what are your views on dating?
I am Jewish, I live in California.
I like girls a lot.
I am not like a sicko pervert type (not into porn movies at all)...I think my drives are pretty normal and healthy.
But I do have a fair sexual drive and I enjoy cute girls.
What is the Torah law on dating non-Jewish women?
What does it say about pre-marital sex (sex while dating)
I was sort of sad when I read in Kahane's book (uncomfortable Truths for Comfortable Jews) the story of Pinchas killing a fellow Jew for basically having a romantic affair with a gentile woman.
I mean, I want to learn the truth and confront the issues even if it doesn't 100% match with my personal desires, but I definitely don't like to feel like I am doing something wrong when it may be permitted so maybe you can give me some scriptural evidence of G-d's will in this matter.
I personally don't have preferences on women by nationality, and if anything (sadly) I have not met very many physically attractive Jewish women out here at all! On top of that, a find a lot of Jewish women seem ideologically unattractive - it seems like lot of them I think are the liberal leftist types.
I could be wrong as I am not really a part of the Jewish community.
Maybe it is different in Israel? You mentioned in one broadcast that the Kahanist types in Israel were attractive people, so maybe there is hope.
Ideally I would like to meet a Jewish woman that I find very physically attractive as well as ideologically attractive (righteous). But in the mean-time, I am bored. Also, I am 29 and I don't want to get married for a while.
I mean, what is your opinion about just dating a few girls here and there (Asian, white-non-jewish, etc...)?
I don't think I'd marry them, and I don't see them converting to Judaism (maybe, who knows?)
I'm trying to put it in perspective, to align with my personal beliefs system and here is what I've come up with:
If we look at the Bible, 2 of our greatest role-models, David and Solomon were big-time ladies-men...and not all of their wives weren't Jewish...correct?
It appears in those cases, the mistakes they made were:
David: Had an affair with the wife of another man - adultery
Solomon: Permitted spirtitual adultery - the worship of the strange gods his wives brought.
I understand that both of those are serious errors, and I know to avoid them.
But if I date a girl who is
A: not another man's wife. And
B: I don't worship the gods or religions that any girlfriends I may have.
Is it all kosher?
Thanks for answering questions, I value your knowledge immensly.
BTW: I realize the value of promoting a purely a Jewish race (and not assimilating through kids from interfaith marriages) but how far does this go?