The problem is not women, it's men. Allow me to elaborate:
Today's 18 year old typically seeks the antisocial male for thrills.
When she reaches 30 or so years, her maternal instincts kick in. Now is when she is looking for the "geek" or "nerd" type to provide her with a stable environment to rear offspring. If men were smart, they would overwhelmingly reject such females, just as one would reject a car with large mileage. There are several reasons for this:
1) She has probably been with multiple partners at this point and is no longer a virgin
2)
By age 50, at least 80 percent of women will have been infected with genital HPV infection3) A woman's overall value as she ages decreases, while a male's value increases as he is able to gather more resources. Men age physically much better than women appearance-wise, and retain a good level of fertility significantly longer.
Unfortunately, men have not responded to feminism adequately. Chivalry itself is not an outdated concept, but it is counterproductive to men in the face of aggresive feminism. If a woman has delayed marriage, or is divorced with kids, she should be avoided. What I like tot ell these women is that I don't want to date them, I want to date their daughter. I'm sorry to all the spinsters here in the JTF forum, nothing against you personally, just stating the facts.
Rubystars:
What you have stated is in effect considered hypergamy. It is animal nature to seek the "alpha-male". In several ruminating species, the does seek out the alpha buck and he protects them in what is called a harem. When
human females behave like this, it is called hypergamy.
The question is how have the Jewish authorities adapted to Western Feminism... Not very well. Someone above posted that his Rabbi refered him to JDate... There's a double standard here. Many Rabbis demand the old-style marriage for their own children, but refer members of their congregation to the "new" way of doing things (feminist dating). Why do they do this? It's very simple. There's a limited pool of Frum Jewish girls who most likely will not cause too many problems in the duration of their marriage. The shadchanim - or matchmakers - are in effect acting as gatekeepers to this select pool of girls.
The joke will be on them in the future, when even this 'select' pool becomes too westernized for traditional Jewish marriage. In the end, the only viable females will exist in small communities in Israel like Me'Ah She'arim or Bnei Brak.
If you want a sure-bet girl in America who will make a fantastic wife, you're better off with a girl from Naturei Karta than an average JAP. She might be brainwashed, but she's as close to a traditional Jewish girl from old Europe as you're going to get.
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