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mord:
http://www.whyislam.org/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=4217



--- Quote ---You guys are so nerdy about such discussions, especially those of you that are from other cultures.... sex is not a bad word.... we all have done it or will do it.  No reason we cant discuss it openly on a forum.  I mean, we are not one on one in person, male and female, talking sex...  we are on a faceless, impersonal and open forum. You honestly think that by talking about sex that ill be tempted to jump one of the sisters?  Or maybe you all are too uncomfortable with your sexuality that you think you might cyber someone here???

There is no reason that there should be a brothers only or sisters only section... we should learn from each other.... and men especially have a serious handicap with regards to a womans viewpoint on such issues. and we all need to know the boundaries for sexual relations between the genders.

Im not saying to allow porn text but an eductional discourse on Islams view of sex is vital.... infact Allah, the Prophet and the Companions in the Qur'an and hadith talk very openly about sex.... or are you all not reading Quran or Hadith?

now I can hear you saying...well brother... they talked about it among the men and the men talked to their wives.... but Aisha narrated many hadith about sex and sexual issues to the companions after the Prophets death.  That doesnt mean that since they talked about it that they were tempted to sex each other up...Aisha educated the Companions after the Prophets death on the Prophets Sunnah on sex.  Today, Sheikhs, who for some odd reeason are mostly men now, educate men and women on sex.... whats the fuss?

Sex is good if we engage in it within Islamic boundaries..... lets discuss those boundaries.... Ill start....  here is a fatwah:

Title of Fatwa Islamic Ruling on Anal Sex   
Date of Fatwa  24/ January/ 2004   
Date of Reply 24/ January/ 2004   
Topic Of Fatwa  Sexual Relations   
Question of Fatwa As-Salamu `alaykum! What does Islam say about anal sex? What are the consequences of having anal sex on the marriage? Jazakum Allah khyran.
   
Name of Mufti A Group of Islamic Researchers   
Content of Reply Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.


In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.



All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Dear questioner, thanks a lot for your question and concern about your religion and Allah’s Legislation even in what concerns your sexual life with your wife.

Almighty Allah says in the Qur'an: "Your wives are a tilth for you, so go to your tilth (have sexual relations with your wives in any manner as long as it is in the vagina and not in the anus), when or how you will, and send (good deeds, or ask Allah to bestow upon you pious offspring) for your own selves beforehand. And fear Allah, and know that you are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give good tidings to the believers (O Muhammad)." (Al-Baqarah: 223)

In the foregoing verse the word harth (tilth) indicates that only vaginal sex is permissible in Islam, because it is from this place children are produced. The semen lodged in the womb from which offspring comes is likened to the seeds that are planted in the ground, bringing vegetation. Both of them are substances from which something else is produced.

All Muslim jurists agree that anal sex is haram (prohibited), based on the hadith of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him): "Do not have anal sex with women." (Reported by Ahmad, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasa'i, and Ibn Majah.)

Khuzaymah Ibn Thabit (may Allah be pleased with him) also reported that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Allah is not too shy to tell you the truth: Do not have sex with your wives in the anus." (Reported by Ahmad, 5/213.)

Ibn `Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated: "The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Allah will not look at a man who has anal sex with his wife." (Reported by Ibn Abi Shaybah, 3/529, and At-Tirmidhi classified it as an authentic hadith, 1165)

Further, it is reported that the Prophet (peace and blessing be upon him) referred to such an act as "minor sodomy". (Reported by Ahmad and An-Nasa'i)

However, it is allowed to caress the wife and stimulate her around the anus, :o :o without having sex in this area. It is reported that `Umar Ibn Al-Khattab (ay Allah be pleased with him) came one day to the Prophet and said, "O Messenger of Allah, I am ruined!" "What has ruined you?" asked the Prophet. He replied, "Last night I turned my wife over," meaning that he had had vaginal intercourse with her from the back. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) did not say anything to him until the verse cited above was revealed. Then he told him, "[Make love with your wife] from the front or the back, but avoid the anus and intercourse during menstruation." (Reported by Ahmad and At-Tirmidhi)   ;D ;D ;D
If one does have anal sex with his wife, he has committed a grave sin, which requires repentance. He should regret and feel contrite for committing such a sin. Allah Almighty destroyed a whole nation who were accustomed to this evil habit.

But, the wife is not considered divorced as many people think, because there is no evidence to support this view. However, scholars maintain that if a man habitually does this or insists on having anal sex with his wife, she has the right to ask for a divorce, because he is considered an evildoer who is causing harm by his action, and also because the purpose of marriage cannot be achieved through this action.

The wife has to resist this evil action and refuse to respond to her husband's desire to have anal sex. She should remind him of Allah as well as the punishment of those who transgress the Bounds set by Him, Most
 
http://www.islamonline.net/fatwa/english/FatwaDisplay.asp?hF atwaID=28770

 

 

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ftf:
To be honest I think it's a rather lacking account.

Surah 2  Ayat 223 Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will; but do some good act for your souls beforehand; and fear Allah. And know that ye are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give (these) good tidings to those who believe.

When or how the man wills, the woman is not allowed to make any of the decisions.

mord:

--- Quote from: ftf on April 29, 2007, 04:05:40 PM ---To be honest I think it's a rather lacking account.

Surah 2  Ayat 223 Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will; but do some good act for your souls beforehand; and fear Allah. And know that ye are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give (these) good tidings to those who believe.

When or how the man wills, the woman is not allowed to make any of the decisions.

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True but thats from an islamic forum i posted and they know infidels might be watching so they water it down

jdl4ever:
Look an islamic lego game that tells us the story:

jdl4ever:
I bet that lego mohammad character (melted lego be upon him) looks like Fruit and that's why he can't get the girls to go out with him.   ;D

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