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Zvulun Ben Moshe:
--- Quote from: Shoshana on June 27, 2007, 10:01:44 AM ---
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on June 27, 2007, 06:52:51 AM ---You are not allowed to perform oral sex on a woman because it wastes the female "seed" (female orgasmic fluids). I think performing oral sex is also degrading to the person performing it. It is also dirty. Why not have real sex (missionary position)? That is mutual.
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I'm not saying that I agree or disagree but how is oral sex any dirtier than regular sex?
How is it degrading to the person performing it?
Is there a biblical reason for only the missionary position being allowed in your view?
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It is dirty both physically and mentally:
1) Physically – because you use this mouth to pray, eat, kiss your children and parents.
2) Mentally – it is actually “going down”, that is lowering yourself.
In the normal sex situation you brains are on the same level and genitals on their own level.
Here is another spiritual explanation.
It is understood that oral sex is not actually dangerous. You can’t get poisoned or get sick. However, there should be limits and restrictions everywhere, that is it is immoral to say that everything can go in bed. In other words, if you don’t have restrictions in one area, especially sex, then you won’t have limits anywhere in your life. That has been proven many many times.
If you justify one thing today, you will justify another tomorrow.
Shoshana:
--- Quote from: Zvulun ben Moshe on June 27, 2007, 10:58:11 AM ---
--- Quote from: Shoshana on June 27, 2007, 10:01:44 AM ---
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on June 27, 2007, 06:52:51 AM ---You are not allowed to perform oral sex on a woman because it wastes the female "seed" (female orgasmic fluids). I think performing oral sex is also degrading to the person performing it. It is also dirty. Why not have real sex (missionary position)? That is mutual.
--- End quote ---
I'm not saying that I agree or disagree but how is oral sex any dirtier than regular sex?
How is it degrading to the person performing it?
Is there a biblical reason for only the missionary position being allowed in your view?
--- End quote ---
It is dirty both physically and mentally:
1) Physically – because you use this mouth to pray, eat, kiss your children and parents.
2) Mentally – it is actually “going down”, that is lowering yourself.
In the normal sex situation you brains are on the same level and genitals on their own level.
Here is another spiritual explanation.
It is understood that oral sex is not actually dangerous. You can’t get poisoned or get sick. However, there should be limits and restrictions everywhere, that is it is immoral to say that everything can go in bed. In other words, if you don’t have restrictions in one area, especially sex, then you won’t have limits anywhere in your life. That has been proven many many times.
If you justify one thing today, you will justify another tomorrow.
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That was an excellant explaination.
LWB123123:
Although I am not Jewish, I would like to ask a favor of the Jewish members here. Please explain to me the reasoning, behind why oral sex is wrong according to Judaism. I do not understand it.
I agree that Abortion, Condoms and especially are wrong. As well, that Condoms and clippings are insulting to real Men.
I agree that anal sex is gross and insulting to women in the process.
But what could be wrong with oral sex?
For example, I am given to understand that women have a much harder time of achieving an orgasm than a male in the sex act. Am I right? How could it be wrong to help her with oral stimulation. Just out of consideration for her. Suppose you wash afterwards. And you both lower yourself in the act. It would be mutual.
Zvulun Ben Moshe:
--- Quote from: LWB123123 on June 27, 2007, 01:47:04 PM ---Although I am not Jewish, I would like to ask a favor of the Jewish members here. Please explain to me the reasoning, behind why oral sex is wrong according to Judaism. I do not understand it.
I agree that Abortion, Condoms and especially are wrong. As well, that Condoms and clippings are insulting to real Men.
I agree that anal sex is gross and insulting to women in the process.
But what could be wrong with oral sex?
For example, I am given to understand that women have a much harder time of achieving an orgasm than a male in the sex act. Am I right? How could it be wrong to help her with oral stimulation. Just out of consideration for her. Suppose you wash afterwards. And you both lower yourself in the act. It would be mutual.
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If you want a Jewish answer, you will get it.
1) You need to be circumcised first to increase your durability
2) You need to conduct a healthy way of life to increase your stability
3) You need to conduct a modest way of life to increase your wife’s excitement while in private. For example, a couple that sees each other naked all the time will have a hard time getting excited.
Lisa:
And how exactly is female "seed" "wasted?"
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