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« Reply #325 on: July 02, 2010, 12:24:47 AM »

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« Reply #328 on: July 04, 2010, 01:02:35 AM »
And how is it now?

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« Reply #329 on: July 04, 2010, 01:38:09 AM »
And how is it now?

It's good but I am going to have to work today too and I woke up at 1am!  :o

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« Reply #330 on: July 04, 2010, 01:41:23 AM »
I noticed you're more happy and energetic on the forum last days  :)

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« Reply #331 on: July 04, 2010, 01:43:17 AM »
I noticed you're more happy and energetic on the forum last days  :)

That's good I guess. I hope you've been happy too.

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« Reply #332 on: July 04, 2010, 02:39:46 AM »
What is your preferable form of government for the US?

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« Reply #333 on: July 04, 2010, 07:09:20 PM »
What is your preferable form of government for the US?

I like the form of government the USA has now but we need to have some rules put in barring socialists from running for office and about a president immediately being put out of office if he does nothing to secure the borders.

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« Reply #334 on: July 05, 2010, 12:41:07 PM »
Do you like Emos

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« Reply #335 on: July 05, 2010, 01:24:09 PM »
Emos were after my time. They're a late 90s/00s kind of thing aren't they? From what I know they try to dress up like stereotypically gay vampires and cry about how bad their life is all the time and wear heartagrams. That's pretty pathetic.

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« Reply #336 on: July 05, 2010, 03:34:35 PM »
Hey I'd like to ask a question m'kay? Lol.   Ron this is not directed at you m'kay

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« Reply #337 on: July 05, 2010, 03:54:15 PM »
M'kay. What's your question? M'kay?

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« Reply #338 on: July 05, 2010, 05:09:33 PM »
M'kay.  How do you find the patience to deal with people that 'push your buttons?'

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« Reply #339 on: July 05, 2010, 05:25:10 PM »
M'kay.  How do you find the patience to deal with people that 'push your buttons?'

Sometimes I don't deal well with it, and I feel really angry and react badly.

Sometimes  I try to figure out why someone is acting that way and it helps. For example there was someone, when one of the outside cats had disappeared for a while, who told me "well that's one less mouth to feed". As if that would comfort me somehow. The comment was completely inappropriate and I didn't understand how they could think it was at first. However I realized it was the mental condition that they had that caused them to be like that.

They were just unable to see things from someone else's viewpoint.

Sometimes people are just plain narcissistic and they don't think other people's feelings count, as long as they can have a laugh at someone else's expense or as long as they feel good.  Narcissists don't understand why you would feel bad if they're feeling good. After all, they're happy, so you should be happy too!


On the other hand some people don't have mental conditions that they can use as an excuse. Some people are deliberate jerks. These people's nasty comments should be seen about as equivalent to a yapping chihuahua. Meaningless.

 

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« Reply #340 on: July 05, 2010, 07:23:31 PM »
M'kay.  How do you find the patience to deal with people that 'push your buttons?'

Sometimes I don't deal well with it, and I feel really angry and react badly.

Sometimes  I try to figure out why someone is acting that way and it helps. For example there was someone, when one of the outside cats had disappeared for a while, who told me "well that's one less mouth to feed". As if that would comfort me somehow. The comment was completely inappropriate and I didn't understand how they could think it was at first. However I realized it was the mental condition that they had that caused them to be like that.

They were just unable to see things from someone else's viewpoint.

Sometimes people are just plain narcissistic and they don't think other people's feelings count, as long as they can have a laugh at someone else's expense or as long as they feel good.  Narcissists don't understand why you would feel bad if they're feeling good. After all, they're happy, so you should be happy too!


On the other hand some people don't have mental conditions that they can use as an excuse. Some people are deliberate jerks. These people's nasty comments should be seen about as equivalent to a yapping chihuahua. Meaningless.

 

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« Reply #341 on: July 05, 2010, 08:52:25 PM »
I'm not corrupt enough to get into politics.

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« Reply #342 on: July 05, 2010, 08:57:39 PM »
"With lies and deception you may advance, but you will have no chance to go back." - Russian saying

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« Reply #343 on: July 05, 2010, 09:05:02 PM »
The Russians actually got something right, it's not worth it to get ahead the wrong way.

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« Reply #344 on: July 05, 2010, 09:06:23 PM »
"Honesty, honesty, never dishonesty" - Rabbi Meir Kahane

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« Reply #345 on: July 05, 2010, 09:10:54 PM »
"Honesty, honesty, never dishonesty" - Rabbi Meir Kahane

I think most of the people on this site understand how wise he was. That's just one great example.

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« Reply #346 on: July 05, 2010, 09:21:58 PM »
"Men seek for a beautiful, smart and diligent woman - futilely. The law forbids polygamy." - French saying

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« Reply #347 on: July 05, 2010, 09:27:01 PM »
"Men seek for a beautiful, smart and diligent woman - futilely. The law forbids polygamy." - French saying

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« Reply #348 on: July 05, 2010, 09:46:59 PM »
Get your car insurance as fast as possible because one day your wife will drive it

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« Reply #349 on: July 05, 2010, 09:58:53 PM »
I don't know what they do in Israel but in America car insurance is actually less expensive for women because they take fewer risks. Maybe I ought to worry about a future husband's insurance.  :)