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General Category => General Discussion => Topic started by: Chaim Ben Pesach on June 22, 2010, 06:04:47 PM
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www.jtf.org/c.mp3
http://www.4shared.com/audio/BozKHPKt/_58__.html
The program is 2 hours and 7 minutes this week.
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Thank you, Chaim. Well worth the wait.
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It's Longevity, Chaim! Longevity!
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It's Longevity, Chaim! Longevity!
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Thanks, yes I know. Later in the program, I remembered how to say the word. For some reason, I just had this mental block in the middle of the broadcast.
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Sweet! D/L'ing right now! :dance:
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Loved the program and especially the response to ben. Hilarious.
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i loved how you reponded to c4j.this is completely disproves a theory i had that i glad that itwas disproved.
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Cooking and cleaning is not demeaning at all. That's productive and needed work. How is serving other people demeaning? Isn't that what people are supposed to do, is do things that make the world better for others? How anyone could compare that to prostitution is just unbelievable to me. I really liked your answer to that Chaim.
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Cooking and cleaning is not demeaning at all. That's productive and needed work. How is serving other people demeaning? Isn't that what people are supposed to do, is do things that make the world better for others? How anyone could compare that to prostitution is just unbelievable to me. I really liked your answer to that Chaim.
coocking and cleaning is something that everyone should know.
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Cooking and cleaning is not demeaning at all. That's productive and needed work. How is serving other people demeaning? Isn't that what people are supposed to do, is do things that make the world better for others? How anyone could compare that to prostitution is just unbelievable to me. I really liked your answer to that Chaim.
coocking and cleaning is something that everyone should know.
Only wives
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Cooking and cleaning is not demeaning at all. That's productive and needed work. How is serving other people demeaning? Isn't that what people are supposed to do, is do things that make the world better for others? How anyone could compare that to prostitution is just unbelievable to me. I really liked your answer to that Chaim.
coocking and cleaning is something that everyone should know.
Only wives
no.even singles and married man.
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Cooking and cleaning is not demeaning at all. That's productive and needed work. How is serving other people demeaning? Isn't that what people are supposed to do, is do things that make the world better for others? How anyone could compare that to prostitution is just unbelievable to me. I really liked your answer to that Chaim.
coocking and cleaning is something that everyone should know.
Only wives
no.even singles and married man.
Why would I need to learn how to cook and clean if my wife knows how to do that
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What would happen if (I hope this never happens, but it could) your wife was very sick with the flu or something and could not do any cooking or cleaning for a few days or longer? Don't you think it might be a good idea to be able to cook some nutritious meals for your kids or maybe clean up a mess if they puke on the floor? In the case of the flu more than one family member could get it and you might have to help.
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(I hope this never happens, but it could)
it is not if it is when.everybody get a flu in some point of their lives.
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(I hope this never happens, but it could)
it is not if it is when.everybody get a flu in some point of their lives.
My family all got the flu in 1999 and the only one who didn't get it was my little sister. I don't know how she avoided it, we were all too sick to do much of anything but thankfully she was old enough to feed herself if not we might have had to get some help.
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What would happen if (I hope this never happens, but it could) your wife was very sick with the flu or something and could not do any cooking or cleaning for a few days or longer? Don't you think it might be a good idea to be able to cook some nutritious meals for your kids or maybe clean up a mess if they puke on the floor? In the case of the flu more than one family member could get it and you might have to help.
Only reason I learnt how to cook is because women find it sexy
but about your question a man could just go to a restaurant
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Plus women love a man that can cook. Although I'm not sure how true that is regarding religious Jewish women. They take a lot of pride in their own cooking.
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What would happen if (I hope this never happens, but it could) your wife was very sick with the flu or something and could not do any cooking or cleaning for a few days or longer? Don't you think it might be a good idea to be able to cook some nutritious meals for your kids or maybe clean up a mess if they puke on the floor? In the case of the flu more than one family member could get it and you might have to help.
Only reason I learnt how to cook is because women find it sexy
but about your question a man could just go to a restaurant
lol ;D
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(I hope this never happens, but it could)
it is not if it is when.everybody get a flu in some point of their lives.
My family all got the flu in 1999 and the only one who didn't get it was my little sister. I don't know how she avoided it, we were all too sick to do much of anything but thankfully she was old enough to feed herself if not we might have had to get some help.
probably she had a better immune system than most of oyou.it was my case until the new need to travel 20km by bus every day in 06:00 am ruined my immune system.
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I don't have anything against traditional lifestyles but the problem is sometimes there are extenuating circumstances where the lines might not be able to be rigid on things like this. Sometimes women have to do things that are traditional male domains and sometimes men have to do things that are traditional female domains, and I don't think it should hurt anyone's ego.
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I don't have anything against traditional lifestyles but the problem is sometimes there are extenuating circumstances where the lines might not be able to be rigid on things like this. Sometimes women have to do things that are traditional male domains and sometimes men have to do things that are traditional female domains, and I don't think it should hurt anyone's ego.
it swhould not hurt anyone ego.i am very proud at my extremely limted knowledge in coocking (okay not coocking,just how to make sandwiches but i want to learn coocking in the summer holiday).i think that it was proved that females are equal to males in the mental skills if not even more talented.
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I don't have anything against traditional lifestyles but the problem is sometimes there are extenuating circumstances where the lines might not be able to be rigid on things like this. Sometimes women have to do things that are traditional male domains and sometimes men have to do things that are traditional female domains, and I don't think it should hurt anyone's ego.
I'm not suggesting they would try to disallow the man from cooking, I just meant that as far as these women seeing that quality in a man as being especially attractive, I don't know if that is there. Believe me, there are plenty of religious Jewish households who share responsibility in these areas. Often times the man actually cooks the chulent for Shabbat and considers it his domain to do so. I am friends with one family where the husband actually bakes the challah. People seem to do things however they come naturally it seems.
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I think it's good that the Jewish women take pride in their cooking. Thanks for the information KWRBT. :)
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I think it's good that the Jewish women take pride in their cooking. Thanks for the information KWRBT. :)
not nly jewish women.almost every woman on earth is proud about her cooking (as almost every male on earth who knows how to cook).
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I think it's good that the Jewish women take pride in their cooking. Thanks for the information KWRBT. :)
not nly jewish women.almost every woman on earth is proud about her cooking (as almost every male on earth who knows how to cook).
Cooking is fun but eating is better.
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I think it's good that the Jewish women take pride in their cooking. Thanks for the information KWRBT. :)
not nly jewish women.almost every woman on earth is proud about her cooking (as almost every male on earth who knows how to cook).
Cooking is fun but eating is better.
You agree with me once again :o
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I think it's good that the Jewish women take pride in their cooking. Thanks for the information KWRBT. :)
not nly jewish women.almost every woman on earth is proud about her cooking (as almost every male on earth who knows how to cook).
Cooking is fun but eating is better.
nobody denied that.i love ethnical cuisines,especialy the japanese and italian cuisines.
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You agree with me once again :o
It's just astonishing, this is almost getting to be like the twilight zone!
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Cooking and cleaning is not demeaning at all. That's productive and needed work. How is serving other people demeaning? Isn't that what people are supposed to do, is do things that make the world better for others? How anyone could compare that to prostitution is just unbelievable to me. I really liked your answer to that Chaim.
In a perfect world no women would want to be prostitutes and no men would frequent them. However, I don't think it is the role of government to force those choices on adults. With legal prostitution you do not get increases in crime. Look at the houses in Nevada, there is no spike in crime around them. There are also not pimps there. I am not saying it is a clean business because any business built around vice is dirty. However, I just think adults should make those decisions for themselves.
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SB, one of the things that you have to consider is that if something immoral is made legal by the government, then it implies that the goverment agrees with or condones the behavior. I wonder what kind of spiritual consequences this brings upon a nation. The same problem is there with something like gay marriage.
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Rubystars, I disagree with you on that. The USA is built upon a system of limited government. For the government to be coercing people to behave a certain way requires a compelling interest in the matter by society. In my opinion that should be restricted to cases of one person injuring another. Two people engaged in consensual activity should not be the business of government. Government needs a compelling reason to prohibit activity not a reason to refrain from coercive activity.
Gay marriage is different because it does require government sanction of the union. I have no objection if two men want to swear their love and fidelity to each other if they do their disgusting (in my opinion) acts in private. I don't want to hire police to hunt for homosexuals fornicating in private. I think marriage officially should be limited to a man and a woman but that is not to say I want to persecute homosexuals.
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I think it's good that the Jewish women take pride in their cooking. Thanks for the information KWRBT. :)
not nly jewish women.almost every woman on earth is proud about her cooking (as almost every male on earth who knows how to cook).
Cooking is fun but eating is better.
You agree with me once again :o
Isn't that nice.
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Omnia Vanitas - Everything is Vanity.
Wanting to look/be sexy is vanity.
'Sexyness' is not a valid reason to marry someone.
Once you have a woman, there is no need to be sexy because you need a moral sexlife.
Also, people with a fulfilled sexlife do not have a need to discuss it.
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Once you have a woman, there is no need to be sexy because you need a moral sexlife.
I don't agree with this part of your statement. It is still important to be sexy for one person - the spouse. Why does she (he if the person is female) not deserve that? I should become a slob after I'm married? My wife can feel free to become rikki lake after we're married? Having a "moral" sexlife with the spouse includes having an enjoyable one. If your spouse finds you sexy (and vice versa) that is good for the goal of the moral sexlife.
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Once you have a woman, there is no need to be sexy because you need a moral sexlife.
I don't agree with this part of your statement. It is still important to be sexy for one person - the spouse. Why does she (he if the person is female) not deserve that? I should become a slob after I'm married? My wife can feel free to become rikki lake after we're married? Having a "moral" sexlife with the spouse includes having an enjoyable one. If your spouse finds you sexy (and vice versa) that is good for the goal of the moral sexlife.
I agree. Just like you want your wife to dress beautifully, act sexy and feminine, she wants you to do the same (something that attracts and pleases her sexually).
Part of moral life between a husband and a wife is also to make love as a part of Oneg Shabbat, so...
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You either are sexy or you are not. Acting is going against your own nature.
What I meant is there is no overexerted need to conquer a woman, so there is no need to overemphasize being sexy.
A moral life will exclude becoming a slob and will make you 'sexy', without acting sexy.
Acting sexy will only derive attention from what is necessary to be done.
In a healthy marriage, both are 'effortlessly sexy', which is the only healthy way.