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Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Dr. Dan:
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--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on January 01, 2008, 08:22:42 PM ---
1. How old is my best friend? Is she jewish? How long have i been dating the other person? how good is that relationship going? What are the families like of the girls i'm friends with and dating?
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Ok say she is 2 years younger than you, is Jewish, you been dating for 4 months the other person, and the relationship is going not so good at the minute, And they came from good families.
You are shocked because you didn't even see it coming...........
Ok answer please.
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well, it's a complicated question because it depends if i had feelings for my best friend...If my best friend who was a girl was like a sister to me it wouldn't seem right to be with her...I will add that most of the time when i become friends with a girl, i will have pondered if I wanted to have a relationship with her and perhaps marry her already...So the reason why I woudl be dating another girl is because i felt that my best friend was only good enough to be my best friend not necessarily my wife...
If i had feelings for my best friend and had considered dating her, I woudl have gone after her before i started dating this other girl for 4 months..
So my answer to you is that this situation doesn't apply to me. I would never allow something like this to take place.
Kiwi:
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on January 01, 2008, 08:47:36 PM ---
--- Quote from: Skippy on January 01, 2008, 08:27:14 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on January 01, 2008, 08:22:42 PM ---
1. How old is my best friend? Is she jewish? How long have i been dating the other person? how good is that relationship going? What are the families like of the girls i'm friends with and dating?
--- End quote ---
Ok say she is 2 years younger than you, is Jewish, you been dating for 4 months the other person, and the relationship is going not so good at the minute, And they came from good families.
You are shocked because you didn't even see it coming...........
Ok answer please.
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well, it's a complicated question because it depends if i had feelings for my best friend...If my best friend who was a girl was like a sister to me it wouldn't seem right to be with her...I will add that most of the time when i become friends with a girl, i will have pondered if I wanted to have a relationship with her and perhaps marry her already...So the reason why I woudl be dating another girl is because i felt that my best friend was only good enough to be my best friend not necessarily my wife...
If i had feelings for my best friend and had considered dating her, I woudl have gone after her before i started dating this other girl for 4 months..
So my answer to you is that this situation doesn't apply to me. I would never allow something like this to take place.
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So you think you can influence the other person, because of what you feel about them? You can change their feelings, because of what you want?
As I said it shocks you and say it does happen what would you do?
Saying never it will never happen is quite naive, and yet you have no answer?
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: Skippy on January 01, 2008, 08:51:13 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on January 01, 2008, 08:47:36 PM ---
--- Quote from: Skippy on January 01, 2008, 08:27:14 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on January 01, 2008, 08:22:42 PM ---
1. How old is my best friend? Is she jewish? How long have i been dating the other person? how good is that relationship going? What are the families like of the girls i'm friends with and dating?
--- End quote ---
Ok say she is 2 years younger than you, is Jewish, you been dating for 4 months the other person, and the relationship is going not so good at the minute, And they came from good families.
You are shocked because you didn't even see it coming...........
Ok answer please.
--- End quote ---
well, it's a complicated question because it depends if i had feelings for my best friend...If my best friend who was a girl was like a sister to me it wouldn't seem right to be with her...I will add that most of the time when i become friends with a girl, i will have pondered if I wanted to have a relationship with her and perhaps marry her already...So the reason why I woudl be dating another girl is because i felt that my best friend was only good enough to be my best friend not necessarily my wife...
If i had feelings for my best friend and had considered dating her, I woudl have gone after her before i started dating this other girl for 4 months..
So my answer to you is that this situation doesn't apply to me. I would never allow something like this to take place.
--- End quote ---
So you think you can influence the other person, because of what you feel about them? You can change their feelings, because of what you want?
As I said it shocks you and say it does happen what would you do?
Saying never it will never happen is quite naive, and yet you have no answer?
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Listen..like I said...If there was a girl I was friends with, I woudl have already given it a serious consideration of dating her...and if she wasn't interested or i wasn't interested to begin with then your question is moot.
and you mention a 4 month relationship not going well for the time being..well what is it about the relationship that isn't going well? I mean it's too broad of a situation...
and my best friend would see i'm dating someone already..what kind of friend is this to profess her love while i'm in the middle of a major relationship?!
Kiwi:
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on January 01, 2008, 08:57:58 PM ---
and my best friend would see i'm dating someone already..what kind of friend is this to profess her love while i'm in the middle of a major relationship?!
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Maybe she feels you can do better?
Kiwi:
There Are No 'Israeli' Arabs why did you edit me? :-\
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