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Is height important?
Yonatan777:
--- Quote from: ~*Mills*~ on January 21, 2008, 07:22:02 PM ---People just have different tastes.
The men I dated who were 6 feet tall or more just preferred short ladies. I didn't complain, being shorter made me feel protected by my 6'2 giant. He liked the feeling of being tall and strong while I was delicate and shorter.
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Why does being 6,2 make you feel protected? Some of the strongest men I saw at my gym where 5,1 and can bench over 800lbs. Muscle fiber concentration has much more to do with the ability of a man to protect his woman ::) , then length of his spine and legs. I see so many tall popsicles walking around who can snap if you slap them on back to hard.. LOL.. Jean Claude Van Damme and Chuck Norris at 5,8 do not have any problems tearing apart men twice their size.
Yonatan777:
--- Quote from: ~*Mills*~ on March 20, 2008, 11:10:08 AM ---Yonatan777, lol, you're right!
But the men I dated in the past were all not only tall but really strong too, all but one "twig".
I felt protected when they hugged me and I was so small in their arms, I suppose. I liked that feeling, it would not be the same to hug a guy of the same height, they were a lot taller than me. And since I'm a short lady, I like that feeling of having a tall guy. But I do agree with you.
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I am stronger than many men I met who are 6,2 or even 6,4.. Many of the strongest guys I see at my old gym are those short Mexican guys, who scare the life out of me and are strong as iron, despite being on average less than 5,8.. A lot of the tall yuppy caucasian guys I see were amazingly weak, perhaps not as much drive to be macho, since they already are popular. Of course there are strong people from all races and heights, dedication is most important. I think most people, especially women, misjudge the strength of men; as height is much less a factor than width. The Great Gama of Pakistan, was 5,6 and an undefeated wrestling champion. He defeated all his opponents, some who even were 7 feet tall.
Despite all this analysis on height and strength, I personally think at a spiritual level this is rubbish. I will say if you judge and marry a man by how tall your children will be and how much you can hold onto, I think you are a shallow person. Please don't be offend, it just my spiritual observation of the manner. Women and men have degraded each other into just sex and flesh toys. Men are guilty of this like you, I know many men who will not marry a woman who doesn't have good curvature or breast size. Lot of slim girls, who would be perfectly good mothers and wives also are left out in the dirt. I am thankful I will not marry a woman who's main concern is the size of the children compared to the spiritual relationship we will have and that the children will grow up to be loving and righteous people.
People in today's world are so shallow and concern with superficial things, no wonder divorce is skyrocketing and children grow up in single homes. Once your beauty goes, so does the person who pretended to love you.
q_q_:
--- Quote from: Yonatan777 on March 20, 2008, 06:58:26 PM ---
--- Quote from: ~*Mills*~ on March 20, 2008, 11:10:08 AM ---Yonatan777, lol, you're right!
But the men I dated in the past were all not only tall but really strong too, all but one "twig".
I felt protected when they hugged me and I was so small in their arms, I suppose. I liked that feeling, it would not be the same to hug a guy of the same height, they were a lot taller than me. And since I'm a short lady, I like that feeling of having a tall guy. But I do agree with you.
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I am stronger than many men I met who are 6,2 or even 6,4.. Many of the strongest guys I see at my old gym are those short Mexican guys, who scare the life out of me and are strong as iron, despite being on average less than 5,8.. <snip>
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yes, but women don't get that. (and some men don't either)..
furthermore, even if you are twice as strong as an average man, women wouldn't notice. As far as they are concerned, if you can open a jar, (or better, lift a suitcase), then you have the infinite strength of superman.
It's just like, an ignoramous, cannot judge between 2 rabbis, so similarly, a woman who has so little strength, cannot judge between 2 people -so- much stronger than herself
they would notice in a clothless situation, if you look like bruce lee or stallone. but by that time you would probably be married to her! Maybe if swimming or on a beach, but if that's the case, it's showing off!
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--- Quote from: ~*Mills*~ on March 20, 2008, 10:16:53 PM ---I know. I must be the most shallow person ever :'(. I'm really sorry about it. I just can't help it.
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It is commonly in a woman`s nature to want to feel protected. A psychological feeling..
It does show a sweetness and feminine vulnerability. Nothing to be sorry about!
Jasmina:
I'm 5'9 and my boyfriend is taller then me..I think this is normal...and yes I think height is important.
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