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Welcome to the Dannycookie "Ask the Love Doctor Show!"
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: Skippy on January 01, 2008, 09:35:47 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on January 01, 2008, 08:57:58 PM ---
and my best friend would see i'm dating someone already..what kind of friend is this to profess her love while i'm in the middle of a major relationship?!
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Maybe she feels you can do better?
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If my best friend was consistent with my parents and other friends to the girl i was dating was very wrong for me, then yes, I would go for my best friend.
But if my best friend was acting on selfish needs, then she really wouldn't be loving me...Loving someone doesn't necessarily mean loving that person just for your needs. Loving someone can also mean wanting their best interest for their happiness. For me to love a girl who is dating another man who also is gentle and nice is fine. And to profess my true love for that girl who is in love with someone else would be to let her be with that other man. Now, if that man was evil..he was a cheater..etc etc etc...then as a friend I would warn my best friend. This is how I would be if I loved my own best friend if she were a woman. therefore, this is how I would want a female best friend to be with me also. But she, alone, is only allowed to warn me with proof about the girl I"m dating..and if she really wanted me to break up with her to date she, herself, there would have to be consistency from others close around me in regards to the girl I'm currently dating...does that make any sense?
Kiwi:
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on January 02, 2008, 07:08:50 AM ---
--- Quote from: Skippy on January 01, 2008, 09:35:47 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on January 01, 2008, 08:57:58 PM ---
and my best friend would see i'm dating someone already..what kind of friend is this to profess her love while i'm in the middle of a major relationship?!
--- End quote ---
Maybe she feels you can do better?
--- End quote ---
If my best friend was consistent with my parents and other friends to the girl i was dating was very wrong for me, then yes, I would go for my best friend.
But if my best friend was acting on selfish needs, then she really wouldn't be loving me...Loving someone doesn't necessarily mean loving that person just for your needs. Loving someone can also mean wanting their best interest for their happiness. For me to love a girl who is dating another man who also is gentle and nice is fine. And to profess my true love for that girl who is in love with someone else would be to let her be with that other man. Now, if that man was evil..he was a cheater..etc etc etc...then as a friend I would warn my best friend. This is how I would be if I loved my own best friend if she were a woman. therefore, this is how I would want a female best friend to be with me also. But she, alone, is only allowed to warn me with proof about the girl I"m dating..and if she really wanted me to break up with her to date she, herself, there would have to be consistency from others close around me in regards to the girl I'm currently dating...does that make any sense?
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Funny enough yes.
Dr. Dan:
Good everyone has been successful this New years!
Zvulun Ben Moshe:
Doctor, why wont you start recording your answers and make audio podcasts?
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: Zvulun ben Moshe on January 20, 2008, 07:56:34 PM ---Doctor, why wont you start recording your answers and make audio podcasts?
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because I have no time to do that.
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