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Finding a Virgin to Marry!
Allen-T:
--- Quote from: Ari on June 24, 2007, 08:46:18 PM ---In an ideal world I agree with Yacov and C.F. that it would be great and noble to find a "pure" woman to wed. The question is in this society is this really possible, barring very unusual circumstances, especially as one gets older? If you do believe it is still possible, where do you suggest one look for such a prize? It would seem to me about as rare as winning the lottery, though I am sometimes cynical by nature. I guess if you were raised very religiously from a young age it is more likely. However, keep in mind, I was brought up in so-called Conservative Judaism (yes I have to admit this unfortunately) and have only become more involved in true Torah Judaism more recently. Also, do you believe women can be forgiven if you find out they have a rather promiscuous nature. Some people might view this as a minor character flaw, but I find it rather disgusting and have a hard time putting it out of my mind. In the past, I have stopped dating women immediately when they gave clues of their past lewd conduct. Some people thought I was being a prude, but I guess I have a hard time over-looking this. Any suggestions would be appreciated. Hope all are well.
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I was the most vile piece of excrement at one time, certainly someone who did not deserve such a blessing, but God blessed me with a virgin wife, who was in her 30's when we married. In no way shape or form did I deserve that. Pray, my friends, pray. But I would also like to add, any woman that truly turns from her sins and puts her life in Gods hands should be looked upon as no different than a virgin. Some virgins might be evil people, or have real sin issues in other areas. I knew a lovely Christian woman in Europe who was a missionary's wife. He was American and she was British. I almost fell out of my chair when, after knowing them for a short while, she told us she was a prostitute at one time. I still don't believe it. This woman was very special. It was very clear that God can work changes we cannot even comprehend.
Lisa:
I will play devil's advocate here for a moment.
I've read account of young women who are technically virgins (with intact hymens) who have nonetheless engaged in oral and anal sex, wanting to save "the real thing" for marriage. To me, those women are NOT virgins, but sluts.
What do you all say?
Allen-T:
--- Quote from: Lisa on June 25, 2007, 10:10:34 AM ---I will play devil's advocate here for a moment.
I've read account of young women who are technically virgins (with intact hymens) who have nonetheless engaged in oral and anal sex, wanting to save "the real thing" for marriage. To me, those women are NOT virgins, but sluts.
What do you all say?
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Yes, I agree. There is even a rhyme about such mentality, but I will spare you ;)
judeanoncapta:
--- Quote from: Lisa on June 25, 2007, 10:10:34 AM ---I will play devil's advocate here for a moment.
I've read account of young women who are technically virgins (with intact hymens) who have nonetheless engaged in oral and anal sex, wanting to save "the real thing" for marriage. To me, those women are NOT virgins, but sluts.
What do you all say?
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According to Jewish law, a woman who engages in anal sex, is no longer considered to be a virgin. Intact hymen or not.
ScotcH:
--- Quote from: judeanoncapta on June 25, 2007, 11:12:53 AM ---According to Jewish law, a woman who engages in anal sex, is no longer considered to be a virgin. Intact hymen or not.
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A women who CONSENTUALLY performs Anal Sex is no longer a Women but a BEAST !
A man who performs Anal Sex has been to JAIL one to many TIMES ! :D :o :o
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