Mo, I didnt have any B.F's hardly b4. I had gained weight, My Nana (Of blessed memory) wanted me to 'come to terms, with my lesbianism' she set up a dinner just to SET ME UP! I was so appalled and so hurt... I went to the bathroom, begging G-d, what do I do!!
And, guess what... the whole situation turned around, and we started reading the psalms that were in this mans house. DO NOT give in to this EVIL. I know that your mom is not evil, of course, but this is a very bad thing. You stay CLOSE to your Torah, it is the TRUTH.