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Title: A lot of single people here
Post by: Dr. Dan on October 16, 2007, 02:39:53 PM
I'm no Torah scholar or anything, but we need to help some of our members to be smooth with the gals...

and perhaps vice versa.
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: Sarah on October 16, 2007, 02:45:09 PM
Men don't need to be smooth to anybody, just be themselves.
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: nopeaceforland on October 16, 2007, 02:57:14 PM
To anybody:

 The Singles Sections on this forum: Are these going to be dating sites like jdate or orthodate? Or will this be a section where we can discuss various relationship issues? Thanks! :)
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: Dr. Dan on October 16, 2007, 02:59:08 PM
To anybody:

 The Singles Sections on this forum: Are these going to be dating sites like jdate or orthodate? Or will this be a section where we can discuss various relationship issues? Thanks! :)


That's all it will be...
no dating and meetin gpeople necessarily..but the issues at hand...

and Yes, Sarah, men shoudl be themselves...but if someone is simply miserable, it's not a good first impressino to be miserable.
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: Sarah on October 16, 2007, 04:54:00 PM
Whats wrong with being miserable? :)
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: Dan on October 16, 2007, 08:10:26 PM
That actually might be a good idea... why not share our experience with others in a respectful and beneficial manner, of course!
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: Kiwi on October 16, 2007, 08:36:41 PM
Men don't need to be smooth to anybody, just be themselves.

Thats right, trying to be another type of person is false, the worst thing you can do is lie to your partner.

But some here need to learn respect and that goes far further than being smooth.
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: Dr. Dan on October 16, 2007, 10:17:58 PM
Whats wrong with being miserable? :)

unfotunately, not many people are wise enough to see through misery and tough skin...so most normal people will be polite when they meet another person for the first time...
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: Dr. Dan on October 16, 2007, 10:20:25 PM
Men don't need to be smooth to anybody, just be themselves.

Thats right, trying to be another type of person is false, the worst thing you can do is lie to your partner.

But some here need to learn respect and that goes far further than being smooth.

Smooth doesn't mean fake...

I'll give you an example..when someone gets a new car, in the beginning you're supposed to be gentle with it so you dont' break it.

Women aren't cars...but especially in the beginning when a guy meets a girl, he should be himself and not be cheesy and dumb...but at the same time, he has to keep his cool..be gentle, polite etc...
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: Kiwi on October 16, 2007, 11:48:03 PM
Smooth smacks of sleaze  ;D :::D

its like going "hey babe  ^-^" with your shirt half open and the two hairs on your chest poking out  :::D
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: Dr. Dan on October 17, 2007, 12:02:11 AM
Smooth smacks of sleaze  ;D :::D

its like going "hey babe  ^-^" with your shirt half open and the two hairs on your chest poking out  :::D


that's not smooth...That's not what i meant by smooth...by smooth, i mean not so obvious that a guy is hitting on a girl..but subtle enough to show her that he's interested to get to know her..

I have to admit though..the best way is not thinking about it and just goign wtih teh flow...
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: Kiwi on October 17, 2007, 12:16:03 AM
Thats right be yourself, just not running around with your tongue dragging across the ground behind anything that looks female, not the best look.

 ::)

But attitude does play a huge rule, if you are closed, not open to people then you are just going to lose every time.



Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: newman on October 17, 2007, 04:40:53 AM
Men don't need to be smooth to anybody, just be themselves.

I'm horrible!

Nobody would wan't to know me if I acted like myself.
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: Kiwi on October 17, 2007, 05:07:53 AM
Men don't need to be smooth to anybody, just be themselves.

I'm horrible!

Nobody would wan't to know me if I acted like myself.

Arrrha I don't think so  ;)
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: raiseyourfist on October 17, 2007, 05:11:45 AM
In the end who cares... you die in your own arms..

Learn to burn..  i have.. and i am beginning to not mind being single.

AND THIS IS COMING FROM SOMEONE WHO HAS NEVER BEEN WITH ANYONE...
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: newman on October 17, 2007, 05:26:49 AM
In the end who cares... you die in your own arms..

Learn to burn..  i have.. and i am beginning to not mind being single.

AND THIS IS COMING FROM SOMEONE WHO HAS NEVER BEEN WITH ANYONE...

You havn't lived if you havn't woken up next to someone and said "What's your name?". ;)
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: Kiwi on October 17, 2007, 06:11:13 AM
In the end who cares... you die in your own arms..

Learn to burn..  i have.. and i am beginning to not mind being single.

AND THIS IS COMING FROM SOMEONE WHO HAS NEVER BEEN WITH ANYONE...

You havn't lived if you havn't woken up next to someone and said "What's your name?". ;)

I remember doing that once, but I had been married to him for 10 years, I had a mental blank  :-[
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: Sarah on October 17, 2007, 03:06:36 PM
Smooth smacks of sleaze  ;D :::D

its like going "hey babe  ^-^" with your shirt half open and the two hairs on your chest poking out  :::D


that's not smooth...That's not what i meant by smooth...by smooth, i mean not so obvious that a guy is hitting on a girl..but subtle enough to show her that he's interested to get to know her..

I have to admit though..the best way is not thinking about it and just goign wtih teh flow...

Yeah that isn't smooth but going with the flow certainly is.
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: Hungarian on August 25, 2008, 10:36:13 PM
I'm single too.  8;)
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: Mishmaat on August 27, 2008, 10:54:09 PM
Yup, I'm also an unfortunate member of the singles club.  :(
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: Zionistforever on August 28, 2008, 11:52:24 AM
Yup, I'm also an unfortunate member of the singles club.  :(
dont be so negative about it, it just means your available, and have more choices  :::D
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: Shamgar on August 28, 2008, 12:08:15 PM
Yup, I'm also an unfortunate member of the singles club.  :(
dont be so negative about it, it just means your available, and have more choices  :::D

(http://i272.photobucket.com/albums/jj189/Sandy2150/fatsmileyflowers-love2.gif)  (http://i54.photobucket.com/albums/g110/CharliesChicken/Jolly_by_BeBz111111.jpg)
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: q_q_ on September 24, 2008, 04:17:49 PM
Smooth smacks of sleaze  ;D :::D

its like going "hey babe  ^-^" with your shirt half open and the two hairs on your chest poking out  :::D

Could be alot worse, that could be the girl.

Many girls have to wax their legs, so I wouldn't put anything past them!
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: ~Hanna~ on September 24, 2008, 04:40:53 PM
I have been single now for many years......... :'(

And I even know how to cook...... :laugh: and sew..... :::D
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: AryehYehudah on October 08, 2008, 12:07:17 AM
I have been single now for many years......... :'(

And I even know how to cook...... :laugh: and sew..... :::D

I am tired of cooking and I cannot even sow a button on a shirt, you are welcome at my house  :dance:

 :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: q_q_ on October 08, 2008, 12:22:46 AM
I have been single now for many years......... :'(

And I even know how to cook...... :laugh: and sew..... :::D

I am tired of cooking and I cannot even sow a button on a shirt, you are welcome at my house  :dance:

Well if you had a black hat like the person rejoicing there(the dancing chassid you used to represent your joy), or were even a bit religious, you'd have asked if she was jewish first!

And if you were more decent you'd have asked if she didn't mind cooking! Or worse, cooking for you!

Some people can cook but are tired of it and don't like it!
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: AryehYehudah on October 08, 2008, 01:03:03 AM
I have been single now for many years......... :'(

And I even know how to cook...... :laugh: and sew..... :::D

I am tired of cooking and I cannot even sow a button on a shirt, you are welcome at my house  :dance:

Well if you had a black hat like the person rejoicing there(the dancing chassid you used to represent your joy), or were even a bit religious, you'd have asked if she was jewish first!

And if you were more decent you'd have asked if she didn't mind cooking! Or worse, cooking for you!

Some people can cook but are tired of it and don't like it!

Oh my, do I detect some animosity?.. I never claimed to be very religious, Chassidic or any of what you said.  First of all, her name is Hannah, which is a common  name for Jewish ladies and this is a JTF website and "Jewish Dating" section.  So, if she is a gentile woman named Hannah, posting in a "Jewish dating" section, then I guess she fooled me.  Second, if she cooked for me and is Jewish, I would think she would cook only Kosher food.  If you don't like people using dancing Chassids to represent joy, than perhaps you can advocate removing them from the smiley choices.   Oh yes, finally, I was joking!   Geez.. take it easy, pal! 

Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: q_q_ on October 08, 2008, 01:03:59 AM
I have been single now for many years......... :'(

And I even know how to cook...... :laugh: and sew..... :::D

I am tired of cooking and I cannot even sow a button on a shirt, you are welcome at my house  :dance:

Well if you had a black hat like the person rejoicing there(the dancing chassid you used to represent your joy), or were even a bit religious, you'd have asked if she was jewish first!

And if you were more decent you'd have asked if she didn't mind cooking! Or worse, cooking for you!

Some people can cook but are tired of it and don't like it!

Oh my, do I detect some animosity?.. I never claimed to be very religious, Chassidic or any of what you said.  First of all, her name is Hannah, which is a common  name for Jewish ladies and this is a JTF website and "Jewish Dating" section.  So, if she is a gentile woman named Hannah, posting in a "Jewish dating" section, then I guess she fooled me.  Second, if she cooked for me and is Jewish, I would think she would cook only Kosher food.  If you don't like people using dancing Chassids to represent joy, why give people the option to use then.   Oh yes, finally, I was joking!   Geez.. take it easy, pal! 



you're right
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: ~Hanna~ on October 08, 2008, 01:08:56 AM
I have been single now for many years......... :'(

And I even know how to cook...... :laugh: and sew..... :::D

I am tired of cooking and I cannot even sow a button on a shirt, you are welcome at my house  :dance:

Well if you had a black hat like the person rejoicing there(the dancing chassid you used to represent your joy), or were even a bit religious, you'd have asked if she was jewish first!

And if you were more decent you'd have asked if she didn't mind cooking! Or worse, cooking for you!

Some people can cook but are tired of it and don't like it!

Oh my, do I detect some animosity?.. I never claimed to be very religious, Chassidic or any of what you said.  First of all, her name is Hannah, which is a common  name for Jewish ladies and this is a JTF website and "Jewish Dating" section.  So, if she is a gentile woman named Hannah, posting in a "Jewish dating" section, then I guess she fooled me.  Second, if she cooked for me and is Jewish, I would think she would cook only Kosher food.  If you don't like people using dancing Chassids to represent joy, why give people the option to use then.   Oh yes, finally, I was joking!   Geez.. take it easy, pal! 



you're right

Ohhh nooo, I did not mean to start a war on here..... :laugh:

I was not born Jewish, I was raised "Christiain" although I don't really like that word....and I have been told by at least one Orthodox friend of mine I have a Jewish soul, so I don't know if this helps or not....

I did not mean to fool anyone.....
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: q_q_ on October 08, 2008, 01:21:37 AM
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Ohhh nooo, I did not mean to start a war on here..... :laugh:

I was not born Jewish, I was raised "Christiain" although I don't really like that word....and I have been told by at least one Orthodox friend of mine I have a Jewish soul, so I don't know if this helps or not....

I did not mean to fool anyone.....

No problem, this guy's new here, he's not familiar with JTF!  no harm done, no wars initiated.

of course, somebody is only jewish if they are born jewish or converted, (conversion would would mean believing judaism, and being a comitted jew, the latter is very hard.  Some , perhaps with a kabbalistic interest, would say that conversion would confirm a jewish soul)
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: ~Hanna~ on October 08, 2008, 01:28:53 AM
yes....

I think I should go back into my cave now........ :-[

 :::D
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: q_q_ on October 08, 2008, 01:55:15 AM
yes....

I think I should go back into my cave now........ :-[

 :::D

There is a cave next-door called  "Righteous Gentile Dating". 

No confusion there!
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: ~Hanna~ on October 08, 2008, 10:45:56 AM
yes....

I think I should go back into my cave now........ :-[

 :::D

There is a cave next-door called  "Righteous Gentile Dating". 

No confusion there!

Well, Im blonde, I have somewhat of an excuse.... :laugh:

I don't seem to do the dating thing, anyway........

Basically I was trying to be funny.....

 :::D

and I ended up on the wrong thread........ :::D
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: Shamgar on October 08, 2008, 12:42:55 PM
I think we should have a little icon next to our avatar that displays whether we are Christian or Jewish. I would be terribly embarrassed if any Jewish women were to hit up on me.

(http://i89.photobucket.com/albums/k215/acordov3/john_travolta.jpg)
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: ~Hanna~ on October 08, 2008, 01:27:35 PM
Did you happen to see the new thread I started called "Dating Do's and Don't?"  :::D
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: q_q_ on October 10, 2008, 01:18:53 AM
I think we should have a little icon next to our avatar that displays whether we are Christian or Jewish. I would be terribly embarrassed if any Jewish women were to hit up on me.

no man woman or pig, would hit on you that (pig) avatar!
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: Shamgar on October 10, 2008, 08:10:01 AM
I think we should have a little icon next to our avatar that displays whether we are Christian or Jewish. I would be terribly embarrassed if any Jewish women were to hit up on me.

no man woman or pig, would hit on you that (pig) avatar!

I would have to agree. I have a body that only a wife could love.
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: q_q_ on October 10, 2008, 08:11:24 AM
I think we should have a little icon next to our avatar that displays whether we are Christian or Jewish. I would be terribly embarrassed if any Jewish women were to hit up on me.

no man woman or pig, would hit on you that (pig) avatar!

I would have to agree. I have a body that only a wife could love.

I'm saying that judging by your avatar, you have a face that even a pig would run from!
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: Shamgar on October 10, 2008, 10:31:20 AM
What is this? Pick on the gentile pigs day???  That is a spotless complexion and a beautiful shade of pink. I blowtorch the hair off my body every day.
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: q_q_ on October 10, 2008, 10:58:26 AM
What is this? Pick on the gentile pigs day???  That is a spotless complexion and a beautiful shade of pink. I blowtorch the hair off my body every day.

There's nothing worse than a pig that takes care of themselves,

it's like Roseanne Barr making a big effort, covering herself in makeup and lipstick and dressing in skimpy clothing.
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: Shamgar on October 10, 2008, 03:04:46 PM
What is this? Pick on the gentile pigs day???  That is a spotless complexion and a beautiful shade of pink. I blowtorch the hair off my body every day.

There's nothing worse than a pig that takes care of themselves,

it's like Roseanne Barr making a big effort, covering herself in makeup and lipstick and dressing in skimpy clothing.

I can very happily say that I cause more aggravation and stress to the muzzies than you.

(http://i294.photobucket.com/albums/mm104/goldi_911/pig.jpg)
Title: Re: A lot of single people here
Post by: q_q_ on October 11, 2008, 07:49:30 PM
What is this? Pick on the gentile pigs day???  That is a spotless complexion and a beautiful shade of pink. I blowtorch the hair off my body every day.

There's nothing worse than a pig that takes care of themselves,

it's like Roseanne Barr making a big effort, covering herself in makeup and lipstick and dressing in skimpy clothing.

I can very happily say that I cause more aggravation and stress to the muzzies than you.


It's no use looking like a pig if you don't leave the house!

There are no muslims on this forum, not for long anyway!

If you left the house and walked around muslim areas, I guarantee that you would have muslims jumping out of the street yelling HARAM HARAM.
You could go on buses and snif near muslims.