New yorker,Im from NY as well.BTW.But when we face G-d what will we say?We just went crazy with lust?
LOL no! I'm not advocating a life of debauchery.
I'm saying get the most out life, in a wholesome healthy exuberant way. Live, love, laugh, eat tasty food, love your woman, man, wife, or husband depending on your situation, keep your love letters and throw out your old bank statements, worry less about things that don't matter in the long run; Live like you only have 12,999 days left.