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Kahanist Singles => Righteous Gentile Singles => Topic started by: Vito on August 21, 2008, 01:50:56 PM
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She is a beautiful Syrian Orthodox girl (not the blond/blue eyed Scandinavian princess I was looking for though lol) from Australia. She refuses to have pre-marital sex, wants a lot of children (like me!), and hates melangians and muzzies! But, we were talking about how she likes to visit her family in Lebanon and Syria.. and I mentioned Israel as a place I would love to visit - and she said "Eww, why the hell would you want to go there? Are you a Jew or something".. I said it's an awesome country... what don't you like about it? She said "I have no interest in going there, you can go there by yourself if you want".
I didn't ask her much more than that, but I'm going to ask her more about it today.. sounds like she doesn't like Jews. If anything, she might just be misguided with her views.. because other than that, she's a very decent girl. What's your take on her?
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Let me guess, her name is Delilah right ?
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Let me guess, her name is Delilah right ?
Hahaha.. nope ;D And I cut my hair a while ago ;D
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The best change you ever will get.
This Jew-issue will change with the time. The most people are anti-semites.
But the Muzzies are so evil in Lebnon and Syria to the Christians, so she will change her views easily. O0
Specially if she hears about our good Chaim and the proud rightwing Jews on JTF. O0 O0 O0
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Vito, I have plenty of pictures of Israel and Israeli nature which may change her mind.
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I want to add Vito and I have expierence with it:
You will rarly find in this todays society a girl who is like you describe.
I have had chances to get married in the last years, but the difference was imo too great.
One girl was member in a Socialist party and the other was Buddhist. Nothing against Buddhist, but this are no righteous matches. :(
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I want to add Vito and I have expierence with it:
You will rarly find in this todays society a girl who is like you describe.
I have had chances to get married in the last years, but the difference was imo too great.
One girl was member in a Socialist party and the other was Buddhist. Nothing against Buddhist, but this are no righteous matches. :(
I know what you mean.. that's why I think this is a girl I should stick with. Problem is.. I don't have much luck with women at all.. so I don't want to stay with her just because I can't find anything else. She is a very sweet girl though, so we'll see what happens.
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I want to add Vito and I have expierence with it:
You will rarly find in this todays society a girl who is like you describe.
I have had chances to get married in the last years, but the difference was imo too great.
One girl was member in a Socialist party and the other was Buddhist. Nothing against Buddhist, but this are no righteous matches. :(
I know what you mean.. that's why I think this is a girl I should stick with. Problem is.. I don't have much luck with women at all.. so I don't want to stay with her just because I can't find anything else. She is a very sweet girl though, so we'll see what happens.
You have to change you point of view. Marriage is nothing that has too much to do with love or finding the best match in life.
This is a relative new invention of the 20th century.
Be pleased with the first righteous girl you find. It will be difficult enough in this evil times. :)
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I wouldn't stay with her. All racsist are ugly on the inside
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It doesn't sound like your friend likes Jews. And it seems to me that you're a little put off by it.
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You can find another girl....you are smart and handsome young man, I wouldn't worry about it!!! :)
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Are you a Jew or something
She's an antisemite.
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I agree with Kahane Was Right.
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You can find another girl....you are smart and handsome young man, I wouldn't worry about it!!! :)
Oh trust me I have a big problem with women.. that's why I'm asking about this one.
It doesn't sound like your friend likes Jews. And it seems to me that you're a little put off by it.
I am put off by it, I don't want an anti-semitic wife and children.
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Well Vito, you're young, smart, polite and attractive. Don't ever feel like you have to settle. After all, you can't anyone.
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Well Vito, you're young, smart, polite and attractive. Don't ever feel like you have to settle. After all, you can't anyone.
vito you dont need her, there many more fish in the sea (plenty of girls who arent anti-semitic too)
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Well Vito, you're young, smart, polite and attractive. Don't ever feel like you have to settle. After all, you can't anyone.
Thanks Lisa. It's just that I've always had problems.. so there comes a breaking point where I feel like if I think I found the one, I should stick with her. But I haven't met enough to know that for sure.
Btw, I spoke to her tonight and literally just asked her if she hates Jews.. she said "NO! I just don't agree with them religiously, some of the nicest people I've ever met were Jewish". So it doesn't sound like she's anti-semitic..
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yay
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Well Vito, you're young, smart, polite and attractive. Don't ever feel like you have to settle. After all, you can't anyone.
Thanks Lisa. It's just that I've always had problems.. so there comes a breaking point where I feel like if I think I found the one, I should stick with her. But I haven't met enough to know that for sure.
Btw, I spoke to her tonight and literally just asked her if she hates Jews.. she said "NO! I just don't agree with them religiously, some of the nicest people I've ever met were Jewish". So it doesn't sound like she's anti-semitic..
I'd get to know her a little better before you come to a conclution
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Well Vito, you're young, smart, polite and attractive. Don't ever feel like you have to settle. After all, you can't anyone.
Thanks Lisa. It's just that I've always had problems.. so there comes a breaking point where I feel like if I think I found the one, I should stick with her. But I haven't met enough to know that for sure.
Btw, I spoke to her tonight and literally just asked her if she hates Jews.. she said "NO! I just don't agree with them religiously, some of the nicest people I've ever met were Jewish". So it doesn't sound like she's anti-semitic..
I'd get to know her a little better before you come to a conclution
Oh absolutely, I'm just pinpointing right now. I didn't say I'm going to marry the girl.. but she seems like the type that I would want to marry, and she happens to like me ;D
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Well Vito, you're young, smart, polite and attractive. Don't ever feel like you have to settle. After all, you can't anyone.
Thanks Lisa. It's just that I've always had problems.. so there comes a breaking point where I feel like if I think I found the one, I should stick with her. But I haven't met enough to know that for sure.
Btw, I spoke to her tonight and literally just asked her if she hates Jews.. she said "NO! I just don't agree with them religiously, some of the nicest people I've ever met were Jewish". So it doesn't sound like she's anti-semitic..
I'd get to know her a little better before you come to a conclution
Oh absolutely, I'm just pinpointing right now. I didn't say I'm going to marry the girl.. but she seems like the type that I would want to marry, and she happens to like me ;D
liking you is always a plus :)
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I meant to write earlier that you can't change another person.
But anyway, why not tell her about your involvement in JTF and encourage her to join the forum?
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I meant to write earlier that you can't change another person.
But anyway, why not tell her about your involvement in JTF and encourage her to join the forum?
great idea :)
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I meant to write earlier that you can't change another person.
But anyway, why not tell her about your involvement in JTF and encourage her to join the forum?
Oh I know that, definitely not looking to changer her.
Unfortunately the chair I'm sitting on knows more about politics than her. She would have no interest getting involved in a political forum.
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Vito, I say dump this Jew-hating sl... I won't say it, because you like her. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
I absolutely could not ever compromise on the issue of Jews and Israel for a woman. Period.
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Vito, I'm sorry to say this, but I'm not buying a word of this; if she really doesn't hate Jews, she wouldn't curse Israel like she did. Of course she is going to pull the "some of my best friends are Jews" canard that all anti-Semites do.
And she just goes to prove Chaim and I right when we point out that 97% of even Christian Arabs are Jew-haters.
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Vito, I think you should at least tell her about your involvement with this forum. She doesn't necessarily have to join. But since it seems to be important to you, I think she should know about it. You'll also get to tell a lot by her reaction. Tell her also that Firster555 and Briann are members as well.
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Dump her.
She's a snake.
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We were talking about how she likes to visit her family in Lebanon and Syria.
Tell her, "Eew, Seria? Lebanon? Eew."
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She is a beautiful Syrian Orthodox girl from Australia.
Australia?
No one good ever came out of that penal colony.
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She is a beautiful Syrian Orthodox girl from Australia.
Australia?
No one good ever came out of that penal colony.
aussie jtfer, dont bash australia mate (he would have wanted me to stick up for him in his absence)
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Vito - Just get to know her. Don't place any great expectations on the relationship. You will figure out what kind of person she really is...if you just take it slow. You are a great guy. Intelligent, handsome and kind. Qualities that will make the right girl very happy. Don't knock yourself.
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Vito, with some of the advise you are getting :o ... I am just going to pray for you.
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No one good ever came out of that penal colony.
ROTFLMAO :::D
But seriously--Australia has had far more than its share of Nazi trolls. :o
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I won't go as far as saying she's a Nazi.. nor does she have any agenda. She is completely apolitical..
She said "I think Obama should win, he seems like a good guy"
I said "Are you joking? Barak Hussein Obama?"
She said "Are you serious, that's his middle name?!"
So I went on to explain how he's a Muslim.. she couldn't believe it, she said "I can't believe this.. how can Americans even think of voting for a Muslim?!".. then she told her sister "Obama is a f**king Muslim!" The sister was shocked and disgusted.
They obviously have a strong hatred for Muslims.
When I talk about Jews, she doesn't react like that at all.. more like they're just odd people with a different religion.
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If you want my honest opinion, there are better females out there for you. I think that you want this to work out and are overlooking her negative qualities.
I think a person's first reactions are generally the most real and honest. Now that she knows how you feel about Israel, she is more likely to try to guard and moderate her words about Jews. Her wanting to visit Lebanon and Syria, but not that "hellhole" Israel, and asking immediately if you were Jewish when you brought it up, are big red flags.
Plus--the way she throws out profanity so cavalierly doesn't reflect well on her character. You can do better than this, Vito. Cut her loose.
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Find yourself a nice Italian girl, instead of this Arab.
From your posts it's easy to tell you have reservations about this gal, but feel that you might want to 'settle' for her because you've had problems meeting gals before.
In your heart of hearts you'll know when you meet the right girl. Hopefully it'll happen soon for you.
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I can't tell you my honest opinion about her without using profanity. I am not known to use profanity, and I would like to keep it that way.
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Ah I forgot to mention a while back.... forget it, she's a whore!
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Ah I forgot to mention a while back.... forget it, she's a whore!
What happened? Spit it out!
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Ah I forgot to mention a while back.... forget it, she's a whore!
Can I have her number ? :laugh:
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Ah I forgot to mention a while back.... forget it, she's a whore!
Can I have her number ? :laugh:
:::D
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Ah I forgot to mention a while back.... forget it, she's a whore!
Can I have her number ? :laugh:
:::D
"Please forgive them for they know not what they do."
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Ah I forgot to mention a while back.... forget it, she's a whore!
What happened? Spit it out!
She played the "innocent girl".. but she went on a trip to Florida, LA and Vegas running around partying.. good thing nothing happened with me and her.
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Ah I forgot to mention a while back.... forget it, she's a whore!
What happened? Spit it out!
She played the "innocent girl".. but she went on a trip to Florida, LA and Vegas running around partying.. good thing nothing happened with me and her.
Naughty girl ;D
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Vito, if they come with one of these it's a good sign.
(http://i212.photobucket.com/albums/cc241/diz_26/images%20for%20KH/401_chastity_belt.jpg)
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Vito, if they come with one of these it's a good sign.
(http://i212.photobucket.com/albums/cc241/diz_26/images%20for%20KH/401_chastity_belt.jpg)
That will cause chafing :fright:
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Vito, if they come with one of these it's a good sign.
(http://i212.photobucket.com/albums/cc241/diz_26/images%20for%20KH/401_chastity_belt.jpg)
What is that Dynamic Contraption? That should solve to overpopulation problem.
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Well Vito, you're young, smart, polite and attractive. Don't ever feel like you have to settle. After all, you can't anyone.
Thanks Lisa. It's just that I've always had problems.. so there comes a breaking point where I feel like if I think I found the one, I should stick with her. But I haven't met enough to know that for sure.
Btw, I spoke to her tonight and literally just asked her if she hates Jews.. she said "NO! I just don't agree with them religiously, some of the nicest people I've ever met were Jewish". So it doesn't sound like she's anti-semitic..
Marriage can be sweet or difficult. Don't rush into it. If a woman loves God, Tanach or New Testament, then she has to love the Jewish people. A God fearing woman must love Israel because God loves Israel. So, in my opinion, be very, very careful. So far, it doesn't sound good.
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Well Vito, you're young, smart, polite and attractive. Don't ever feel like you have to settle. After all, you can't anyone.
Thanks Lisa. It's just that I've always had problems.. so there comes a breaking point where I feel like if I think I found the one, I should stick with her. But I haven't met enough to know that for sure.
Btw, I spoke to her tonight and literally just asked her if she hates Jews.. she said "NO! I just don't agree with them religiously, some of the nicest people I've ever met were Jewish". So it doesn't sound like she's anti-semitic..
Marriage can be sweet or difficult. Don't rush into it. If a woman loves G-d, Tanach or New Testament, then she has to love the Jewish people. A G-d fearing woman must love Israel because G-d loves Israel. So, in my opinion, be very, very careful. So far, it doesn't sound good.
It's over with her, I'm looking for my next female failure...
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It's over with her, I'm looking for my next female failure...
a better attitude is your next conquest ;-)
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It's over with her, I'm looking for my next female failure...
a better attitude is your next conquest ;-)
I have the absolute worst luck with women.. there's only so much I can handle before I become a Scrooge.
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It's over with her, I'm looking for my next female failure...
a better attitude is your next conquest ;-)
I have the absolute worst luck with women.. there's only so much I can handle before I become a Scrooge.
I think you shouldn't say this.
I am 31 and not married and Chaim is over 50 and not married.
You are younger and I am shure, that we all three will find our soulmate.
:)
P.S. I like Charles Dickens. I have his works in a beautifull old edition partly illustrated by Phiz in a very big format.
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Vito, are you Italian? Did you watch the Godfather series? You must approach your car with her, open the passenger door to let her in, close it behind her, and wait to see if she leans over and opens your door. If she doesn't, ditch her. Best advice I've ever seen.
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Vito, are you Italian? Did you watch the Godfather series? You must approach your car with her, open the passenger door to let her in, close it behind her, and wait to see if she leans over and opens your door. If she doesn't, ditch her. Best advice I've ever seen.
interesting, I heard it in the film "A Bronx Tale"
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Infact, (next page) Vito said.. it was not in the Godfather series. So, only in A Bronx Tale.
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Well Vito, you're young, smart, polite and attractive. Don't ever feel like you have to settle. After all, you can't anyone.
Thanks Lisa. It's just that I've always had problems.. so there comes a breaking point where I feel like if I think I found the one, I should stick with her. But I haven't met enough to know that for sure.
Btw, I spoke to her tonight and literally just asked her if she hates Jews.. she said "NO! I just don't agree with them religiously, some of the nicest people I've ever met were Jewish". So it doesn't sound like she's anti-semitic..
Marriage can be sweet or difficult. Don't rush into it. If a woman loves G-d, Tanach or New Testament, then she has to love the Jewish people. A G-d fearing woman must love Israel because G-d loves Israel. So, in my opinion, be very, very careful. So far, it doesn't sound good.
It's over with her, I'm looking for my next female failure...
That's the wrong attitude Vito. You have everything going for you. Except that attitude. Throw that right out the window.
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Vito, are you Italian? Did you watch the Godfather series? You must approach your car with her, open the passenger door to let her in, close it behind her, and wait to see if she leans over and opens your door. If she doesn't, ditch her. Best advice I've ever seen.
Yeah, That sounds like a great way to pick a mate. ???
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Vito, are you Italian? Did you watch the Godfather series? You must approach your car with her, open the passenger door to let her in, close it behind her, and wait to see if she leans over and opens your door. If she doesn't, ditch her. Best advice I've ever seen.
Yeah, That sounds like a great way to pick a mate. ???
I don't like that rule much either.
If she does lean over and open it, then great.
if she doesn't then it's a bad reason for getting rid of her! Maybe she just didn't think of it because she had something really important on her mind. Or was worried or something.. It's a petty thing to look for.
One really needs to be able to SEE and perceive if another person is good/decent/nice or not.. One shouldn't need silly rules to figure it out.
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I agree q_q_. There is more to the heart and soul of a person...then if they lean over and open a car door or not.
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I always prayed for a "Boaz". Boaz was such a romantic!!! What an amazing man whom any girl would fall for, regardless of age. The fact that he showed his character to be so compassionate and loving, is so romantic. I also like the book of Solomon. That, too, is sooo romantic. A man holding back a passionate woman because he respected her. He treats her like a precious creation of God and not some object of fleshly desires. I think men can glean so much from both of those books to sweep any girl off her feet.
My husband told me that he watched me for a long time from the second story in the church balcony as he prayed that God would give me to him as a wife. I found this out on our honeymoon. When I asked him why he would want me, he replied that he saw my demonstration of love for God above. It was funny because I had told God that I didn't want to get my heart broken in dating so I planeed my route of escape, to get away from any young men who had the doors watched for the young girls. I was in a midrun past him when I heard the voice of God yell, "Stop!!". I had never heard God audibly before. However, I froze in a midrun. God then told me to let him ask me out and that he was the one. My husband told me on our honeymoon that he told God it was his last attempt to ask me out (I avoided all the young men). I guess I say all of this to encourage you to pursue God and he will lead you to a wonderful wife just like he found for Isaac, Rebecca.
As a wife of sixteen years, I encourage you to focus on being a Boaz. I encourage you to seek God for your wife as Abraham did for Isaac. God has a wonderful woman for you. Seek him first. Marriage is not about marrying someone to meet your needs. It is about marrying someone who wants to sacrifice their lives to give to another one in a selfless way. Marriage is not without work and sacrifice. Don't get any ideas from Hollywood. True love is found by dying to ones self (the sinful flesh). I am trying to do this every day. I hate my flesh. I desire to serve God in a way that is pleasing to him. That means I must serve God first and my husband second. However, the bible (NT) says that a man is to be willing to die for his wife (his flesh, self serving ways and attitudes) as Jesus Christ died for the church.
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I always prayed for a "Boaz". Boaz was such a romantic!!! What an amazing man whom any girl would fall for, regardless of age. The fact that he showed his character to be so compassionate and loving, is so romantic. I also like the book of Solomon. That, too, is sooo romantic. A man holding back a passionate woman because he respected her. He treats her like a precious creation of G-d and not some object of fleshly desires. I think men can glean so much from both of those books to sweep any girl off her feet.
My husband told me that he watched me for a long time from the second story in the church balcony as he prayed that G-d would give me to him as a wife. I found this out on our honeymoon. When I asked him why he would want me, he replied that he saw my demonstration of love for G-d above. It was funny because I had told G-d that I didn't want to get my heart broken in dating so I planeed my route of escape, to get away from any young men who had the doors watched for the young girls. I was in a midrun past him when I heard the voice of G-d yell, "Stop!!". I had never heard G-d audibly before. However, I froze in a midrun. G-d then told me to let him ask me out and that he was the one. My husband told me on our honeymoon that he told G-d it was his last attempt to ask me out (I avoided all the young men). I guess I say all of this to encourage you to pursue G-d and he will lead you to a wonderful wife just like he found for Isaac, Rebecca.
As a wife of sixteen years, I encourage you to focus on being a Boaz. I encourage you to seek G-d for your wife as Abraham did for Isaac. G-d has a wonderful woman for you. Seek him first. Marriage is not about marrying someone to meet your needs. It is about marrying someone who wants to sacrifice their lives to give to another one in a selfless way. Marriage is not without work and sacrifice. Don't get any ideas from Hollywood. True love is found by dying to ones self (the sinful flesh). I am trying to do this every day. I hate my flesh. I desire to serve G-d in a way that is pleasing to him. That means I must serve G-d first and my husband second. However, the bible (NT) says that a man is to be willing to die for his wife (his flesh, self serving ways and attitudes) as Jesus Christ died for the church.
I like your approach.. that whole biblical romance sounds great, but this is the 21st century and I live in one of the most psychotically left wing, Sodom&Gomorrah type cities in the world - finding that is slim to none. What am I suppose to do? Move to some random place out west and HOPE to find a girl?
Don't get me wrong, I don't want to settle for just anything, but I have to think realistically.
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It's over with her, I'm looking for my next female failure...
That's the wrong attitude Vito. You have everything going for you. Except that attitude. Throw that right out the window.
I know I know.. but this is really getting to me.
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Vito, are you Italian? Did you watch the Godfather series? You must approach your car with her, open the passenger door to let her in, close it behind her, and wait to see if she leans over and opens your door. If she doesn't, ditch her. Best advice I've ever seen.
That would be "A Bronx Tale" carreg..
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Vito, you're an attractive, smart young man with a good heart. Don't give up.
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I always prayed for a "Boaz". Boaz was such a romantic!!! What an amazing man whom any girl would fall for, regardless of age. The fact that he showed his character to be so compassionate and loving, is so romantic. I also like the book of Solomon. That, too, is sooo romantic. A man holding back a passionate woman because he respected her. He treats her like a precious creation of G-d and not some object of fleshly desires. I think men can glean so much from both of those books to sweep any girl off her feet.
My husband told me that he watched me for a long time from the second story in the church balcony as he prayed that G-d would give me to him as a wife. I found this out on our honeymoon. When I asked him why he would want me, he replied that he saw my demonstration of love for G-d above. It was funny because I had told G-d that I didn't want to get my heart broken in dating so I planeed my route of escape, to get away from any young men who had the doors watched for the young girls. I was in a midrun past him when I heard the voice of G-d yell, "Stop!!". I had never heard G-d audibly before. However, I froze in a midrun. G-d then told me to let him ask me out and that he was the one. My husband told me on our honeymoon that he told G-d it was his last attempt to ask me out (I avoided all the young men). I guess I say all of this to encourage you to pursue G-d and he will lead you to a wonderful wife just like he found for Isaac, Rebecca.
As a wife of sixteen years, I encourage you to focus on being a Boaz. I encourage you to seek G-d for your wife as Abraham did for Isaac. G-d has a wonderful woman for you. Seek him first. Marriage is not about marrying someone to meet your needs. It is about marrying someone who wants to sacrifice their lives to give to another one in a selfless way. Marriage is not without work and sacrifice. Don't get any ideas from Hollywood. True love is found by dying to ones self (the sinful flesh). I am trying to do this every day. I hate my flesh. I desire to serve G-d in a way that is pleasing to him. That means I must serve G-d first and my husband second. However, the bible (NT) says that a man is to be willing to die for his wife (his flesh, self serving ways and attitudes) as Jesus Christ died for the church.
I like your approach.. that whole biblical romance sounds great, but this is the 21st century and I live in one of the most psychotically left wing, Sodom&Gomorrah type cities in the world - finding that is slim to none. What am I suppose to do? Move to some random place out west and HOPE to find a girl?
Don't get me wrong, I don't want to settle for just anything, but I have to think realistically.
He,he...I live right in the middle of Sodom and America (?) too. I really understand. I prayed for a couple of years for a husband with all the qualities of a good heart and love for God. Then, on a normal day of driving past a particular church, after leaving work, I distinctly heard the voice of God tell me to go to that church to meet my husband. It was the second week of August. But, with having lost more weight than was healthy (bony thin at a hundred and three pounds), I asked God if he would please bring that man to my church (of five thousand plus) because I had already been losing so much weight because of stress. Almost a full year went by. I then met my husband in the Spring of the next year. While on our honeymoon, my husband told me he used to go to this church called, "Zion". I was shocked. I asked him where it was located. Sure enough it was right next to where I worked, the same church. I told him, "Don't tell me that you left the second week of August". He said, "How did you know?" I then asked him why he left his church. He told me that he had prayed and sought God for a wife. He said that God told him that his wife would walk through the doors of his church. He said that he waited. When it didn't happen, he asked God what to do. God told him to go to a different church (the one on Central Ave....my church). He said he sought God about a wife. Then he saw me and watched me for almost a year. Then he started praying for me to be his wife. Now that is only part of the story, but God can find you a wife even in your liberal city. It is all about surrendering everything to him and serving him with all your heart, obeying His word and loving Him....Remember that God parted the Red Sea. He is still doing those miracles today.
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It's over with her, I'm looking for my next female failure...
That's the wrong attitude Vito. You have everything going for you. Except that attitude. Throw that right out the window.
I know I know.. but this is really getting to me.
Vito - Don't let it get to you.
That works against you. Those feelings.
You will meet the right person.