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Pre-Marital sex. What is your take??
Americanhero1:
--- Quote from: Dan on June 12, 2008, 03:09:01 PM ---I'll have to abstain form this poll...
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Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: Americanhero on June 12, 2008, 03:02:19 PM ---Dr Dan I think you should make the topic more clearer because people think you mean no sex until marriage
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That is what it was..Pre-marital sex means Sex before marraige. The choice of celebacy means, no sex AT ALL.
Americanhero1:
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on June 12, 2008, 02:54:03 PM ---
--- Quote from: Americanhero on June 12, 2008, 02:51:58 PM ---
--- Quote from: shimon on June 12, 2008, 02:50:36 PM ---if everyone practices clebiacy they would be no more people left.
And bringing children to the world is the most important mitzvah in the torah
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I think they mean not to have sex before you are married
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No i meant celebacy..period! It's just opposite to "Everyone should have sex all the time."
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When you said this it look like you ment not to have sex ever
Dr. Dan:
I think that in an idealistic society, sex should NOT be done before marraige. Our society is so screwed up-Jewish and non Jewish. Being that it is that way and that most of us live in these societies, pre marital sex should be discouraged. However, speaking for men, sometimes, they need to get it out of their system in order to be a better husband...Or if possible, marry younger. Except our society doesn't allow the latter.
The problem here is that there way too much focus on sex and less focus on love. To many, it is SUCH A SIN to have pre-marital sex that it some will push their children to get married younger so that they dont' live or think in sin. However, it's NOT JUST about sex!!! It's unfortunate our society has become too sexified. It's either something awesome or great or a terrible sin. It's niether. It's a natural thing that is awesome and definately not a sin. But sex shouldn't just be sex...that's just for animals to do. We are humans with souls who understand and can learn love...and that's what it's about. If we can love a single person of the opposite sex and marry them, the sex makes sense...all the rest is really a waste of time and brain and soul.
But here's the clincher: How would I know this if I were still a virgin? How could I understand this if I stayed a virgin? In other words, sometimes, some people need to wander the desert for 40 years to appreciate the promised land, rather than go direct straight through. Sometimes eating from the Tree of Knowledge will enhance our brains to do right and know wrong...Things like that can create beautiful poetry and wonderful dreams.\
I shoudl add however, that the frustration of not doing it before marraige can also create beautiful poetry and wonderful dreams.
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: Americanhero on June 12, 2008, 11:14:32 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on June 12, 2008, 02:54:03 PM ---
--- Quote from: Americanhero on June 12, 2008, 02:51:58 PM ---
--- Quote from: shimon on June 12, 2008, 02:50:36 PM ---if everyone practices clebiacy they would be no more people left.
And bringing children to the world is the most important mitzvah in the torah
--- End quote ---
I think they mean not to have sex before you are married
--- End quote ---
No i meant celebacy..period! It's just opposite to "Everyone should have sex all the time."
--- End quote ---
When you said this it look like you ment not to have sex ever
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That's whate celebacy is..No sex EVER. I put that choice up there to be the opposite to sex no matter what.
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