, then heartbreak is on its way. SAD to say. I am WAY more Torah oriented than David, he is very spiritual and centered. We would NOT even be together, if he had ZERO Judaism, or (only one of us). We would NOT 'get' each-other. That would be a TRAGEDY for both of us.
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Re: I'm a Catholic but I have a Jewish girlfriend and we want to marry
« Reply #87 on: August 10, 2008, 08:53:53 PM »
The way I look at it, if both people believe in the G-d of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, that is good enough, but of course they should love each other....of course, I am a die hard romantic......*sigh

 ::)

I dont know. What if 2 people just connect, and fall  in love at first site? People CAN CONVERT entirely, if there is NO loving compromise btwn. the 2, then heartbreak is on its way. SAD to say. I am WAY more Torah oriented than David, he is very spiritual and centered. We would NOT even be together, if he had ZERO Judaism, or (only one of us). We would NOT 'get' each-other. That would be a TRAGEDY for both of us.
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Re: I'm a Catholic but I have a Jewish girlfriend and we want to marry
« Reply #88 on: August 19, 2008, 07:07:08 AM »
I do beleive it is condemned.
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