Establishment NWO Media Admits "Minority" Men More Likely To Be Cheaters

[Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks]

Income Levels Tied To Infidelity

http://news.yahoo.com/s/hsn/20100816/hl_hsn/infidelityriseswhenshemakesmorethanhedoes;_ylt=Aor8VOHFpoS9DtpCdkmPkwso_aF4;_ylu=X3oDMTE1ZG9nMTcyBHBvcwMzBHNlYwN5bi1jaGFubmVsBHNsawNpbmZpZGVsaXR5cmk-

It's not exactly proudly announced... it's buried in the article, but is plenty clear.

Dr. Brennan Fan

Infidelity Rises When She Makes More Than He Does
By Randy Dotinga
HealthDay Reporter – Mon Aug 16, 7:08 pm ET

MONDAY, Aug. 16 (HealthDay News) -- A new study finds that men are more likely to cheat if their income is much lower than what their wife or female partner makes, while women are more likely to fool around if they make more than their husband or male partner.
The findings suggest that disparities in moneymaking play a significant role in infidelity, at least among the young couples they studied.
"With women, they were less likely to engage in infidelity the less money they make relative to their husband," said study author Christin Munsch. "But for men, the less money you make relative to your spouse, the more likely you are to engage in infidelity."
Munsch, a graduate student at Cornell University, said she came up with the idea of studying the effects of income on infidelity after hearing from a friend who has cheated on his partner. He told Munsch that "she made all the money, she had all the friends, and he'd moved up there to be with her. He felt completely powerless."
While there's been previous research into infidelity, it didn't look into differences in income among couples, Munsch said.
So she examined the results of a national survey that tracked 9,000 people beginning in 1997 when they were children. She focused on the results of the survey from 2001-2007, when the participants were between 17 and 27 years old.
The findings are scheduled to be released Monday at the American Sociological Association annual meeting in Atlanta.
Munsch found that almost 7 percent of the men reported having sex outside their relationships between 2002 and 2007, while about 3 percent of women did. Black and Hispanic men were more likely than white men to have fooled around.
Two lifestyle factors, higher education and regular religious observance, seem to help keep infidelity at bay for both men and women, the study found.
But factors having to do with money -- such as the man making more or less than his wife or female partner -- did increase the risk of infidelity, Munsch said. But she cautioned that "we're talking about very small numbers."
If you're a woman and "you make more money than your partner, your partner isn't 100 percent likely to cheat," she stressed.
Still, money appeared to be a significant factor.
Men who make less than their wives may lean toward infidelity because they feel a "gender identity threat," Munsch speculated.
"The range of acceptable behaviors for men is a lot narrower" when it comes to dynamics in a relationship, such as those involving finances, she said. "It's harder to hit that mark because it's a smaller mark. If you're not hitting the mark, you might feel threatened."
On the other end of the spectrum, infidelity seemed to rise when one partner made a lot more money than the other. And that held true whether the man or the woman was the big wage earner.
"If you work long hours and have more disposable income, it's easier to hide infidelity," Munsch reasoned. For example, unusual expenses charged to credit cards might go unnoticed. Also, she said, people who make more money may also travel frequently and meet lots of people of the opposite sex.
Helen Fisher, an anthropologist and research professor at Rutgers University, said it makes sense that men with more money would be more likely to fool around.
"He probably travels a lot and drives nicer cars, and he's probably in finer restaurants. He's advertising the kind of resources that women are looking for from an evolutionary perspective," she said. "Around the world, women go for men who are on the top of the pile."
But there's less reason, from an evolutionary perspective, for a man to stray if he makes less money than his female partner, she said. "You'd think a man would want to stick around those resources himself. That may have more of a purely psychological explanation."
As for women, she said, wealth brings them a greater power to do what they want, whether it's leave a bad relationship or have an affair.

[Rubystars]

I think men often want women they can dominate to some degree. I don't mean this in a bad way, I just mean they want to be the leader. Some men see the woman's potential financial independence as undermining this, and others really don't have any problem with it and dont' make that the focus. For women I think it's good to have a job that pays well but they should never use that as some kind of power play.

I think one reason there might be a racial disparity is the level of impulsiveness is different. Blacks are usually found to be more impulsive in studies, and less able to see the consequences of actions long term. So they may more easily give in to temptations for that reason. Other people have the same temptations though, and also often fall for it. It's the sad condition of modern society.

[IsraeliGovtAreKapos]

I think men often want women they can dominate to some degree. I don't mean this in a bad way, I just mean they want to be the leader. Some men see the woman's potential financial independence as undermining this, and others really don't have any problem with it and dont' make that the focus. For women I think it's good to have a job that pays well but they should never use that as some kind of power play.

I think one reason there might be a racial disparity is the level of impulsiveness is different. Blacks are usually found to be more impulsive in studies, and less able to see the consequences of actions long term. So they may more easily give in to temptations for that reason. Other people have the same temptations though, and also often fall for it. It's the sad condition of modern society.

Women want leading men

[Rubystars]

Yes Ron that is natural and normal.

[IsraeliGovtAreKapos]

Yes Ron that is natural and normal.

Dat be racist and chauvinist 

[Rubystars]

Yes Ron that is natural and normal.

Dat be racist and chauvinist 

 

[Debbie Shafer]

I think any man who is not matched to the right woman will cheat.   Alot of men still haven't learned that the way to a woman's heart is how she is treated.  Respect, love, and understanding will make both people happy and satisfied.

[Rubystars]

I think any man who is not matched to the right woman will cheat.   Alot of men still haven't learned that the way to a woman's heart is how she is treated.  Respect, love, and understanding will make both people happy and satisfied.

That's a really great post Debbie!

[Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks]

I don't think that a healthy, balanced, civilized man wants a woman that he can "dominate". That is the domain of woman-hating thirdworlders and sexists.

[IsraeliGovtAreKapos]

I don't think that a healthy, balanced, civilized man wants a woman that he can "dominate". That is the domain of woman-hating thirdworlders and sexists.

You call me uncivillized, unbalanced and unhealthy?
What's wrong with male domination?

[Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks]

You want a meek wife whose opinion is identical to yours and has no thoughts of her own?

[muman613]

A wise Jewish husband will study Shalom Bayis a good number of hours a day....

http://www.innernet.org.il/article.php?aid=379

What is "Shalom Bayit?"

Shalom, as the word which is used to describe "peace," relates in a fundamental sense to the Hebrew word shlemut, or "completeness." Shalom disconnected from shlemut, peace disconnected from completeness, is a peace which manifests itself as mutual nonaggression, peace as the absence of war. Shalom with "wholeness" is peace with harmony, peace with cooperativeness, peace which moves toward completeness. It is this higher level of peace which is so exalted, and should be the ever-present goal of our personal and communal strivings. (1)

The ultimate goal, of course, is a true peace which permeates the entire world, but that is too massive a task to be thrust upon any single individual. However, each individual can make a contribution toward this all-encompassing goal by working to create peace in his or her immediate environment. Having done all that is within one's power to effect peace is thus seen to have much more than local implications. (2)

The home is the primary place where one's obligation to effect peace unfolds. Here is where one is able to have significant input, if not control, over the peace of the world, the world of one's home. Shalom Bayit, the peace of one's home, in its true sense as desired in marriage, is best translated as "domestic bliss." Shalom Bayit is not the peace of sameness or absence of conflict. It is the completeness of opposites, the translation of differences into more effective action and greater love, incorporating the wisdom gained from shared opinions and give-and-take. (3)

To be conversant in the ways of Shalom Bayit is to be conversant in the ways of local-cum-global peace. It is to have an exemplary home which is a model for other homes, eventually all homes. It is lamentable that not enough attention is given to the mastery of Shalom Bayit formulations upon entry into marriage. (4)

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http://www.breslev.co.il/articles/family/dating_and_marriage/the_three_second_rule.aspx?id=10466&language=english

Respecting Your Wife, part 3
 
To begin to respect your wife, decide from this moment on that you'll stop criticizing her. If she burns your food, then know that Hashem wants you to eat burnt food. If she asks for your opinion, don't all of a sudden become the bastion of truth and tell her how bad the meal tastes. Think of Hashem and of your peace at home. If you want to try and mold her behavior, do so by lavishly thanking her and complimenting her on the great things she does. After a good meal, buy her a little gift or trinket, or write her a note. Shine the light of love and respect on her, and remove the darkness of criticism and negative remarks.
 
Another important principle of Shalom Bayit, or peace in the home, is never react impulsively – the Yetzer (Evil Inclination) rules for three seconds – once you take a deep breath, you beat the Yetzer. Angry reactions are immediate gut reactions – we’re supposed to think with our brains and not with our intestines. Also, the Gemara and the Zohar compare anger to idol worship. Therefore, when a person is angry at his wife, he's also guilty of lack of emuna. So, when you're under fire at home, stop, take a deep breath, smile, and react with light. The three-second deep breath will save your life and your marriage.
 
Rebbe Nachman of Breslev teaches that by judging a wife fairly, one elicits her best behavior, for when we judge another person fairly, we literally raise that person to a higher spiritual level. Rebbe Nachman teaches something else too, namely, that adultery starts from the eyes. Looking at another woman is like committing spiritual adultery.
 
The Gemara teaches us that we can know the level of a Divine Presence in a person's home by the level of the peace in that home. Respecting our wives is the prerequisite to peace in the home; therefore, respecting our wives is the prerequisite to the Divine Presence in our home.

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[Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks]

I think any mature, civilized, well-adjusted man who is content with his masculinity will want a wife with strong views and opinions and clear goals for herself--not a feminist harpie, but a woman similar to what he himself is.

[MassuhDGoodName]

Re:  "You want a meek wife whose opinion is identical to yours and has no thoughts of her own? "


Why, ABSOLUTELY NOT!

I want a wife who's a nymphomaniac, deaf, dumb, and blind, and owns a liquor store! (or...at least a medical marijuana dispensary)
                                                                       

[MassuhDGoodName]

There's a special edition of that book Shalom Bayis written just for Jewish wives.

It's entitled: "Peace in the Home:  How to make him give you Credit Cards! "

[Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks]

How can a woman have an out-of-control sex drive if she is deaf/dumb/blind, Massuh?

[MassuhDGoodName]

Re:  "How can a woman have an out-of-control sex drive if she is deaf/dumb/blind, Massuh? "

Who cares?         

[briann]

Blacks cheating??   Well, Ive never heard of such behavior!!!